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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here's the thing, promise not moaning just curious. Why do people just send random friends requests, expecting you to obviously just accept them without any form of dialogue at all.

Now initially most were from single men, so we kinda figured that they were just chancing their arm wanting to see all our pics, as good and horny as they are but we are finding couples are doing it too.

I know that a lot of people on here moan about never being given a chance or very little response from sending emails, has it really got to the stage where there is no effort at all, just send a friends request.

Promise not moaning just really curious as to why people do this.

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

Beats the hell outa me, I don't understand it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But are they 'couples'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We understand your frustration we get the same thing. The most annoying thing is that when reading the couples profile we are the total opposite of what they are looking for, or worse say don't send friend requests unless we have met Grr. . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people just will!

Don't delete - get your own back!

Wait til they log off, browse their friends only pics - then delete them from your friends list!

Unless of course you decide to get in touch !!

Simples!!!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

i get at least 5 per week...all from couples . And i always send them a message asking if they will just ask someone they see for a very first time in a pub if he want to be their friend without even talking to him for few minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I joined this site and in complete honesty I used to do this but know better now(site etiquette I guess) and only send and accept requests if we've chatted a few times and then only after I've asked or offered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Since I posted this thread, we have had two requests. Ok both from single guys. I know it only takes a few seconds to delete the request and to be honest guess we are chuffed that people want to perv our pics, but we are here for fun. To Meet, play and be very Merry strike up fun friends with people who take the time get to know us. Although have to say we are a pair of sexy horny devils when we get going so come on to the people put a bit of effort in.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

They're not 'random'. It's just a numbers game.

Ask the question of as many people as possible and you will, by default, improve your chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Its quicker than a message and if they send out loads all at once they may just get a bite with no real effort involved I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But are they 'couples' "

That is a very good question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a very good question.

I have never yet chatted to a 'couple' who was infact the single female half of the couple, who had not yet updated her 'couples' profile since splitting with her partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I imagine that from the couples aspect it may well be the case that either one of them are just simply trawling through profiles and are bored & as said just send lots of requests out. I wonder whether indeed they accept random friends requests themselves. If as mentioned send out lots and you may get a few requests accepted blimey their friends list must be huge. We kinda pride ourselves on Quality not Quantity. Hope I am not opening a can of worms in the last bit.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Don't delete them. Just leave them sat there then they can't send another one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i get at least 5 per week...all from couples . And i always send them a message asking if they will just ask someone they see for a very first time in a pub if he want to be their friend without even talking to him for few minutes."

I think it's a facebook kind of thing with some people. Trying to get as many friends as possible. Just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't delete them. Just leave them sat there then they can't send another one."

That's just what we do, and were finding it more and more from couples profiles ( we seem to be getting a influx of american profiles at the moment too)

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Because some people just will!

Don't delete - get your own back!

Wait til they log off, browse their friends only pics - then delete them from your friends list!

Unless of course you decide to get in touch !!

Simples!!! "

It had never ocured to me to do that.. runs off to check my list .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't delete them. Just leave them sat there then they can't send another one."

Thanks for that. That's what I shall do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't delete them. Just leave them sat there then they can't send another one."

OOhh I didn't think to do this, I get loads from the same guys over and over again, does my head in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't delete them. Just leave them sat there then they can't send another one.

OOhh I didn't think to do this, I get loads from the same guys over and over again, does my head in lol"

Block them!

(After you've had a peek and a giggle when they're logged off!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

since we have hidden most of our pics we get more friend requests off people we have never spoke to.

we just ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't delete them. Just leave them sat there then they can't send another one.

OOhh I didn't think to do this, I get loads from the same guys over and over again, does my head in lol

Block them!

(After you've had a peek and a giggle when they're logged off!!) "

yeah we do that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's the thing, promise not moaning just curious. Why do people just send random friends requests, expecting you to obviously just accept them without any form of dialogue at all.

Now initially most were from single men, so we kinda figured that they were just chancing their arm wanting to see all our pics, as good and horny as they are but we are finding couples are doing it too.

I know that a lot of people on here moan about never being given a chance or very little response from sending emails, has it really got to the stage where there is no effort at all, just send a friends request.

Promise not moaning just really curious as to why people do this.

"

Partly laziness, partly the Facebook 'mentality' I think... We just delete any unsolicited Invites, even if that does mean we might be missing out on a meet with a really hot couple..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of random friend requests, I used to send a little message saying that we don't add anyone that we haven't spoken to or that we had no intention of meeting, but now I just keep the requests stored so that they can't send another one!!

We have noticed an increase in requests since we put our naughtier pics in our friends gallery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this a/c I have no private/friends pics, and over 600 friend requests sat idle, so it's a win win for me, I get to look at theirs, and they have nothing in return lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do have a peep also - some have been ok

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