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"'some' women lie about their size. 'some' men lie about their cock size. 'some' people lie about their marital status. 'some' people lie about their age. 'some' people are simply liars." Poetically put | |||
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"women size??? hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i am sure us guys lie more about our sizes " bugger and I believed every word u said | |||
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"its not me that lies its me bloody camera lmao " ive got one of those damn cameras too .... | |||
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"its not me that lies its me bloody camera lmao " Stop eating cameras then | |||
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"I tend to go the other way and slightly overstate my size so the worst someone will be is pleasantly surprised. Would hate misleading anyone x" Some things you just can't hide!!! | |||
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"Ok MY MESSAGE OF THE DAY CUT THE BULL SHIT AND TELL PEOPLE STRAIGHT " ok then.. stop shouting.. | |||
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"Only women upload out of date photo's " I do hope the OP hasn't changed shape since October 2010 !! | |||
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"Only women upload out of date photo's I do hope the OP hasn't changed shape since October 2010 !! " Just thought the same thing! | |||
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"Only women upload out of date photo's I do hope the OP hasn't changed shape since October 2010 !! Just thought the same thing!" Me three. | |||
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"women size??? hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i am sure us guys lie more about our sizes bugger and I believed every word u said " ....i just said a truth | |||
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"Honesty is the best policy on here " Yet in such short supply | |||
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"quite upfront about my size on profile and pics.See no point in lying to potential meets" ditto | |||
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"women size??? hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i am sure us guys lie more about our sizes bugger and I believed every word u said ....i just said a truth " am smiling | |||
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"women size??? hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i am sure us guys lie more about our sizes bugger and I believed every word u said ....i just said a truth am smiling " Angel??? hummm | |||
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"Are all devils tempting??? " Not sure but I know it's far more tempting to be naughty than it is to be angelic | |||
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"Are all devils tempting??? Not sure but I know it's far more tempting to be naughty than it is to be angelic " ..Angels must be boring...just like life in paradise | |||
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"Ok MY MESSAGE OF THE DAY CUT THE BULL SHIT AND TELL PEOPLE STRAIGHT " Really ?? | |||
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"Only women upload out of date photo's I do hope the OP hasn't changed shape since October 2010 !! Just thought the same thing! Me three." Me four | |||
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"I know its a tutchy subject when you talk about womens weight, but when you chat to somone and swap pics then go to meet them . you realise the pictures were taken 4stone ago. and then they get shity when i say i carnt see this working . why not just be honest in the first place save wasting time . has this happened to anyone else ????!!" My only worry is if they turn out to have a dick bigger than mine | |||
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"Only women upload out of date photo's I do hope the OP hasn't changed shape since October 2010 !! Just thought the same thing! Me three. Me four " Me 45 | |||
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"'some' women lie about their size. 'some' men lie about their cock size. 'some' people lie about their marital status. 'some' people lie about their age. 'some' people are simply liars." this quite simply hits the nail right on the head. | |||
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"Only women upload out of date photo's I do hope the OP hasn't changed shape since October 2010 !! Just thought the same thing! Me three. Me four Me 45 " You don't look a day older than 50 | |||
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"Everyone should put up a body shot. No faces visible. No need to be nude or scantily clad, just so people can see for themselves a person's size and shape before contacting." Why should they? I make it clear to my potential meets exactly how my body is before I meet them. If they don't like it then they know where the door is. | |||
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"Everyone should put up a body shot. No faces visible. No need to be nude or scantily clad, just so people can see for themselves a person's size and shape before contacting. Why should they? I make it clear to my potential meets exactly how my body is before I meet them. If they don't like it then they know where the door is." We have a 'pen picture' of me in our profile which the vast majority of people find easy to understand. We also have a pic in our public gallery which shows me 'in action' which we point people to if they still need a visual. If they can't get a reasonable impression from that, then that's their problem... | |||
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"It happened to me when I went to meet a guy. He was meeting me outside a bar but I couldn't see him. I called his 'phone and he insisted he was outside. I told him that the only person I could see was a fat guy in a suit. It was him. At least 10 stone bigger than his photos!" Snap.... I had that happen to me the other year. | |||
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"It happened to me when I went to meet a guy. He was meeting me outside a bar but I couldn't see him. I called his 'phone and he insisted he was outside. I told him that the only person I could see was a fat guy in a suit. It was him. At least 10 stone bigger than his photos! Snap.... I had that happen to me the other year. " Same bloke...?? | |||
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"I have bbw on profile and yes i know for some this is a size 14 so therefore I make it plain i am big and i mean more fat big than the larger breasts type figure that some think bbw means. I am always honest and do appear on cam so there can be no mix up about my size , if they dont like its no skin off my nose there are plenty who enjoy the fat bird that i am . " Is a size 14 a bbw? | |||
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"Never lied about my size, and our pictures are recent and I am also highly unlikely to put 4 stone on However have definitely met guys and couples and it has been clear, they have lied about their age and their pictures are very out of date. As said, what is the point in lying, not like you won't get found out " We have had the odd 1 or 2 tell us (well, me actually - Lol!!) that we ought to set our ages lower than they really are, as we would pass for 45-47ish. I think this is totally wrong, although loads do it. We took the decision to deal with the 'over 50 barrier' (it exists - wait till you get there...) as part and parcel of swinging at our age. Sooner do that than annoy anyone who sussed that we were lying about our ages.. | |||
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"It happened to me when I went to meet a guy. He was meeting me outside a bar but I couldn't see him. I called his 'phone and he insisted he was outside. I told him that the only person I could see was a fat guy in a suit. It was him. At least 10 stone bigger than his photos!" One meet we had, we were waiting inside a pub getting a drink, this bloke started to walk up to us, I said to M, OMG that's not him is it Absolutely nothing like his pics | |||
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"It happened to me when I went to meet a guy. He was meeting me outside a bar but I couldn't see him. I called his 'phone and he insisted he was outside. I told him that the only person I could see was a fat guy in a suit. It was him. At least 10 stone bigger than his photos! Snap.... I had that happen to me the other year. Same bloke...?? " No mine had a black shirt nd trousers. No suit lol | |||
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"Never lied about my size, and our pictures are recent and I am also highly unlikely to put 4 stone on However have definitely met guys and couples and it has been clear, they have lied about their age and their pictures are very out of date. As said, what is the point in lying, not like you won't get found out We have had the odd 1 or 2 tell us (well, me actually - Lol!!) that we ought to set our ages lower than they really are, as we would pass for 45-47ish. I think this is totally wrong, although loads do it. We took the decision to deal with the 'over 50 barrier' (it exists - wait till you get there...) as part and parcel of swinging at our age. Sooner do that than annoy anyone who sussed that we were lying about our ages.. " I've got a while yet However we have been told we look younger, doesn't mean I could get away with saying yeah I am 21 again We know some clubbers who are 40 every year, when really they are 50 + | |||
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"I have bbw on profile and yes i know for some this is a size 14 so therefore I make it plain i am big and i mean more fat big than the larger breasts type figure that some think bbw means. I am always honest and do appear on cam so there can be no mix up about my size , if they dont like its no skin off my nose there are plenty who enjoy the fat bird that i am . Is a size 14 a bbw? " If you're over 5' 7" probably not, if you're under 5', then probably. | |||
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"I once met a guy who said his cock was 10 inches he arrived and it was 9.9 inches, lying bastard he was sent packing... albeit a few ounces lighter" That made me laugh! Definitely on a cock size issue, if some bloke said I am 9" before a meet, I'd not be there with my tape measure to ensure he was telling the truth I'd only notice if there was a significant difference, eg 2" | |||
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"It happened to me when I went to meet a guy. He was meeting me outside a bar but I couldn't see him. I called his 'phone and he insisted he was outside. I told him that the only person I could see was a fat guy in a suit. It was him. At least 10 stone bigger than his photos! Snap.... I had that happen to me the other year. Same bloke...?? No mine had a black shirt nd trousers. No suit lol " Look on the bright side - he had a variety of outfits in his wardrobe... | |||
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"HANDS UP GUILTY AS CHARGED I lied about my age ooops" ...Damnnnn i knew it | |||
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"I totally understand why a lady might not be true about her weight, and that is her choice! I personally find that any lady I talk to if they are nice and kind respectful this in its self is sexy and attractive! And I would subtly mention that in any chat we have! Women deserve respect no matter what! " Got to disagree with you there, after chatting to me or someone of my size, if you met me and I was actually a size 20, then my pictures would all be fake and I'd be a complete liar That does not deserve respect. | |||
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"I totally understand why a lady might not be true about her weight, and that is her choice! I personally find that any lady I talk to if they are nice and kind respectful this in its self is sexy and attractive! And I would subtly mention that in any chat we have! Women deserve respect no matter what! " Even if they show you disrespect by being dishonest? Are you being honest in this post? | |||
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"I don't find women lying about their size that offputting really as I only ever go for slim types and if they tell a porky about being a size 8 when they're really a sie 10 then it makes little difference ot me as they'll still be slim. What does make me chuckle though is when you see on a profile that they list themselves is curvy when they so obviously aren't, they're large. Very large in some cases. Some women also class themselves as 'athletic' but they're not, they're 'ample'. It's almost like estate agent speak to dress something up as better than what they are, although that in itself is in their mind as to why they do it. I know men do it too but the OP asked about women so that's what I'm responding to." Does still make me laugh how many women don't know the difference between curvy and fat... Soon as i started reading this thread a pattern materialised ...woman passing the buck and having a go at men,BBW's jumping on thier soap box...when will a thread ever stay on topic ? | |||
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"That's why I always meet socially first. Let's be honest here, there's no guarantee the person you see in a pic/on cam will float your boat in the flesh. I don't understand the thinking behind people who send pictures of themselves years older, stones heavier etc. I met one man who said he was 5ft 11 who came up to my tits - and I'm 5ft 7! Another man who sent me a pic of himself looking like a young Robert Redford, in reality looked more Bruce Forsyth. Another was so fat, I was surprised he could walk unaided, and I'm no thin lizzy! There would have been no way we would have been able to physically mate anyway - it was embarrassing - for him when I told him it wasn't going to happen! As I said - just don't get the thinking behind lying about your size, height etc. " so fat u were surprised he could walk unaided he mustve been gigantic | |||
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"As Pork has said our photos are bang up to date and i am what you would call an average size... In my head i am saying what you see is what you get.... In my heart i am wishing i was 2st lighter, but hey all good things come to those who wait and it dosn't happen over night !! " PS.... The Dr took 2 inches off my height this week at a medical lol. I always thought i was 5/5 but in reality i am 5/3, but what is 2 inches amongst friends isn't that right guys | |||
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"My only gripe with the 'size lies' thing is when you see a body description as FABULOUS. It seems to have been hijacked by those who have had long term relationships with fridges and pie shops ... I'm not disrespecting anyones shape or size, I openly admit to a few pounds of tummy I could lose, I'm just venting that there is quite a difference between Fab and Flab ...." we see fabulous as next up from large on size list as all the other ones go up in order. PLUS my oh thinks I am fabulous | |||
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"Who the fuck cares!! If people are that shallow to go on somebody's size, colour, or beliefs then they shouldn't be having fun on here! " don't they lie anyway....its all subjective. | |||
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"Who the fuck cares!! If people are that shallow to go on somebody's size, colour, or beliefs then they shouldn't be having fun on here! " People are allowed preferences you know | |||
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"Who the fuck cares!! If people are that shallow to go on somebody's size, colour, or beliefs then they shouldn't be having fun on here! " Why. I certainly go on looks for one on one meets. | |||
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"I totally understand why a lady might not be true about her weight, and that is her choice! I personally find that any lady I talk to if they are nice and kind respectful this in its self is sexy and attractive! And I would subtly mention that in any chat we have! Women deserve respect no matter what! " WOW! someone who knows and understands the "R" word!! I make no excuses for my size and it is there in writing and photos for all to see! I wouldnt want to meet any guy for whom my size or age were a positive or negative issue, I also wouldnt want to meet anyone who referred to me as a BBW, MILF, GILF or cougar etc as I would question their motive - playing should be about mutual pleasure and desire surely? People are people and ALL deserve to be treated with humility and respect. If someone doesnt match your expectations when meeting then surely a no thanks and goodnight should suffice, is there really any cause to slate them publicly? | |||
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"'some' women lie about their size. 'some' men lie about their cock size. 'some' people lie about their marital status. 'some' people lie about their age. 'some' people are simply liars." That's a good point! I'm married, and stupidly State that. How fek in easy would it have been to say I was single? Never mind, I've still got my massive cock, and my youth .... | |||
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"Who the fuck cares!! If people are that shallow to go on somebody's size, colour, or beliefs then they shouldn't be having fun on here! " some people see this site as slightly more than a quick fuck and like to meet people who they are physically and mentally attracted too | |||
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" People are people and ALL deserve to be treated with humility and respect. If someone doesnt match your expectations when meeting then surely a no thanks and goodnight should suffice, is there really any cause to slate them publicly?" A few years back I met a guy who had been sending me photos of his younger, taller, fitter, different race mate... so in answer to your question..... yes. | |||
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" People are people and ALL deserve to be treated with humility and respect. If someone doesnt match your expectations when meeting then surely a no thanks and goodnight should suffice, is there really any cause to slate them publicly? A few years back I met a guy who had been sending me photos of his younger, taller, fitter, different race mate... so in answer to your question..... yes." there is a difference between people not meeting your expectation and people who out right lie about what they look like, i met a guy who send me pics that was years old, and i mean years, he told me he was the age he was in the pic when he turned up he was 25 years older and grey with middle age spread, not at all the 30 year old, dark haired toned guy he claimed to be in his photos, why should i be polite to someone whos lied to me and wasted my time in such a way? | |||
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"I have bbw on profile and yes i know for some this is a size 14 so therefore I make it plain i am big and i mean more fat big than the larger breasts type figure that some think bbw means. I am always honest and do appear on cam so there can be no mix up about my size , if they dont like its no skin off my nose there are plenty who enjoy the fat bird that i am . Is a size 14 a bbw? If you're over 5' 7" probably not, if you're under 5', then probably." Oh my i've been telling porkies about my size. I'm 4'11 and a size 14. Hangs head in shame...... | |||
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"I totally understand why a lady might not be true about her weight, and that is her choice! I personally find that any lady I talk to if they are nice and kind respectful this in its self is sexy and attractive! And I would subtly mention that in any chat we have! Women deserve respect no matter what! " Ahhh I know what you're really saying!! But seriously, why would any man or woman send a dreadfully out of date pic and imagine that the person they were meeting wouldn't notice?! I don't trust photo's much as I think people tend to look different in real life anyway. I always have coffee for a first meet as looks are only part of it, I need to meet them to figure out if it will work. They can also then figure out if they like me or not. | |||
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"Who the fuck cares!! If people are that shallow to go on somebody's size, colour, or beliefs then they shouldn't be having fun on here! " If I am going to be up close and personal with someone then I want to be attracted to them. It's not any old cock will do for me. However, since you say I shouldn't be on here as I am shallow then I shall immediately delete my profile - I think all women who feel the same should do so. Then there will be even fewer women on here! | |||
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"I tend to go the other way and slightly overstate my size so the worst someone will be is pleasantly surprised. Would hate misleading anyone x" I lie about my cock size: I tell everyone its 2 inches | |||
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"I tend to go the other way and slightly overstate my size so the worst someone will be is pleasantly surprised. Would hate misleading anyone x I lie about my cock size: I tell everyone its 2 inches " kkkkkkkkk v funny lol | |||
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