FabSwingers.com forum: Why did you block me

By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Have you ever attempted to look at somebody else's profile, been met with the "can't view" message and feeling "what did I do?" then realise it was you that did the blocking to them?

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Have you ever attempted to look at somebody else's profile, been met with the "can't view" message and feeling "what did I do?" then realise it was you that did the blocking to them? "

Way more often than I should

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

No, because I've never blocked anyone.

I just assume they don't care much for what I post on the forum.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I only block people if they're directly assholes to me via messages. Otherwise I tend to hotlist them to watch the drama of their statuses

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

Have just blocked a cpl after a very abusive message about not replying. Shit happens. Move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block if they get abusive in the messages.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No but I did look at 4 single women profiles on a thread I posted in once to find they had all blocked me so I knew straight away it was a major conspiracy and they all had it in for me

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"No but I did look at 4 single women profiles on a thread I posted in once to find they had all blocked me so I knew straight away it was a major conspiracy and they all had it in for me

The wominati!

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"I only block people if they're directly assholes to me via messages. Otherwise I tend to hotlist them to watch the drama of their statuses

I'm the same I only block if i'm sent an abusive msg, but I love a ranty status update so many on my hotlist are there just because of their status updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but I did look at 4 single women profiles on a thread I posted in once to find they had all blocked me so I knew straight away it was a major conspiracy and they all had it in for me

The wominati!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"No but I did look at 4 single women profiles on a thread I posted in once to find they had all blocked me so I knew straight away it was a major conspiracy and they all had it in for me

The wominati!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked so many they exceed what I can see on my block list.

So as far as knowing whether I blocked them or they blocked me? For all but the most recent 100-odd.... I'll never ever know

How ever will I sleep at night

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

I've blocked a few ppl, Generally only locals who I know are single males using a couple pf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't believe I've come across anyone who has blocked me because I usually block them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have anybody blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it as a filter for the 'never-will-I-ever' category. Only a few are people I personally find offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I've had people I thought I was friends with but then couldn't view the photos..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block hundreds. We like to cam(not playing) just naked but we use non-directing rooms as we don’t want to be directed. So all that direct are blocked. As are those with any references to illicit substances as we hate that. Then add the straight guys who are offering to suck other guys off on cam etc.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope they have obviously been blocked for something never look back my profile my rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I don't believe I've come across anyone who has blocked me because I usually block them first

PM me

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Hmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, would love to know the reason

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

[Removed by poster at 15/03/23 17:44:20]

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

No never. I may have done something to annoy them or maybe not and they just didn’t want to hear from me. Either way I’m not too concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I don't believe I've come across anyone who has blocked me because I usually block them first

PM me

It's a shame for you, because I don't want to

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Rather bizarrely I read a forum post that was for couples from a specific region of the South East only. As it was for couples only, I had no intention of posting but did fab a few of their pictures. Instant block. Oh well

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I’ve found myself blocked by people I’ve never interacted with but it is what it is.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

I recently unblocked everyone I have ever blocked looking for a specific person who had been annoying via message but I met them at a party and they were ok. It was interesting to see how people I blocked years ago are now different in their pics and status. I only block if someone is annoying or if they won’t accept I don’t want to chat or are people I would never meet for some reason. There’s not that many these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people happily engage with you in the forum's, they've totally forgot they've blocked you

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Some people happily engage with you in the forum's, they've totally forgot they've blocked you

There was a guy once who asked me in the forums why I blocked him but said he'd "respect my decision" - was totally bizarre.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

No as I don't have anyone blocked

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes we've come across a few, I'd be surprised if we wasn't on any block lists

I block loads of people so it doesn't phase me, everyone has their own reasons.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I don't believe I've come across anyone who has blocked me because I usually block them first

PM me

It's a shame for you, because I don't want to

Damn, you got me there

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Being blocked saves time. It means I'm not for them and I actively encourage it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

If I block someone I usually remember so wouldn't go back to check the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm very confused by one in psychology given we have been friends for years.

He's just as puzzled so must be site gremlins

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I don’t need to block people, most of them have already beaten me too it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have just blocked a cpl after a very abusive message about not replying. Shit happens. Move on"

Wouldn’t hurt to leave a quick

‘No thank you’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have just blocked a cpl after a very abusive message about not replying. Shit happens. Move on

Wouldn’t hurt to leave a quick

‘No thank you’"

' no thank you '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have just blocked a cpl after a very abusive message about not replying. Shit happens. Move on

Wouldn’t hurt to leave a quick

‘No thank you’

' no thank you '"

Phew

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I have blocked so many they exceed what I can see on my block list.

So as far as knowing whether I blocked them or they blocked me? For all but the most recent 100-odd.... I'll never ever know

How ever will I sleep at night

This.

Aside from the rare stroppy message it's generally people whose posts and attitudes I find offensive on the forums that get proactive blocks from me.

But we also use the block button as a filter because there's no better tool to stop profiles we'll never be interested in from continually cropping up when we're doing a search.

Really not bothered who blocked who. It would be a tad naieve to think I'd not upset/annoyed/irritated a few folk over the last 15 years and a bit hypocritical of me to be happy to block others and not respect the fact others want to block me/us.

Never gonna lose sleep over a block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a very famous red head from the forums text me firstly yesterday to tell me my profile was crap then block me … I hope she comes on here ..

It not always the men sending out crap

Bookmarking this for the drama

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"I had a very famous red head from the forums text me firstly yesterday to tell me my profile was crap then block me … I hope she comes on here ..

It not always the men sending out crap

Bookmarking this for the drama "

Unfortunately. I'd rather dirty laundry was not aired in such a way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, a block is what it is....no drama if I'm blocked, even my own mother blocked me now have to fax her

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I rarely look at profiles on here so I have no idea if I’ve been blocked by anyone. I have blocked a few local people but that’s about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a very famous red head from the forums text me firstly yesterday to tell me my profile was crap then block me … I hope she comes on here ..

It not always the men sending out crap

Bookmarking this for the drama

Unfortunately. I'd rather dirty laundry was not aired in such a way. "

I would

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I didn’t…did I?!

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

"Have just blocked a cpl after a very abusive message about not replying. Shit happens. Move on

Wouldn’t hurt to leave a quick

‘No thank you’"

Like I said shit happens. We don't live this life as a " must".

Family takes presidence in our world.

So when someone decides to be abusive we just f@&k them off

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Yes I'm very confused by one in psychology given we have been friends for years.

He's just as puzzled so must be site gremlins

Fat fingers, accidental taps, pocket presses … these things do happen. So I’ve heard.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes, if they aren't for us and keep hassling us after I said I'm not interested then it's the only way to stop some people sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because I asked them to.

Can you all block me now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block twats and verbal abusers. I wouldn't know who has blocked me because I rarely look at profiles

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Probably because I asked them to.

Can you all block me now?

Don't tell me what to do or I will block you.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Have you ever attempted to look at somebody else's profile, been met with the "can't view" message and feeling "what did I do?" then realise it was you that did the blocking to them? "

Nope, it is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is such an achievement when something like that happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked all the time but have never blocked because I couldn't give a shit if someone messaged me and I didn't want to talk to them, I just ignore.

Can't say anyone I'm blocked by has made me give a shit though. They are usually either petty or unbearable

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

I block for all sorts of reasons, should really use tge note section more as to why lol

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

We instantly block anyone without a profile photo. Obvious reasons .

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

And also if they have bad language on their profile.

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

"We instantly block anyone without a profile photo. Obvious reasons ."

That must be a long list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well someone’s a lying sack of shit.

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

We find profiles that don’t have a single photo usually start with

‘big boy123’ or similar and ‘user been onsite over a year’ with a‘ will fill in later’ description of themselves.

Why oh why do they look or look then message us thinking we’ll reply?

Just a black silhouette photo!

Sad sad individuals perving.

So to save everyone’s time a simple block is the best result all round.

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I noticed a long time ago someone from the forums had blocked me. I'd only noticed as was one of those games 'ask a question privately, they answer publicly'

Very strange as I can't recall ever having a conversation with them to warrant them wanting to block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I find someone has blocked me, I'll generally block them back, usually out of sheer pettiness and my block list isn't that long so I don't forget who I've blocked and I don't do it that often so I have to find you to be a special kind of bellend to find yourself on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed a long time ago someone from the forums had blocked me. I'd only noticed as was one of those games 'ask a question privately, they answer publicly'

Very strange as I can't recall ever having a conversation with them to warrant them wanting to block me

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I've had a few forum blocks ... I assume my sense of humour is lost on some ... That, or they see past my forum facade and realise I'm a total twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed a long time ago someone from the forums had blocked me. I'd only noticed as was one of those games 'ask a question privately, they answer publicly'

Very strange as I can't recall ever having a conversation with them to warrant them wanting to block me

I've had a few forum blocks ... I assume my sense of humour is lost on some ... That, or they see past my forum facade and realise I'm a total twat

Welcome to the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed a long time ago someone from the forums had blocked me. I'd only noticed as was one of those games 'ask a question privately, they answer publicly'

Very strange as I can't recall ever having a conversation with them to warrant them wanting to block me

I've had a few forum blocks ... I assume my sense of humour is lost on some ... That, or they see past my forum facade and realise I'm a total twat

Welcome to the club "
can we call it a clique ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed a long time ago someone from the forums had blocked me. I'd only noticed as was one of those games 'ask a question privately, they answer publicly'

Very strange as I can't recall ever having a conversation with them to warrant them wanting to block me

I've had a few forum blocks ... I assume my sense of humour is lost on some ... That, or they see past my forum facade and realise I'm a total twat

Welcome to the club can we call it a clique ? "

My knees click when I walk fast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed a long time ago someone from the forums had blocked me. I'd only noticed as was one of those games 'ask a question privately, they answer publicly'

Very strange as I can't recall ever having a conversation with them to warrant them wanting to block me

I've had a few forum blocks ... I assume my sense of humour is lost on some ... That, or they see past my forum facade and realise I'm a total twat

Welcome to the club can we call it a clique ?

My knees click when I walk fast. "
my cock clicks when I cuck quick.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I only block people if they're directly assholes to me via messages. Otherwise I tend to hotlist them to watch the drama of their statuses

I'm the same I only block if i'm sent an abusive msg, but I love a ranty status update so many on my hotlist are there just because of their status updates

That exactly ! I love a good update

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask someone to [redacted] with me and she blocked me

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

gretna

Only one i can think of bothers me because seeing her posts on here she’s really nice and I hate the idea i might have offended her

not what im here for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never came across it yet but it wouldn’t bother me much. We generally only block people if they have sent a rude message or if we don’t like the pictures they post and they come up on our local updates. I don’t think we have anyone from the forums blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I noticed a long time ago someone from the forums had blocked me. I'd only noticed as was one of those games 'ask a question privately, they answer publicly'

Very strange as I can't recall ever having a conversation with them to warrant them wanting to block me

I've had a few forum blocks ... I assume my sense of humour is lost on some ... That, or they see past my forum facade and realise I'm a total twat

Welcome to the club can we call it a clique ?

My knees click when I walk fast. my cock clicks when I cuck quick.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I've not come across it much but I'm assuming they don't like my sarcastic nature or I'm just not for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm blocked by a few people on the forums that I've never even spoken to.

I guess they are just jealous of my incredible sense of humour and average juicy ass.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

gretna

"Yes I'm blocked by a few people on the forums that I've never even spoken to.

I guess they are just jealous of my incredible sense of humour and average juicy ass."

Your ass is anything but average!! X

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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago

Here, There and Everywhere

I block all the time. Various reasons, nasty messages, they bore me, waste my time etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably because I asked them to.

Can you all block me now?

Don't tell me what to do or I will block you.

I asked I didn't tell you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We instantly block anyone without a profile photo. Obvious reasons ."

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

No. Barring one notable exception, I've never blocked anyone. I have come across profiles who have me blocked who I've never interacted with. Doesn't trouble me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few regular forum users who have blocked me, probably because I don't kiss their ass like most do

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"I only block people if they're directly assholes to me via messages. Otherwise I tend to hotlist them to watch the drama of their statuses

If you revenge block them, you can do the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a few regular forum users who have blocked me, probably because I don't kiss their ass like most do"

I always wash mine before get a kiss on it

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"Have you ever attempted to look at somebody else's profile, been met with the "can't view" message and feeling "what did I do?" then realise it was you that did the blocking to them? "
it happens quite often on the forums,,,

read a thread that is interesting,, scroll down to read other comments,, go to see some thing about the person only to find they have blocked me even tho i have never set eyes on their profile before,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well someone’s a lying sack of shit."

Who is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well someone’s a lying sack of shit.

Who is?"
the thread got tidied after a quite obvious personal grievance. Posts were deleted. I suspect the perp is on the naughty step.

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