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By *rbigt1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

wilts

Ladies, is there a limit to the number of previous sexual partners you find acceptable for a meet?

Obviously experience goes a long way but I’m your opinion at what point does lots of experience turn into a bad thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, is there a limit to the number of previous sexual partners you find acceptable for a meet?

Obviously experience goes a long way but I’m your opinion at what point does lots of experience turn into a bad thing?"

How would you know how many partners they have had?

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By *host202088Man
over a year ago

South

Am guessing in this context by the amount of verifications they have I assume ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say more than eleventy billion would be off putting for some. More than 100 for others. More than zero for a Virgin. Does that help

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No, but if he was meeting lots of people regularly in the same week I'd be reluctant to be another of them.

Purely because I'd get the feeling he was addicted to the orgasm and not invested in the people he meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am guessing in this context by the amount of verifications they have I assume ?"

I thought that but I've got 2. It's not my number of sexual partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, is there a limit to the number of previous sexual partners you find acceptable for a meet?

Obviously experience goes a long way but I’m your opinion at what point does lots of experience turn into a bad thing?"
I basically asked this the other day, there is a sweet spot and threshold.

No more than 10 meets I'd say.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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The number? No.

On here, who they have had sex with has put me off on more than one occasion though.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Purely because I'd get the feeling he was addicted to the orgasm and not invested in the people he meets.

"

Isn't that how most men on here operate?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I prefer confident and experienced people. I think the only number that would put me off someone is zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The number? No.

On here, who they have had sex with has put me off on more than one occasion though. "

Exactly this.

How would you ever know if the number was true anyhow and most stop counting.

Counting is odd in itself tbh. Bit like making it a competition.

I only know mine as it's a small one not because I have a tally going.

I judge the behaviours and standards.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"No, but if he was meeting lots of people regularly in the same week I'd be reluctant to be another of them.

Purely because I'd get the feeling he was addicted to the orgasm and not invested in the people he meets.

"

This is why I limit myself to just 5 meets a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am guessing in this context by the amount of verifications they have I assume ?

I thought that but I've got 2. It's not my number of sexual partners "

I've got 21 yet I am a virgin

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By *ub... girlWoman
over a year ago

worcester

We could ask the same question to the males?

If you've got 50 veris but been on here 10 yrs, you do the maths, and that doesn't equate to many per year. It's about the spark and if compatible. We're all here for the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine any reason I would seek out such information

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Ladies, is there a limit to the number of previous sexual partners you find acceptable for a meet?

Obviously experience goes a long way but I’m your opinion at what point does lots of experience turn into a bad thing?

How would you know how many partners they have had? "

Ask them. If it's a woman multiply the answer by three. If it's a man divide by three.

Thank you "American Pie"

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

also bare in mind no ones veris are a true account of their sexual history many many swingers use other platforms or other ways to meet ...then you have swingers who go dogging a couple times a week yet only show on here that they meet once every 3 months so no veris count for nothing..

fab sexual history is so easy to erase if your a woman or couple just delete profile .. rejoin get someone youve already met to veri you and then you a new fresh profile for the men to go wild over ...simples ...

there are men on here who change there profile very often as they know they will get judged because they have had too many meets so delete ..rejoin..get a old meet to veri and of they go again ..

how many sexual partners someone has had make no difference and we will never truely know anyway

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't ask to be honest.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask, it's none of my business.

I won't meet people with more than 4 veris showing.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I wouldn't know how many they had? Would make no difference to me x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's not number of meets, it's attitude. If they shout "next!" as I pull my nightie down I think I probably made a mistake

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Mind you it f they don't pull my nightie down for me I just think 'rude!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not number of meets, it's attitude. If they shout "next!" as I pull my nightie down I think I probably made a mistake "
I told you it was a joke.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not number of meets, it's attitude. If they shout "next!" as I pull my nightie down I think I probably made a mistake I told you it was a joke. "

Yeah well the queue outside the door didn't help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, is there a limit to the number of previous sexual partners you find acceptable for a meet?

Obviously experience goes a long way but I’m your opinion at what point does lots of experience turn into a bad thing?"

I know it's a question for the ladies but people have their own take on the question asked , some don't care and others do , it's a personal choice, l can't answer for everyone else , if there's a connection then l'd imagine those involved would meet each other again , some will never meet again cause they simply don't ..they meet once and that's it.. everyone here has different attitude's to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, is there a limit to the number of previous sexual partners you find acceptable for a meet?

Obviously experience goes a long way but I’m your opinion at what point does lots of experience turn into a bad thing?"

There isn’t a number but if you ask me that question and expect an answer, I’ll take that to mean you’re lacking experience or are uncomfortable knowing I could have been with someone better. Either way it’s a moot and outdated question, the answer to which means absolutely nothing other than to show how judgemental you are

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By *rbigt1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

wilts


"Ladies, is there a limit to the number of previous sexual partners you find acceptable for a meet?

Obviously experience goes a long way but I’m your opinion at what point does lots of experience turn into a bad thing?

There isn’t a number but if you ask me that question and expect an answer, I’ll take that to mean you’re lacking experience or are uncomfortable knowing I could have been with someone better. Either way it’s a moot and outdated question, the answer to which means absolutely nothing other than to show how judgemental you are "

The reason I ask is because I have had a large number of sexual partners and the general consensus with women my age is that men who have had a large number of partners are less appealing than a guy who has only slept with 2 or 3 people. I was just wondering whether the issue persists as you age or if it becomes less important as time passes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, is there a limit to the number of previous sexual partners you find acceptable for a meet?

Obviously experience goes a long way but I’m your opinion at what point does lots of experience turn into a bad thing?

There isn’t a number but if you ask me that question and expect an answer, I’ll take that to mean you’re lacking experience or are uncomfortable knowing I could have been with someone better. Either way it’s a moot and outdated question, the answer to which means absolutely nothing other than to show how judgemental you are

The reason I ask is because I have had a large number of sexual partners and the general consensus with women my age is that men who have had a large number of partners are less appealing than a guy who has only slept with 2 or 3 people. I was just wondering whether the issue persists as you age or if it becomes less important as time passes."

Genuinely it means nothing, if we’re compatible that’s great, if not that’s no problem, your past doesn’t define you, who you are now does

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Don't even care about veris it means absolutely nothing to us. Just think how many accounts has that person got, how many sites are they on, how many times have they been off here then joined again, people get 100s of veris from clubs and camming, people meet people not just on fab you know. For example last few meets we have had we didn't even verify each other. The numbers mean nothing, how would you ever know I could meet someone with 20 veris and someone with 2 and the one with 2 could have slept with way more people in their lifetime.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"No, but if he was meeting lots of people regularly in the same week I'd be reluctant to be another of them.

Purely because I'd get the feeling he was addicted to the orgasm and not invested in the people he meets.

"

Pretty much, give or take, this ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really interested and don't really plan on talking about the past .

I want to get lost in the moment of the here and now and hope that its memorable for all the best reasons x

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By *rumfellaukMan
over a year ago

New Oscott, Sutton Coldfield, Birmingham

If they've had more than 69, I'm out

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