FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think of graphic sex pictures?

By *exidorsetcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Wimborne

Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?

I prefer the more classy ones?

I hope you are all having a good morning x

Louise xx

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By *earded BeastMan
over a year ago

durham

classy is better in my opinion

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

I ennjoy them but also like classy ones like yours too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like nudes.

What happens if I agree to meet and they have a tattoo of Boris Johnson on their back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but I don’t like overly graphic pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classy every time.

I only want more intimate things with intimate partners.

Randoms hold zero appeal.

Seeing them turned up/down/insideout triggers my gag reflex faster than an overeager bj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

Erotica over gynae every time

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Nope I don’t like graphic pics, classy and teasing ones are more my thing. I think certain things should be seen in person and for those selected to play and experience it for themselves.

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By *exidorsetcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Wimborne

Ok, that's really interesting. I thought I was missing something haha. We take very graphic pictures obviously but I'd rather not show too much.

I think it would be interesting to take some erotic sex pictures and see how they do.

Louise

xxx

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff."

Ha glad I’m not the only one

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By *hropshirestarMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Arty and sexy for me, nude or not. An attractive woman is attractive clothed or not to me.

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By *exidorsetcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Wimborne

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Ha glad I’m not the only one

We have been put off by verifications this way too. If they are written with no respect xx

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Not for me, a hard limit that I would never compromise on.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff."

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I love a hint of flesh.

I love a naked body.

I love a nice outfit, lingerie, shirt etc

I love a funny picture

A picture that tells a story about the person is brilliant.

I even like a cock shot. Some may not be for me so it’s best to find out before I run away screaming…

Anything gaping puts me off.

I’m not a fan of other partners or action shots, but if there’s 1 or 2 in an otherwise nice album - I an easily ignore it.

It’s all about variety for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely don’t want to see what someone’s had for breakfast

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Not really too bothered as it’s just pics. I know everyone here is out fucking about anyway

The only deciding factor I go by is a video chat for a few minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I prefer a litte mystery.

I rarely base my decision to meet on the pictures alone, but good ones - both content and style - make a big difference

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?

I prefer the more classy ones?

I hope you are all having a good morning x

Louise xx

Your a beautiful model

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Ha glad I’m not the only one

Yep absolutely, I can be out off by the veris left for people too x

We have been put off by verifications this way too. If they are written with no respect xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope I don’t like graphic pics, classy and teasing ones are more my thing. I think certain things should be seen in person and for those selected to play and experience it for themselves.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Prefer a woman in lingerie. Leaves something to the imagination.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

A nice mix of both gives me a better idea if I want to meet up with them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Graphic just makes me think of medical books

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Classy/tasteful pictures every time. Yours are well done by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabbed one or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?

I prefer the more classy ones?

I hope you are all having a good morning x

Louise xx

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I like them, shows they are people of action.

They aren't going to fuck about, they are just going to fuck.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't think of less candid pics as being classy

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me "

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

We prefer the classy ones too, although it is very subjective

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Depends on the context. If it's a fun or hot pic/vid and adds value to the person's profile then I like them. If they are badly taken or if it is a guy's profile and you can see more of the other people than the guy, or if he is barebacking, then I find it a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. "
Obviously a player that guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely

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By *exidorsetcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Wimborne

I think obviously everyone is very different, but most people seem to prefer classy, so we will carry on like that. We love taking pictures and are enjoying sharing them on here.

Louise xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't do it for me. Classy and teasing I find much more appealing and intrigues me.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

"I think obviously everyone is very different, but most people seem to prefer classy, so we will carry on like that. We love taking pictures and are enjoying sharing them on here.

Louise xx"

I do think you should have more pics of

Me in your gallery … preferably naked under Mrs!! Classily done Though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely "
Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks! Wanted to drop you a line to say thankyou ... but sadly your filters do not allow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason."

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Intimacy holds much more value to me. It's more than physical stimulation by mechanical means with body fluids and an impersonal orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Intimacy holds much more value to me. It's more than physical stimulation by mechanical means with body fluids and an impersonal orgasm."

It costs me to say that for once I agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a hint of flesh.

I love a naked body.

I love a nice outfit, lingerie, shirt etc

I love a funny picture

A picture that tells a story about the person is brilliant.

I even like a cock shot. Some may not be for me so it’s best to find out before I run away screaming…

Anything gaping puts me off.

I’m not a fan of other partners or action shots, but if there’s 1 or 2 in an otherwise nice album - I an easily ignore it.

It’s all about variety for me."

Couldn't have said it better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Intimacy holds much more value to me. It's more than physical stimulation by mechanical means with body fluids and an impersonal orgasm.

It costs me to say that for once I agree with you

Did it hurt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Intimacy holds much more value to me. It's more than physical stimulation by mechanical means with body fluids and an impersonal orgasm."
So better someone inexperienced, or you just don't know of their conquests?

Someone who gonna get you off, gonna need to know how to do it.

Ignorance is bliss kind of thing.

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Love the Studland shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Intimacy holds much more value to me. It's more than physical stimulation by mechanical means with body fluids and an impersonal orgasm. So better someone inexperienced, or you just don't know of their conquests?

Someone who gonna get you off, gonna need to know how to do it.

Ignorance is bliss kind of thing. "

Not at all. That's a bit disappointing to read you think only players can have the skills for good sex or that good sex only comes if you've had lots and lots of different partners.

I have had the worst sex of my life from a guy who I later discovered is a player.

The best sex I have ever had was sadly also from a player.

I'm awesome in bed with people because of who I am with that person not because of who went before.

I know things that get me off and please others from learning on my own as much as being shown.

I am great at things because I have a love of them and give myself over to them and genuinely enjoy them.

I communicate. I give. I ask for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Someone who gonna get you off, gonna need to know how to do it.

Ignorance is bliss kind of thing.

Not at all. That's a bit disappointing to read you think only players can have the skills for good sex or that good sex only comes if you've had lots and lots of different partners.

I have had the worst sex of my life from a guy who I later discovered is a player.

The best sex I have ever had was sadly also from a player.

I'm awesome in bed with people because of who I am with that person not because of who went before.

I know things that get me off and please others from learning on my own as much as being shown.

I am great at things because I have a love of them and give myself over to them and genuinely enjoy them.

I communicate. I give. I ask for.

"
I think someone needs to have a bit of experience to be a good lover yeah.

You just seemed very judgmental of somebody obviously having a good time on a swinging site.

You might be missing out on the best sex you had again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Intimacy holds much more value to me. It's more than physical stimulation by mechanical means with body fluids and an impersonal orgasm.

It costs me to say that for once I agree with you

Did it hurt?

not even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Someone who gonna get you off, gonna need to know how to do it.

Ignorance is bliss kind of thing.

Not at all. That's a bit disappointing to read you think only players can have the skills for good sex or that good sex only comes if you've had lots and lots of different partners.

I have had the worst sex of my life from a guy who I later discovered is a player.

The best sex I have ever had was sadly also from a player.

I'm awesome in bed with people because of who I am with that person not because of who went before.

I know things that get me off and please others from learning on my own as much as being shown.

I am great at things because I have a love of them and give myself over to them and genuinely enjoy them.

I communicate. I give. I ask for.

I think someone needs to have a bit of experience to be a good lover yeah.

You just seemed very judgmental of somebody obviously having a good time on a swinging site.

You might be missing out on the best sex you had again. "

There's a lot of ground between having a bit of experience (as I do) which is what I seek in another and being a promiscuous player.

I'm not a swinger. I make that clear on my profile.

I would rather never have sex again than lower my standards to a fuck&go/ons/fb with a promiscuous player.

I ended my last fab connection for this very reason.

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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago

Here, There and Everywhere

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me "

Totally agree ^^^^

Before I even open the message I check out their public gallery and if all the pictures are of their boaby in various orifices then I just delete their message.

As the saying goes "a picture is worth a thousand words "

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Classy and erotic not graphic.

Couples do seem to like open pussy shots with cum dribbling out,yuk

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By *illie fitMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?

I prefer the more classy ones?

I hope you are all having a good morning x

Louise xx

Send me some do I can judge for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Classy and erotic not graphic.

Couples do seem to like open pussy shots with cum dribbling out,yuk "

I wonder is it the guy or girl who likes it photographed and posted most?

Here's one I did earlier....

Probably a mixture (no pun intended.... ok just a little one)

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I enjoy them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Someone who gonna get you off, gonna need to know how to do it.

Ignorance is bliss kind of thing.

Not at all. That's a bit disappointing to read you think only players can have the skills for good sex or that good sex only comes if you've had lots and lots of different partners.

I have had the worst sex of my life from a guy who I later discovered is a player.

The best sex I have ever had was sadly also from a player.

I'm awesome in bed with people because of who I am with that person not because of who went before.

I know things that get me off and please others from learning on my own as much as being shown.

I am great at things because I have a love of them and give myself over to them and genuinely enjoy them.

I communicate. I give. I ask for.

I think someone needs to have a bit of experience to be a good lover yeah.

You just seemed very judgmental of somebody obviously having a good time on a swinging site.

You might be missing out on the best sex you had again.

There's a lot of ground between having a bit of experience (as I do) which is what I seek in another and being a promiscuous player.

I'm not a swinger. I make that clear on my profile.

I would rather never have sex again than lower my standards to a fuck&go/ons/fb with a promiscuous player.

I ended my last fab connection for this very reason."
Ah Bingo! Awful lot of single women on here who are non swingers.

Why are you on this site then?

Better quality of men to meet with more options and power as a single lady on here?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've no issue with any pics that people wish to put on their own profile just as I post what I like on mine without requiring permission or validation from others.

They are often just another filter.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends on the photo, as long as it's not a close up of a hanging off Jonny in vag I don't mind sex shots if taken well.

Mrs

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By *exidorsetcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Wimborne

I love having my picture taken by Max, it gets him very horny knowing he's going to get lucky... And me for that matter of course xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off.

They attract people who like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Someone who gonna get you off, gonna need to know how to do it.

Ignorance is bliss kind of thing.

Not at all. That's a bit disappointing to read you think only players can have the skills for good sex or that good sex only comes if you've had lots and lots of different partners.

I have had the worst sex of my life from a guy who I later discovered is a player.

The best sex I have ever had was sadly also from a player.

I'm awesome in bed with people because of who I am with that person not because of who went before.

I know things that get me off and please others from learning on my own as much as being shown.

I am great at things because I have a love of them and give myself over to them and genuinely enjoy them.

I communicate. I give. I ask for.

I think someone needs to have a bit of experience to be a good lover yeah.

You just seemed very judgmental of somebody obviously having a good time on a swinging site.

You might be missing out on the best sex you had again.

There's a lot of ground between having a bit of experience (as I do) which is what I seek in another and being a promiscuous player.

I'm not a swinger. I make that clear on my profile.

I would rather never have sex again than lower my standards to a fuck&go/ons/fb with a promiscuous player.

I ended my last fab connection for this very reason. Ah Bingo! Awful lot of single women on here who are non swingers.

Why are you on this site then?

Better quality of men to meet with more options and power as a single lady on here?

I tried other sites first but I seek kink and fab offers that and lots more than swinging.

I enjoy the forums but mostly I like that it allows greater openness to discuss sexuality. I have no desire to play coy in the vanilla world or get trapped in another vanilla relationship.

I'm very clear about my reasons for being here and what I'm looking for.

You are right, fab is no longer a simple swinging site. It has evolved over the years.

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over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff."

Same

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Complete turn-off for me. I like suggestive, or a tease. Everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Totally agree with this. If a single profile messages me and they have pics of themselves fucking others it is an instant no from me

I'm glad it's not just me. Had a guy I was chatting with once sent me 6 pics of him inside other women and was surprised when I said that put me off. Obviously a player that guy

Precisely Did you not think maybe his product is good?

People buy Heinz Tomato ketchup for a reason.

Not even a little bit.

I don't want anything that has passed through many hands, mouths, vaginas, asses.

I want to learn the secrets of their taste, scent, sounds and not have 100s of others know these things.

Someone who gonna get you off, gonna need to know how to do it.

Ignorance is bliss kind of thing.

Not at all. That's a bit disappointing to read you think only players can have the skills for good sex or that good sex only comes if you've had lots and lots of different partners.

I have had the worst sex of my life from a guy who I later discovered is a player.

The best sex I have ever had was sadly also from a player.

I'm awesome in bed with people because of who I am with that person not because of who went before.

I know things that get me off and please others from learning on my own as much as being shown.

I am great at things because I have a love of them and give myself over to them and genuinely enjoy them.

I communicate. I give. I ask for.

I think someone needs to have a bit of experience to be a good lover yeah.

You just seemed very judgmental of somebody obviously having a good time on a swinging site.

You might be missing out on the best sex you had again.

There's a lot of ground between having a bit of experience (as I do) which is what I seek in another and being a promiscuous player.

I'm not a swinger. I make that clear on my profile.

I would rather never have sex again than lower my standards to a fuck&go/ons/fb with a promiscuous player.

I ended my last fab connection for this very reason. Ah Bingo! Awful lot of single women on here who are non swingers.

Why are you on this site then?

Better quality of men to meet with more options and power as a single lady on here?

I tried other sites first but I seek kink and fab offers that and lots more than swinging.

I enjoy the forums but mostly I like that it allows greater openness to discuss sexuality. I have no desire to play coy in the vanilla world or get trapped in another vanilla relationship.

I'm very clear about my reasons for being here and what I'm looking for.

You are right, fab is no longer a simple swinging site. It has evolved over the years."
Yes it appears most single ladies are on here looking for relationships of some kind these days. It is very enlightening.

I just still don't know if it is the right place for that.

Lots of men and women saying it is hard to find what they want on here.

Are they both in the wrong place at the wrong time I wonder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subtle wins every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe need more options on the 'looking for' tab to filter for things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Graphic for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe need more options on the 'looking for' tab to filter for things"
. Adding a dating section would be a good filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really on how the pics are taken.

If it’s a close up of a bum hole or the insides of a women not for me.

But some pics on here have definitely got me looking a second time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe need more options on the 'looking for' tab to filter for things. Adding a dating section would be a good filter.

Not everyone wants a boyfriend though.

Many have commented they enjoy commitment within certain limits.

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over a year ago

"Maybe need more options on the 'looking for' tab to filter for things. Adding a dating section would be a good filter.

Not everyone wants a boyfriend though.

Many have commented they enjoy commitment within certain limits.

At some future point I would want that. For now I simply want a slightly unconventional but monogamous commitment. A traditional boyfriend arrangement is not viable for now with other life commitments."
Yes but if I was looking for something monogamous this would probably be the last place I would choose.

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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago

"Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?

I prefer the more classy ones?

I hope you are all having a good morning x

Louise xx

Classy, black and white even, bit of art to them not so close up you see their insides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe need more options on the 'looking for' tab to filter for things. Adding a dating section would be a good filter.

Not everyone wants a boyfriend though.

Many have commented they enjoy commitment within certain limits.

At some future point I would want that. For now I simply want a slightly unconventional but monogamous commitment. A traditional boyfriend arrangement is not viable for now with other life commitments. Yes but if I was looking for something monogamous this would probably be the last place I would choose.

Well I wasn't always expecting or thinking longterm when I landed here 2 years ago but my life has moved on, my divorce just finalised and options are now mine.

Lots of LTR/Couples/marriages have started on fab.

But even when all I wanted was to cast off my ex and 20+yrs of marriage I still did my best to avoid the bigger players.

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By *amyrrefMan
over a year ago

dundee

A tad ironic using the term classy , on such a , let’s be honest sleazy website

Haters will hate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe need more options on the 'looking for' tab to filter for things. Adding a dating section would be a good filter.

Not everyone wants a boyfriend though.

Many have commented they enjoy commitment within certain limits.

At some future point I would want that. For now I simply want a slightly unconventional but monogamous commitment. A traditional boyfriend arrangement is not viable for now with other life commitments. Yes but if I was looking for something monogamous this would probably be the last place I would choose.

Well I wasn't always expecting or thinking longterm when I landed here 2 years ago but my life has moved on, my divorce just finalised and options are now mine.

Lots of LTR/Couples/marriages have started on fab.

But even when all I wanted was to cast off my ex and 20+yrs of marriage I still did my best to avoid the bigger players. "
Did they happen by accident or with the sole intent of a relationship though.

I'd bet the former.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?

I prefer the more classy ones?

I hope you are all having a good morning x

Louise xx

I think you have a nice mix, I do like both but b&w arty ones are my favourite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A tad ironic using the term classy , on such a , let’s be honest sleazy website

Haters will hate. "
Irony isn't popular on the forums.

Behave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe need more options on the 'looking for' tab to filter for things. Adding a dating section would be a good filter.

Not everyone wants a boyfriend though.

Many have commented they enjoy commitment within certain limits.

At some future point I would want that. For now I simply want a slightly unconventional but monogamous commitment. A traditional boyfriend arrangement is not viable for now with other life commitments. Yes but if I was looking for something monogamous this would probably be the last place I would choose.

Well I wasn't always expecting or thinking longterm when I landed here 2 years ago but my life has moved on, my divorce just finalised and options are now mine.

Lots of LTR/Couples/marriages have started on fab.

But even when all I wanted was to cast off my ex and 20+yrs of marriage I still did my best to avoid the bigger players. Did they happen by accident or with the sole intent of a relationship though.

I'd bet the former.

No idea, you'll have to ask them

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

"A tad ironic using the term classy , on such a , let’s be honest sleazy website

Haters will hate. "

Swingers can’t be classy? Really?

And you think it’s sleazy here?

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I like the more provocative pictures, as others have said if there’s more pics of them with someone else then that’s off putting to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A tad ironic using the term classy , on such a , let’s be honest sleazy website

Haters will hate. "

Wow…Why can’t you have classy? not all people on here are sleazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of explicit stuff.

I'd point out though that a classy pic doesn't automatically ensure a classy individual.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?

I prefer the more classy ones?

I hope you are all having a good morning x

Louise xx

Prefer classy ones...teasing ones.not spread legs etc...can leave them as friend ones if there is a need to share them with others

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?"

I think yours are about the right tone. Mostly classy teasing with the occasional more explicit one.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To each their own. You'll find someone who likes whatever you post, usually.

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By *exidorsetcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Wimborne

Posted another classy one... I hope you like it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posted another classy one... I hope you like it xx"

Holey moley !!!

Top marks

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"A tad ironic using the term classy , on such a , let’s be honest sleazy website

Haters will hate. "

It's only as sleazy as you choose to make it. No point hating anyone on here as it's very easy to just forget or ignore them.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?

I prefer the more classy ones?

I hope you are all having a good morning x

Louise xx

Both have their place.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Posted another classy one... I hope you like it xx"

Now that is a great example of classy and sexy

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Ok, that's really interesting. I thought I was missing something haha. We take very graphic pictures obviously but I'd rather not show too much.

I think it would be interesting to take some erotic sex pictures and see how they do.

Louise

xxx"

I would definitely describe your public pictures as being more classy OP, and certainly not graphic. No idea about your private photos, but they are for you to reveal to people to whom you choose to show a possibly more explicit side of your personality.

I personally feel that both types of photo have their place, it is up to each individual what they wish to show in pictures, and it is up to each individual what they wish to see in pictures.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Classy. Leaving something to the imagination is hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to know what the general feel is of our pics x

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By *exidorsetcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Wimborne

"Posted another classy one... I hope you like it xx

Holey moley !!!

Top marks

Haha awww thank you.. Did try to DM but we're too old xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posted another classy one... I hope you like it xx

Holey moley !!!

Top marks

Haha awww thank you.. Did try to DM but we're too old xx"

Ooops, sorry.

Had filters up tight for a while.

Was having a bit of a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A tad ironic using the term classy , on such a , let’s be honest sleazy website

Haters will hate. "

Fucking around is very classy.

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

Graphic for fun and classy, erotica for enticement and fun ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like arty, sensual pics, not graphic ones..

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?

I prefer the more classy ones?

I hope you are all having a good morning x

Louise xx

Depends on my mood really, sometimes when I'm horny and restless like a rampaging honey badger haha I like that flirt

But sometimes when just chilled, can be bit too much and a turn off. Like said depends on current mood

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not a fan of graphic or action shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cum dripping out a pussy, blobbing its way down a cock or burst assholes you could throw oranges down is a no from us, but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff."

Yes not just me then

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No thanks

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Pretending to be something your not just to please a minority on here isn’t the way to go. I believe you present an accurate representation of who you are and what will be will be! My content is graphic and it’s not preventing me finding the right people for me. Be yourself I say.

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By *akeanyoneMan
over a year ago

Depends...there's a time and place for both. If it's graphic and I dont know what their face looks like then I have no interest. I prefer classy / teasing pics initially. Once I get to know them that's a different matter

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By *xploringloversCouple
over a year ago

london

Very much mood dependent.

I personally prefer having classy pics of myself, but then again may delve into the other side one day.

With pics/videos I like to see of others on here….again mood dependent, sometimes I like full on action and sometimes I like the pics that tease the mind a little.

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Is it not possible to be both graphic and classy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am easy. Like most pictures. Don’t jerk off to any or collect them. Just look to see what people get up too. I don’t fab any . If the loves or likes is all you want , sorry no reward from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cum dripping out a pussy, blobbing its way down a cock or burst assholes you could throw oranges down is a no from us, but each to their own."

I wondered where my oranges had gone.

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By *isfun2023Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

We change our mind all the time... put graphic on when we are d*unk lol then take them off

When not ... worried they are too much

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"Good morning xx do you find graphic sex pictures the best, or something more subtle?

I prefer the more classy ones?

I hope you are all having a good morning x

Louise xx

We like the classy and sexy photos there's alot of turn off pics about

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i like a bit of both.. must admit like classy,,

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I take delight in photographs that are understated, tasteful, unique and executed with an imaginative flair.

Anything other than that is not for me to critique. It's their business but I use it as a filter for those who wish to engage with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Ha glad I’m not the only one

I also feel the same, especially if pictures are with women that look very different to me in body type, just a little hang up I have x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I don't want to see pics of a person I'm considering as a partner fucking/kissing/receiving attention from another person.

Another massive turnoff.

Ha glad I’m not the only one

I also feel the same, especially if pictures are with women that look very different to me in body type, just a little hang up I have x"

Yeah.... I once had a friend here that had a compulsion for the complete opposite body type to me.

I could not fathom why they were with me AT ALL since they fan-guy'd so so hard over larger, huge breasted, older and other things I'll not say here.

Made things challenging to say the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think fair play to the people in them and sharing them .

It's not something I would do though.

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By *ill1411Man
over a year ago

Durham

Classy all the way, some of the graphic ones are just plain nasty and do nothing for me.i just can't understand the attraction of spitting or pain, humiliation, choking etc. Call me Mr vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the pics aren't David Bailey standard, and ready for a gallery then there just not good enough...

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By *aughty treatsMan
over a year ago

tamworth

It really depends. Sometimes less is more and the individuals imagination is then in play. However, there are some nice graphic images too. I’m in favour of a good mix!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’m not keen on the graphic photos but luckily we are all different on here and appreciate different styles

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

In photos my preferences are subtlety , discretion, teasing, erotic, and sensual rather than graphic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am not really into "action" shots specially in a single mans profile much prefer to see him and his body rather than his conquests lol

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

Less is more for me, tease the imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think graphic pics have no class & more seductive/ teasing ones do, that's putting an unnecessary negative slant on it, IMO. They are just different options, that suit different preferences.

I don't enjoy graphic pics or past meet pics as they diminish rather than fuel my lust/ interest in a person. I take that as we are looking for different things/ incompatible here, rather than 'I've got classy pics, while they haven't'.

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