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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Each to their own I guess! However, watching a woman getting slapped (in the face) while being fucked didn’t appeal to me at all, however playful the slap was! Maybe I’m just brought up differently.

Would like to hear your thoughts for and against.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. Find it degrading personally. If I was halfway through a bonk and got a slap in the face he’d be getting a harder one back and my foot up his arse on the way out the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's into it I would but LIGHTLY.

I can have rough sex and chke a little but slapping is abit too much in my opinion. I don't want physical injury signs during even the most heated fuck

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

With the right partner, in the right place all that stuff ...I've done it. And enjoy doing it. Is it essential for me no.

Active enthusiastic consent is required from who your playing with, communication... checking hard limits... having safe words in place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a few slaps on my ass but on the face

no way..ouch!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m guessing consent and trust play a big part!

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By *elinda BeaverCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Nope!!

I would turn into She hulk!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like a few slaps on my ass but on the face

no way..ouch!"

That was my thoughts!

Arse=ok

Face=no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most things when it comes to rough sex there are ways to be degrading and ways to make the nerves sing.

Different strokes for different folks.

I love the zing of a little pain in lots of different ways but I would never enjoy or ask for or accept humiliation play. Instant buzz kill.

It also requires a huge degree of trust so not really likely or common to find here on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope!!

I would turn into She hulk!! "

Now that’s a different thread! - The guys love She Hulk! I’m a fan of Jen myself!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With the right partner, in the right place all that stuff ...I've done it. And enjoy doing it. Is it essential for me no.

Active enthusiastic consent is required from who your playing with, communication... checking hard limits... having safe words in place. "

Ah! Hello Mr Grey! I’d forgotten all about the bdsm stuff when I watched it. Still not sure - in the face just doesn’t compute with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"I’m guessing consent and trust play a big part! "

Absolutely essential. Safe, Sane and consensual...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine. "

If I ever had that chance, I don’t think I could bring myself to do it! - Would it disappoint you if someone didn’t?

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"With the right partner, in the right place all that stuff ...I've done it. And enjoy doing it. Is it essential for me no.

Active enthusiastic consent is required from who your playing with, communication... checking hard limits... having safe words in place.

Ah! Hello Mr Grey! I’d forgotten all about the bdsm stuff when I watched it. Still not sure - in the face just doesn’t compute with me! "

Haha...god I hate that film

Totally appreciate its not for everyone and why it would would be a hard limit for some people.

But have to say it can be a lot of fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine.

If I ever had that chance, I don’t think I could bring myself to do it! - Would it disappoint you if someone didn’t? "

No, it wouldn't disappoint me at all. I can respect that it isn't for everyone, and if you weren't into it then it wouldn't be enjoyable for me either. It's not an essential part of sex for me, so it wouldn't be an issue at all.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine.

If I ever had that chance, I don’t think I could bring myself to do it! - Would it disappoint you if someone didn’t?

No, it wouldn't disappoint me at all. I can respect that it isn't for everyone, and if you weren't into it then it wouldn't be enjoyable for me either. It's not an essential part of sex for me, so it wouldn't be an issue at all."

Aside from the consent thing, this is key...if who your playing with someone doesn't enjoy it as well...there's no point...for me at least.

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By *unbipleasure84Man
over a year ago

around you

Not really nice on the face I prefer to slap the bum mmm

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By *elinda BeaverCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"Nope!!

I would turn into She hulk!!

Now that’s a different thread! - The guys love She Hulk! I’m a fan of Jen myself! "

You guys are into some kinky stuff!! I'd happily do Jen all day long. But She hulk isn't my type at all.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Nope!!

I would turn into She hulk!! "

Snu snu is snu snu

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't appreciate being slapped anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine.

If I ever had that chance, I don’t think I could bring myself to do it! - Would it disappoint you if someone didn’t?

No, it wouldn't disappoint me at all. I can respect that it isn't for everyone, and if you weren't into it then it wouldn't be enjoyable for me either. It's not an essential part of sex for me, so it wouldn't be an issue at all."
i like to slap tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone slapped me then the meet would stop straight away and they would get a visit from the police.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I had a guy slap me once. He's lucky I didn't punch him. Totally killed the mood and I left soon after.

I don't like being spanked either.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Do guys like a playful kick in the balls? That's what they'd get if they tried to slap me anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine.

If I ever had that chance, I don’t think I could bring myself to do it! - Would it disappoint you if someone didn’t?

No, it wouldn't disappoint me at all. I can respect that it isn't for everyone, and if you weren't into it then it wouldn't be enjoyable for me either. It's not an essential part of sex for me, so it wouldn't be an issue at all."

If it was a deal breaker, I’d put my boxing gloves on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely needs to be after consent is asked for and given.

Jeez, who just up & slaps anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely needs to be after consent is asked for and given.

Jeez, who just up & slaps anyone "

Slapping is one thing! - Without consent? - Who the hell does that!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone just slapped me out the blue without discussing it first I’d get up and leave. That being said if it’s with someone i know and trust then I like a little slap. Maybe it’s the shock of it combined with the sensation that it leaves on your skin.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"Definitely needs to be after consent is asked for and given.

Jeez, who just up & slaps anyone "

I mean without consent ...that's abuse...

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By *hropshirestarMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I had a girlfriend a few years ago, she was a lot younger than me. She liked me to slap her arse, which I did, and also her tits, which I did once.

To be honest playful slaps on the arse are OK, but anything more or anywhere else is not for me.

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt

I like a slap to the face in the right moment. But only with someone I really trust. Wouldn't be happy with a total random doing it.

Beth x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

No I don’t like slapping in faces or anything to the face / neck etc.

An ass slap is one thing

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I mean I love my bottom slapped and my pussy slapped.. a firm hand around my neck or my jaw being gripped, hair grabbed.. pinned and forced by someone.. I’ve even had my boobs slapped while riding which was very hot! But if someone slapped me round the face I would cry, I would sob my heart out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also a big difference in the force used.

I little pat or tap as opposed to a hard slap is a totally different mood.

Different weight of hand for different parts of the body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me being slapped in the boobs would be worse.

I do have very sensitive nipples… ouch

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I had a guy slap my face during sex once. Was totally unexpected.

I headbutted him and broke his nose. It was an automatic reaction.

Also had a guy ask me to slap him hard during sex. Then complain when I complied and have him a sharp slap.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"I had a guy slap my face during sex once. Was totally unexpected.

I headbutted him and broke his nose. It was an automatic reaction.

...

"

And this, best beloved, is why you don't just slap someone unexpectedly!

I love it!

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol

Oh...

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol

Oh... "

I would necessarily plan to slap...but I'd have checked before wether it was a hard limit and they consented to that kind of play

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My long term partner does it occasionally, and I love it.

I don't think I'd enjoy it with anyone else though.

There has to be the right kind of emotional connection for me to enjoy anything like that.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol

Oh...

I would necessarily plan to slap...but I'd have checked before wether it was a hard limit and they consented to that kind of play "

With the right partner you just feel these things...its just there...in their eyes.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"My long term partner does it occasionally, and I love it.

I don't think I'd enjoy it with anyone else though.

There has to be the right kind of emotional connection for me to enjoy anything like that.

"

Yup...with the right partner there is no limits really. Even the dirtiest thing feel absolutely normal.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

love my arse getting slapped

hate my face getting slapped

not so keep on the tits getting slapped although now and again, gently, can be nice

don't mind the pussy getting slapped in the throes of passion but it has to be timed well, only when Im fully aroused or I might slap back hahaha x

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol

Oh...

I would necessarily plan to slap...but I'd have checked before wether it was a hard limit and they consented to that kind of play

With the right partner you just feel these things...its just there...in their eyes. "

Whilst there is a lot of that I agree with...it's not mistake I wish to make so...checks in advance for me

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol

Oh...

I would necessarily plan to slap...but I'd have checked before wether it was a hard limit and they consented to that kind of play

With the right partner you just feel these things...its just there...in their eyes.

Whilst there is a lot of that I agree with...it's not mistake I wish to make so...checks in advance for me "

Well...if you not sure,it's not the right partner for you coz you do know their likes and needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would need words.

Clear consent given/received.

If you find words too difficult I'd be declining any and everything.

Anything less than that is far too risky as it is open to a person seeing things they want to see that aren't there or sex-brain confusing and leading to limits not being voiced or respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait with bated breath for the first man to slap Dora.

She’s a Krav Magaa instructor so it’s gonna be interesting.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol

Oh...

I would necessarily plan to slap...but I'd have checked before wether it was a hard limit and they consented to that kind of play

With the right partner you just feel these things...its just there...in their eyes.

Whilst there is a lot of that I agree with...it's not mistake I wish to make so...checks in advance for me

Well...if you not sure,it's not the right partner for you coz you do know their likes and needs

"

I don't agree. Communication, talking to each other about turns ons, turn offs ...hard limits...safe words is part of establishing if they are the right partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wait with bated breath for the first man to slap Dora.

She’s a Krav Magaa instructor so it’s gonna be interesting. "

Can I watch a class

Girl crush incuming

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"I would need words.

Clear consent given/received.

If you find words too difficult I'd be declining any and everything.

Anything less than that is far too risky as it is open to a person seeing things they want to see that aren't there or sex-brain confusing and leading to limits not being voiced or respected."

Totally agree

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It's all down to boundaries and consent. Some people enjoy this when done with a trusted partner.

While I enjoy rough sex and can do arse slapping (with a lovely palm print) pussy slap, pinning and even some choking, facial slap is a step too far for me. Wouldn't do it even if requested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, a slap on the arse yes, but across the face seems too violent for me, whichever way I look at it.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Arse if she liked it. I would struggle to do the face even if she asked as does not have any appeal to me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've had slaps on the arse that hurt more than a slap on my face.

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By *ooleyMan
over a year ago

preston

I'm not a violent guy - not been in a scrap since high school, I hate violence and violent people - BUT an ex-lover of mine was certainly into it. We had a chat before we ended up in bed about what I liked, what she liked and she made a reference to choking (without actually saying it - she was a bot embarrassed, I think)

But I figured out what she meant and that started us experimenting and playing. We were amazingly open and passionate lovers and the choking play started to involve slapping as well. Like I said, I'm not a violent man - never hit a woman in my life - so it was really a step out of the comfort zone to do it. She preferred to to be on top when she wanted it. I was a bit soft to start with, apparently and she instructed me to hit harder. Never too hard, but that stinging slap was what she was waiting for. I think it was also the surprise she liked. Unexpected surprise used to drive her wild.

She was a larger girl too, and also loved her big tits slapped too. A sideways strike, clipping her nipple used to drive her wild.

Ah, memories....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me. Find it degrading personally. If I was halfway through a bonk and got a slap in the face he’d be getting a harder one back and my foot up his arse on the way out the door "

Love it when you talk dirty !

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Light hand slaps to the arse, or a gentle flogging yes. Face slap definitely NOT!!

Only thing slapping the face is the cum at the end of a session for a facial finale!

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

As long as it doesn't mark my face, marking anywhere else is fine

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Personally not a fan but it’s strange when I say I dislike violence or force in the bedroom I’m seen as the weird one. Just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby does it playfully never hurts its always light never marks.

I can take more to the ass but still rather no marks.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's all down to boundaries and consent. Some people enjoy this when done with a trusted partner.

While I enjoy rough sex and can do arse slapping (with a lovely palm print) pussy slap, pinning and even some choking, facial slap is a step too far for me. Wouldn't do it even if requested."

My very first fab meet 6 years ago didn't understand the words boundaries, consent or communication.

Despite having 2 social meets prior to getting to the hotel room she hadn't even hinted at what she was into.

Out of the blue she punched me(not slapped) full on in the face and drove her knee into my balls.

When I asked WTF? she replied that she wanted me to retaliate in similar fashion.

I told her she was crazy and if she had suggested it beforehand we never would have met again.

I left her in the room I had paid for and left the site a couple of days later thinking it was all going to be like that.

I wasn't in any physical danger but the consequences could have been very real if the roles were reversed.

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i


"It's all down to boundaries and consent. Some people enjoy this when done with a trusted partner.

While I enjoy rough sex and can do arse slapping (with a lovely palm print) pussy slap, pinning and even some choking, facial slap is a step too far for me. Wouldn't do it even if requested.

My very first fab meet 6 years ago didn't understand the words boundaries, consent or communication.

Despite having 2 social meets prior to getting to the hotel room she hadn't even hinted at what she was into.

Out of the blue she punched me(not slapped) full on in the face and drove her knee into my balls.

When I asked WTF? she replied that she wanted me to retaliate in similar fashion.

I told her she was crazy and if she had suggested it beforehand we never would have met again.

I left her in the room I had paid for and left the site a couple of days later thinking it was all going to be like that.

I wasn't in any physical danger but the consequences could have been very real if the roles were reversed. "

That’s bloody scary and you’re right, if the roles were reversed, there would have been absolute uproar

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"It's all down to boundaries and consent. Some people enjoy this when done with a trusted partner.

While I enjoy rough sex and can do arse slapping (with a lovely palm print) pussy slap, pinning and even some choking, facial slap is a step too far for me. Wouldn't do it even if requested.

My very first fab meet 6 years ago didn't understand the words boundaries, consent or communication.

Despite having 2 social meets prior to getting to the hotel room she hadn't even hinted at what she was into.

Out of the blue she punched me(not slapped) full on in the face and drove her knee into my balls.

When I asked WTF? she replied that she wanted me to retaliate in similar fashion.

I told her she was crazy and if she had suggested it beforehand we never would have met again.

I left her in the room I had paid for and left the site a couple of days later thinking it was all going to be like that.

I wasn't in any physical danger but the consequences could have been very real if the roles were reversed. "

I mean that's outrageous. I can't get my head round why you'd not discuss if that's what you were into beforehand... clearly she had plenty opportunities

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Doing it is not something that will bring the sex to a whole new level. It doesn't excite me on its own.

However it is not a limit or boundary for me, so if my partner enjoys it, I gain my own pleasure from theirs. Don't get me wrong I do have my own limits and boundaries on what I will do for myself and for others.

A large part of my own pleasure is giving my sexual partner what they find pleasurable.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Modern kink is about consent and prior discussion. The edgier the play the sooner issues should be brought up and discussed.

My own view is that face play is different to impact elsewhere. The face is about dominance rather than sensation. You hold someones face it established control and it csn be done gently and dominantly. It is the same when you put rope on someone's face or neck, it is about control, applied within agreed limits. There are safe ways of how to apply dominance and sensation. Copying porn is not it.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I always find these threads fascinating. Breath play which is inherently more dangerous than a slap to the face is often perceived better. I'd hit them back etc etc if they tried it on me. Yet we don't feel the need to express that if we asked do you like sex. Human beings are strange indeed.

But I digress, a slap to the face can feel amazing with prior consent. The sting the sudden bringing around from the bliss of orgasm so you can last that bit longer. For me it's not about degradation as implied by some it's just a different sensation.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"I always find these threads fascinating. Breath play which is inherently more dangerous than a slap to the face is often perceived better. I'd hit them back etc etc if they tried it on me. Yet we don't feel the need to express that if we asked do you like sex. Human beings are strange indeed.

But I digress, a slap to the face can feel amazing with prior consent. The sting the sudden bringing around from the bliss of orgasm so you can last that bit longer. For me it's not about degradation as implied by some it's just a different sensation. "

Agreed. For me slapping is nothing about degradation. But accept for some it can be.

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I always find these threads fascinating. Breath play which is inherently more dangerous than a slap to the face is often perceived better. I'd hit them back etc etc if they tried it on me. Yet we don't feel the need to express that if we asked do you like sex. Human beings are strange indeed.

But I digress, a slap to the face can feel amazing with prior consent. The sting the sudden bringing around from the bliss of orgasm so you can last that bit longer. For me it's not about degradation as implied by some it's just a different sensation. "

I agree, I do not like the feeling of being degraded. To me a slap on the face in the heat of passion definitely adds alot of sensations, I'm a little bit of a masochist though and I definitely like not to breathe in the moment

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Absolutely not. Same with a hand on the throat. Don't mind a spank on the bum though

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Each to their own I guess! However, watching a woman getting slapped (in the face) while being fucked didn’t appeal to me at all, however playful the slap was! Maybe I’m just brought up differently.

Would like to hear your thoughts for and against. "

My thoughts? It's abuse. Nothing less than that. Any man (I use that word loosely in this context) who gets enjoyment from inflicting pain on a woman is lower than pondlife.

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester

It’s odd. To me anyway but others would think it’s odd having a stranger finger the wife!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slapping my face ,boobs etc is a definite no . Anything that inflicts pain is a no .

A playful slap to my ass in the throws of passion is fine .

However, despite that I discovered a few years ago that I love having a nice hard cock, slap against my c**t. One of those things I feel I shouldn't like but really do !

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Having my mound lightly spanked and slapped is delightful, but my face?.....

NEVER

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By *olimgenguyMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"My long term partner does it occasionally, and I love it.

I don't think I'd enjoy it with anyone else though.

There has to be the right kind of emotional connection for me to enjoy anything like that.

Yup...with the right partner there is no limits really. Even the dirtiest thing feel absolutely normal."

Agree, once that connection is there things can be experimented with and that look as well.....

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By *atthew78Man
over a year ago

Winsford

Not for me ..... a little spanking is fine as long as both are into it but slapping the face no thanks

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

With the right person with the right connection and with enthusiastic consent, yes.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"With the right person with the right connection and with enthusiastic consent, yes."

So what you are saying is, there is a chance?

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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago

swansea

Backside and legs during sex, yes but face, no

Hand around throat is a discussion point

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Each to their own I guess! However, watching a woman getting slapped (in the face) while being fucked didn’t appeal to me at all, however playful the slap was! Maybe I’m just brought up differently.

Would like to hear your thoughts for and against.

My thoughts? It's abuse. Nothing less than that. Any man (I use that word loosely in this context) who gets enjoyment from inflicting pain on a woman is lower than pondlife.

"

That's a bit much, just because a man may slap me as he knows I get great sexually gratification from it does not make him pondlife. There are kinks you clearly do not understand so it is unfair to judge & name call.

Sending hugs to you

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

It is a kink and if done by mutual consent - up to them.

For me? Not now, not ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the right person with the right connection and with enthusiastic consent, yes."

What about cockslap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of the blue without prior consent absolutely not. Consent is everything. I don't appreciate even a light spanking without discussion and the guy will get told as well.

With consent and communication, fucking love it

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Each to their own I guess! However, watching a woman getting slapped (in the face) while being fucked didn’t appeal to me at all, however playful the slap was! Maybe I’m just brought up differently.

Would like to hear your thoughts for and against.

My thoughts? It's abuse. Nothing less than that. Any man (I use that word loosely in this context) who gets enjoyment from inflicting pain on a woman is lower than pondlife.

That's a bit much, just because a man may slap me as he knows I get great sexually gratification from it does not make him pondlife. There are kinks you clearly do not understand so it is unfair to judge & name call.

Sending hugs to you "

Indeed. I've done it to a woman, with both her suggestion and full consent. I got sexual gratification from doing it, not from the slap itself nor the pain it caused but from giving her pleasure from an act she wants and enjoys.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"With the right person with the right connection and with enthusiastic consent, yes.

So what you are saying is, there is a chance? "

Just so long as you don't speak to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of the blue without prior consent absolutely not. Consent is everything. I don't appreciate even a light spanking without discussion and the guy will get told as well.

With consent and communication, fucking love it "

Consent is sexy and you’re a bit of alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally like hands on throats, giving and receiving, face slapping both ways, i really like to receive, when the bloods up the endorphins rush

We are all the same instrument but we all like being played in different ways

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I personally like hands on throats, giving and receiving, face slapping both ways, i really like to receive, when the bloods up the endorphins rush

We are all the same instrument but we all like being played in different ways "
You have just given me an idea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Out of the blue without prior consent absolutely not. Consent is everything. I don't appreciate even a light spanking without discussion and the guy will get told as well.

With consent and communication, fucking love it "

100% agree. Also make sure as much consent as possible is agreed upon most definitely prior to the fun, because as important as consent is and both having it and being asked for it is a turn on in its own way... Having to stop in the deepest primal part of a moment to ask for consent can seriously fuck up the flow of things

(moment killer or not I'd still ask though!)

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

With a trusted companion I love it. But they need to know what they are doing as it’s not an Eastenders style dramatic slap more of a firm tap.

Throat grabbing the same, love it but got to know the right firmness!

Cock slaps I like as well.

Jeez I’m awful….. what would my parents think!

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch "

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a trusted companion I love it. But they need to know what they are doing as it’s not an Eastenders style dramatic slap more of a firm tap.

Throat grabbing the same, love it but got to know the right firmness!

Cock slaps I like as well.

Jeez I’m awful….. what would my parents think! "

At least you are having fun

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville


"With a trusted companion I love it. But they need to know what they are doing as it’s not an Eastenders style dramatic slap more of a firm tap.

Throat grabbing the same, love it but got to know the right firmness!

Cock slaps I like as well.

Jeez I’m awful….. what would my parents think!

At least you are having fun "

Very much so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally like hands on throats, giving and receiving, face slapping both ways, i really like to receive, when the bloods up the endorphins rush

We are all the same instrument but we all like being played in different ways You have just given me an idea..."

Ha, tell me more?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I personally like hands on throats, giving and receiving, face slapping both ways, i really like to receive, when the bloods up the endorphins rush

We are all the same instrument but we all like being played in different ways You have just given me an idea...

Ha, tell me more?"

I put up a thread asking people whether we are indeed all the same but like being played differently.

I genuinely do not know - but I am really curious to find out what people think. You inspired me to think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore "

Now that is odd xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of the blue without prior consent absolutely not. Consent is everything. I don't appreciate even a light spanking without discussion and the guy will get told as well.

With consent and communication, fucking love it

100% agree. Also make sure as much consent as possible is agreed upon most definitely prior to the fun, because as important as consent is and both having it and being asked for it is a turn on in its own way... Having to stop in the deepest primal part of a moment to ask for consent can seriously fuck up the flow of things

(moment killer or not I'd still ask though!) "

This is why I LOVE talking about sex and kinks so much can curate something quite magical

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Have a ready prepared waiver at hand before any contact.

Witnesses and copies sent to all parties involved and a solicitor standing by just in case.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore "

Oh god...I just can't comprehend anyone doing that without some discussion beforehand.

I know it's not universal...but one of the things I do like about the kink community is usually things about consent and talking in advance about planning scenes and hard limits ... aftercare if appropriate is expected.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"If she's into it I would but LIGHTLY.

I can have rough sex and chke a little but slapping is abit too much in my opinion. I don't want physical injury signs during even the most heated fuck"

The ones on here Into don’t like it lightly though and they love the marks left so if your gonna play , it’s RACK not SSC. And face slapping is really at the mild end of impact play,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore

Now that is odd xx"

Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure

Mmm

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By *oulkissMan
over a year ago

Croydon


"My thoughts? It's abuse. Nothing less than that. Any man (I use that word loosely in this context) who gets enjoyment from inflicting pain on a woman is lower than pondlife.

"

So how would you classify the ladies who crave receiving those sensations?

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By *oulkissMan
over a year ago

Croydon


"Have a ready prepared waiver at hand before any contact.

Witnesses and copies sent to all parties involved and a solicitor standing by just in case.

"

You ever heard the song Where the Rubber Meets the Road by Meatloaf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore "

Omg that is horrendous! What absolute disgusting thing to do. I’m so sorry that happened to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally like hands on throats, giving and receiving, face slapping both ways, i really like to receive, when the bloods up the endorphins rush

We are all the same instrument but we all like being played in different ways You have just given me an idea..."

Ive just looked at your profile, I’d love to play a melody on those curves

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore

Now that is odd xx

Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure

Mmm "

Well my response was "What the fuck are you doing you prick?" He did immediately apologise, admitting he got carried away. It bloody hurt I had a lump on my head! The pleasure was no more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore

Now that is odd xx

Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure

Mmm "
Have you actually seen the film? It ended really badly.

Why anyone would want to punch anyone like that it’s behind belief! That’s very alarming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to slap a few people. ….

I spoke about this to someone, but if I continue to talk about it here and air my thoughts aboit this thing that can happen during sex, I’m sure a ban would follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore

Now that is odd xx

Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure

Mmm Have you actually seen the film? It ended really badly.

Why anyone would want to punch anyone like that it’s behind belief! That’s very alarming "

No , its the first ive heard the phrase, not my sort of gig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore

Now that is odd xx

Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure

Mmm

Well my response was "What the fuck are you doing you prick?" He did immediately apologise, admitting he got carried away. It bloody hurt I had a lump on my head! The pleasure was no more!"

I would have kicked him as hard as I could between the legs see how he liked it. No wonder it wasn’t. Poor you. I hope you have had lots more much nicer experiences and that idiot hasn’t ruined them for you

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By *_DirectorMan
over a year ago

Middle of somewhere

Everyone is different and what’s for some won’t be for others … I have received and dished it out but it’s all part of the difference experience and with connections and reassurances.

S & M is truly alive and well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bastard in you is perfect for the bitch in her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore

Now that is odd xx

Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure

Mmm Have you actually seen the film? It ended really badly.

Why anyone would want to punch anyone like that it’s behind belief! That’s very alarming

No , its the first ive heard the phrase, not my sort of gig"

The Mmm had me thinking otherwise

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Slap me on the face and I will kick you in the googlies. No thank you

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Each to their own I guess! However, watching a woman getting slapped (in the face) while being fucked didn’t appeal to me at all, however playful the slap was! Maybe I’m just brought up differently.

Would like to hear your thoughts for and against. "

In the face? No. Alice once asked me to and I said no. Bum is fine, but not face.

However, if it's me being slapped, go for it!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Everyone is different and what’s for some won’t be for others … I have received and dished it out but it’s all part of the difference experience and with connections and reassurances.

S & M is truly alive and well "

What is discussed here though is like surprise attacks rather than S&M!

Spontaneity worries me in BDSM . It’s normally a big red flag of inexperience, switches and brats in my case!

Someone was riding me once and right in the moment I literally saw stars and had that feeling when your dazed and confused it takes a few moments to register you’ve been punched really hard in the face.

No discussion beforehand, apparently she just became super frustrated and it popped into her head and then switched.

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore

Now that is odd xx

Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure

Mmm

Well my response was "What the fuck are you doing you prick?" He did immediately apologise, admitting he got carried away. It bloody hurt I had a lump on my head! The pleasure was no more!

I would have kicked him as hard as I could between the legs see how he liked it. No wonder it wasn’t. Poor you. I hope you have had lots more much nicer experiences and that idiot hasn’t ruined them for you "

Thank you, I'm just a little more cautious who I allow myself to these days xx

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By *xploringloversCouple
over a year ago

london

Ermm no from me, it’s quite off putting and definitely class it more on the degrading side.

Being spanked around the arse!!! That’s a completely different story

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

It depends on the context, if hound is treating me rough, then I like a slap in the face, well anywhere really.. and I love it when he slaps me round the face with his hard cock

If someone I didnt know slapped me in the face I wouldn't be impressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch

Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore

Now that is odd xx

Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure

Mmm Have you actually seen the film? It ended really badly.

Why anyone would want to punch anyone like that it’s behind belief! That’s very alarming

No , its the first ive heard the phrase, not my sort of gig

The Mmm had me thinking otherwise "

No, the mmm was one of unease

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

It's a no from me

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