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"Definitely not weird. That's the normal way I have found. I don't like kissing as part of sex but I am a weirdo for sure " I enjoy a bit of kissing during sex too.. especially if it’s a tasting each other kinda thing…lol | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way?" No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. " Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. | |||
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"If a social is going well, it's not weird for it to include the kiss test to see if we should take it further" Totally agree | |||
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"No you’re not weird at all. Kissing is really important for me. I need it to be good or it can turn me off pretty quickly. " m Yeah, had a pretty similar convo with someone this week. Bad kissing can be a real turn off! | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. " Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet. If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet. If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. " I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. " Thankfully, I’ve not met anyone who doesn’t want to kiss… I don’t think I could go through with the meet if I did! | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Thankfully, I’ve not met anyone who doesn’t want to kiss… I don’t think I could go through with the meet if I did!" Gloryhole ftw | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet. If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened " and go put a bag on your head for her. | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet. If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her. " I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Thankfully, I’ve not met anyone who doesn’t want to kiss… I don’t think I could go through with the meet if I did!" You are a romantic at heart then | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet. If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her. I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. " I have a nice silk Balaclava | |||
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"Kissing is vital. Few things excite me more than a spine tingling kiss that can make you forget the rest of the world exists ." Yes! Totally this!! | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet. If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her. I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. I have a nice silk Balaclava " I don’t have enough money to buy one so I use a Tesco plastic bag. Every little helps. | |||
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"Kissing is very intimate especially if its with someone else's partner " | |||
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"If a social is going well, it's not weird for it to include the kiss test to see if we should take it further" Definitely. If I feel that I want to take it further after a social I'll sometimes ask for a kiss, or sometimes you just know its OK to go in for the kill! | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet. If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her. I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. I have a nice silk Balaclava I don’t have enough money to buy one so I use a Tesco plastic bag. Every little helps. " Other stores are available Are you looking for a Tesco sponsorship? You can't beat their neal deals to be fair | |||
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"I don't like to kiss men who I know its going to be a one night hit or in club/party events etc. And since I stopped smoking I really have a difficult time with both and vapers to. So theres quite a few reasons!! " So only for men with the potential of something significant with them, then you will kiss them? | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet. If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her. I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. I have a nice silk Balaclava I don’t have enough money to buy one so I use a Tesco plastic bag. Every little helps. Other stores are available Are you looking for a Tesco sponsorship? You can't beat their neal deals to be fair" If I get free watermelon why the hell not ? | |||
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" If I get free watermelon why the hell not ?" Only when it’s in season. Can’t have your sex life being responsible for all the food miles otherwise. | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. Mostly mechanical without kissing. And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet. If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her. I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. I have a nice silk Balaclava I don’t have enough money to buy one so I use a Tesco plastic bag. Every little helps. Other stores are available Are you looking for a Tesco sponsorship? You can't beat their neal deals to be fair If I get free watermelon why the hell not ? " Makes you virile too does watermelon, not daft you. | |||
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"Yes. I love kissing - to the point where I'm happy to dryhump and kiss someone without having sex with them. It's intimate, yes. But more than that, it's the sheer erotic nature of feeling another's lips pressed against yours, that moment you get where you can feel that change - there's a switch from the more explorative, gentle kisses to the yearning, passionate kisses that leave you breathless and hungry for more. When you kiss someone and everything else fades in that moment? That's when I know there's a rather addictive level of chemistry there." Meli, you probably write erotic novels don't you? In fact, maybe you really are Kathy Acker | |||
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"Yes. I love kissing - to the point where I'm happy to dryhump and kiss someone without having sex with them. It's intimate, yes. But more than that, it's the sheer erotic nature of feeling another's lips pressed against yours, that moment you get where you can feel that change - there's a switch from the more explorative, gentle kisses to the yearning, passionate kisses that leave you breathless and hungry for more. When you kiss someone and everything else fades in that moment? That's when I know there's a rather addictive level of chemistry there. Meli, you probably write erotic novels don't you? In fact, maybe you really are Kathy Acker " This compliment? Yep, it means a lot. Adore Kathy Acker - her writing was transformative, inspirational to me as a doe eyed teenager devouring text late at night. So, thank you. | |||
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"It's essential for me. I feel like kissing is where you both really connect with each other. I absolutely adore kissing, especially deep kisses with loads of tongue and uncontrollable passion. " Likewise. The moment when you move towards each other and then lock on is so good. And the intensity of the kissing builds until you're practically devouring each other.. | |||
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"If a social is going well, it's not weird for it to include the kiss test to see if we should take it further Definitely. If I feel that I want to take it further after a social I'll sometimes ask for a kiss, or sometimes you just know its OK to go in for the kill! " That's awesome, I'm always too scared to dive right in, I always have to ask first Luckily never been refused | |||
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"Prefer no kissing meets myself far to intimate! Do not need it to enjoy sex x" Similar here I mean I’ll kiss if some requires it to get off or relax but it doesn’t mean or do anything for me outside of a relationship | |||
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"Prefer no kissing meets myself far to intimate! Do not need it to enjoy sex x Similar here I mean I’ll kiss if some requires it to get off or relax but it doesn’t mean or do anything for me outside of a relationship " Exactly never say never but preference not to kiss x | |||
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"No you’re not weird at all. Kissing is really important for me. I need it to be good or it can turn me off pretty quickly. " Completely agree. XX | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way?" I've not had a single meet where it started with kissing. I don't really kiss guys I'm meeting, which is partly why I don't meet 121 | |||
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"You are not alone OP. I love it and could quite happily kiss until my lips are numb " I kissed [forumer’s name redacted] and walked away with my lips literally tingling and fizzing. (Turned out she was wearing lip-plumping stuff … ) | |||
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"…. Am I weird/alone in thinking this way?" If you are weird, than so am I. | |||
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"Yes. I love kissing - to the point where I'm happy to dryhump and kiss someone without having sex with them. It's intimate, yes. But more than that, it's the sheer erotic nature of feeling another's lips pressed against yours, that moment you get where you can feel that change - there's a switch from the more explorative, gentle kisses to the yearning, passionate kisses that leave you breathless and hungry for more. When you kiss someone and everything else fades in that moment? That's when I know there's a rather addictive level of chemistry there. Meli, you probably write erotic novels don't you? In fact, maybe you really are Kathy Acker This compliment? Yep, it means a lot. Adore Kathy Acker - her writing was transformative, inspirational to me as a doe eyed teenager devouring text late at night. So, thank you. " Yes it was a compliment, the writing style conjured up wonderful pictures in my mind! | |||
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"You are not alone OP. I love it and could quite happily kiss until my lips are numb " I’m glad it’s not just me who thinks like that | |||
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"Kissing is an integral part of sex, sex should be intimate and passionate! I don’t really know if I’m sexually attracted enough to a guy until that first kiss.. I can find someone good company and handsome but that is different to those raw carnal urges to fuck that explode when you have that first snog! I could honestly straddle and grind on a lap while kissing and teasing for hours before even removing any clothes " Totally this… that sudden surge of passion when a snog sparks things off! It’s the best… | |||
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"Yes. I love kissing - to the point where I'm happy to dryhump and kiss someone without having sex with them. It's intimate, yes. But more than that, it's the sheer erotic nature of feeling another's lips pressed against yours, that moment you get where you can feel that change - there's a switch from the more explorative, gentle kisses to the yearning, passionate kisses that leave you breathless and hungry for more. When you kiss someone and everything else fades in that moment? That's when I know there's a rather addictive level of chemistry there." Oh my word… think I need a lay down in a dark room after reading that | |||
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event! I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging! Am I weird/alone in thinking this way?" For me it is also a must, without it is a total turn off. | |||
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