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Is a foot fetish such a bad thing really ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this weird or are people just judgemental?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not weird, common in fact. But really depends on what you mean as judgemental. People actually judging or just not interested in it ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Horrid Pervy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As in judgy way not saying not into it found 80% of ladies not into it at all.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It really depends how far it goes, I mean I love having my feet rubbed, kissed, but wouldn't really want them involved in any sex acts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tough one, there are certain things I can find disgusting or turn my nose up at which others have a right to do but it depends on how they approach that. It's easy to say "sorry, that's not for me" but when they use words like gross and disgusting then that's when it ventures into kink shaming. For what it's worth, I do have a foot fetish and wouldn't feel good if they derided the fetish if I asked them about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As in judgy way not saying not into it found 80% of ladies not into it at all."

Are you randomly asking people if they are into it ? If so that's why you are getting judgy responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tough one, there are certain things I can find disgusting or turn my nose up at which others have a right to do but it depends on how they approach that. It's easy to say "sorry, that's not for me" but when they use words like gross and disgusting then that's when it ventures into kink shaming. For what it's worth, I do have a foot fetish and wouldn't feel good if they derided the fetish if I asked them about it"

What’s the difference between a fetish and a kink? Or are they the same?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"It's a tough one, there are certain things I can find disgusting or turn my nose up at which others have a right to do but it depends on how they approach that. It's easy to say "sorry, that's not for me" but when they use words like gross and disgusting then that's when it ventures into kink shaming. For what it's worth, I do have a foot fetish and wouldn't feel good if they derided the fetish if I asked them about it

What’s the difference between a fetish and a kink? Or are they the same?"

Kink increases the partner's pleasure, fetish replaces the partner with an object and that can be a body part or something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tough one, there are certain things I can find disgusting or turn my nose up at which others have a right to do but it depends on how they approach that. It's easy to say "sorry, that's not for me" but when they use words like gross and disgusting then that's when it ventures into kink shaming. For what it's worth, I do have a foot fetish and wouldn't feel good if they derided the fetish if I asked them about it

What’s the difference between a fetish and a kink? Or are they the same?"

Good question, I probably used them interchangeably but sure there might be a difference.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

A kink is something unusual that you turns you on.

A fetish is something you need to achieve arousal/gratification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't get the foot fetish thing. But no judgement here.

It would be boring if we all into the same thing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not bad. To each their own.

It's not for me, but you do what you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not bad. To each their own.

It's not for me, but you do what you like."

No foot rub then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like feet but each to their own. As long as mine aren't being touched, I'm good.

Pxx

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley

Join in the Feet Pic Friday or Feet Out Friday threads. Lots of feet and feet lovers there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tough one, there are certain things I can find disgusting or turn my nose up at which others have a right to do but it depends on how they approach that. It's easy to say "sorry, that's not for me" but when they use words like gross and disgusting then that's when it ventures into kink shaming. For what it's worth, I do have a foot fetish and wouldn't feel good if they derided the fetish if I asked them about it

What’s the difference between a fetish and a kink? Or are they the same?

Kink increases the partner's pleasure, fetish replaces the partner with an object and that can be a body part or something else "

Ah thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what people are into, but I don't find feet remotely sexy, and my personal experience of people with that particular fetish was that they seemed to forget there was a real live human attached to the feet. For me, it's now an immediate no when mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kink is something unusual that you turns you on.

A fetish is something you need to achieve arousal/gratification. "

So if you have a foot fetish you need something feet related to get you going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, it’s how you present it to others. If you’re scattergunning out messages where it’s clear that’s your sole focus, you will get aggie replies. If your focus is the person first, and you wait a while to connect, and introduce your interest, I think you’ll have more favourable responses.

Aggie is my new favourite word.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"As others have said, it’s how you present it to others. If you’re scattergunning out messages where it’s clear that’s your sole focus, you will get aggie replies. If your focus is the person first, and you wait a while to connect, and introduce your interest, I think you’ll have more favourable responses.

Aggie is my new favourite word."

‘Sole’ focus haha!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s not weird in the slightest OP.

Does that mean everyone is into it? No.

If that’s what floats your boat try to find likeminded people who are. It’s pretty simples really

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Horrid Pervy "
ooops! Wrong thread. I meant to type ‘nice feeties’

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes feet my other phobia, i don’t like mine touched, kissed, licked they are out of bounds and although everyone has feet they are for walking on nuff said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Sole’ focus haha! "

I’d love to pretend I did that on purpose, but this little piggy wasn’t paying attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kink is something unusual that you turns you on.

A fetish is something you need to achieve arousal/gratification.

So if you have a foot fetish you need something feet related to get you going?"

Interesting, I know it's not something I definitely need but enjoy it as an added bonus. It's certainly not a deal breaker if they're not into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Sole’ focus haha!

I’d love to pretend I did that on purpose, but this little piggy wasn’t paying attention "

I laughed a little too much at sole focus

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Not weird no! I've promised someone on Instagram some new feet pics tomoz he puts them on his page! X

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Love giving foot jobs and having my toes sucked very erotic x

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"It's a tough one, there are certain things I can find disgusting or turn my nose up at which others have a right to do but it depends on how they approach that. It's easy to say "sorry, that's not for me" but when they use words like gross and disgusting then that's when it ventures into kink shaming. For what it's worth, I do have a foot fetish and wouldn't feel good if they derided the fetish if I asked them about it

What’s the difference between a fetish and a kink? Or are they the same?

Kink increases the partner's pleasure, fetish replaces the partner with an object and that can be a body part or something else

Ah thanks! "

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her out for dinner play footsy and while you're eating your stake she can get toed in her hole

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"A kink is something unusual that you turns you on.

A fetish is something you need to achieve arousal/gratification.

So if you have a foot fetish you need something feet related to get you going?"

Pretty much, I once knew a guy who could only get hard if you kicked him in the balls with bare feet.

I had a boyfriend who liked heels and only really ever wanted pics of my feet in them, didn't care much for the rest of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A kink is something unusual that you turns you on.

A fetish is something you need to achieve arousal/gratification.

So if you have a foot fetish you need something feet related to get you going?

Pretty much, I once knew a guy who could only get hard if you kicked him in the balls with bare feet.

I had a boyfriend who liked heels and only really ever wanted pics of my feet in them, didn't care much for the rest of me!"

That made me eyes water and I don’t have balls

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

On certain occasions with the right person I do enjoy my feet worshipped and toes sucked. It’s not essential that it happens but I go with the flow when it does

I’ve recently discovered that I do enjoy a nice cock between my feet

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I would comment on this thread but worried I may put my foot in it…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve come across a few guys that enjoyed playing with feet in and out of stockings. Pictures of soles of the feet and painted toes. I’ve always found it fun

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

A foot massage usually turn's into sex, Mr love's feet and I don't mind my feet given the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve come across a few guys that enjoyed playing with feet in and out of stockings. Pictures of soles of the feet and painted toes. I’ve always found it fun "

As if you couldn't get any sexier

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I love my feet being massaged and my toes sucked during sex

A foot massage is guaranteed to turn me on so I think of it as foreplay. I never thought of it as weird

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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I personally like having my feet kissed ect.

Think it's just a personal thing if they do or don't

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

I put people who hate feet and people who love feet into the same box - both equally bizarre.

If Im into the person - Im into every part of them...

I find it strange to have a particular preference for a body part detached and isolated from the person

anything that reduces a person to an object and a function is not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would comment on this thread but worried I may put my foot in it…"

You don’t want to make an arch enemy of anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh fuck the haters. You can't help what you like! I have a mild one in that I find certain hot women's feet really hot but I don't need them either. (I mean, I do want them to have feet)

But a woman that enjoys them being rubbed and kissed is great. If they don't, also fine. But I don't want footjobs or anything

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Love having my toes sucked and giving a long sensuous oily foot job in a big hot bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my feet being massaged and my toes sucked during sex

A foot massage is guaranteed to turn me on so I think of it as foreplay. I never thought of it as weird "

It really is great foreplay but even in the moment of having sex. I mean, the legs are up there anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love having my toes sucked and giving a long sensuous oily foot job in a big hot bath "

Aaaaaaaaaaand new bucket list item added

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's not bad. To each their own.

It's not for me, but you do what you like.

No foot rub then?"

No thanks

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Oh fuck the haters. You can't help what you like! I have a mild one in that I find certain hot women's feet really hot but I don't need them either. (I mean, I do want them to have feet)

But a woman that enjoys them being rubbed and kissed is great. If they don't, also fine. But I don't want footjobs or anything "

Out of curiosity, how might you cope with a woman who didn't have feet? Amputee, for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care what people are into, but I don't find feet remotely sexy, and my personal experience of people with that particular fetish was that they seemed to forget there was a real live human attached to the feet. For me, it's now an immediate no when mentioned. "

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It's not a bad thing in itself. I'm just not remotely into it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not bad at all. I just think that a lot of people are hardwired into thinking feet are “disgusting” and can’t be sexy. It’s actually a pretty common fetish to have. I don’t have a problem with it and actually enjoy my feet being played with.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Digital mastery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats fair point, not always but have in past. Joined fab to explore it hopefully with more open minded ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly certainly comes with stigma i think which is a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so much weird. I just don't like my feet fucked with. It's not a erogenous zone for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

??????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not at all, increases pleasure to another level depending what u do.

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By *r LickalotapussMan
over a year ago

London

I think it really depends on the feet and their state of wellbeing.

Love giving a massage that starts from the arch of the feet and works up to a ladies hairline.

And glamorous feet on my shoulders always get extra tlc.

Just putting the kettle on, who wants a cuppa...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't weird, but most foot fetish guys I've spoken to are obsessed and disrespectful with it. So it puts people off

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

If you press Reply+quote, it shows which comment you’re replying to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone for your responces.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Reflexology is as far as I will go in regards to my feet being delicately touched, stroked and massaged.

I have no other 'feetish'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reflexology is as far as I will go in regards to my feet being delicately touched, stroked and massaged.

I have no other 'feetish'."

Any other women want to admit to loving it? Just ya know, curious...

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Reflexology is as far as I will go in regards to my feet being delicately touched, stroked and massaged.

I have no other 'feetish'.

Any other women want to admit to loving it? Just ya know, curious... "

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Bruce, don't you dare roll your éyés at me, otherwise I'll shove my foot up your arse. That will be the closest thing you've had to a foot fetish.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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It’s not weird - unless their feet are mucky and smell but it isn’t something I’m interested in. In fact, I try to pretend that there is nothing beyond the ankles

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley


"I would comment on this thread but worried I may put my foot in it…

You don’t want to make an arch enemy of anyone "

These puns are toe-tally getting out of control

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