FabSwingers.com forum: have i set my profile wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ive been on here for a year and i only get messages from men asking if they can suck me off or if i want to use there descreet gloryhole

, im usre i must have set my profile up wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can use messaging filters to prevent them from contacting you, if that's what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah you just a straight bloke you will get more offers from other "straight" guys than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly the "No single men" at the end is a call for them to contact you.

Also, just a suggestion "discreet" and not "descreet" and probably check some of your "yours" and replace them with "you're"

You're welcome.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Use the filters

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Yes, there are some glaring anomalies in your profile. You haven't asked for profile advice and so I don't want to head in that direction unless asked otherwise.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Mine is the same, but I do still get an adrenaline rush when then yellow box pops up. Even if it is from an overweight welder from Catford called ‘BigDave69’….

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yes, there are some glaring anomalies in your profile. You haven't asked for profile advice and so I don't want to head in that direction unless asked otherwise."

I'll echo this.

OP we can tell you if you want but as it's classed as profile advice you need to ask for it.

Asking if you've set it up wrong? All I can say is in my view - yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

is it a rule to ask for advise

but if so please could you advise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell you it says you have six pics yet i cant click on it and get them? I only get one

Strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it a rule to ask for advise

but if so please could you advise."

OP, I think the comment was aimed at my correcting your spelling and pointing out that you had not asked for advice re that aspect.

So it was more pointed at me then you, but if you want advice on your content, you can express that and others will then comment properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can tell you it says you have six pics yet i cant click on it and get them? I only get one

Strange

Five are in his private gallery.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Go to account, message filters, then you'll see something like "Males (can mail you)". Hit "block them" and you'll never get a first message from a man ever again.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"is it a rule to ask for advise

but if so please could you advise."

It is and you just have so here goes.

You have a fair few cock shots. Those will appeal to bi and gay men as much as women. Cock heavy profiles tend to put women off and attract male interest.

You also have selected straight yet are looking for TV's. That's your prerogative but many will consider you at least bicurious hence you're getting attention from men.

You have only one veri, from a man via webcam. Straight men don't tend to cam with other guys.

You've put 'No single men' at the end. If you don't want contact from men just set the message filter to block them. As wll as stopping them from contacting you it'll also add NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN in capitals to your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive been on here for a year and i only get messages from men asking if they can suck me off or if i want to use there descreet gloryhole

, im usre i must have set my profile up wrong."
YOU must have,BUT am sure you can correct that from your account tab ,UNLESS you're hiding secret feeling for men too lol,You are master of your profile The balls are in your court.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Im no Sherlock but I’d guess having a veri from a guy makes other guys think you meet guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

that wasnt a sexual thing but i get your point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

advise noted and profile and fitlers ammended, many thanks all

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Mine is the same, but I do still get an adrenaline rush when then yellow box pops up. Even if it is from an overweight welder from Catford called ‘BigDave69’…."

Hey! Did you even give Big Dave his shot at the big time? He’s actually a bit of a softie and a great cuddler

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

If that's the kind of status you post regularly, it won't help either.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"ive been on here for a year and i only get messages from men asking if they can suck me off or if i want to use there descreet gloryhole

, im usre i must have set my profile up wrong."

I can see clearly why you’d attract such fellows. It almost says as such in your profile but as you haven’t asked for profile advice you’ll just have to look yourself.

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