FabSwingers.com forum: I don’t like you but,….

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Even if you don’t fancy someone can you appreciate when they look good? Or is their look and image (and even a photo) not attractive to you because THEY are not attractive to you.

Have you fabbed peoples photos of people you don’t fancy?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Honestly?

No.

I can see someone and never know them and think they're beautiful. But as soon as I know they're a twat I can't find myself brightened by their appearance.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I only ever fab a pic if I want to attract someone's attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. If I don’t find them attractive I don’t find them attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only ever fab a pic if I want to attract someone's attention "

Is this what they call TACTICAL FABBING?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah. If I don’t find them attractive I don’t find them attractive

But isn’t Art Art?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't find women sexually attractive but I often appreciate the way they look and if I was a fabber of photos I'd probably fab more women than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. If I don’t find them attractive I don’t find them attractive

But isn’t Art Art?

Art is in the eye of the beholder is it not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would but appreciating a good pic or a pic I like doesn't mean I want to jump into bed with someone.

Although can understand people being wary to do so in case others see it as a green light rather than just a fab on a photo.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I only ever fab a pic if I want to attract someone's attention

Is this what they call TACTICAL FABBING? "

'They ' can call it what they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly?

No.

I can see someone and never know them and think they're beautiful. But as soon as I know they're a twat I can't find myself brightened by their appearance."

Yeah, pretty much. If anything the photo is ruined by the person in it

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

I think some people have too much time on their hands...

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I don’t fab pictures as some sort of tactic.

I fab pics that I find, artistic, erotic, sensual, sexy, amusing, sensual and or thought provoking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t fab pictures as some sort of tactic.

I fab pics that I find, artistic, erotic, sensual, sexy, amusing, sensual and or thought provoking.

I’m very similar.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Even if you don’t fancy someone can you appreciate when they look good? Or is their look and image (and even a photo) not attractive to you because THEY are not attractive to you.

Have you fabbed peoples photos of people you don’t fancy? "

Absolutely yes !x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah. If I don’t find them attractive I don’t find them attractive

But isn’t Art Art?

Art is in the eye of the beholder is it not

That’s what I heard.

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

Even if you don't find them sexually attracted you can still think they are good looking.

So answer is yes

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

There was someone on the forums that ended up on my hotlist because they were beautiful and posted good photos.

Then I saw them expressing a particularly abhorrent opinion to me on a thread that was swiftly deleted. And I removed them from my hotlist, because seeing them stopped bringing me any joy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes. It's very rare I fancy someone before I meet them anyway.

But there are people whose photos are fantastic, I fab them because I enjoy them but I don't feel a drip of arousal viewing them. I can appreciate them.

If I don't particularly like a person, I probably wouldn't. Not because I can't appreciate their beauty/photogenic self, it's more, I don't want to.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Even if you don’t fancy someone can you appreciate when they look good? Or is their look and image (and even a photo) not attractive to you because THEY are not attractive to you.

Have you fabbed peoples photos of people you don’t fancy? "

Yep. Good pics are good pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fab pics for various reasons .

Sometimes its to make others feel good

Sometimes it's because I appreciate the effort behind the photo

Sometimes because it made me want to lick my phone screen (those people make my hotlist )

If I want to let someone know I'm interested I might send them a message.

I don't take fabs on my photos as anything other than just that

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

"There was someone on the forums that ended up on my hotlist because they were beautiful and posted good photos.

Then I saw them expressing a particularly abhorrent opinion to me on a thread that was swiftly deleted. And I removed them from my hotlist, because seeing them stopped bringing me any joy."

I totally get this...

Sometimes beautiful and looking great in a pics will not correspond with their personality

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Even if you don’t fancy someone can you appreciate when they look good? Or is their look and image (and even a photo) not attractive to you because THEY are not attractive to you.

Have you fabbed peoples photos of people you don’t fancy? "
If they are attractive and a nice personality in person yes i can appreciate them, if they are attractive and i don't know their personality yes i appreciate their look, if they are attractive but i know and don't like them then i can't bring myself to look at them

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I seek by facial attraction, so yes.

I can find their face not attractive to me, and still appreciate a good look on his body, and If I'm so inclined it may result in a fab

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I can definitely appreciate someone's image when I'm not attracted to them, like photos on here, I don't find myself attracted to men easily but I can appreciate a good photo that's had some effort in.

Generally I only ever find people attractive once I see their personality too.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see beauty in someone that i don't fancy. Take a Picasso painting it's all over the shop, but still has a certain beauty to it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I can appreciate attractiveness without finding someone attractive to me, such that I'll have sex and will fab on this basis.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Even if you don’t fancy someone can you appreciate when they look good? Or is their look and image (and even a photo) not attractive to you because THEY are not attractive to you.

Have you fabbed peoples photos of people you don’t fancy? If they are attractive and a nice personality in person yes i can appreciate them, if they are attractive and i don't know their personality yes i appreciate their look, if they are attractive but i know and don't like them then i can't bring myself to look at them

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and personality is the key but i still have to fancy you sorry, i couldn't stick a paper bag over them and fcuk them

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I see better looking people in the high street than the big film star's that everyone lusts over. There's some stunning people on here too. I tend to fab what I like unless I'm taking part in a game on here then that's different.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I noticed you fabbed me earlier Woody

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I don't find women sexually attractive but I often appreciate the way they look and if I was a fabber of photos I'd probably fab more women than men. "

Same, I love looking at women in lingerie and can totally appreciate the effort they've gone to. I definitely don't fancy them.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Yes, 100%. I can appreciate beauty or hotness even if it doesn't float my personal boat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to find people attractive from photos as I need to see some personality and mannerisms. How they talk, walk, treat the waiter etc. it would be nice to see more videos on here of people introducing themselves, rather than amateur porn (not knocking the action vids btw).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I noticed you fabbed me earlier Woody

this is true. I love your mug.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Depends why I don't like them.

But also I am perfectly capable of appreciating how socially acceptable physically good looking somebody is. But in terms of personally being attracted likely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I think the photo is well taken and/or artistically pleasing to me I'll fab it

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Someone can be aesthetically a 10. but when i see the personality is a 0, they are overall a 0.

However someone who is much less aesthetically pleasing, with a 10 personality goes way up on my rating.

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