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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be honest to everyone I have non smoker on my profile....

But I hate to feel like a hypocrite.

I only like to smoke whilst drinking.

I will sometimes smoke a cigarette if I’m drinking with friends and I see them smoking. This could be 10, 20 times per year.

I have also gotten caught up in the heat of the moment and smoked a cigarette after meeting swingers that smoke...

Now I class myself as a non smoker because I never buy cigarettes to smoke when I'm not going out.

I will never smoke alone....

If cigarettes are not around me , I have no cravings...

I don’t smoke everyday and can go weeks, months without smoking.

So am I a smoker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab non smoker?

Cigarette curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you said you were vegan but had a steak or a burger now and then could you still say you're a vegan?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cigarette curious?"
There is no option for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you said you were vegan but had a steak or a burger now and then could you still say you're a vegan? "
Touche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you said you were vegan but had a steak or a burger now and then could you still say you're a vegan? "

He makes a valid point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you said you were vegan but had a steak or a burger now and then could you still say you're a vegan?

He makes a valid point"
But I wouldn't smell of smoke if I was to meet people who only wanted to meet non smokers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you said you were vegan but had a steak or a burger now and then could you still say you're a vegan? Touche "

Sorry I wasn't trying to sound smart but I don't think you can have a few ciggies now and then and claim not to be a smoker...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you said you were vegan but had a steak or a burger now and then could you still say you're a vegan? Touche

Sorry I wasn't trying to sound smart but I don't think you can have a few ciggies now and then and claim not to be a smoker..."
No fair enough, I get where you're coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you said you were vegan but had a steak or a burger now and then could you still say you're a vegan? Touche

Sorry I wasn't trying to sound smart but I don't think you can have a few ciggies now and then and claim not to be a smoker... No fair enough, I get where you're coming from. "

Thanks. I'm sure you'll get plenty of other views too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be you...you don't need social acceptance. It's a fallacy. Your enjoyment does not outweigh others perceptions. If they can't understand. Well tell them to Fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just be you...you don't need social acceptance. It's a fallacy. Your enjoyment does not outweigh others perceptions. If they can't understand. Well tell them to Fuck off."
So just forget the labels then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social smoker then

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Are you straight if you only fuck men when you're d*unk and it's available?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you straight if you only fuck men when you're d*unk and it's available?"
I would have to say no there.

Is that a similar comparison though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you straight if you only fuck men when you're d*unk and it's available? I would have to say no there.

Is that a similar comparison though?"

A reasonable one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. "
No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?"

Regular doesn't mean frequent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you straight if you only fuck men when you're d*unk and it's available?"

You want a drink?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?"

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Regular doesn't mean frequent."
But it means constant or definite pattern.

When I smoke it is erratic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers. "
Interesting point. Perhaps I'm in denial.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers. Interesting point. Perhaps I'm in denial. "

Definition of non-smoker 'a person who does not smoke tobacco'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers. Interesting point. Perhaps I'm in denial.

Definition of non-smoker 'a person who does not smoke tobacco'. "

Sounds so simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers. Interesting point. Perhaps I'm in denial.

Definition of non-smoker 'a person who does not smoke tobacco'. "
So there is no broad definition of non smoker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Next question?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"If you said you were vegan but had a steak or a burger now and then could you still say you're a vegan?

He makes a valid point But I wouldn't smell of smoke if I was to meet people who only wanted to meet non smokers"

People who smoke _massively_ underestimate how much they smell of smoke to (genuine) non smokers. I guess it is because they are so used to the smell but it does linger and a non smoker can pick it up very easily.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Fab non smoker?

Cigarette curious?"
lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes

Next question?"
If you don't meet smokers and you knew that, would it affect my chances of meeting you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Next question? If you don't meet smokers and you knew that, would it affect my chances of meeting you?"

Yes

Next question

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers. Interesting point. Perhaps I'm in denial.

Definition of non-smoker 'a person who does not smoke tobacco'. So there is no broad definition of non smoker

One either is, or is not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you said you were vegan but had a steak or a burger now and then could you still say you're a vegan?

He makes a valid point But I wouldn't smell of smoke if I was to meet people who only wanted to meet non smokers

You'd never be able to tell.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I have sexual contact with guys a lot less frequently than you seem to smoke OP and I'd never call myself straight, so........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes

Next question? If you don't meet smokers and you knew that, would it affect my chances of meeting you?

Yes

Next question "
Fair enough

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers. Interesting point. Perhaps I'm in denial.

Definition of non-smoker 'a person who does not smoke tobacco'. So there is no broad definition of non smoker

One either is, or is not"
You didn't say that about swingers though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest to everyone I have non smoker on my profile....

But I hate to feel like a hypocrite.

I only like to smoke whilst drinking.

I will sometimes smoke a cigarette if I’m drinking with friends and I see them smoking. This could be 10, 20 times per year.

I have also gotten caught up in the heat of the moment and smoked a cigarette after meeting swingers that smoke...

Now I class myself as a non smoker because I never buy cigarettes to smoke when I'm not going out.

I will never smoke alone....

If cigarettes are not around me , I have no cravings...

I don’t smoke everyday and can go weeks, months without smoking.

So am I a smoker?"

Yes you are sir,

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers. Interesting point. Perhaps I'm in denial.

Definition of non-smoker 'a person who does not smoke tobacco'. So there is no broad definition of non smoker

One either is, or is not You didn't say that about swingers though?

how is that in any way comparable?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"See I wouldn't smell of Smoke for a meet.

You'd never be able to tell. "

So it comes down to whether you can successfully hide it rather than what you actually do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers. Interesting point. Perhaps I'm in denial.

Definition of non-smoker 'a person who does not smoke tobacco'. So there is no broad definition of non smoker

One either is, or is not You didn't say that about swingers though?

how is that in any way comparable?

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I just think that can be black and white too.

Or am I mired in the grey area here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers. Interesting point. Perhaps I'm in denial.

Definition of non-smoker 'a person who does not smoke tobacco'. So there is no broad definition of non smoker

One either is, or is not You didn't say that about swingers though?

how is that in any way comparable?

I just think that can be black and white too.

Or am I mired in the grey area here. "

Who knows. Anyway, you do you as they say.

Good night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"See I wouldn't smell of Smoke for a meet.

You'd never be able to tell.

So it comes down to whether you can successfully hide it rather than what you actually do?"
Am I really hiding it though.

It is such a big deal.

Would it affect your decision to meet if you didn't meet smokers and knew that?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Ooh it was all an analogy.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Am I really hiding it though.

It is such a big deal.

Would it affect your decision to meet if you didn't meet smokers and knew that?"

I smoke. I don't give a shit if people I meet smoke or not, but the situation as it is would put me off.

I dont like to deal with liars. So if I saw someone with non smoker flagged having a smoke on a night out I'd write them off. I'm not vegan but if someone tells me they are then eats a steak then I don't want to deal with them either. If someone says they're a straight man or a lesbian but only sucks 10 to 20 dicks a year, same deal. Own who you are and the choices you make.

If the options are smoker and non smoker, and sometimes you smoke, then you're a smoker.

I'm a smoker, I meet people who don't smoke and who have a preference for fellow non smokers. It's not actually going to limit your potential pool by telling the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you only smoke down the pub, you are still a smoker regardless of the where, when and how many.

However do you need to tell a potential meet? Unless you have been down the pub prior then yes, be upfront (if the person says in their profile they only meet non smokers) because then your potential meet can make an informed choice.

If however you haven't been down the pub and not touched a cigarette for weeks/months then in my opinion there is no need to tell them (unless you are planning on seeing them regularly and a potential pub/club visit may occur and you are tempted).

Hope that helps op x

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Yep, you're a smoker.

I only drink about three times a year but I can't claim to be tee total. No messing about there,

See the definition says 'A person who smokes tobacco regularly' is 10, 20 times a year regular?

Yes.

I don't think it really matters what you say, you can be a smoker with other smokers and a non smoker with non smokers. Interesting point. Perhaps I'm in denial.

Definition of non-smoker 'a person who does not smoke tobacco'. So there is no broad definition of non smoker

One either is, or is not You didn't say that about swingers though?

how is that in any way comparable?

"
Swingers don't cough repeatedly first thing in the morning and say i must be getting a cold

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It really doesn’t make any difference to most people. I smoke occasionally , if they really like you they will meet you and have sex, even if they say they don’t meet smokers. If you like them and it bothers then you won’t smoke when you’re around them.

If smoking is a hard no, you’re just incompatible and won’t like each other anyway !

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Yes, OP. You're a smoker.

I'm a non smoker as I never ever smoke.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd happily meet you as a nonsmoker and be happy if you explained your very occasional lighting up, without feeling deceived.

For true purists to be happy, just add a line to the profile, stating you smoke 10 or so times a year and will declare your most recent 1.

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By *ust JuicyWoman
over a year ago

east london

To call yourself a non smoker seems slightly dishonest but that’s your choice

It’s your profile you can put what you like

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I wouldn't call you a smoker but as you'll see from previous posts on this subject, the anti smokers are all over it. (no shade intended here OK?)

I avoid the posts as much as I can so as not to put my foot in it and cause an endless argument. However seeing as you'd not had many people reply who are smokers thought I'd balance the playing field a little.

I don't drink, I might have 1 glass on my birthday and one for Christmas (literally that's it) but I will not say I'm a drinker.... Regardless of how black and white you make it the whole effort of explaining to someone that I might have 2 glasses a year takes longer to do than saying I don't drink.

I am tired so this may not be making sense but to me you're not a smoker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you only smoke down the pub, you are still a smoker regardless of the where, when and how many.

Hope that helps op x"
You make a good argument.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, OP. You're a smoker.

I'm a non smoker as I never ever smoke.

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Simple as that hey, interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd happily meet you as a nonsmoker and be happy if you explained your very occasional lighting up, without feeling deceived.

For true purists to be happy, just add a line to the profile, stating you smoke 10 or so times a year and will declare your most recent 1."
You are far less judgmental

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't call you a smoker but as you'll see from previous posts on this subject, the anti smokers are all over it. (no shade intended here OK?)

I am tired so this may not be making sense but to me you're not a smoker

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Yes tend to non-smokers calling me a smoker.

Interesting point, that is very small percentage of time spent drinking in a year. People might find it hard to call you a drinker.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Your still a smoker like above you can't claim to be vegan and enjoy a steak, just write in your bio that you only smoke occasionally.

Mrs

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It's not going to be in your breath which is the reason I don't meet smokers so wouldn't have a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace the fact that your a rebel do what you want,it doesn't matter what people think,only ones that matter ate the ones close to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not going to be in your breath which is the reason I don't meet smokers so wouldn't have a problem. "
See, that is my point.

Interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your still a smoker like above you can't claim to be vegan and enjoy a steak, just write in your bio that you only smoke occasionally.

Mrs "
I know, that is a fair point.

If I say occasionally, they might think it would possible for me to smell of smoke etc, when I wouldn't. It is such a dilemma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, think your overthinking this, be honest about it to those potential meets let them then make their decision if they want to meet you or not.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. "
You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Your still a smoker like above you can't claim to be vegan and enjoy a steak, just write in your bio that you only smoke occasionally.

Mrs I know, that is a fair point.

If I say occasionally, they might think it would possible for me to smell of smoke etc, when I wouldn't. It is such a dilemma

Then state clearly you wouldn't smoke prior to a meet, it's not difficult to explain yourself.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab non smoker?

Cigarette curious?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same, very rarely smoke and only in the company of others that do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm the same, very rarely smoke and only in the company of others that do"
But you are a woman, they might go easier on you

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!"

Why do you think that?

You've no idea how I've lived and have based that stupid response on the fact I've never had a smoke or drink?

Are you really that shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm the same, very rarely smoke and only in the company of others that do But you are a woman, they might go easier on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Why do you think that?

You've no idea how I've lived and have based that stupid response on the fact I've never had a smoke or drink?

Are you really that shallow?"
I couldn't trust a man like you.

Incorruptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!"

Wow, unnecessary. If being boring means not being hooked up to an oxygen tank for the later part of your life or not having body organs ravaged by the affects of alcohol give me boring anyday.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes, you're a smoker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Why do you think that?

You've no idea how I've lived and have based that stupid response on the fact I've never had a smoke or drink?

Are you really that shallow? I couldn't trust a man like you.

Incorruptable

Corruption is on the agenda, im thinking trust goes both ways

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I vape but don’t consider myself a smoker - there’s no option for vaping on here but when I was meeting I’d be honest about it. I think it’s important to be transparent and allow a potential meet to make up there own mind as to whether it be an issue for them, from this thread it’s obvious people see things differently and smoking/vaping is a huge no for some just be upfront x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Wow, unnecessary. If being boring means not being hooked up to an oxygen tank for the later part of your life or not having body organs ravaged by the affects of alcohol give me boring anyday."
A person saying they have never tasted alcohol.

Unless you are a very religious person or from a different continent, I don't know many people that haven't tasted alcohol.

Leads me to suspect it isn't the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I vape but don’t consider myself a smoker - there’s no option for vaping on here but when I was meeting I’d be honest about it. I think it’s important to be transparent and allow a potential meet to make up there own mind as to whether it be an issue for them, from this thread it’s obvious people see things differently and smoking/vaping is a huge no for some just be upfront x"

To be fair, and I'm not sure how other non-smokers feel, but I think you're ok with vaping as it's mostly the smell and what it clings to that isn't the most pleasant thing. But with vaping you can different flavours like "Unicorn Farts" or something that isn't so bad

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over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Why do you think that?

You've no idea how I've lived and have based that stupid response on the fact I've never had a smoke or drink?

Are you really that shallow? I couldn't trust a man like you.

Incorruptable

Corruption is on the agenda, im thinking trust goes both ways "
People who don't swear either.

I couldn't trust them.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

This reminds me of the old joke with the punchline:

"But you shag one sheep"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Why do you think that?

You've no idea how I've lived and have based that stupid response on the fact I've never had a smoke or drink?

Are you really that shallow? I couldn't trust a man like you.

Incorruptable

Corruption is on the agenda, im thinking trust goes both ways People who don't swear either.

I couldn't trust them. "

I'd look at your trust issues my friend, as the things your not trusting through, are pretty insignificant things....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Unless you are a very religious person or from a different continent, I don't know many people that haven't tasted alcohol.

Leads me to suspect it isn't the truth. "

How judgemental....I have never drank either, watching what alcohol abuse does to someone can have an effect like that

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Unless you are a very religious person or from a different continent, I don't know many people that haven't tasted alcohol.

Leads me to suspect it isn't the truth. "

What it actually means is that I have the courage of my convictions and have never been swayed by my peers.

I didn't need to drink or smoke to be a man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Unless you are a very religious person or from a different continent, I don't know many people that haven't tasted alcohol.

Leads me to suspect it isn't the truth.

How judgemental....I have never drank either, watching what alcohol abuse does to someone can have an effect like that

"
The odds on you two who both haven't tasted alcohol and being in the same thread must be astronomical.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Unless you are a very religious person or from a different continent, I don't know many people that haven't tasted alcohol.

Leads me to suspect it isn't the truth.

What it actually means is that I have the courage of my convictions and have never been swayed by my peers.

I didn't need to drink or smoke to be a man. "
You sound very noble, you may have a future career in Politics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Unless you are a very religious person or from a different continent, I don't know many people that haven't tasted alcohol.

Leads me to suspect it isn't the truth.

How judgemental....I have never drank either, watching what alcohol abuse does to someone can have an effect like that

The odds on you two who both haven't tasted alcohol and being in the same thread must be astronomical.

Who'd of thunked it hey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a non smoker as I've never smoked, not even once.

I'm also a non drinker as I've never tasted alcohol.

I'm straight because I've never even had a sexual thought about another man.

How others want to describe themselves has no bearing on me whatsoever unless they are deliberately trying to deceive me. You sound a little boring.

You have not lived!

Unless you are a very religious person or from a different continent, I don't know many people that haven't tasted alcohol.

Leads me to suspect it isn't the truth.

How judgemental....I have never drank either, watching what alcohol abuse does to someone can have an effect like that

The odds on you two who both haven't tasted alcohol and being in the same thread must be astronomical.

Who'd of thunked it hey"
I shall have to do the lottery and bet every race at Cheltenham today.

My luck is obviously in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love the self-filtering process, some put themselves through, gotta admire the sieving nature of the Forum...outstanding

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I do love the self-filtering process, some put themselves through, gotta admire the sieving nature of the Forum...outstanding "

Good isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love the self-filtering process, some put themselves through, gotta admire the sieving nature of the Forum...outstanding

Good isn't it?"

A valuable tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest to everyone I have non smoker on my profile....

But I hate to feel like a hypocrite.

I only like to smoke whilst drinking.

I will sometimes smoke a cigarette if I’m drinking with friends and I see them smoking. This could be 10, 20 times per year.

I have also gotten caught up in the heat of the moment and smoked a cigarette after meeting swingers that smoke...

Now I class myself as a non smoker because I never buy cigarettes to smoke when I'm not going out.

I will never smoke alone....

If cigarettes are not around me , I have no cravings...

I don’t smoke everyday and can go weeks, months without smoking.

So am I a smoker?"

If ya smoke ..ya smoke...the level is the only thing..you might be are a heavy smoker ..a light smoker or a now and again Smoker but a smoker non the less.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I've never tried a cigarette. Never taken an illegal drug or "legal high". I did drink a bit as a youngster now, but nowadays I might have one or two cocktails on holiday, that's one or two cocktails per year. I'm very happy with my life, thank you very much.

If someone thinks that makes me boring, then they couldn't be further from the truth, but it's an excellent filter of them and me being incompatible

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often get contacted by people asking to meet whose profile says … won’t meet smokers… we explain that we are both smokers as clearly stated on our profile then they say they will meet smokers. Makes us very wary. Same with the profiles that say straight then you see them in chat offering to suck off a guy. Personally I think if you don’t intend to smoke before or during a meet with somebody who won’t meet smokers it’s fine to call yourself a non-smoker

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes you're a smoker ,even if an occasional one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes you're a smoker ,even if an occasional one."
I guess it's that simple.

I've been living in denial then for so long

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