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By *uthenticDreams OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

Sex addiction is something not often mentioned when discussing general addiction issues. People who have an addiction to sex are very often told how ‘lucky’ they are to have high libidos and their partners are encouraged to make use of the increased sex drive as much as possible.

The truth behind sex addiction, however, is as dark as it is with any kind of addiction.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I get dreadful headaches if I stop drinking coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely dark, and there’s a distinct misinterpretation of “loving sex and having as much as you can” and being “addicted”.

Addictions are life changing, and cause serious health issues.

There needs to be far more discussions around sex addiction, but also addictions in general. They’re hugely misunderstood

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a fair few people who claim to have a sex addiction but actually just like shagging. Not the same

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By *uthenticDreams OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

So true It’s a Rabbit hole of trying to control

But it’s Like a drug needs to be more Help there must be plenty out there ,

Takes over my thinking some days , Madness

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I have friends who tell me I'm a sex addict. I'm not. I just enjoy sex and am fortunate to be able to find it easily.

Addiction in all forms is debilitating.

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By *uthenticDreams OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"I see a fair few people who claim to have a sex addiction but actually just like shagging. Not the same "

I actually think or talk my self into I love shagging then other days it’s like I can’t keep doing this again it can control my days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So true It’s a Rabbit hole of trying to control

But it’s Like a drug needs to be more Help there must be plenty out there ,

Takes over my thinking some days , Madness

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I have no reason to doubt you ... I would suggest you seek help. SLAA maybe?

Any addiction can be destructive and often suggest you have some trauma or something missing from your childhood that is being covered up.

But also, addiction doesn't define you. It's often serving a purpose. It's maladaptive but it's seeking to do some good in a strange way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just enjoy sex and am fortunate to be able to find it easily.

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Ah, not as easy for men.

More time would consumed searching.

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By *uthenticDreams OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester


"So true It’s a Rabbit hole of trying to control

But it’s Like a drug needs to be more Help there must be plenty out there ,

Takes over my thinking some days , Madness

I have no reason to doubt you ... I would suggest you seek help. SLAA maybe?

Any addiction can be destructive and often suggest you have some trauma or something missing from your childhood that is being covered up.

But also, addiction doesn't define you. It's often serving a purpose. It's maladaptive but it's seeking to do some good in a strange way.

"

Cheers Will look into that

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


" I just enjoy sex and am fortunate to be able to find it easily.

Ah, not as easy for men.

More time would consumed searching."

I'm more than happy to be celibate rather than settle for mediocrity. But I'm extra lucky to have my partners

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


" I just enjoy sex and am fortunate to be able to find it easily.

Ah, not as easy for men.

More time would consumed searching.

I'm more than happy to be celibate rather than settle for mediocrity. But I'm extra lucky to have my partners "

Mediocrity is my middle name!

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