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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Found out a work colleague had the hots for me!

Got in touch, thought she was very genuine, next thing I know she left me hanging all day, didn’t reply, message,

By night time finally messaged to say she went on a date with the ideal guy, and couldn’t go ahead with meeting me anymore! Never felt soo jilted before any idea on how best to get over her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure you weren’t just being messed about?

Sounds a bit suspect to me.

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By *obshortMan
over a year ago

Cork

Definitely sounds like a setup to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No was very genuine for what it was worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhhh that is rough, I’m so so sorry to hear that x

How closely do you work with her? Do you see her everyday? In a way, this might be fate that made this happen. You could find a better job out of it…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you were plan b. If that was the case, you had a good escape and hopefully Ms Right will be along soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Found out a work colleague had the hots for me!

Got in touch, thought she was very genuine, next thing I know she left me hanging all day, didn’t reply, message,

By night time finally messaged to say she went on a date with the ideal guy, and couldn’t go ahead with meeting me anymore! Never felt soo jilted before any idea on how best to get over her? "

Sorry to hear dude, but move on, she clearly has

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were paired up working on same units took her under my wing as was a very new starter, kept my feelings for her on a very professional level, only found out on Saturday this week went out with her and a genuine mutual friend who set up our meet saying we would be a match made in heaven

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like you were plan b. If that was the case, you had a good escape and hopefully Ms Right will be along soon x"

As long as ms right’s first name isn’t “always.“

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Sadly sounds like you were just an option. Her loss plenty more fish in the sea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's that fickle then you've probably dodged a bullet. Don't let it get you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like you were plan b. If that was the case, you had a good escape and hopefully Ms Right will be along soon x

As long as ms right’s first name isn’t “always.“"

Lol! I certainly hope not x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you guys for your help puts it a lot into perspective for me

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By *oah VailMan
over a year ago

Dover


"If she's that fickle then you've probably dodged a bullet. Don't let it get you down. "

This.

Lucky escape I’d say.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Sleep with someone she know ) or more than one ) my bad

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Found out a work colleague had the hots for me!

Got in touch, thought she was very genuine, next thing I know she left me hanging all day, didn’t reply, message,

By night time finally messaged to say she went on a date with the ideal guy, and couldn’t go ahead with meeting me anymore! Never felt soo jilted before any idea on how best to get over her? "

Sorry, but is there really anything to get over? From what you've posted you went out with her once.

There was no relationship. No commitment. Nothing to stop either of you deciding not to continue anything.

If that experience is something greater than any you've had before (just going by your use of the word 'never') then that means you've not actually been in a relationship before.

Sorry OP but this scenario is more like the kind you experience at school where you fancy someone for a while, they think they like you too, you go on a date and they change their mind.

If that sounds harsh then apologies. But this isn't a relationship break up - one never started.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that happened to you the best thing you could do is act like it doesn’t bother you at all that will really get to her.

It’s happened to alot of us and especially when you work with her and could be embarrassing as much as you have every right to feel that way or let down. I’d probably feel the same if I was you.

( don’t let anyone tell you how you should feel)

She doesn’t sound the nicest of people so I would definitely say she done you a favour.

Move onto better things

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Found out a work colleague had the hots for me!

Got in touch, thought she was very genuine, next thing I know she left me hanging all day, didn’t reply, message,

By night time finally messaged to say she went on a date with the ideal guy, and couldn’t go ahead with meeting me anymore! Never felt soo jilted before any idea on how best to get over her? "
alcohol its the only way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Found out a work colleague had the hots for me!

Got in touch, thought she was very genuine, next thing I know she left me hanging all day, didn’t reply, message,

By night time finally messaged to say she went on a date with the ideal guy, and couldn’t go ahead with meeting me anymore! Never felt soo jilted before any idea on how best to get over her?

Sorry, but is there really anything to get over? From what you've posted you went out with her once.

There was no relationship. No commitment. Nothing to stop either of you deciding not to continue anything.

If that experience is something greater than any you've had before (just going by your use of the word 'never') then that means you've not actually been in a relationship before.

Sorry OP but this scenario is more like the kind you experience at school where you fancy someone for a while, they think they like you too, you go on a date and they change their mind.

If that sounds harsh then apologies. But this isn't a relationship break up - one never started.

A"

It just would have been better if she had given me a little time to woo her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One date and she’s decided he’s ideal?

She makes rash judgements. You don’t need those.

She has a shopping list of wants. You got your own.

She saw you as a back up. You’re not a back up. Life ain’t a cop show.

She moved faster. You stay in your lane.

She will txt you to pick it up. You’re busy baby.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very well noted thank you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be that she decided not to mix her work, and her social life. Which isn't a bad decision in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be that she decided not to mix her work, and her social life. Which isn't a bad decision in my opinion. "

Nah we both left work for ages me about two years ago and her a little bit before that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like you were plan b. If that was the case, you had a good escape and hopefully Ms Right will be along soon x"

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