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By *ultured Gent16 OP   Man
over a year ago

close.

What’s the one thing or main reason that a woman’s profile rules you out of sending a message?

Mine is probably being a smoker.

Many people obviously won’t meet a smoker.

What’s yours?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don’t like smokers either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they sound like a moany cow. And they're a smoker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word fit anywhere within it

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I don't like smokers but make rule they don't smoke near me .that they use mouthwash and mints .then I'm open to them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling or grammatical mistakes in their profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"The word fit anywhere within it "
what if she said “your cock will fit in well, big boy”?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"What’s the one thing or main reason that a woman’s profile rules you out of sending a message?

Mine is probably being a smoker.

Many people obviously won’t meet a smoker.

What’s yours? "

A huge list of demands or a negative profile.

Mrs

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

You haven’t asked what makes women not message men. But I’ll answer as I’m sure it was just an oversight.

All cock & no content.

420

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Won't meet smokers"

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I say I won’t meet smokers but if the chemistry is there I have. It’s not like they smoke the whole meet, maybe just the one

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"You haven’t asked what makes women not message men. But I’ll answer as I’m sure it was just an oversight.

All cock & no content.

420

"

This for me also and when they use text speak in their bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say I won’t meet smokers but if the chemistry is there I have. It’s not like they smoke the whole meet, maybe just the one "

I like to make sure I leave them smoking after I've pumped them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Won't meet smokers" "

. Dammit another nail in my coffin

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Well there're many reasons.

- I don't find them attractive

- Doesn't like TV/CD or Bi guys

- Only interested in hung guys

- Only interested in BBC

- Only looking for strong dominant types/likes to be dominated

- Is cheating on partner

- No profile pics + shit bio.

I know that's more than one reason, but they are all equal to me as any one of them shows that we are not compatible and won't be a good match for each other.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

‘BBC only’ rules me out as my cock is neither big or black.

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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago

.

One put off for us as a couple - (not that you asked)

Been addressed in first message a a singular such as “babe”. “Love”. “Gorgeous”. Etc Totally disrespectful and block..

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Also, the whole ‘no Asians / blacks, it’s my preference’ etc I find very unattractive and a massive turn off.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"What’s the one thing or main reason that a woman’s profile rules you out of sending a message?

Mine is probably being a smoker.

Many people obviously won’t meet a smoker.

What’s yours? "

A big list of what’ll get you blocked/banned instead of anything interesting to read.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Haven't sent an opening message to a woman in 3 years so what she has on her profile is irrelevant in regards to that.

I reply to every message I receive but how I reply can often be dictated by lack of consistency in their profile, who they've been verified by or a well publicised history of drama.

Their forum engagement, if any, can also be off-putting.

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By *ultured Gent16 OP   Man
over a year ago

close.

My apologies.

I didn’t mean to rule out any gender persuasion.

Simply asking what you read in other people’s profiles that puts you off or a reason you won’t message someone because of their preferences.

No offence meant to anyone on account of gender or relationship status.

Wow. It really is 2023 isn’t it.

There was a time I wouldn’t have been pulled up for a slip of the tongue.

That’s what she said….

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Not being 6ft or taller

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By *ultured Gent16 OP   Man
over a year ago

close.

Well.

I’m not gym fit.

I’m a smoker.

I’m average in the trouser department.

I’m a white British Caucasian.

And I’m in my 40’s.

Guess I should pretty much hang up my profile and retire to FabSingers.

But I can’t sing either…

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By *issPlayfulCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Guess I'm not liked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You haven’t asked what makes women not message men. But I’ll answer as I’m sure it was just an oversight.

All cock & no content.

420

"

Wait what? Women message men?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Any mention of pay to play or 420

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By *olvespairCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"One put off for us as a couple - (not that you asked)

Been addressed in first message a a singular such as “babe”. “Love”. “Gorgeous”. Etc Totally disrespectful and block..

"

Definitely - they're are two of us not just Laura.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Nothing really in there profile but not keen on. Ugly or bald people and I maybe wrong but this is why lot of people can not find a meet people are just to nice to tell the truth.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"What’s the one thing or main reason that a woman’s profile rules you out of sending a message?

Mine is probably being a smoker.

Many people obviously won’t meet a smoker.

What’s yours? "

She's straight

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Other than smoking, bald men.

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By *ultured Gent16 OP   Man
over a year ago

close.

Wow it’s a picky old world.

Whatever happened to nature and just being of the same species??

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Probably those who use Charlie or hard stuff like it

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Of me messaging a woman? A rant profile, they've presumed in their rant that all men are the same

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By *ultured Gent16 OP   Man
over a year ago

close.


"Of me messaging a woman? A rant profile, they've presumed in their rant that all men are the same "

Amen brother…

Misogynistic creatures….

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I won’t message unless someone has winked, liked something or visited my profile on a number of occasions. After which I’ll assume they’ve seen something they like (though doesn’t always get a response in return, which is ok)

In terms of a profile the main thing is an immediate list of relatively innocuous things that if you do then woe betide you - blocked.

I get why people do it, and you’d hope people have manners to begin with (likely where my assumption fails) but it does make me second guess

The other two would be not verified by admin or verified by another user who in turn is not verified by admin etc etc. Wouldn’t necessarily stop me messaging but makes me a little cautious

And very new profiles. They already get bombarded with unwanted (I imagine messages) I don’t need to add my two penneth

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