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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One guy said to me sorry you are too close people will see... only thing is I know the guy He has no public picture but sent me one when I rejoined fabswingers (new profile no pics uploaded).

He is my mum's ex-partner (very secretive) all the time they were together I had a funny feeling that he swung both ways he always went quiet when same-sex partners' conversation was happening and he used to leave the room making excuses he has things to do. He also had a male friend that he went on long-distance traveling (Driving) he also left the home when my "friend" came around. (I guess he may know him in the sexual sense and did not want to be exposed)

should I confront him and tell him what I know or keep it secret...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy said to me sorry you are too close people will see... only thing is I know the guy He has no public picture but sent me one when I rejoined fabswingers (new profile no pics uploaded).

He is my mum's ex-partner (very secretive) all the time they were together I had a funny feeling that he swung both ways he always went quiet when same-sex partners' conversation was happening and he used to leave the room making excuses he has things to do. He also had a male friend that he went on long-distance traveling (Driving) he also left the home when my "friend" came around. (I guess he may know him in the sexual sense and did not want to be exposed)

should I confront him and tell him what I know or keep it secret...? "

No, leave him have his privacy. Would you appreciate someone calling you out?

Not your monkey, not your circus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy said to me sorry you are too close people will see... only thing is I know the guy He has no public picture but sent me one when I rejoined fabswingers (new profile no pics uploaded).

He is my mum's ex-partner (very secretive) all the time they were together I had a funny feeling that he swung both ways he always went quiet when same-sex partners' conversation was happening and he used to leave the room making excuses he has things to do. He also had a male friend that he went on long-distance traveling (Driving) he also left the home when my "friend" came around. (I guess he may know him in the sexual sense and did not want to be exposed)

should I confront him and tell him what I know or keep it secret...?

No, leave him have his privacy. Would you appreciate someone calling you out?

Not your monkey, not your circus"

Exactly this - well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has his reasons to keep quiet. Just respect them.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

I’m not even sure why you would say anything to him.

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

Why would you even think about it??

You have no right to out anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One guy said to me sorry you are too close people will see... only thing is I know the guy He has no public picture but sent me one when I rejoined fabswingers (new profile no pics uploaded).

He is my mum's ex-partner (very secretive) all the time they were together I had a funny feeling that he swung both ways he always went quiet when same-sex partners' conversation was happening and he used to leave the room making excuses he has things to do. He also had a male friend that he went on long-distance traveling (Driving) he also left the home when my "friend" came around. (I guess he may know him in the sexual sense and did not want to be exposed)

should I confront him and tell him what I know or keep it secret...? "
it was just a question... No need to the bitchy replies.

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here


"One guy said to me sorry you are too close people will see... only thing is I know the guy He has no public picture but sent me one when I rejoined fabswingers (new profile no pics uploaded).

He is my mum's ex-partner (very secretive) all the time they were together I had a funny feeling that he swung both ways he always went quiet when same-sex partners' conversation was happening and he used to leave the room making excuses he has things to do. He also had a male friend that he went on long-distance traveling (Driving) he also left the home when my "friend" came around. (I guess he may know him in the sexual sense and did not want to be exposed)

should I confront him and tell him what I know or keep it secret...? it was just a question... No need to the bitchy replies. "

Not bitchy at all...just defending someone's absolute right to privacy

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"One guy said to me sorry you are too close people will see... only thing is I know the guy He has no public picture but sent me one when I rejoined fabswingers (new profile no pics uploaded).

He is my mum's ex-partner (very secretive) all the time they were together I had a funny feeling that he swung both ways he always went quiet when same-sex partners' conversation was happening and he used to leave the room making excuses he has things to do. He also had a male friend that he went on long-distance traveling (Driving) he also left the home when my "friend" came around. (I guess he may know him in the sexual sense and did not want to be exposed)

should I confront him and tell him what I know or keep it secret...? it was just a question... No need to the bitchy replies. "

Nobody is being bitchy.

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By *atthew78Man
over a year ago

Winsford

Let him have his secret, he may not be ready to be out

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Just leave him be he's not harming anyone, he just values his privacy which he has every right to.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s not your thing to tell so be like Dad and keep mum*

* 1940’s reference…

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Erm......he sent you a message?

So he'll have viewed your profile and seen your face clearly visible in the photos.

How could he not know it's you and that you will therefore have read his profile and message?

I'm seriously confused here.......

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep quiet.

Mum's EX partner so none of your business.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Erm......he sent you a message?

So he'll have viewed your profile and seen your face clearly visible in the photos.

How could he not know it's you and that you will therefore have read his profile and message?

I'm seriously confused here.......

A"

The glasses and beard are REAL??!!!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Obi Fox, He said he had a new profile with no pics at the time.

But OP, why on earth would you “confront” him? Sounds, well, confrontational. It could backfire if he says your mum knew all along and regularly helped him suck cocks in the local woods.

And if someone gives you a clear and concise reply, that’s not being bitchy. You asked, they said.

Gbat

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By *arktightsMan
over a year ago

banchory


"Obi Fox, He said he had a new profile with no pics at the time.

But OP, why on earth would you “confront” him? Sounds, well, confrontational. It could backfire if he says your mum knew all along and regularly helped him suck cocks in the local woods.

And if someone gives you a clear and concise reply, that’s not being bitchy. You asked, they said.

Gbat "

Exactly this. Why even consider the discussion…?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Obi Fox, He said he had a new profile with no pics at the time.

But OP, why on earth would you “confront” him? Sounds, well, confrontational. It could backfire if he says your mum knew all along and regularly helped him suck cocks in the local woods.

And if someone gives you a clear and concise reply, that’s not being bitchy. You asked, they said.

Gbat "

I saw that bit. But do you really think that he won't have subsequently viewed the profile?

People generally browse more than once. Unless the OP blocked him he'd come up in subsequent searches and would have been recognisable by his profile photo.

Given the length of time the OP has been on site and the fact he's now asking for advice am I wrong to suspect it likely that the message sender has most likely viewed the OP's profile again since sending the message?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to "out" someone?

Not your buisness.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Move on. Block.. Keep life simple

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Leave alone ,he deserves his privacy and if they're not together why does it matter ?.

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