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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

love. Yep, had to do it. Not sorry.

Anyway, what feelings do you find addictive? Are there certain emotions/feelings that you find thrilling and you can't get enough of them?

Do you find it quite easy to find people who ignite those feelings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd quite like some self worth.

I could get used to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm addicted to feeling appreciated and praised. Not being told directly though, but by hearing it said to someone else about me. Somehow it just feels better, almost as if they actually meant it because they told someone else

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I'd quite like some self worth.

I could get used to that"
awwww but it would be empty on here...... So they say....... You've got to love yourself before anyone can love you, that be a true saying that be, said in my best country accent

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I'd quite like some self worth.

I could get used to that"

Oh Jennie. I hope you find that, it's easier typed than done sometimes isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sensation you get when.... You eat something that is truly delicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m well, I might as well face it….

. Love was lovely, and to say I don’t enjoy would be stupid. Of course it was nice and the reason I can’t let go.

Addicted? Hell no, I don’t want to take that hit ever again, but if someone slipped it into my cup without me knowing…..what could I do about it?

*not the safest analogy, I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"love. Yep, had to do it. Not sorry.

Anyway, what feelings do you find addictive? Are there certain emotions/feelings that you find thrilling and you can't get enough of them?

Do you find it quite easy to find people who ignite those feelings? "

I find feelings overwhelming and alien, I used to want to run away from them but discovered if I step left they step left with me...

So I can't say I'm.addicted to any feelings

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle

addicted to bass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....you're gonna have to face it you're addicted to love ...

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Misery. I feel more at home with misery.

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Hy pno sissy Training porn and hosiery are my weakness

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Probably lust. It's a marvellous feeling.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Probably lust. It's a marvellous feeling. "

What a feeling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling desired and wanted

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"love. Yep, had to do it. Not sorry.

Anyway, what feelings do you find addictive? Are there certain emotions/feelings that you find thrilling and you can't get enough of them?

Do you find it quite easy to find people who ignite those feelings? "

I think I’ve only ever been truly in love twice in my life. One woman I had a relationship with which she finished, the other never went anywhere.

I’d love to be addicted to love. I’d love to make myself vulnerable to someone and experience that total connection.

Until that time, I’m addicted to lust. That feeling you get when you just have to have someone. I’d say I’m only average in finding those people, but there are some people on fab that have given me a hint it’s there.

I also like people noticing me. Sometimes I feel pretty anonymous on fab and in life, so it’s heartening to feel noticed and appreciated (not a cry for sympathy!)

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

"Feeling desired and wanted "

Can’t remember what that feels like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The feeling of great sex. I'm talking couple hours of pure hot sex then have a take out sleep and go again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably lust. It's a marvellous feeling.

What a feeling!

Take your passion and make it happen

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Carbs unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust for me

The point you lose control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Praise

I like feeling appreciated and being told when I’ve done something good. Not just during sex but in everyday life as well.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Feeling appreciated, feeling comfortable with someone and feeling safe.

Mrs

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'd say Zen feelings and emotions. Which is either achieved through yoga or my bdsm

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I'm addicted to feeling appreciated and praised. Not being told directly though, but by hearing it said to someone else about me. Somehow it just feels better, almost as if they actually meant it because they told someone else

Joe you're so lovely. Truly are.

I understand this completely though - if someone wants to talk so positively about you to another, you must have had a good impact on them. It's like enjoying a film - you know you're really enjoying it when you recommend it to another.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"That sensation you get when.... You eat something that is truly delicious"

Yes. Like mini eggs directly from the fridge. Or tartiflette.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Joe you're so lovely. Truly are.

Fully agree with Joe on that one too.

They have no reason to praise you to another person, it's extra effort for almost zero benefit to them. Other than they mean that praise, and it's high enough to "brag" about to another person.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Praise

I like feeling appreciated and being told when I’ve done something good. Not just during sex but in everyday life as well. "

That’s a really good post, Mrs.

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By *undaLinaTV/TS
over a year ago

Streatham

"Carbs unfortunately."

You and me both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cheese cheddars, once you start

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I’m well, I might as well face it….

. Love was lovely, and to say I don’t enjoy would be stupid. Of course it was nice and the reason I can’t let go.

Addicted? Hell no, I don’t want to take that hit ever again, but if someone slipped it into my cup without me knowing…..what could I do about it?

*not the safest analogy, I know.

Woody.

I think love is a tad addictive. How it makes us feel. The people we become when we're loved by someone and happy in that love.

Opening up to being loved is scary. All of the what ifs, the cup slipping might be a good idea (although yeah, slightly awful analogy!).

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

The feeling of a womans cool hands running down my body and gripping my loverod before whispering … you’ve hidden a chicken wing in your pants again haven’t you???

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By *s2pervsCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Riding waves...the glide and the slide, the order in the chaos...dancing in Mother Nature's ballroom...addicted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Praise

I like feeling appreciated and being told when I’ve done something good. Not just during sex but in everyday life as well.

That’s a really good post, Mrs.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

When i was a professional musician i always found praise difficult to know how to respond to - if someone said you’re an amazing guitar player - thankyou that’s really appreciated was my stock reply because I actually felt uncomfortable but some were waaaay over the top and that was more difficult because off stage I was/am quite happy in my own company and that just made me a bit embarrassed. Its good to get recognition for a job well done though.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Humour and smiles.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Probably lust. It's a marvellous feeling. "

That feeling of attraction definitely... The butterflies and other flutters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might as well face it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

That balance of love and lust

I love those butterflies when I'm looking forward to spending time with one of my favourite people. That sharp bright lust and need that bites through everything, but softened with the edges of genuine affection. That glazed over literally drooling at the thought of tasting them again while still just feeling genuine joy at the prospect of being in their company and enjoying who they really are and not just the things they do to me.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Polo's and cheesecake but not polo flavour cheesecake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joe you're so lovely. Truly are.

Exactly, I think having a good enough impact on someone for them to then tell someone else really can be the highest compliment they can pay you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joe you're so lovely. Truly are.

Fully agree with Joe on that one too.

They have no reason to praise you to another person, it's extra effort for almost zero benefit to them. Other than they mean that praise, and it's high enough to "brag" about to another person. "

Exactly this, they don't have to praise you or talk about you in a kind way to anyone else but hearing stories about someone who did it just makes me feel all warm inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was, at one point, addicted to no strings, ad-hoc, anonymous sex

I don't mean like once in a while, I mean like several times a week, every week

No planning, no forethought, no flirting, no foreplay, just meet and get it on

I often think I have largely passed the stage and then wham, the urge is back again

I guess it is the equivalent of a relapse for an ex drinker

Being here helps to stem the urge to be fair - whereas joining somewhere where I know that kind of sex would be easy to access would be too much of an opportunity

Fab levels me

And you won't hear that very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am trying to get myself addicted to the feelings of when you are organised and get all the work done in on time and that mad relief you feel, but to get it a week before the bloody deadline at least. That sweet happiness that you are free and organised and efficient and amazing, and now have earned your rest. Those feelings. I am doing it with all sorts of little tasks too, and I think I am finally getting it. Saves me falling back on the longing ache of lust that would be my usual go to

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By *r LickalotapussMan
over a year ago

Stansted Airport

It's hard, it's yummy, its for sharing... it's chocolate.

Rock, paper, scissors for the last piece...

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Being in lust. That feeling of excitement you get when you just have to look at them and the juices starts flowing, when you could straddle them and smooch their face for days.

I do like that.

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By *amhorniestMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I'm addicted to salad cream sandwiches... but I'm sure it's just a phase

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