FabSwingers.com forum: Thong bikini in a family resort

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Yes. It's just butt cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Remember to shave them first though (I am assuming that this is Harry asking)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect a lot of the other women will give the evil eye, and you’ll hear at least one ‘Mummy, why has that lady got her bum cheeks out?’ but if you don’t care about that, go for it!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion "

Is this Mr or Mrs asking? It may affect my answer........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion "

Having seen yours, they are always ok out

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It's fine in our view. If you go on the regular (aka non nudist) beach, children will see boobs out etc. So long as the actual lady parts are properly covered, it's fine. We did see an example on our last hol of an ill fitting thong bikini - not a good look

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Go to a nude beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't care. It's a bum. It's not like you're walking around in the nude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really. Saw plenty of topless ladies around the pools and on the beaches during family holidays when I was a wee schoolboy, many of whom caught my keen attention, but they were never frowned upon and it was at their own discretion. I suspect many were German however. As for butt cheeks, as long as you’re not shoving your arse in peoples faces, and just laying on the lounger, God gave us our butts to do as we please, so go for it!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes of course it is x

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion "
I go to nudist beaches and people wear clothes and take their kids i mean who'd have thought

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

It's totally fine, who cares what others think

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By *r LickalotapussMan
over a year ago

Stansted Airport

Depends on local culture behaviours too.

If you are in Spain for instance, it's quite normal.

You wouldn't do it in Dubai.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's totally fine, who cares what others think"

I guess the OP does though, or they wouldn’t have asked

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

I think it’s considered acceptable, and quite common. I sometimes wonder how society deems what’s ok - as it’s like wearing skimpy underwear round town. But there you go.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

It's always going to be a tricky one.

There really is no right or wrong, Okat or not okay. It's just individual view.

First thing you need to think of though is, would you care what your kids saw? Even us without kids can have an idea of what we feel we would mind what our own crotch gremlins saw if we had any.

I personally wouldn't care, high chance they will have seen it on TV at some point. Can't keep them away from the world forever. It won't scar them for life.

There will always be at least 1 person that won't like it. That can't be avoid in a situation like this. So be prepared for that regardless.

Is there a resort/hotel policy about it, some actually do limit exposure.

Bottom line (pun!) if you feel you want/have to do it there, then do it.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"It's totally fine, who cares what others think

I guess the OP does though, or they wouldn’t have asked

I'd understand if the question was boobs out or not, but I don't see why a thong is a problem

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do *you* think it's ok? If so do it if not don't

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Yeah just got for it.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=M-m4w_mAxWA

Attitudes change and eventually people will get over seeing bum cheeks the way they got over seeing women in bikinis.

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

your cheeks your choice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion "
No, don't think it's an appropriate setting.

I would be probably be happy to see it myself but it would be uncomfortable for other guests.

Especially jealous wives, gfs etc.

You would be starting WW3

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Yeah it’s fine

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Depends on which country you will be in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, there's no dress code.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Depends on which country you will be in."

Very good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lying down sunbathing seems okay...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answered orginally above in the general sense as opposed to my own personal preference.

(I like naturist/nudist choices)

But I see it as a matter of consent.

If I went to a topless beach I'd be aware and consenting to see boobs.

If I went to a nudist beach I'd be consenting to seeing all.

If I go to a family beach there is no expectation of consent.

You may see a bare ass as nothing much but not everyone there will be happy to see ass cheeks or boobs that aren't their own or their partner's.

It's respecting these social considerations that makes us kind and thoughtful humans sharing public spaces.

Just be thoughtful and considerate and everyone has a great time.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its really hard to predict until you have your audience, some really won't care, some will have hatred eyes

I was once asked to pull my skirt lower in tescos, by an older lady as she thought my skirt was too short, I did point out I had shorts on underneath it, whilst I refused her request

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

It’s not acceptable at our local swimming pool. There are signs. That make it clear what type of swimwear are acceptable and which are not.

Some will be offended, some won’t. Do you want to offend people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dads there will enjoy it I’m sure!!

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Is it an Itsy Bitsy Teenie Weenie Yellow Polka Dot Bikini by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously all women should cover themselves from head to toe with respect of their husband, whom holds sole right to the use of their body.

Or not. Maybe just a bit, depending on who you are deciding just how...

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By *itIrishCplCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I wear my string bikinis anytime on the beach. Any beach.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes of course it is

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

Just seen a couple of your pics.

So hell yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm unsure, show what you're thinking of wearing all I'll decide

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By *r N Mrs BobCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion "

I always wear a tho g bikini on our holidays, whether with family or not, as others have said as long as everywhere else is covered then it’s just a bum x

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By *remiumbondMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

Yes ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion

I always wear a tho g bikini on our holidays, whether with family or not, as others have said as long as everywhere else is covered then it’s just a bum x"
If looks could kill they probably will.

I bet you especially, piss a lot of women in those environments off.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I wouldn’t mind betting that more people will be pissed off at their other halves for staring at your arse than for it being displayed in front of kids!!

Same answer for if it was the Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a family resort. Have consideration for families and show respect.

If you want an all over tan find a nudist beach or go to the sunbeds.

It's a family resort......

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By *rDxxMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Well , its one of the perks isn't it when on a family holiday abroad checking out some hot ass in a thong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see why not TBH, I’ve seen some sights at the local swimming pool

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Yes I think it is. The Europeans probably won't bat an eye lid. It won't be the first time if seen a man or woman just take their trunks or bikini bottoms off and change them in full view after coming out of the sea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not you, someone else will probably be tanning the cheeks, take a bikini with you and gauge the situation when you are there? I think it's great you are thinking of others but I assume the chosen bikini will be covering the important parts of your body?

Take it with you and see when you are there x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"It’s not acceptable at our local swimming pool. There are signs. That make it clear what type of swimwear are acceptable and which are not.

Some will be offended, some won’t. Do you want to offend people?

Someone, somewhere will be offended by the colour, cut of the neck, logo, fact it's too skimpy or too cover-up. Our local pools have no such swimwear policy. You just have to wear some sort of swimwear.

I've read about people being offended by women wearing the bathing suits that cover the arms/legs and incorporate a head covering. The rationale apparently being it's just not cricket to cover up entirely.

One simply cannot win.

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By *rDxxMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Tbh some beeches are nude and families are on them , I went fortaventura a while ago took my kids beach and there was a couple playing swing ball completely naked and no one battered a eye lid

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I would say ok if mainland Europe or the Canaries, that sort of destination but if it’s somewhere with a generally more conservative attitude to things then might have to rethink.

The fact that you are conscious enough to ask the question tells me you will probably be able to gauge the mood and make an appropriate choice OP.

Hope you have a good holiday.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

If there’s no sign, it’s fine.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I would say ok if mainland Europe or the Canaries, that sort of destination but if it’s somewhere with a generally more conservative attitude to things then might have to rethink.

The fact that you are conscious enough to ask the question tells me you will probably be able to gauge the mood and make an appropriate choice OP.

Hope you have a good holiday. "

Having seen what Instagram influencers wear on their jollies in Dubai, around the pool, it depends entirely on the resort and it's clientele also.

My swimsuits are pretty low cut and show a lot of cleavage. Would I be okay wearing those in Dubai? Should I wear a wetsuit with full arm/leg covering?

I have no idea! (Also, I have no intention of going to Dubai, just ruminating).

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By *hong loverMan
over a year ago

stoke-on-trent

"Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion "

with a cute bum like yours it should be on show

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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago

Fife/ Newcastle

If you are comfortable with wearing a thong then go for it. I'm sure it won't be the first bum the kids around the pool have seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife wears a tankini and they do work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with the way you look in your profile pics with the thong on, I'd just check with the hotel 1st the rules and don't be worried if other people don't like it, they don't have to look

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"It’s not acceptable at our local swimming pool. There are signs. That make it clear what type of swimwear are acceptable and which are not.

Some will be offended, some won’t. Do you want to offend people?

One simply cannot win."

Mind you, when you see some of the thong type budgie smugglers some of the men will be wearing…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Britain I'd say no, in Europe it will be absolutely fine and you won't be alone

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Given that most of the women in Europe go topless I don't see the problem with a thong as long as everything is covered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion "

With that ass you can do it tesco let alone a holiday resort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you don't risk flashing your private parts then it should be alright.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah, I don't see why not. I personally don't think it's an issue for women to be topless in a "family resort" either - no, not so I can perve (well, not just that), but I don't know why we make such a big deal about it.

(But agree all about local customs above too!)

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

yeah its fine , its not like your anus is hanging out of them for all to see in a wicked weasel style bikini string bottom ..

some people are just weird in over sexualising everything if abit of cheek/cleavage is visible

If its a problem then someone at the resort that works there would tell you

English people are quite backwards compared to many europeans on this front .

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I’d say it’s fine, but go with what makes you feel comfortable. You’ll get some stares and attention. If that’s ok then stick with it. If it makes you uncomfortable then perhaps time to change. But you’ll never know until you do it.

Their cheeks, bikini briefs ride up and are ‘positioned’ for tanning purposes. It wasn’t long ago there would have been shock at seeing your knees. So embrace what you feel comfortable embracing.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Maybe message the hotel and ask if there is a dress code for the pool area, have been on many a family holiday where ladies were topless. It wouldn't bother me if you wore a thong type bikini but I think you should take both types and judge the situation when you get there.

Ultimately you will not please everyone whichever way you jump.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion "

I say tan that bum, you may be responsible for a few domestics when people are caught by partners checking those cheeks but live a little

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Maybe next time you book go for adults only hotel

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

It's simple enough to book into an adults only hotel, these days almost all resorts have these, it's an easy way to avoid upsetting those who may not want their kids to see what you've had for breakfast when you are hanging out of your thong.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Serious question, is it ok to wear a thong bikini at a family resort? I like to tan my bum cheeks but I want to gauge public opinion "

Completely depends on where in the world you're visiting.

Plenty of European countries don't have the same hangups regarding nudity that the British have. It's common to see topless/nude/thongs on beaches and the only people in sock and clutching pearls are the brits.

I'd take choices of swimwear and if you're not comfortable have a look on the first day to see what others are wearing?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

How about wearing a sarong style wrap walking along the beach and the thong bikini while sunbathing.

If you're in the UK it might be a bit more of an issue than Ibiza. I wouldn't try it in any of the more conservative countries.

I doubt many people would even bat an eyelid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally acceptable in my opinion.

Why is it only us brits that care! Europeans are so much more open minded and accepting.

You will see boobs and women wearing things and prob some teens too!

I don’t consent to seeing beached whales in bikinis but I see them… and that’s just the men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thong bikinis are now common on UK beaches, not quite as much as in Europe where it's probably 50/50 but still completely acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my bikinis now are thong / Brazilian style it's very normal now. Majority of bikinis we see now are minimal

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By *andm2006Man
over a year ago

Warwick

"All my bikinis now are thong / Brazilian style it's very normal now. Majority of bikinis we see now are minimal "

And looking very hot in yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where what you want to there is onrules

Someone always gets upset either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This reminds me of the time I took my 4 young daughters to a island on a sea taxi in Portugal. There was a topless woman on the beach. It was quiet and I really thought I'd accidentally taken them to a naughty beach. She had a dog and it ran over to play with us, followed by the topless woman running to try catch it. Was so funny. My girls still go on about it now. Was years ago

Anyway I'm not fussed by thong bikinis at a family resort

Mrs C

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Wear what you are comfortable with. If others are jealous or staring, tough luck on them.

A lot of people have commented about there being kids there, but the kids won’t care at all. You won’t offend the kids, but you might offend some of the parents.

It’s about context. It wouldn’t be right in Tesco, but it’s fine at a holiday pool/beach.

Gbat

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I think it's fine. Do what you are comfortable with provided no law is broken.

There is no difference between a thong and a normal bikini.

Men would never be criticised for wearing budgie smugglers rather than shorts.

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By *hugwelMan
over a year ago

Jersey

Seen in France 70 yo wearing microfine,couple metres away, husband and wife nude with two children I guess under ten that's was not even a nude beach, I've been in hannover and a public park in the centre people bathing nude during lunch hours, feet away from children's play area.

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By *oveallMan
over a year ago

kells

The dingle's go to Spain

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

The women will say no,

The men out of ear shot of the wife will say yes.

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By *lower797Woman
over a year ago

hendon

Not long back from holiday with my son in Tunisia ok we pretty much stayed on the resort but I didn’t have any hassle with my sizeable bum in a thong. Guess you just gotta gauge it when ur there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not long back from holiday with my son in Tunisia ok we pretty much stayed on the resort but I didn’t have any hassle with my sizeable bum in a thong. Guess you just gotta gauge it when ur there. "

Bet your son secretly enjoyed it

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Thong bikinis are now common on UK beaches, not quite as much as in Europe where it's probably 50/50 but still completely acceptable "

The French have rules that you have to wear budgie smugglers in the pool, no shorts.

It’s probably us who are just uptight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say wear what you want, it’s your holiday too

And the families probs enjoy the sights and if not gives them a story to two on their return home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post is useless without a photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sisters bikinis always causes a stir on family holidays growing up lol

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Not long back from holiday with my son in Tunisia ok we pretty much stayed on the resort but I didn’t have any hassle with my sizeable bum in a thong. Guess you just gotta gauge it when ur there.

Bet your son secretly enjoyed it

You think a son enjoyed seeing his mother's bottom in a thong?? Suggest you close Pørnhub and reconnect with reality

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