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Are women less attracted by bisexual men..???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. It seems like being a bisexual man is actually an issue with a fairly big part of the female population on this site even when they claim on their profile being bisexual themselves.

I don't want to pretend im the big alpha male they see in movies. I'm fairly viril, self confident and mannish in my everyday life though.

I'd like a bit of feedback from ladies please. Have a look at my profile and suggest me what i should change.

Thanks in advance

Kiss, kiss all of you. Xx

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I find the name Pure Blood pretty off-putting, has some fairly unpleasant undertones to it.

If people aren't interested in bi men, then they're not compatible and that's okay. I might not understand it myself, but then I also don't understand a fascination with feet, so.

Don't worry about appealing to people who wouldn't be interested in you. You do you

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I'm going to be honest here......The term 'Pure Blood' just has me chuckling, no offence meant, I just find the use of it comical.

And no, I don't find myself attracted to Bi Men

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Name pure blood not for me.

Play safe and an attraction is required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. It seems like being a bisexual man is actually an issue with a fairly big part of the female population on this site even when they claim on their profile being bisexual themselves.

I don't want to pretend im the big alpha male they see in movies. I'm fairly viril, self confident and mannish in my everyday life though.

I'd like a bit of feedback from ladies please. Have a look at my profile and suggest me what i should change.

Thanks in advance

Kiss, kiss all of you. Xx"

Keep your profile pic. It will put people off without needing to look at the rest.

Those who like it will look.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Being bi never caused a problem for me, people that aren't interested aren't right for me anyway

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I have a preference for bi guys that also tick all my other boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. It seems like being a bisexual man is actually an issue with a fairly big part of the female population on this site even when they claim on their profile being bisexual themselves.

I don't want to pretend im the big alpha male they see in movies. I'm fairly viril, self confident and mannish in my everyday life though.

I'd like a bit of feedback from ladies please. Have a look at my profile and suggest me what i should change.

Thanks in advance

Kiss, kiss all of you. Xx"

Just because a female is "bisexual" doesn't mean she should be attracted to buy men. Your comment that "they claim to be bisexual" suggests you think they should meet bi men. Your profile photo frankly would put a lot of people off. You don't appear to be practicing safe sex in it. HIV is more prevalent in bi/gay men. That is why I don't meet bi men....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say no for my generation. Since becoming single, my bi side and openess to exploring that side has been something that has attracted interest, if not providing a foundation for a solid relationship.

I have been able to offer opportunity for some open minded ladies to have experiences they would not normally express and interest in, let alone expect to have. Honesty is the best policy.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

“Even when they’re bisexual themselves”

Eh?! How is that even relevant. It’s two totally different things.

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By *J_SpiceyCouple
over a year ago

Kinky Kings Lynn

I prefer bi men in a mmf threesome.

Everybody is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Even when they’re bisexual themselves”

Eh?! How is that even relevant. It’s two totally different things. "

You seek relevance?

Here?

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Hi. It seems like being a bisexual man is actually an issue with a fairly big part of the female population on this site even when they claim on their profile being bisexual themselves.

I don't want to pretend im the big alpha male they see in movies. I'm fairly viril, self confident and mannish in my everyday life though.

I'd like a bit of feedback from ladies please. Have a look at my profile and suggest me what i should change.

Thanks in advance

Kiss, kiss all of you. Xx"

I can’t see your profile because, randomly, you have blocked me. Anyway.

If you feel your profile represents the true you, then don’t change anything. Don’t let/cause others to dictate what your profile says or looks like.

If you’re bi, you’re bi. However you dress that up you will only appeal to people who want bi men. If that’s less than those who want straight men, that’s life pal.

Find your field and play ball(s)!!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Hi. It seems like being a bisexual man is actually an issue with a fairly big part of the female population on this site even when they claim on their profile being bisexual themselves.

I don't want to pretend im the big alpha male they see in movies. I'm fairly viril, self confident and mannish in my everyday life though.

I'd like a bit of feedback from ladies please. Have a look at my profile and suggest me what i should change.

Thanks in advance

Kiss, kiss all of you. Xx

I can’t see your profile because, randomly, you have blocked me. Anyway.

If you feel your profile represents the true you, then don’t change anything. Don’t let/cause others to dictate what your profile says or looks like.

If you’re bi, you’re bi. However you dress that up you will only appeal to people who want bi men. If that’s less than those who want straight men, that’s life pal.

Find your field and play ball(s)!!"

I can't see it either.

I my experience some women don't want to meet bi men but that's certainly not the majority of the female population of Fab.

Most women have preferences. It might be age. It might be height. It might be all manner of things. Unless it specifically says it's to do with you being bi then don't assume.

And if it is? So what. It's unlikely you'll change their mind. Just move on.

A

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"Hi. It seems like being a bisexual man is actually an issue with a fairly big part of the female population on this site even when they claim on their profile being bisexual themselves.

I don't want to pretend im the big alpha male they see in movies. I'm fairly viril, self confident and mannish in my everyday life though.

I'd like a bit of feedback from ladies please. Have a look at my profile and suggest me what i should change.

Thanks in advance

Kiss, kiss all of you. Xx

Keep your profile pic. It will put people off without needing to look at the rest.

Those who like it will look."
i am a bi guy but i cannot look at his profile as i am blocked by him,,,

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Noones is blocked I think the profiles on the naughty step atm

Tinder

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Noones is blocked I think the profiles on the naughty step atm

Tinder "

Ah ha! That makes more sense, who would block me - I’m lovely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't give you any advice as for some reason you've blocked me

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Noones is blocked I think the profiles on the naughty step atm

Tinder

Ah ha! That makes more sense, who would block me - I’m lovely!! "
I thought it was just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in wales and have never had contact with you. Why am I blocked

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"I live in wales and have never had contact with you. Why am I blocked "
I read this in a welsh accent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live in wales and have never had contact with you. Why am I blocked I read this in a welsh accent."

Dai yawn

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m bi and like women who like sex with bi men. I also like those who like bi men but don’t want sex with them or rather, more accurately, moi.

I don’t sweat stuff I can’t change and it makes things easier and life more fun.

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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago

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"Hi. It seems like being a bisexual man is actually an issue with a fairly big part of the female population on this site even when they claim on their profile being bisexual themselves.

I don't want to pretend im the big alpha male they see in movies. I'm fairly viril, self confident and mannish in my everyday life though.

I'd like a bit of feedback from ladies please. Have a look at my profile and suggest me what i should change.

Thanks in advance

Kiss, kiss all of you. Xx

Just because a female is "bisexual" doesn't mean she should be attracted to buy men. Your comment that "they claim to be bisexual" suggests you think they should meet bi men. Your profile photo frankly would put a lot of people off. You don't appear to be practicing safe sex in it. HIV is more prevalent in bi/gay men. That is why I don't meet bi men....

"

Not exactly fact. It’s reported more known because openly bi and gay men are more likely to be more regularly checked, Hence more reports. certainly majority of bi and gay guys I know regular check up and majority of us are even on prep now as an extra precaution.

Alot of straight guys don’t even get checked regularly and from what I’ve seen BB more.

And because they have straight on the profile don’t assume they don’t take or give cock, believe me many on here do!

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

I have no idea who the op is but for some reason we’re blocked

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn


"I have no idea who the op is but for some reason we’re blocked "

Us too, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I saw somewhere on the forum threads that there's an issue with the OPs profile not to do with blocking.

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn


"I think I saw somewhere on the forum threads that there's an issue with the OPs profile not to do with blocking.

"

Ah, ok. Thanks

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

[Removed by poster at 14/03/23 14:04:46]

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I don't mind bi guys...in fact i played with them and loved it...

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I have bi-curious on my profile as I'm very comfortable around other guys as part of mfm fun, but most meets involve no contact with guys. But each to their own, if couples or women don't like bi or bi curious guys then that's their prerogative and focus on those with whom you are compatible.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Noones is blocked I think the profiles on the naughty step atm

Tinder

Ah ha! That makes more sense, who would block me - I’m lovely!! "

Aren't all we 'blocked' people lovely

He blocked me first.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Noones is blocked I think the profiles on the naughty step atm

Tinder

Ah ha! That makes more sense, who would block me - I’m lovely!!

Aren't all we 'blocked' people lovely

He blocked me first.

"

I’ll block you… IF YA KNOW WOT I MEAN!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"I live in wales and have never had contact with you. Why am I blocked I read this in a welsh accent.

Dai yawn "
Thank you, I do try.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The women I meet love sex with bi men. Preferably two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attracted to a man. A masculine man with a certain presence.

I am not attracted to feminine / effeminate / slight or slim to skinny men.

If a person is bi that's their business unless they hope to include them having sex with other men in anything they want with me or alongside me.

If they cannot commit to one person that becomes my business, to determine if I wish to be in an open or poly relationship (I don’t) with them.

I expect safe sex. Testing. Monogamy. From ALL partners regardless of bi or straight sexuality.

Them's the rules for anyone who wants near me. Same for all.

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