FabSwingers.com forum: Meet requests

By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

To the single guys: have you ever had a response to a meet request? I've put a few up over the years but never had any responses. I assume because there are so many of them up there and there's nothing particularly exceptional about me.

Ladies, do you ever look at the meet requests?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I have done before if I'm really horny and staying in a hotel for the night.

I've not done it for a bit.

If a friend put a meet request and I was nearby, I'd possibly not message - I'd be thinking they're wanting to meet someone now.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

*new!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Nah. Each to their own and I'm not judging as I have posted meets once or twice but I would never ever respond to one. I want a guy to want to meet ME - not to be a hole to be filled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at them.

I've never posted one either.

I've considered it as a social thing only but never done it.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I have done before if I'm really horny and staying in a hotel for the night.

I've not done it for a bit.

If a friend put a meet request and I was nearby, I'd possibly not message - I'd be thinking they're wanting to meet someone new."

I get that, I'd figure if they wanted to meet me they would have just messaged me. Nice to know they do get looked at, I guess a big part of it is timing

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

No.

My meets are preordained.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Nah. Each to their own and I'm not judging as I have posted meets once or twice but I would never ever respond to one. I want a guy to want to meet ME - not to be a hole to be filled"

I get that. As a guy I feel we have to maximise our exposure and chances of being seen by someone compatible!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've met a couple of guys who have posted in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. Each to their own and I'm not judging as I have posted meets once or twice but I would never ever respond to one. I want a guy to want to meet ME - not to be a hole to be filled"

This sums it up for me too.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Nah. Each to their own and I'm not judging as I have posted meets once or twice but I would never ever respond to one. I want a guy to want to meet ME - not to be a hole to be filled"

Hoping to meet the real you in a social setting in June. I'm hoping you are as funny in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put one up once. It didn’t go well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. Each to their own and I'm not judging as I have posted meets once or twice but I would never ever respond to one. I want a guy to want to meet ME - not to be a hole to be filled"

Check you dms

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Nah. Each to their own and I'm not judging as I have posted meets once or twice but I would never ever respond to one. I want a guy to want to meet ME - not to be a hole to be filled"

Totally this.

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By *hil most chill OP Man
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I put one up once. It didn’t go well

Ok you can't tease us like this, what happened??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put one up once. It didn’t go well

Was that the one I replied to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put one up once. It didn’t go well

Ok you can't tease us like this, what happened??"

It’s not a short story, put it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put one up once. It didn’t go well

Ok you can't tease us like this, what happened??

It’s not a short story, put it that way

Damn it's the one I replied to. I'm sorry I thought you would appreciate the feta cheese and billiard table balls. That's why I'm blocked isn't it?

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Nah. Each to their own and I'm not judging as I have posted meets once or twice but I would never ever respond to one. I want a guy to want to meet ME - not to be a hole to be filled

Hoping to meet the real you in a social setting in June. I'm hoping you are as funny in real life."

I can't promise that but you could try buying me gin until I am funny!

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve never put one up as don’t imagine I’d get much response. If I did it would probably be if I was somewhere away from home and fancied some company ie. more of a social and see how it goes.

I also don’t respond to them either as imagine the women / couples that put them up get swamped.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes and I've met some awesome people through them. Mainly dinner and drinks with a night on the tiles, It's just like pulling at a pub/club

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes

Which lead further

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