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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

Can anyone give some advise on the best way to compose a first time message without coming across boring or rude?

Basically what's everyone's do,s and donts

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

What of hiding some cocks first?

Just my opinion

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

And what's the problem with showing cock pics on my profile?

Surely that's my choice,it is my profile after all, I wouldn't dictate to anyone what pics they should show on their profiles

if a woman shows her tits on her profile is that a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What of hiding some cocks first?

Just my opinion"

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Firstly make sure you are emailing someone who would be interested in you.

Secondly, ensure the email says something about you, shows that you have read their profile.

Thirdly, dont call anyone hun, chick, babe or sweetie

Good luck

If all else fails i beilieve a popular message is 'fancy a fuck'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the persons profile first and show that you have read it by mentioning something from it, don't be rude in your first message, just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....if you can't accept some friendly and constructive advice without hostility I suggest you don't seek it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what's the problem with showing cock pics on my profile?

Surely that's my choice,it is my profile after all, I wouldn't dictate to anyone what pics they should show on their profiles

if a woman shows her tits on her profile is that a problem?"

If yer that keen on free choice, write yer own fuckin' messages

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


".....if you can't accept some friendly and constructive advice without hostility I suggest you don't seek it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

De ja vu.. ..

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"Firstly make sure you are emailing someone who would be interested in you.

Secondly, ensure the email says something about you, shows that you have read their profile.

Thirdly, dont call anyone hun, chick, babe or sweetie

Good luck

If all else fails i beilieve a popular message is 'fancy a fuck'"

Thanks for that, I don't believe that "fancy a fuck" will get me very far lol

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Firstly make sure you are emailing someone who would be interested in you.

Secondly, ensure the email says something about you, shows that you have read their profile.

Thirdly, dont call anyone hun, chick, babe or sweetie

Good luck

If all else fails i beilieve a popular message is 'fancy a fuck'

Thanks for that, I don't believe that "fancy a fuck" will get me very far lol"

Im sure it wont either. By the way, your pics ( i just had a peek) are a little erm, erm, cant really think of the word, but they may put some ladies off? Just my opinion. Im prob an old prude but just a thought lol

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"

if a woman shows her tits on her profile is that a problem?"
...Remember that women boobs or pussy look nicer than a guy cock or ass hole.

But as you said it is your profile. Taylor your FIRST MESSAGE as you want and good luck...

PS: Keep the cocks pics, plenty will hunt you to try it

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

wow a cock fest indeed, the thong on a guy not the best look either good luck ul prob need it my man!

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

Ok fair do,s I'm going to make a few changes to my profile in the next few days and add a few new pics nothing too racy lol

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

Oh and by the way I don't own a thong any more I'm strictly a boxers or none at all kind of guy lol

That.was a fairly old pic when I was going through my Peter stringfellow phase pmsl

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Oh and by the way I don't own a thong any more I'm strictly a boxers or none at all kind of guy lol

That.was a fairly old pic when I was going through my Peter stringfellow phase pmsl"
u were carrying it off aswell, bt the girls are funny on here wth things like tht lol

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"Oh and by the way I don't own a thong any more I'm strictly a boxers or none at all kind of guy lol

That.was a fairly old pic when I was going through my Peter stringfellow phase pmsl u were carrying it off aswell, bt the girls are funny on here wth things like tht lol "

Lol thanks, my ex girl friend loved the thong look but I admit it is a bit 1980s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit cock pics don't do a thing for me I prefer a little mystery in that department so would advise u to have them in private and send them on request. That being said its your profile your choice and some women do like them

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By *tuartb1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"Must admit cock pics don't do a thing for me I prefer a little mystery in that department so would advise u to have them in private and send them on request. That being said its your profile your choice and some women do like them "

Thanks, I've decided to go for a mixture of pics,I'm just wondering if my profile pic will offend anyone....but hey I am smiling lol

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