FabSwingers.com forum: Too keen

By *ilverfox69WestMids OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

When you get a message how quickly do you tend to respond?

Do you play it cool and take your time or like me reply within a nanosecond!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm interested and online I reply.

If Im not online and interested i reply when I see it.

I just delete ones I am not interested in

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Reply straight away if I open it otherwise I would forget and it would get lost down the page x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Usually instantly. However at times I may see it and read it but unable to give time toward replying at that moment and come back to it later.

Sometimes I forget and the reply is delayed

I don't always sit and check messages though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's too short for mind games.

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

If I'm online. I'll reply asap. But sadly don't get much opportunity to reply haha

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Life's too short for mind games."

I agree. Though none instant replies are not always down to mind games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, if it’s there and I like what I see I’m not one to play around! I can’t stand the whole read back to unread runaround… if peeps are genuine I wanna respond as if I respect peoples time which I inherently do

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Sometimes I'll wait. Not because I'm playing games but because I'm aware I'm not in the right headspace to give something the attention and thought it deserves.

And then sometimes I'll forget to go back and reply at all because I'm a dickhead

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Whenever I can. Anything else sounds too much like games to me

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Leave at least 5 days before responding, play it cool Trig, know what I mean…

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"When you get a message how quickly do you tend to respond?

Do you play it cool and take your time or like me reply within a nanosecond!!!"
I reply when I'm ready

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"When you get a message how quickly do you tend to respond?

Do you play it cool and take your time or like me reply within a nanosecond!!!"

From a couples perspective…

If it’s someone new or it’s a request from a friend to arrange something I’ll wait until we’ve both had the opportunity to discuss together.

If it’s general message chat or questions about my beautiful penis from someone I want to talk to then I’ll respond quickly.

If it’s mail for Henriette I’ll inform her and she’ll respond when she feels like it which usually depends on if she has any interest in the person as she doesn’t generally look at fab.

Our inbox currently has a vast amount of unopened messages as I just can’t be arsed to respond to stuff that were not interested in.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Reply straight away if I open it otherwise I would forget and it would get lost down the page x"

That the issue I have as well

#iWish

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Let's see.

It varies a lot. Depends on how I'm feeling, if I'm cocklusting, if I should be doing other things. Yeah. Could be instant. Could be very not instant.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends. Sometimes I’m just utterly unsociable.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We have 11 unread messages. The oldest is 2 weeks old and the newest arrived today.

We don't reply in any rush if it's a message about meeting, as it's clear in our profile that nothing is ever done in a rush and we make it clear when we can and want to look for meets.

Messages from friends generally get answered same day, but as a couple we're not always together and if one reads a message without the other present it's easy to forget to mention it to the other half - everyone has more important life commitments after all.

A lot of people moan about delays to messages being read, deleted or replied to. I'd hate to think how much angst there'd be if the site introduced instant messaging as is often requested.

Some people appear to have major issues with patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get a message how quickly do you tend to respond?

Do you play it cool and take your time or like me reply within a nanosecond!!!"

I reply when I can think of something to say or have the time.

I’m not a child that plays games by keeping them hanging. Ffs, be an adult, reply if you want to, don’t if you don’t.

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

I don't reply tactically, I reply when I'm ready and able to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply in my head in nanosecond then I … oh squirrel! What was the question again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply when I have the time or when I feel like I can put a little effort into replying to a message.

Sometimes is straight away and sometimes it can be a few hours.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

When I receive a message from someone I haven't spoken to before, I'll open it at my convenience or as soon as humanely possible.

With that said, I strive to keep a momentum as long as the dialogue is reciprocal and bidirectional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the nano-second type of guy haha!!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"When you get a message how quickly do you tend to respond?

Do you play it cool and take your time or like me reply within a nanosecond!!!"

I reply as soon as I've read message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People playing mind games is a major pain in the hole.

Don't fuck people about. If you're interested, tell them.

If they're ugly, tell them to message you back when you've had 10 pints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really if it's a new person and they catch my eye and I can reply straight away I will, if I can't I'll put back on unread and try to remember to message back when I can.

If it is someone I am not really interested in, I'll either delete straight away (depending on the message sent, if it's a good one, I'll respond straight away and if there is "fancy a fuck" I'll just delete.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I usually can't contain my excitement

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By *esi_maverickMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It’s a rarity that I get any messages if I do I feel privileged and send a conservative response back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm online then I'll reply. Why not? Seems a bit childish to play a waiting game.. X

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Usually if I am going to reply it is as soon as I've had time to read the message.

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids

"If I'm interested and online I reply.

If Im not online and interested i reply when I see it.

I just delete ones I am not interested in "

Yes I’m with this too …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who we know: within few hours.

New people : if there’s any interest and close by- few hours gap. If not we either delete or reply saying it’s not our tea.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore most messages I receive

With those I do respond to, as soon as they get sexual, I usually ignore them too

I don't do "dirty talk" or flirting

I would sooner swap some pics, see if there is an attraction and arrange to meet

I am very basic in my approach

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

If I'm interested I'll reply when I see the message. No time for games

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually fairly promptly, as I get so many..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what’s written in the message and if it sparks an interest

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