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Is it just me that thinks this???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had a few messages from guys obviously asking to meet up but in the messages some have a list of requirements i.e sexy underwear, sexy, fun, enjoys taking their time, sensual etc etc and ask if I can match any of those (just had a message hence this post) lol.

Now to me the way that its written makes me feel that they think I'm some sort of escort or something. I know people are looking for sex but do they really need to list things to me like their ordering from a catalogue or escort service lol? I'd like to feel a little more like a "normal" person not just someone who can give sex.

Am I being too funny about this or does anyone feel the same.

I'm not very good at explaining myself in writing so hope this comes across how it's supposed to and not as a moan lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them if they'll be dressed this way too.... usually does the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have said i don't wash for 2 weeks and wear big granny knickers but i will be sensual and take my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them if they'll be dressed this way too.... usually does the trick"

Personally, I always wear my peep-toe sling-backs and my gold lame off the shoulder number....

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Try 'Reply list'

I wear my undies for a week, no longer.

Im fun to be with especially after 14 vodkas and a vindaloo.

Hate taking my time, prefer to have you inside me before we get over the doorstep, and to of finished before we reach the stairs.

I bet you will still get the meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them if they'll be dressed this way too.... usually does the trick"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMHO, it is important to establish if the prospective meet is going to tick sufficient boxes to make it worthwhile.

Hence I do not object to a long list of boxes to tick, providing the prospective gent does not mind me having an equally long, if not longer list for him to tick before I would agree to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them if they'll be dressed this way too.... usually does the trick

Personally, I always wear my peep-toe sling-backs and my gold lame off the shoulder number....

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We seriously need to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"IMHO, it is important to establish if the prospective meet is going to tick sufficient boxes to make it worthwhile.

Hence I do not object to a long list of boxes to tick, providing the prospective gent does not mind me having an equally long, if not longer list for him to tick before I would agree to meet.

Oh I agree with u but its just the way some are worded and I notice a lot have what they require on their profiles which I always read before deciding if we'd be suitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them if they'll be dressed this way too.... usually does the trick

Personally, I always wear my peep-toe sling-backs and my gold lame off the shoulder number....

We seriously need to meet "

Shhhhhhhhhhh! Don't let Minxie see this - she'll get all jealous!!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i think you look nice as you are and you have every right to be totally yourself. dress and behave in whatever way you feel comfortable and dont be pressured to act otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them if they'll be dressed this way too.... usually does the trick

Personally, I always wear my peep-toe sling-backs and my gold lame off the shoulder number....

We seriously need to meet

Shhhhhhhhhhh! Don't let Minxie see this - she'll get all jealous!!!

"

Eeeek I've passed the time im allowed to delete

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think you look nice as you are and you have every right to be totally yourself. dress and behave in whatever way you feel comfortable and dont be pressured to act otherwise."

Thank u that's really nice to say and I agree that we should just be ourselves, I'm in no way desperate lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've had a few messages from guys obviously asking to meet up but in the messages some have a list of requirements i.e sexy underwear, sexy, fun, enjoys taking their time, sensual etc etc and ask if I can match any of those (just had a message hence this post) lol.

Now to me the way that its written makes me feel that they think I'm some sort of escort or something. I know people are looking for sex but do they really need to list things to me like their ordering from a catalogue or escort service lol? I'd like to feel a little more like a "normal" person not just someone who can give sex.

Am I being too funny about this or does anyone feel the same.

I'm not very good at explaining myself in writing so hope this comes across how it's supposed to and not as a moan lol"
Being asked what ...

1. I am wearing right now

2. Might be wearing when we meet

3. Would consider wearing or not wearing as the case may be...

...

...

...

Total turnoff for me. That and being referred to as hun or babe are more often than not the points at which the "hm, might meet" turn into... "nah, not for me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody ungrateful if you ask me, the bloke messages you with clear instructions and you can't be bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them if they'll be dressed this way too.... usually does the trick

Personally, I always wear my peep-toe sling-backs and my gold lame off the shoulder number....

We seriously need to meet

Shhhhhhhhhhh! Don't let Minxie see this - she'll get all jealous!!!

Eeeek I've passed the time im allowed to delete "

Oh Gawd - hell hath no fury like an jealous Minxie.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask them if they'll be dressed this way too.... usually does the trick

Personally, I always wear my peep-toe sling-backs and my gold lame off the shoulder number....

We seriously need to meet

Shhhhhhhhhhh! Don't let Minxie see this - she'll get all jealous!!!

Eeeek I've passed the time im allowed to delete

Oh Gawd - hell hath no fury like an jealous Minxie.....

"

Will be fine, ile just hide in her holdall again.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

As long as we know we are sexually compatable thats the important thing and i think you go do that without a list of tick boxes. Nothing would put me off more than tick boxes or demands

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