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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Little rant please??

I have started being more chatty on the forums, although my sense of humour is weird lol but

I get a little argh at random messages from threads I've commented in from people that don't comment in any forums. I know everyone's free to do as they please so maybe my argh moment isn't right. But to me it feels like there's people lurking in the forum shadows (??)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Little rant please??

I have started being more chatty on the forums, although my sense of humour is weird lol but

I get a little argh at random messages from threads I've commented in from people that don't comment in any forums. I know everyone's free to do as they please so maybe my argh moment isn't right. But to me it feels like there's people lurking in the forum shadows (??)"

Ignore the??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This annoys me too, dont mind if its regarding the post but more usually than not its just a random message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You put yourself out here you've got to accept there will be a lot of people watching and you'll have no idea about any of them.

Don't share anything you are not comfortable with others knowing.

I like your titties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You put yourself out here you've got to accept there will be a lot of people watching and you'll have no idea about any of them.

Don't share anything you are not comfortable with others knowing.

I like your titties."

But did you fab her tit pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Little rant please??

I have started being more chatty on the forums, although my sense of humour is weird lol but

I get a little argh at random messages from threads I've commented in from people that don't comment in any forums. I know everyone's free to do as they please so maybe my argh moment isn't right. But to me it feels like there's people lurking in the forum shadows (??)"

They could be members who have forum bans....

It is annoying when you get messages from "lurkers", especially if they are mean messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've had many a msg from forum lurkers. I don't mind really, bless 'em I say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You put yourself out here you've got to accept there will be a lot of people watching and you'll have no idea about any of them.

Don't share anything you are not comfortable with others knowing.

I like your titties."

Little rant over

She liked my tits haha

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i wouldnt dream of doing this,, its outrageous,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You put yourself out here you've got to accept there will be a lot of people watching and you'll have no idea about any of them.

Don't share anything you are not comfortable with others knowing.

I like your titties.

Little rant over

She liked my tits haha"

I fabbed them too. Good to get it off your chest..

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

Yes we lurk and wait for a moment to strike like thunder ball. Because no one can match him no hit man can catch him with his million dollar skill. But we should just live and let die, as diamonds are forever but we have to face it all at sky fall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we lurk and wait for a moment to strike like thunder ball. Because no one can match him no hit man can catch him with his million dollar skill. But we should just live and let die, as diamonds are forever but we have to face it all at sky fall."

Very good!

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I think many lurk before they join in, don’t overthink it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before anyone asks. It wasn’t me or Pete

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve had the same, take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually its only the lurkers who bother to message me and don't block me!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Yeah, there's loads of lurkers

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
over a year ago

Mainly under the bed...


"Little rant please??

I have started being more chatty on the forums, although my sense of humour is weird lol but

I get a little argh at random messages from threads I've commented in from people that don't comment in any forums. I know everyone's free to do as they please so maybe my argh moment isn't right. But to me it feels like there's people lurking in the forum shadows (??)"

Lurkers be lurking!

Maybe that's their particular kink?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you get that one message that makes you go ooooo so it’s worth it x

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"You put yourself out here you've got to accept there will be a lot of people watching and you'll have no idea about any of them.

Don't share anything you are not comfortable with others knowing.

I like your titties.

Little rant over

She liked my tits haha"

To be fair, I like your tits too.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers "

Some of the lurkers say really creepy or odd things though, Jamie

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers

Some of the lurkers say really creepy or odd things though, Jamie "

So do I KC, so do I

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers

Some of the lurkers say really creepy or odd things though, Jamie

So do I KC, so do I "

You say them in public where it's safer

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers

Some of the lurkers say really creepy or odd things though, Jamie

So do I KC, so do I

You say them in public where it's safer "

You should see the state of some of my private chats

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers

Some of the lurkers say really creepy or odd things though, Jamie "

Pray tell, might you permit me to lick your bedside lamp?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers

Some of the lurkers say really creepy or odd things though, Jamie

So do I KC, so do I

You say them in public where it's safer

You should see the state of some of my private chats "

Ditto but we don't launch in, unsolicited, with the freakiness

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers

Some of the lurkers say really creepy or odd things though, Jamie

Pray tell, might you permit me to lick your bedside lamp? "

Only if you say 8 Hail Marys while you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers

Some of the lurkers say really creepy or odd things though, Jamie

So do I KC, so do I

You say them in public where it's safer

You should see the state of some of my private chats

Ditto but we don't launch in, unsolicited, with the freakiness "

Jamie’s into freaky stuff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes you get that one message that makes you go ooooo so it’s worth it x "

That reminds me: I must message you again

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers

Some of the lurkers say really creepy or odd things though, Jamie

So do I KC, so do I

You say them in public where it's safer

You should see the state of some of my private chats

Ditto but we don't launch in, unsolicited, with the freakiness

Jamie’s into freaky stuff? "

You should find out

You’ll need to bring three individually wrapped mushrooms, paints, a cactus and lube

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yeah this happens often…I always go back to check if they’ve commented on the thread and delete the message if they haven’t.

Feels a bit ‘I’m watching you but I’m not letting on in the forums’ creepy to me

K

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Yeah this happens often…I always go back to check if they’ve commented on the thread and delete the message if they haven’t.

Feels a bit ‘I’m watching you but I’m not letting on in the forums’ creepy to me

K"

I mean, if it’s relevant to the forum post I don’t delete straight off. But it’s usually ‘your missus is a hot woman and I want to do rude things with her’ type message, so nothing to do with the post or just agreeing with something you’ve said so I can get into C’s knickers

K

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Took all my willpower not to reply privately there and try to be funny!

I never even consider the lurkers, but it's a good point.

Great pics too op.

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By *s2pervsCouple
over a year ago

Truro


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers "

Thank you, from an ex lurker...

Mr

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Try not to worry about it OP just carry on being yourself and that’s it. Life is way too short

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've had them many times.

My response depends on what they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine them to be introverts at a party. Not comfortable being the loudest and talking to everyone but quietly having their own little chats.

They’re usually the ones who have the most interesting things to say.

Long live the lurkers

Some of the lurkers say really creepy or odd things though, Jamie

So do I KC, so do I

You say them in public where it's safer

You should see the state of some of my private chats

Ditto but we don't launch in, unsolicited, with the freakiness

Jamie’s into freaky stuff?

You should find out

You’ll need to bring three individually wrapped mushrooms, paints, a cactus and lube "

Updates private notes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You put yourself out here you've got to accept there will be a lot of people watching and you'll have no idea about any of them.

Don't share anything you are not comfortable with others knowing.

I like your titties.

Little rant over

She liked my tits haha

I fabbed them too. Good to get it off your chest.. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think many lurk before they join in, don’t overthink it."

I didn't, I ranted, five min later i moved on lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You put yourself out here you've got to accept there will be a lot of people watching and you'll have no idea about any of them.

Don't share anything you are not comfortable with others knowing.

I like your titties.

Little rant over

She liked my tits haha

To be fair, I like your tits too. "

You have a cute bottom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Took all my willpower not to reply privately there and try to be funny!

I never even consider the lurkers, but it's a good point.

Great pics too op. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I've had loads of messages from lurkers. Some seem to just be a bit shy and nervous, others are right oddballs.

Delete what you like, respond to what you like. Lurkers will always be here.

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