FabSwingers.com forum: Opposite sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are some things you wish the opposite sex would know about?. It could be anything. A chance to shed some light on misconceptions men and women have about each other.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

No all women are excited to see 50 cock pics and nothing else on a profile!

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By *airyboxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

But I have to say there’s something a little off putting about you ladies getting your tits out in every picture. I prefer something is left to the lucky viewer in the moment but maybe that’s old fashioned lol x

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Top tip for women; Look at upcoming football fixtures.

I was chatting to someone last week who moaned that her husband ignored her when she pulled out sex toys.

Liverpool v Man Utd was on TV at the time.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Sometimes you women are *too* good at making us feel good, and we need you to back off a little so that we don’t blow our load straight away.

(Or, put simply: Sometimes men want more foreplay too.)

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Not all men like having their balls sucked!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Sometimes, genuinely all I want is a quickie or to suck your dick and fuck off.

Sometimes a two minute bang and getting the fuck out of my space is genuinely all that's wanted

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Belfast

"Sometimes, genuinely all I want is a quickie or to suck your dick and fuck off.

Sometimes a two minute bang and getting the fuck out of my space is genuinely all that's wanted

*hotlisted*

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"But I have to say there’s something a little off putting about you ladies getting your tits out in every picture. I prefer something is left to the lucky viewer in the moment but maybe that’s old fashioned lol x"

I agree with this.... I do like to see women in attractive outfits. There is one couple on Fab (cannot recall the name right now) who do this VERY well. They have a side by side of each of them in an outfit right next to a pic in exactly the same pose without the outfit. Genius!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Not all men like having their balls sucked!

But some do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes, genuinely all I want is a quickie or to suck your dick and fuck off.

Sometimes a two minute bang and getting the fuck out of my space is genuinely all that's wanted

I’m with you on this one!

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"Top tip for women; Look at upcoming football fixtures.

I was chatting to someone last week who moaned that her husband ignored her when she pulled out sex toys.

Liverpool v Man Utd was on TV at the time."

Lmao, brilliant!

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"Sometimes, genuinely all I want is a quickie or to suck your dick and fuck off.

Sometimes a two minute bang and getting the fuck out of my space is genuinely all that's wanted

That needs to be made clear to us guys upfront!

Because it's been drummed into us that women hate guys who finish too quick.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Sometimes, genuinely all I want is a quickie or to suck your dick and fuck off.

Sometimes a two minute bang and getting the fuck out of my space is genuinely all that's wanted

That needs to be made clear to us guys upfront!

Because it's been drummed into us that women hate guys who finish too quick."

Like, if that's the entire experience every time, that's not cool. But as much as I adore spending multiple hours fully exhausting each other, I don't always have the time or inclination towards that level of intimacy.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes a quicky is good.

The clit does not require scrubbing like your getting a stain out the carpet.

If we say we don't squirt believe it, don't make it a challenge it's just a turn off.

I couldn't care less about the size of your cock, unless it's too big then I'm out, I'm only small, not every woman wants a big cock.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are some things you wish the opposite sex would know about?. It could be anything. A chance to shed some light on misconceptions men and women have about each other. "

Damn good question.

I'd say a good thing to note is that I am not a porn star, much as I may look like one to some, and I have no real interest in being one for you, at least not until you've given me a good reason to play that role.

Don't expect me to show up and perform without any effort on your part. I'm not a dildo.

Men enjoy being seduced and made to feel wanted just as much as any woman, so make an effort, be playful, be curious, and you'll get the very best of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies please, if you wake horny during the night and decide to rub one out, please don't wipe your cummy fingers all over my back when you are finished, if I don't have time for a shower in the morning I end up smelling like Grimsby docks by lunch. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes you women are *too* good at making us feel good, and we need you to back off a little so that we don’t blow our load straight away.

(Or, put simply: Sometimes men want more foreplay too.)"

Ah one of my favourite moments was when someone said if you keep doing that Im going to cum. And I wanted to keep going to make him cum...but obliged and proplonged the torment. For me.

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

Initiation men love to feel desired to and a confident woman is so dam sexy

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

If you initiate sex, he won't say no

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Top tip for women; Look at upcoming football fixtures.

I was chatting to someone last week who moaned that her husband ignored her when she pulled out sex toys.

Liverpool v Man Utd was on TV at the time."

Cannot blame here being placed second behind a load of overpaid blokes kicking a bag of wind about!!!

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"Sometimes a quicky is good.

The clit does not require scrubbing like your getting a stain out the carpet.

If we say we don't squirt believe it, don't make it a challenge it's just a turn off.

I couldn't care less about the size of your cock, unless it's too big then I'm out, I'm only small, not every woman wants a big cock.

Mrs "

Good to know. I might be in with a fighting chance with my little one then. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh sometimes a quicky is all that's needed. Both parties cum and both parties depart lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some men are actually experiencing a lack of intimacy and the they look to fix this need through sex.

Men are afraid of being vulnerable, because being vulnerable is seen as weak and is in total opposition of what society has taught us about masculinity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Top tip for women; Look at upcoming football fixtures.

I was chatting to someone last week who moaned that her husband ignored her when she pulled out sex toys.

Liverpool v Man Utd was on TV at the time."

Top tip for men don't assume all women don't love football and can hold a decent conversation about it and you know what we even go to the games

I know right....mind blowing.

Ps 7-0 sure he had a little time to play with her toys with her like half time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gents, if we are playing with you in a club we mostly don't want you to last hours, if it feels good then don't hold back and let it all out! If that's in 60 seconds then so be it!

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

Not every guy is wanking to your messages, some do like a conversation or banter. If he's writing to you articulately, it's ok to have a conversation with him the same way rather than in one liners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you initiate sex, he won't say no"

This is a big one!.

I think a lot of people have this misconception that every man is raring to go at all times and with anyone, which needs to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to give head - a lot of people are useless at it. Hand jobs too. Get a hold of it FFS!

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Id say the iggest one is we arent all creeps, some of us like holding conversations and like getting to know you whether you are single or a couple. Some of us even take no for an answer without reacting like a stroppy teen. Peace and love peace and love.

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt

"Sometimes, genuinely all I want is a quickie or to suck your dick and fuck off.

Sometimes a two minute bang and getting the fuck out of my space is genuinely all that's wanted

I'm the opposite and experience this far too often, that all I want now is hours of fun. Teasing, foreplay, fucking, cuddling, more fucking... a girl can dream.

Beth x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

This is a biiiiiiiig question, OP.

I think, for both sexes, I'd say drop the preconceptions. Reading the thread you can see them everywhere - men think women want this, women think men want that. Replace assumptions with open and honest communication - finding out about the other person and going from there - and I think there would be far fewer misunderstandings between the sexes.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"This is a biiiiiiiig question, OP.

Mrs TMN x"

Absolutely spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a biiiiiiiig question, OP.

Mrs TMN x"

I didn’t mean for it to come across as such a big question but I agree with you completely. If we all spoke to each other more openly we would get on a lot better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every hole isn’t a goal.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Men are simple creatures and mostly have no interest in materialistic gifts at Christmas or birthdays.

Bake them cakes and biscuits, prentice them in your own special way. A personal gift like that is all I’ve ever wanted so why can’t the women in my life understand?

I don’t say it to make you feel better about the gifts you bought that don’t fit/ I don’t like/ I have no need for!

I just want personal touch home baked goods!

Thank you please.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Slow down, experience and savour. It’s not a race to the orgasm.

Remember we are all individuals with different wants and needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What are some things you wish the opposite sex would know about?. It could be anything. A chance to shed some light on misconceptions men and women have about each other. "

Men don't always know how to fix something when it breaks or goes wrong. Most guys haven't hot a clue why your car engine is making funny noises, your hairdryer isn't blowing hot anymore and why your new air fryer isn't cooking things properly.

Some of them have less of a clue about electrical/mechanical issues than the dog.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Men are simple creatures and mostly have no interest in materialistic gifts at Christmas or birthdays.

Bake them cakes and biscuits, prentice them in your own special way. A personal gift like that is all I’ve ever wanted so why can’t the women in my life understand?

I don’t say it to make you feel better about the gifts you bought that don’t fit/ I don’t like/ I have no need for!

I just want personal touch home baked goods!

Thank you please.

This

*and a blowjob or two.......

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Top tip for women; Look at upcoming football fixtures.

I was chatting to someone last week who moaned that her husband ignored her when she pulled out sex toys.

Liverpool v Man Utd was on TV at the time."

To be fair, 11 blokes got fucked senseless that night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men are simple creatures and mostly have no interest in materialistic gifts at Christmas or birthdays.

Bake them cakes and biscuits, prentice them in your own special way. A personal gift like that is all I’ve ever wanted so why can’t the women in my life understand?

I don’t say it to make you feel better about the gifts you bought that don’t fit/ I don’t like/ I have no need for!

I just want personal touch home baked goods!

Thank you please.

Craig always says the same thing to me and the kids for Christmas and birthdays!

I guess from me I just feel guilty not buying him gifts but I do understand how sentimental homemade things are and they mean so much more than materialistic things. Maybe I should start listening to him.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"Not all men like having their balls sucked!

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This, glad it's not just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes, genuinely all I want is a quickie or to suck your dick and fuck off.

Sometimes a two minute bang and getting the fuck out of my space is genuinely all that's wanted

You expect us to last two minutes?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Sometimes, genuinely all I want is a quickie or to suck your dick and fuck off.

Sometimes a two minute bang and getting the fuck out of my space is genuinely all that's wanted

You expect us to last two minutes?

Well that's obviously including cuddle time as well

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes, genuinely all I want is a quickie or to suck your dick and fuck off.

Sometimes a two minute bang and getting the fuck out of my space is genuinely all that's wanted

You expect us to last two minutes?

Well that's obviously including cuddle time as well

LvM"

Thank god for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all men like having their balls sucked!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Men don't always know how to fix something when it breaks or goes wrong."

Oh my god, this. So much this.

And it’s not just mechanical, electrical, or DIY things either. Office politics, relationship troubles, gardening, global trade negotiations, health issues, directions to that shop you went in once on that day in that place …

I know we have this reassuring masculine air of competence, but most of the time we are fucking winging it. Just like you are.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

"Men don't always know how to fix something when it breaks or goes wrong. Most guys haven't hot a clue why your car engine is making funny noises, your hairdryer isn't blowing hot anymore and why your new air fryer isn't cooking things properly."

Women don't always need men to know how to fix something when it breaks or goes wrong. Many of us are quite capable of getting our own toolboxes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men don't necessarily experience emotion in the same way as women.

Stop telling us it's OK to cry, talk about our feelings etc. It's also OK not to cry, not talk about feelings etc.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Men don't always know how to fix something when it breaks or goes wrong.

Oh my god, this. So much this.

I know we have this reassuring masculine air of competence, but most of the time we are fucking winging it. Just like you are."

Haha agreed

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Just because we’re online dosnt mean we are sat here in sexy lingerie, feeling horny and ready to get in our cars and meet you. In reality it would be very disappointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Top tip for women; Look at upcoming football fixtures.

I was chatting to someone last week who moaned that her husband ignored her when she pulled out sex toys.

Liverpool v Man Utd was on TV at the time."

Hey, I’m a woman, and I probably know more about football fixtures than most men haha!

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Sometimes, genuinely all I want is a quickie or to suck your dick and fuck off.

Sometimes a two minute bang and getting the fuck out of my space is genuinely all that's wanted

That needs to be made clear to us guys upfront!

Because it's been drummed into us that women hate guys who finish too quick."

Sometimes... it's taken as the ultimate flattery

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Sometimes... it's taken as the ultimate flattery

Luton airport, in the toilets, two minutes up against the wall, max. Then we can go somewhere nice and try again.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Sometimes... it's taken as the ultimate flattery

.... two minutes ..."

As long as that, surely not

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"As long as that, surely not

Well if you *want* me to go faster, I do like a challenge.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"Sometimes... it's taken as the ultimate flattery

Luton airport, in the toilets, two minutes up against the wall, max. Then we can go somewhere nice and try again."

No one goes to Luton by choice

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"Just because we’re online dosnt mean we are sat here in sexy lingerie, feeling horny and ready to get in our cars and meet you. In reality it would be very disappointing

Aw come oooonnn! THAT is a lie if ever I read one!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Boobs are just bloody nice to look at. Cut me some slack.

(This is in jest. Please don't kill me.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't rotate a penis when jerking it off. Up down motions is all that's needed. Not too tight grip but also not like a flappy salmon

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"Don't rotate a penis when jerking it off. Up down motions is all that's needed. Not too tight grip but also not like a flappy salmon"

So not like a stiff gearbox that sticks trying to get it into third?

Mind blown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't rotate a penis when jerking it off. Up down motions is all that's needed. Not too tight grip but also not like a flappy salmon

So not like a stiff gearbox that sticks trying to get it into third?

Mind blown "

Exactly! Some do!

Also just use your mouth ffs we are all friends here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't rotate a penis when jerking it off. Up down motions is all that's needed. Not too tight grip but also not like a flappy salmon"

Don’t windmill the penis, got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you initiate sex, he won't say no"

Sadly someone did and now I usually end up talking myself out of initiating it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it really goes for everyone but we never forget how you make us feel.

It's not about how hard you can f**k or repeat or the way your body is . Its about how we feel in the moment. Don't ruin it !!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Women don't always need men to know how to fix something when it breaks or goes wrong. Many of us are quite capable of getting our own toolboxes out."

And we bloody love it when you do.

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By *tar80sWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

A warm wet cloth after sex is a beautiful feeling on the privates.

For both sexes.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I would like women to know that engineer is a great profession.

There are so few female engineers which, is ironic as it's a profession where wages are truly equal. Plus, it's no fun working with men all the time, we need to mix things up a bit in the engineering world.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"A warm wet cloth after sex is a beautiful feeling on the privates.

For both sexes. "

Ooh, that's new. Will try that, ta.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"What are some things you wish the opposite sex would know about?. It could be anything. A chance to shed some light on misconceptions men and women have about each other. "

Women should stop generalising men

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"What are some things you wish the opposite sex would know about?. It could be anything. A chance to shed some light on misconceptions men and women have about each other.

Women should stop generalising men "

And men should stop generalising women. How about people don't generalise people?

It's almost as if we aren't all individuals with our own personalities, thoughts and emotions etc...

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