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By *ukeit17 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a sort of issue I guess and looking for some advice:

I really want to penetrate a woman anally. Unfortunately my partner just can't do it, I've tried to park the idea in my head, but can't stop thinking about it.

Has anyone got any advice how I can find someone to help me out with my small problem and allow me to explore with them? As with most guys on here I struggle to get any responses.

Thanks,

Luke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally couples don't to anal play with strangers so that idea is a very long shot, single ladies are a hot ticket item and anal only play is niche so the chances are slim (but not non existent)

Best bet is probably a lady of a more professional nature.

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By *ukeit17 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Unfortunately I think your very right. I'm open to other pleasure with any said women too, not only anally, but would just like that to be part of any meeting.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

This could be an interesting thread

Can advise you on how to give anal training to your partner so you both can enjoy it unless their a medical issues or its s defernat computer says no from her .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with most things the answer is nearly always talk.

Talk to her aviut how much you want to try it. Then work up to it using lots and lots of lube.

But if its still a no it's a no.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum)

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum) "

Damn. Was just about to DM you both asking for anal.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart


"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum)

Damn. Was just about to DM you both asking for anal. "

Funny man we know your not being serious as we've seen you on the forums and you seem pretty decent but there are those gobshites that can't tke no for an answer lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I keep thinking the title says 'anal exploding '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a sort of issue I guess and looking for some advice:

I really want to penetrate a woman anally. Unfortunately my partner just can't do it, I've tried to park the idea in my head, but can't stop thinking about it.

Has anyone got any advice how I can find someone to help me out with my small problem and allow me to explore with them? As with most guys on here I struggle to get any responses.

Thanks,

Luke. "

Some women just don't like it, they think its dirty, demeaning or just damn painful. As said before its about trusting your partner that they are not going to do anything that will take away the closeness of it. I am a lucky man my wife loves anal and mixed in with other sexy activities it is awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I couldn’t do that with anyone expect my husband.

He loves it but only gets to do it on special occasions

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

That will teach me for reading g without my glasses on. I read the title as anal exploding

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

I came here for the anal exploding too...

Does that say more about our minds I wonder?

Op, training with toys, lube and taking it slow at your partners pace is the way to go. Just the tip rimming is a sensual way to start

Cherry x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think women who enjoy anal sex prefer to do it with an experienced man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum)

Damn. Was just about to DM you both asking for anal. "

Fuck me your profile just had me laughing!

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum)

Damn. Was just about to DM you both asking for anal.

Fuck me your profile just had me laughing!"

Thank you Chicken, that’s very forward of you!

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By *haz500Man
over a year ago

near burnley/blackburn/bury

Following

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If someone does not want anal sex ..... they do not need anal 'training' ..

If anal sex is that important to you O.P. I really do hope that you get that experience with someone who wants that experience too.

Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"As with most things the answer is nearly always talk.

Talk to her aviut how much you want to try it. Then work up to it using lots and lots of lube.

But if its still a no it's a no. "

Its already a no ...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum) "

Maybe 3 things. Maybe if the woman wants anal sex is important too.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"If someone does not want anal sex ..... they do not need anal 'training' ..

If anal sex is that important to you O.P. I really do hope that you get that experience with someone who wants that experience too.

Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ?

"

No, but that sounds like a very clever approach to getting lots of oral!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"If someone does not want anal sex ..... they do not need anal 'training' ..

If anal sex is that important to you O.P. I really do hope that you get that experience with someone who wants that experience too.

Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ?

No, but that sounds like a very clever approach to getting lots of oral! "

Okay sonny assume the position !

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Anal toys? Or she's just not into it?

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Forgot what anal was like

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"If someone does not want anal sex ..... they do not need anal 'training' ..

If anal sex is that important to you O.P. I really do hope that you get that experience with someone who wants that experience too.

Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ?

No, but that sounds like a very clever approach to getting lots of oral!

Okay sonny assume the position !"

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Have you not had any joys with your search for a TV yet either OP

Are you hoping for receiving as well as giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the title of the post is missing a letter. I had.to.click to see if.it was anal exploring,anal exploding or anal exploiting. Either way had promise so I figured I could t lose. Lots of lube and I don't know if you know about pah pourss but they will solve your problem.i can't say the word it won't let me but it would be an extention of pop

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"I have a sort of issue I guess and looking for some advice:

I really want to penetrate a woman anally. Unfortunately my partner just can't do it, I've tried to park the idea in my head, but can't stop thinking about it.

Has anyone got any advice how I can find someone to help me out with my small problem and allow me to explore with them? As with most guys on here I struggle to get any responses.

Thanks,

Luke. "

another single with a couple issue, speak to her like you just did to a load of strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum)

Damn. Was just about to DM you both asking for anal.

Fuck me your profile just had me laughing!

Thank you Chicken, that’s very forward of you! "

You’re very welcome! Never backwards in coming forward, me. Also been known to come sideways. And by anal actually which now makes this comment vaguely relevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I can never get why a guy would want to ass fuck a lady who wasn’t really into it?? My pleasure isn’t in her ass (tbh it does feel that much different to pussy) but it seeing and feeling how much pleasure she is getting from it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques "

Jezzz that sounds more like a women in labour lol

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I keep thinking the title says 'anal exploding ' "
exploiting i think he meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques "

4 fingers in the arse,

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum) "

And patience!

Some men just have no idea and want to rush straight in.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques

4 fingers in the arse, "

Not the fucking kitkat again ! Can I have the orange one this time please

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"If someone does not want anal sex ..... they do not need anal 'training' ..

If anal sex is that important to you O.P. I really do hope that you get that experience with someone who wants that experience too.

Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ?

"

I am so with you on this one Granny. I find it almost infuriating how so many people are advising him to presure his partner into it. If she doesn't want it, she doesn't want it. Period.

My husband and I have tried to give it a go many times, in many ways with lots of time and patience (and lube) and it still hurts and makes me uncomfortable. I can't imagine someone would push me to do it just because they really want it.

Maybe it's time to look for a new partner if getting anal with someone else is more important for you than she is

K

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ? "

Yes, two guys I know of.

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By *ubytuesdaysTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

you need a nice Tranny Aunty to show bothe how to do it and make it nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques

4 fingers in the arse,

Not the fucking kitkat again ! Can I have the orange one this time please"
that’s twice people have misquoted and gone along with it! 3 fingers I said and being about the girth of a cock it should make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only came in to see if this is about anal exploring or exploding?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques

4 fingers in the arse, "
struggling to see where I said feed the pony to the arsehole… 3 fingers slowly and incrementally shouldn’t be a problem for anyone really but each to their own

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By *ukeit17 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

It's not really an issue between us... We've tried a few times but she's just very tight and we've got to a point that she doesn't want to go further. I have no problem with that, I would never force anyone into pursuing something that isn't for them. But I still want to try it, so I'm just after someone that can help me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques

4 fingers in the arse, struggling to see where I said feed the pony to the arsehole… 3 fingers slowly and incrementally shouldn’t be a problem for anyone really but each to their own "

Please stop going on about how many fingers it will take to stretch a bum hole you’ve went into more than enough detail now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not really an issue between us... We've tried a few times but she's just very tight and we've got to a point that she doesn't want to go further. I have no problem with that, I would never force anyone into pursuing something that isn't for them. But I still want to try it, so I'm just after someone that can help me... "

Just your wife mind you finding a bumhole to fuck.

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)


"I only came in to see if this is about anal exploring or exploding?.. "

Haha same

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