FabSwingers.com forum: Poll online - Nearly half of people don't think oral sex counts as having sex

By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Who agrees?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, oral is part of sex but when I say I want sex I mean the full works.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Who agrees?"

Couldn't care less either way.

I suppose to many it's foreplay rather than sex.

To others it's a sex act so yes, it's sex.

And I guess to any guys cheating on partners then saying a blowjob isn't sex may ease their conscience or seem a valid excuse if caught.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's in the name "oral sex" it's a sex act therefore considered sex.

Mrs

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Who agrees?"

Then bill Clinton council were right

He did not have sex with that woman miss Lewinsky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me, oral is part of sex but when I say I want sex I mean the full works."

Totally agree..

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

PS oral sex is pretty sexy to me

But for any ladies out there wishing to give me a bj who have a missigiveing about the act we can say its not sex and you'll be OK I'll keep your secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a question to poll - of course it isn't sex. Is kissing sex?! Even that will be classed as sex most likely

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No I wouldn’t class it as having sex

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"No I wouldn’t class it as having sex "

Really? If you were at a STI Clinic, they would disagree with you cos you can catch and pass on infections via Oral Sex. Yeah, Oral Sex, it's a proper classification.

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
over a year ago

Mainly under the bed...

I always thought that oral sex was fine, and didn't constitute actual sex, therefore not a sin in the eyes of God.

That's what father McGinley told me when I was a choir boy. So I'm still going to heaven (but boy did I have a sore throat!).

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Who agrees?"

Not the law...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clearly i disagree with the majority. Px

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

That sucks!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

When you have ‘full sex’, we refer to penetration, so then we can all agree, we had sex.

When you talk about ‘oral sex’, you say “I gave her oral” or “I gave him a bj”, but you don’t say “we had sex”, therefore; oral sex is just a sex act

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"What a question to poll - of course it isn't sex. Is kissing sex?! Even that will be classed as sex most likely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you have ‘full sex’, we refer to penetration, so then we can all agree, we had sex.

When you talk about ‘oral sex’, you say “I gave her oral” or “I gave him a bj”, but you don’t say “we had sex”, therefore; oral sex is just a sex act

Health wise anything sexual is sex, but in play terms, its a sexual act but not sex itself (penetration)... my 2p worth

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By *WINGStars23Couple
over a year ago

Northwest

If you are touching another person for your own gratification or theirs it's a sexual act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they said ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fun but on its own not enough for me

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

'Having Sex' really denotes penetration for us, however we'd argue the case that oral is probably a more intimate act..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"When you have ‘full sex’, we refer to penetration, so then we can all agree, we had sex.

When you talk about ‘oral sex’, you say “I gave her oral” or “I gave him a bj”, but you don’t say “we had sex”, therefore; oral sex is just a sex act

Health wise anything sexual is sex, but in play terms, its a sexual act but not sex itself (penetration)... my 2p worth

I completely agree! And my 2p worth; women only suck cocks to get them hard so they can ‘have sex’

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Penetration includes the act of putting a penis into an orafice..vagina or mouth is classed as penetration..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

That means more than half (of those surveyed and it could be ten people or a hundred or a thousand) think it is having sex. Has this moved humanity forward and was the survey commissioned by Bill Clinton?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's a sexual act, but to me, sex is penis in the vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not sex. I’m just snogging them between the legs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Sorry shouldnt type with my mouth full.

It counts as sex.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I don't care, just getting one every now and then would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people view sex in a very hetro normative way.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

If I had a meet and it was oral only (either way) I'd be disappointed. Sex act but for me no, not sex.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Oral "penetrates" the oral cavity. Anal penetrates the anal cavity. Vaginal sex penetrates the vaginal cavity. They're all sex of different kinds.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Oral sex is a form/part of sex... But when people talk about sex they are referring to full-blown intercourse.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Bill, is that you?

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

It's called Foreplay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a Jaffa cake, it's in the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what it is considered as, I'm gonna do it and damn well enjoy it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes oral is sex, and it is defined in law so it doesn't matter if one believes it is or not.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If you are touching another person for your own gratification or theirs it's a sexual act."

The question wasn’t if it was a sexual act or not though. Of course it’s a sexual act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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