FabSwingers.com forum: In trouble for swearing at work

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm in an office environment with women. The only guy there.

If I make mistake s etc.. miter curses. One complaint against me is that they feel uncomfortable.

If I wear something like an elastic band on my wrist will that help?

A reminder? I was thinking a post it note on my PC with a face with a zip on the mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average how many swear word per day?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not used to office work, more male dominated environment with other guys who f and blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrap duct tape around your head covering your mouth

Problem solved

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

I've been told off for this before.

My advice.

Try and substitute words if you must say something, make sure its inoffensive.

Otherwise try and keep your trap shut.

I've mastered eye rolling and saying stuff in my head.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you try raise it as a joke/team effort rather than have the awkwardness that you and they know they're complaining about you? Like 'sorry guys, I'm trying to tone it down, let's start a swear jar and you can dig me when I slip up'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On average how many swear word per day?"

50 to 100?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Potty mouth

Have a swear jar and tell the women at the end of the year they get to divvy up the cash.

50p for a bloody/ bollocks/sod it.

£1 for a shit.

£2 for a fuck.

£5 for a cunt.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"On average how many swear word per day?

50 to 100?"

Fucking hell. Surely making 50-100 mistakes a day at work isn't sustainable? Depends where you work I guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My old team use to swear so much they used names of fruits instead. They didn’t learn that from me

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Our household has adopted the phrase "oh biscuits" (thanks, Bluey

) Try using words that begin with the same letter as the swear word, e.g. I say "oh, for flippity-flop's sake" when I'm around our daughter. I still feel kind of like I've got my "issue" out. Although, at work, away from the students or public spaces, we do swear like troopers.......

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"On average how many swear word per day?

50 to 100?"

You're swearing once every 5 minutes?

I thiught I swore a lot but I think their complaints are justified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try using "rats cocks" say it quick enough and no one will pick it up. Although "fucking rats cocks" will probably get you in trouble.

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By *imandher123456Couple
over a year ago

gosport

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Try using "rats cocks" say it quick enough and no one will pick it up. Although "fucking rats cocks" will probably get you in trouble."

I say "oh cock" fairly often (in a swearing sense)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm not used to office work, more male dominated environment with other guys who f and blind"

You've been in the office a while though haven't you.

What's causing you to swear 50 to 100 times a day, that's quite a lot over 8 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Potty mouth

Have a swear jar and tell the women at the end of the year they get to divvy up the cash.

50p for a bloody/ bollocks/sod it.

£1 for a shit.

£2 for a fuck.

£5 for a cunt."

2 cunts and a fuck please.

Keep the change.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

"On average how many swear word per day?

50 to 100?

Fucking hell. Surely making 50-100 mistakes a day at work isn't sustainable? Depends where you work I guess..."

Doesn't seem to be a problem for the fucktards I work with...in fact some have built very successful careers on it

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I swear a lot however you can control yourself, it's just a change of not being so relaxed in the environment you're in. I work in hospitality so in front of Guests I will say 'Oh sugar plums' , back of house I will say 'oh fuck off bunch of cunts'

Know your crowd

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

How about using some alternatives?

“chuffing Nora”

“For fudge sake”

“Hells teeth”

“Give me strength”

“Jesus wept”

“Ah shoot”

Sometimes you just got to leave the “forfuckssakeyoupeabrainedharpy” at the door.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I'm in an office environment with women. The only guy there.

If I make mistake s etc.. miter curses. One complaint against me is that they feel uncomfortable.

If I wear something like an elastic band on my wrist will that help?

A reminder? I was thinking a post it note on my PC with a face with a zip on the mouth."

What are the policies?

I worked somewhere years ago and someone complained about my swearing. Turns out they were a JW and didn't like that I'd said, "Oh my god."

Next time the manager was in our office I complained about all of my colleagues swearing "like a bunch of cunts."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to your doctor if you think you may have a medical reason for your excessive swearing in the workplace.

If it turns out you have a condition then your workplace will legally be required to make reasonable adjustments such as buying your colleagues ear defenders.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

So you should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez, why are people offended by a few swear words. They sound a right barrel of laughs to work with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez, why are people offended by a few swear words. They sound a right barrel of laughs to work with."

Only just read the full thread now and have seen how many times you swear, that does seem a bit excessive. As someone else has mentioned, a swear jar perhaps?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm probably one of the worst for swearing in the office

Always been in work environments with people who swear a lot but then I'm also client facing so can switch and not swear Infront of them! Just takes practice OP

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Just say that fucking working with them has given you bastarding tourettes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On average how many swear word per day?

50 to 100?"

What the flark

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

I guess you couldn't use Tourettes Syndrome as a defence?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Just type yourself a fake sick note from your GP saying you have tourettes.

Then take it to your manager and HR and tell them to fuck off and shove it up their arses.

That should make it appear completely believable.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally, I think it's a sad reflection of modern society that "swear words" have become part of "normal" speech. They should be reserved for special occasions, otherwise they lose their impact.

Cal

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We are all adults for goodness sake..i can cope with hearing someone swear and not being offended by it..

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"We are all adults for goodness sake..i can cope with hearing someone swear and not being offended by it.."

We're also all different and some people ARE offended by swearing.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"We are all adults for goodness sake..i can cope with hearing someone swear and not being offended by it.."

Most adults can moderate their language in an environment where it's not really appropriate to swear

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"We are all adults for goodness sake..i can cope with hearing someone swear and not being offended by it..

We're also all different and some people ARE offended by swearing."

Isn't that their problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think cursing throughout the day is acceptable? Office environments generally are much more politically correct these days.

Try taking a breath before speaking if something is right.

If you're in a probationary period you need to be careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an employer I would treat this seriously.

You would be given the appropriate warnings and offered help to overcome your problem but ultimately if you didn’t change your socially unacceptable behaviour you’d be looking for alternative employment.

The ball is firmly in your court on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to replacing the swear word with something like "biscuits"....you never know, the complainee may even offer you one

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No swearing in the office, tut tut. As others have said replace it with something else.

I used to use the elastic band technique for something I was trying to conquer and it worked a treat for me

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’d be screwed, I’m a foul mouthed little shit

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

well dont fuckin swear,

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've worked in offices pretty much all my career, it's usually expected that people will moderate their language. Other people might be on the phone, there could be a visitor or a colleague from another department visiting. I only worked in one place where someone swore a lot and she was eventually disciplined. Nearly everyone swears at some point but in my opinion excessive swearing isn't acceptable.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm in an office environment with women. The only guy there.

If I make mistake s etc.. miter curses. One complaint against me is that they feel uncomfortable.

If I wear something like an elastic band on my wrist will that help?

A reminder? I was thinking a post it note on my PC with a face with a zip on the mouth."

Do you swear as much outside of work?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That's a lot of swearing. I wouldn't be offended, but it would get on my nerves. there really isn't need for it. I'd have to take you to one side and tell you to shut the fuck up, if you didn't stop I'd report you!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Ahh the beauty of being self employed and invariably working alone, I can swear to my hearts content , to be fair it is usually at myself for making a basic error

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!

Fuck em!! - please let me know if this advice was helpful!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fuck em!! - please let me know if this advice was helpful!!

Think it has, I've stuck a very small bit of post-it note on the bottom of screen with an "X" written on it. Not noticeable and a bit cryptic too but reminds me not to swear. I also used to talk to myself when remembering a number to write down, but stopped that too incase they think I'm muttering a swearword.

Only swore quietly, once on Wednesday, and once on Thursday, both occasions I dropped paperwork and apologised if they overhead me.

I was going to explain I say numbers out loud to remember them to note down in a notepad and not muttering swear words they might think I'm being sarcastic to them so didn't.

Ok so far fingers crossed...

Small X on post-it note helps.. it's 1cm square with X on it. Not noticeable.. it was a face with an X where the mouth goes but now just an X and I know what it means.

Others swear all the time, including them which doesn't help but sticker plus being so far sent to Coventry keeps me out the conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm in an office environment with women. The only guy there.

If I make mistake s etc.. miter curses. One complaint against me is that they feel uncomfortable.

If I wear something like an elastic band on my wrist will that help?

A reminder? I was thinking a post it note on my PC with a face with a zip on the mouth.

Do you swear as much outside of work?"

Only at work.. hate my job so much, I'm not going to go back, until I see the pay in my account, and also pass the god awful job centre seems to dissuade me from packing job in

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

This isn't a gender issue.

There is an office.

One of the workers swears throughout the day.

Most of the workers feel uncomfortable.

Stop it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I swear a lot however you can control yourself, it's just a change of not being so relaxed in the environment you're in. I work in hospitality so in front of Guests I will say 'Oh sugar plums' , back of house I will say 'oh fuck off bunch of cunts'

Know your crowd

Beautifully put.

50 to 100 per shift is normal for me to, it's just me, I've worked in an office before and depends on your family, parents and how you speak around those then maybe try that "around family" approach.

If you swear around your family then you're fucked, a swear jar will cost you more than your daily wage so change jobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in an office environment with women. The only guy there.

If I make mistake s etc.. miter curses. One complaint against me is that they feel uncomfortable.

If I wear something like an elastic band on my wrist will that help?

A reminder? I was thinking a post it note on my PC with a face with a zip on the mouth.

Do you swear as much outside of work?

Only at work.. hate my job so much, I'm not going to go back, until I see the pay in my account, and also pass the god awful job centre seems to dissuade me from packing job in"

Probably you're swearing so much because you hate your job...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some office environments can be so rigid and stifling that the inhibit any form of creativity...maybe that's the idea though.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Some office environments can be so rigid and stifling that the inhibit any form of creativity...maybe that's the idea though."

Swearing that often isn't exactly being creative

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Fuck em!! - please let me know if this advice was helpful!!

Only swore quietly, once on Wednesday, and once on Thursday, both occasions I dropped paperwork and apologised if they overhead me.

I was going to explain I say numbers out loud to remember them to note down in a notepad and not muttering swear words they might think I'm being sarcastic to them so didn't.

Ok so far fingers crossed...

Small X on post-it note helps.. it's 1cm square with X on it. Not noticeable.. it was a face with an X where the mouth goes but now just an X and I know what it means.

Others swear all the time, including them which doesn't help but sticker plus being so far sent to Coventry keeps me out the conversation

It sounds like your work environment is uncomfortable to say the least. Being sent to Coventry is childish.

Is there any way you can all discuss this and find a way to work together if not in a cordial way at least being able to communicate and without otracising you?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Why do so many people have to swear is it cool? Its certainly not necessary i was on train yesterday and a guy on his phone on a packed train swearing every other word its unattractive in my book

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Why do so many people have to swear is it cool? Its certainly not necessary i was on train yesterday and a guy on his phone on a packed train swearing every other word its unattractive in my book

I have no idea why people do it. It sounds so awful and it’s completely unnecessary. It puts me right off.

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By *ookingforprincecharmingWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster/visiting somewhere in uk

I swear constantly at work, I work in a very male dominated environment, there is me a 6 blokes, political correctness is none existent. I had to spend a night in a hotel this week and my boss actually asked if I had my safety knickers on!!!

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Goto work in gry joggers and a white tshirt, then you can have them for staring lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Just revisited this thread I assumed that the OP was a 20 something year old!

Sorry you really should be able to contain your language.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Are you swearing at them or to them?

Give us an example of a situation where you’ve sworn please.

I work in a female dominated industry and language/demeanour is hugely important

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

How old are you Op?

You really should know the answer to your question at you age!

It's hardly professional....

It's a matter of measuring up your colleagues & then making an informed decision from there.

I only did if others did, and also if i wanted to get the sack!!!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Why do so many people have to swear is it cool? Its certainly not necessary i was on train yesterday and a guy on his phone on a packed train swearing every other word its unattractive in my book

I have no idea why people do it. It sounds so awful and it’s completely unnecessary. It puts me right off. "
exactly and it shows its part of their everyday language he didn't bat an eyelid

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you swearing at them or to them?

Give us an example of a situation where you’ve sworn please.

I work in a female dominated industry and language/demeanour is hugely important

Dropped paperwork on floor: "fucking hell"

Scalded hand with boiling water : "ya bastard" etc ...

Called the printer a bitch when jammed up numerous times .. all good so far though.. just once per day but getting it to zero.. wish me luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you swearing at them or to them?

Give us an example of a situation where you’ve sworn please.

I work in a female dominated industry and language/demeanour is hugely important

They swear too, and use f word etc.. but they're talking to each other and fit in better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you swearing at them or to them?

Give us an example of a situation where you’ve sworn please.

I work in a female dominated industry and language/demeanour is hugely important

They swear too, and use f word etc.. but they're talking to each other and fit in better"

If they swear too, write it down every time they do so - name, date and time. If you get enough evidence over a given period of time, submit a grievance to your boss for sexual discrimination in the workplace.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"Are you swearing at them or to them?

Give us an example of a situation where you’ve sworn please.

I work in a female dominated industry and language/demeanour is hugely important

They swear too, and use f word etc.. but they're talking to each other and fit in better"

There is a difference between someone swearing in conversation and soneone cursing hundreds of times a day.

But it shows they just need you to moderate not eliminate the behaviour which will be easier

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Its never the words it's the intention and the subtleties. I've often thought why im not offended by some people swearing but I am by others and it's definitely their manner and not their words.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its never the words it's the intention and the subtleties. I've often thought why im not offended by some people swearing but I am by others and it's definitely their manner and not their words.

Yep, lesson learnt albeit a bit too late now. But what's done is done..Just have to weather it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some office environments can be so rigid and stifling that the inhibit any form of creativity...maybe that's the idea though.

Swearing that often isn't exactly being creative "

Did I say it was?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Next time you make the decision to swear, change your decision and don’t swear. Think before you swear. T.B.Y.S. A well known practical strategy.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"Next time you make the decision to swear, change your decision and don’t swear. Think before you swear. T.B.Y.S. A well known practical strategy. "

Welcome back Sir

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

You seem like a very angry man.

Before leaving for work stand in your living room and shout profanities until your throat hurts.

Might help to get it out of your system.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"You seem like a very angry man.

Before leaving for work stand in your living room and shout profanities until your throat hurts.

Might help to get it out of your system. "
Its just in some peoples upbringing eg kids start swearing because its their first steps at being a rebel along with smoking and being cheeky and that continues into adulthood also it would appear if you are Scottish its just part of the language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swear like a trooper and always have done (everyone does in my family), but changed company and one person in the office is religous and hates profanity. So in work I don't swear, its not difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like it says is the bible. If they don't like it fuck 'em

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Is it that hard to control what words you say?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The disciplinary hearing will be fun because they will ask you “what exactly did you say?” and then you can swear officially.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it that hard to control what words you say? "

I've sorted it now, but the damage is already done.. just have to weather it out like I said above

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Is it that hard to control what words you say?

I've sorted it now, but the damage is already done.. just have to weather it out like I said above"

Well done for sorting it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it that hard to control what words you say?

I've sorted it now, but the damage is already done.. just have to weather it out like I said above

Well done for sorting it. "

Thanks.. just have to let things run their course.. bit of an awkward atmosphere at the moment but early days.

Not out of the doghouse yet though by a long way I reckon.

Friend suggested I buy em chocolates etc.. but would look disingenuous.. let sleeping dogs lie I reckon..

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"Personally, I think it's a sad reflection of modern society that "swear words" have become part of "normal" speech. They should be reserved for special occasions, otherwise they lose their impact.

Cal"

Here here

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"We are all adults for goodness sake..i can cope with hearing someone swear and not being offended by it..

We're also all different and some people ARE offended by swearing.

Isn't that their problem? "

That they're offended by "offensive language"?

Would it be "their problem" if they were offended by someone watching porn or a violent material in the office?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What did you say then? *intrigued*

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Is it that hard to control what words you say?

I've sorted it now, but the damage is already done.. just have to weather it out like I said above

Well done for sorting it.

Thanks.. just have to let things run their course.. bit of an awkward atmosphere at the moment but early days.

Not out of the doghouse yet though by a long way I reckon.

Friend suggested I buy em chocolates etc.. but would look disingenuous.. let sleeping dogs lie I reckon..

You could make a genuine public apology and promise to try to do better?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Is it that hard to control what words you say?

I've sorted it now, but the damage is already done.. just have to weather it out like I said above

Well done for sorting it.

Thanks.. just have to let things run their course.. bit of an awkward atmosphere at the moment but early days.

Not out of the doghouse yet though by a long way I reckon.

Friend suggested I buy em chocolates etc.. but would look disingenuous.. let sleeping dogs lie I reckon..

I wouldnt buy anything. Its about working together and being as pleasant as possible with eachother. We can all make mistakes and learn and be better. No need for anyone to keep reliving it.

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