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The WINNING voice awards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Categories in the following

Hottest man voice

Hottest woman voice

Funniest man chat

Funniest woman chat

Nominate you asses!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Not in

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Meli hottest female voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lemonbuttercream for funniest woman

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Midnights joke was hilarious

Marc

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Meli 100% has the most sultry voice I've heard on here. If she doesn't win sexiest female voice it's a fucken fix.

One from the outfield for a girl who has Liverpool as a hard limit, but Kaitonel's voice had the best effect on me.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

If you’re going to get all competitive about it I’m taking my video back down.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've got a particular set of voice skills

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Midnight's is the best I've heard as well as one I got sent solo privately

Funniest - can't see any! Did love meeting bill the bin though

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Christ it's not about a popularity contest! It's just a bit of fun...I had never seen or noticed the guy I nominated for funniest before for example!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest."

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf"

I actually thought the thread showed a real openess for community and people were listening to people they haven't ever dealt with. I had fabs on mine from people I've never spoken to before, men and women, and I did the same back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest."

Too late. The forums mostly are already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf

I actually thought the thread showed a real openess for community and people were listening to people they haven't ever dealt with. I had fabs on mine from people I've never spoken to before, men and women, and I did the same back "

Lol, of course it did.

Congratumalations btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf

I actually thought the thread showed a real openess for community and people were listening to people they haven't ever dealt with. I had fabs on mine from people I've never spoken to before, men and women, and I did the same back "

I think there was a lot of energy and excitement around it and it gave a really positive insight into people. Sorry if I'm getting carried away! Bill enjoyed it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Too late. The forums mostly are already."

Like a rapier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LemonButterCream definitely gets my vote.

For both Hottest and funniest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was lovely to hear everyone’s voices last night and there wasn’t one I didn’t enjoy listening to

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf

I actually thought the thread showed a real openess for community and people were listening to people they haven't ever dealt with. I had fabs on mine from people I've never spoken to before, men and women, and I did the same back "

And this sort of destroys that.

People are so self conscious about their voices as it is, not to get a mention on something like this would be worse than so many of the other popularity contests that pop up. It could be crippling to some self confidence to just be ignored after such a big leap they took yesterday.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Too late. The forums mostly are already."

I’ve not found that, personally. Maybe I’m either lucky or thick skinned

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf

I actually thought the thread showed a real openess for community and people were listening to people they haven't ever dealt with. I had fabs on mine from people I've never spoken to before, men and women, and I did the same back

And this sort of destroys that.

People are so self conscious about their voices as it is, not to get a mention on something like this would be worse than so many of the other popularity contests that pop up. It could be crippling to some self confidence to just be ignored after such a big leap they took yesterday. "

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I didn’t participate but rest assured I masturbated to every one, you’re all stars!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s just wrong..

that being said people get judged a lot by their looks never mind voice..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf

I actually thought the thread showed a real openess for community and people were listening to people they haven't ever dealt with. I had fabs on mine from people I've never spoken to before, men and women, and I did the same back

And this sort of destroys that.

People are so self conscious about their voices as it is, not to get a mention on something like this would be worse than so many of the other popularity contests that pop up. It could be crippling to some self confidence to just be ignored after such a big leap they took yesterday. "

There's 4 categories, I'm not expecting to win any! Also, people don't have to join in or read this thread? I don't know I just think it's light fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Too late. The forums mostly are already.

I’ve not found that, personally. Maybe I’m either lucky or thick skinned "

Or female ?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

[Removed by poster at 06/03/23 19:57:41]

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf

I actually thought the thread showed a real openess for community and people were listening to people they haven't ever dealt with. I had fabs on mine from people I've never spoken to before, men and women, and I did the same back

And this sort of destroys that.

People are so self conscious about their voices as it is, not to get a mention on something like this would be worse than so many of the other popularity contests that pop up. It could be crippling to some self confidence to just be ignored after such a big leap they took yesterday.

There's 4 categories, I'm not expecting to win any! Also, people don't have to join in or read this thread? I don't know I just think it's light fun "

If you really don't get it then wow...

When people choose to put their voice out there yesterday they didn't expect to have it be in competition. If they had known it wouldn't have been half as popular and only a handful would have bothered to put their voice out there. I couldn't give a fuck about being nominated or being ignored, even having my voice hated but quite clearly yesterday was a big deal for some people and this puts them (regardless of if they want to or not) in completion on something they are lacking confidence in, with zero approval of it from themselves, regardless of how light hearted it is. It's a big deal for them.

Face it, you alienated quite a few people. You fucked up with this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf

I actually thought the thread showed a real openess for community and people were listening to people they haven't ever dealt with. I had fabs on mine from people I've never spoken to before, men and women, and I did the same back

And this sort of destroys that.

People are so self conscious about their voices as it is, not to get a mention on something like this would be worse than so many of the other popularity contests that pop up. It could be crippling to some self confidence to just be ignored after such a big leap they took yesterday.

There's 4 categories, I'm not expecting to win any! Also, people don't have to join in or read this thread? I don't know I just think it's light fun

If you really don't get it then wow...

When people choose to put their voice out there yesterday they didn't expect to have it be in competition. If they had known it wouldn't have been half as popular and only a handful would have bothered to put their voice out there. I couldn't give a fuck about being nominated or being ignored, even having my voice hated but quite clearly yesterday was a big deal for some people and this puts them (regardless of if they want to or not) in completion on something they are lacking confidence in, with zero approval of it from themselves, regardless of how light hearted it is. It's a big deal for them.

Face it, you alienated quite a few people. You fucked up with this one. "

Nail on the head right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Midnight's is the best I've heard as well as one I got sent solo privately

Funniest - can't see any! Did love meeting bill the bin though "

You are with out a doubt the funniest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf

I actually thought the thread showed a real openess for community and people were listening to people they haven't ever dealt with. I had fabs on mine from people I've never spoken to before, men and women, and I did the same back

And this sort of destroys that.

People are so self conscious about their voices as it is, not to get a mention on something like this would be worse than so many of the other popularity contests that pop up. It could be crippling to some self confidence to just be ignored after such a big leap they took yesterday.

There's 4 categories, I'm not expecting to win any! Also, people don't have to join in or read this thread? I don't know I just think it's light fun "

People can respond how they wish too on a public forum, how can you understand another perspective without discussion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonko for the win!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're all being a bit harsh.

You can also say that some people are very insecure about how they look too, yet we still do who is on our hotlist thread (basically who is good enough) or who is the best looking on Fab etc best tits, best looking man etc.

It's lighthearted with no bad intentions, and doesn't mean anything at the end of the day as we all like different things. You're all shitting on Brucey like he's a massive cunt for having a bit of fun.

If you've got a problem with this I hope you've got one with the rest of the hotlist/name your fave user/private message users type of thread too because it's pretty much the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

This is why I rarely if ever participate in these things. Friends blowing smoke up other friends arses and ignoring others. It's not nice to see tbf

I actually thought the thread showed a real openess for community and people were listening to people they haven't ever dealt with. I had fabs on mine from people I've never spoken to before, men and women, and I did the same back

And this sort of destroys that.

People are so self conscious about their voices as it is, not to get a mention on something like this would be worse than so many of the other popularity contests that pop up. It could be crippling to some self confidence to just be ignored after such a big leap they took yesterday.

There's 4 categories, I'm not expecting to win any! Also, people don't have to join in or read this thread? I don't know I just think it's light fun

If you really don't get it then wow...

When people choose to put their voice out there yesterday they didn't expect to have it be in competition. If they had known it wouldn't have been half as popular and only a handful would have bothered to put their voice out there. I couldn't give a fuck about being nominated or being ignored, even having my voice hated but quite clearly yesterday was a big deal for some people and this puts them (regardless of if they want to or not) in completion on something they are lacking confidence in, with zero approval of it from themselves, regardless of how light hearted it is. It's a big deal for them.

Face it, you alienated quite a few people. You fucked up with this one. "

I honestly don't and will never see it. I don't think I fucked up.

Look, maybe I don't take myself or life as seriously as others and fine, but you don't have to get involved, look at the thread, or anything. Forums are about fun banter and discussion. This is a light hearted fun discussion, or was meant to be.

For me, and others who have messaged me, people commenting on threads being all like - you're the worst for this - that's judgemental attacking behaviour. Not a fun stupid poll.

Be boring if we all thought the same right?!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I think you're all being a bit harsh.

You can also say that some people are very insecure about how they look too, yet we still do who is on our hotlist thread (basically who is good enough) or who is the best looking on Fab etc best tits, best looking man etc.

It's lighthearted with no bad intentions, and doesn't mean anything at the end of the day as we all like different things. You're all shitting on Brucey like he's a massive cunt for having a bit of fun.

If you've got a problem with this I hope you've got one with the rest of the hotlist/name your fave user/private message users type of thread too because it's pretty much the same thing.

"

Yes and no. I don't think for a second that there are anything but the loveliest intentions behind this thread. But people joined in with the voice thread with no expectation of it becoming a competition. It was just fun to hear each other's voices. On the other sorts of threads you mention there is always an 'In' post.

J x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you're all being a bit harsh.

You can also say that some people are very insecure about how they look too, yet we still do who is on our hotlist thread (basically who is good enough) or who is the best looking on Fab etc best tits, best looking man etc.

It's lighthearted with no bad intentions, and doesn't mean anything at the end of the day as we all like different things. You're all shitting on Brucey like he's a massive cunt for having a bit of fun.

If you've got a problem with this I hope you've got one with the rest of the hotlist/name your fave user/private message users type of thread too because it's pretty much the same thing.

"

Luckily lemon, I couldn't give a shit about these kind of comments and opinions. But imagine if I did people, imagine if I did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yano this thread needs? More boobies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're all being a bit harsh.

You can also say that some people are very insecure about how they look too, yet we still do who is on our hotlist thread (basically who is good enough) or who is the best looking on Fab etc best tits, best looking man etc.

It's lighthearted with no bad intentions, and doesn't mean anything at the end of the day as we all like different things. You're all shitting on Brucey like he's a massive cunt for having a bit of fun.

If you've got a problem with this I hope you've got one with the rest of the hotlist/name your fave user/private message users type of thread too because it's pretty much the same thing.

"

Totally agree xx

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"I think you're all being a bit harsh.

You can also say that some people are very insecure about how they look too, yet we still do who is on our hotlist thread (basically who is good enough) or who is the best looking on Fab etc best tits, best looking man etc.

It's lighthearted with no bad intentions, and doesn't mean anything at the end of the day as we all like different things. You're all shitting on Brucey like he's a massive cunt for having a bit of fun.

If you've got a problem with this I hope you've got one with the rest of the hotlist/name your fave user/private message users type of thread too because it's pretty much the same thing.

"

I do kind of see your point. And I certainly haven’t shit on him or called/treated him like any kind of cunt.

But I do think this is slightly different. And the point that I’ve made is we recorded our voices especially for this thread, and lots of us openly said how uncomfortable and nervous we were. In general the pictures we have up that hotlists are based on are already there. We know they are and we accept that.

I’m not saying you’re wrong or I’m right. Just that in my personal opinion that This particular “competition “ felt off.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"If you’re going to get all competitive about it I’m taking my video back down."

I was making a joke when I said this. Now it doesn’t look like a joke. Oops.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’m with Brucey on this, it’s a bit of fun. And no harm was meant. You all had lovely voices and well done to all those did it.

Group wank?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you're all being a bit harsh.

You can also say that some people are very insecure about how they look too, yet we still do who is on our hotlist thread (basically who is good enough) or who is the best looking on Fab etc best tits, best looking man etc.

It's lighthearted with no bad intentions, and doesn't mean anything at the end of the day as we all like different things. You're all shitting on Brucey like he's a massive cunt for having a bit of fun.

If you've got a problem with this I hope you've got one with the rest of the hotlist/name your fave user/private message users type of thread too because it's pretty much the same thing.

I do kind of see your point. And I certainly haven’t shit on him or called/treated him like any kind of cunt.

But I do think this is slightly different. And the point that I’ve made is we recorded our voices especially for this thread, and lots of us openly said how uncomfortable and nervous we were. In general the pictures we have up that hotlists are based on are already there. We know they are and we accept that.

I’m not saying you’re wrong or I’m right. Just that in my personal opinion that This particular “competition “ felt off.

"

Which is fine, and I kind of see your point. But honestly, it was 4 categories. It wasn't super detailed, it was just abit of flirty praise for people. We heard many many voices and I think if anyone got upset they weren't mentioned, I mean, many others wouldn't have either.

Besides, it's a voice. Aren't we here to talk and potentially meet people? It's a voice people would hear at some point anyway?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Wow this thread got heated, looked like a bit of light hearted fun to not be taken seriously to me

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Also I'm happy to be nominated or not, either way my evening will be pretty much the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow this thread got heated, looked like a bit of light hearted fun to not be taken seriously to me "

What can I say I FUCKED UP. Apparently

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Wow this thread got heated, looked like a bit of light hearted fun to not be taken seriously to me

What can I say I FUCKED UP. Apparently "

Shame on you Brucey

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"I think you're all being a bit harsh.

You can also say that some people are very insecure about how they look too, yet we still do who is on our hotlist thread (basically who is good enough) or who is the best looking on Fab etc best tits, best looking man etc.

It's lighthearted with no bad intentions, and doesn't mean anything at the end of the day as we all like different things. You're all shitting on Brucey like he's a massive cunt for having a bit of fun.

If you've got a problem with this I hope you've got one with the rest of the hotlist/name your fave user/private message users type of thread too because it's pretty much the same thing.

I do kind of see your point. And I certainly haven’t shit on him or called/treated him like any kind of cunt.

But I do think this is slightly different. And the point that I’ve made is we recorded our voices especially for this thread, and lots of us openly said how uncomfortable and nervous we were. In general the pictures we have up that hotlists are based on are already there. We know they are and we accept that.

I’m not saying you’re wrong or I’m right. Just that in my personal opinion that This particular “competition “ felt off.

Which is fine, and I kind of see your point. But honestly, it was 4 categories. It wasn't super detailed, it was just abit of flirty praise for people. We heard many many voices and I think if anyone got upset they weren't mentioned, I mean, many others wouldn't have either.

Besides, it's a voice. Aren't we here to talk and potentially meet people? It's a voice people would hear at some point anyway? "

We shall agree to disagree then.

I’ll happily take on the mantle of fun sponge on this one.

For what it’s worth if you got shitty DMs from this - that’s not right & I’m sorry that that happened.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you're all being a bit harsh.

You can also say that some people are very insecure about how they look too, yet we still do who is on our hotlist thread (basically who is good enough) or who is the best looking on Fab etc best tits, best looking man etc.

It's lighthearted with no bad intentions, and doesn't mean anything at the end of the day as we all like different things. You're all shitting on Brucey like he's a massive cunt for having a bit of fun.

If you've got a problem with this I hope you've got one with the rest of the hotlist/name your fave user/private message users type of thread too because it's pretty much the same thing.

I do kind of see your point. And I certainly haven’t shit on him or called/treated him like any kind of cunt.

But I do think this is slightly different. And the point that I’ve made is we recorded our voices especially for this thread, and lots of us openly said how uncomfortable and nervous we were. In general the pictures we have up that hotlists are based on are already there. We know they are and we accept that.

I’m not saying you’re wrong or I’m right. Just that in my personal opinion that This particular “competition “ felt off.

Which is fine, and I kind of see your point. But honestly, it was 4 categories. It wasn't super detailed, it was just abit of flirty praise for people. We heard many many voices and I think if anyone got upset they weren't mentioned, I mean, many others wouldn't have either.

Besides, it's a voice. Aren't we here to talk and potentially meet people? It's a voice people would hear at some point anyway?

We shall agree to disagree then.

I’ll happily take on the mantle of fun sponge on this one.

For what it’s worth if you got shitty DMs from this - that’s not right & I’m sorry that that happened."

I didn't, all I got was DMS supporting me so don't you worry there

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

This all got really out of hand.

I’m nominating myself. 10/10. Patty and Selma Bouvier meets Kat Slater. An audio masterpiece

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over a year ago


"This all got really out of hand.

I’m nominating myself. 10/10. Patty and Selma Bouvier meets Kat Slater. An audio masterpiece "

God damn it where is it?!

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"This all got really out of hand.

I’m nominating myself. 10/10. Patty and Selma Bouvier meets Kat Slater. An audio masterpiece

God damn it where is it?!"

Missed it pal. Too slow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This all got really out of hand.

I’m nominating myself. 10/10. Patty and Selma Bouvier meets Kat Slater. An audio masterpiece

God damn it where is it?!

Missed it pal. Too slow "

God damn it work. DM it to me and I'll give you a dreamie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest."

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis


"This all got really out of hand.

I’m nominating myself. 10/10. Patty and Selma Bouvier meets Kat Slater. An audio masterpiece

God damn it where is it?!

Missed it pal. Too slow

God damn it work. DM it to me and I'll give you a dreamie x"

Sorry. I think something has gone wrong here.

Just to be completely transparent, I’m not a cat. I like cats, yes but I’m not one.

Didn’t think I’d ever have to say this but here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others."

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This all got really out of hand.

I’m nominating myself. 10/10. Patty and Selma Bouvier meets Kat Slater. An audio masterpiece

God damn it where is it?!

Missed it pal. Too slow

God damn it work. DM it to me and I'll give you a dreamie x

Sorry. I think something has gone wrong here.

Just to be completely transparent, I’m not a cat. I like cats, yes but I’m not one.

Didn’t think I’d ever have to say this but here we are "

Oh I thought we were heading to cat role play chat. I mean, I can pretend I'm not disappointed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about. "

First day on fab? I'm marmite but I'm myself and I'm much happier with that than thinking about everyone and how they might take a FUN thread not attacking anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about. "

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Let's imagine there was a thread about sharing a pic of your cock. A lovely inclusive dick-sharing thread where everyone felt encouraged and willing to share because it was just that kind of loveliness. And then when everyone had shared , even those who were really insecure about their nobs, another thread was started. "Winning Dicks" Who has the biggest, the sexiest...

Can you see why people might get a bit naffed off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?"

They're separate threads beans, I'm not turning one into the other at all! And this isn't a competition, it's light hearted fun! Fuck me if people take this seriously I can't imagine how competing in a job interview or race feels to them!

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over a year ago


"Let's imagine there was a thread about sharing a pic of your cock. A lovely inclusive dick-sharing thread where everyone felt encouraged and willing to share because it was just that kind of loveliness. And then when everyone had shared , even those who were really insecure about their nobs, another thread was started. "Winning Dicks" Who has the biggest, the sexiest...

Can you see why people might get a bit naffed off?"
honestly, no.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I can see both sides here. I didn’t take part but I like to stick my oar in anyway

Hot chocolate anyone?

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over a year ago


"I can see both sides here. I didn’t take part but I like to stick my oar in anyway

Hot chocolate anyone?

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Marshmallows on top ?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I can see both sides here. I didn’t take part but I like to stick my oar in anyway

Hot chocolate anyone?

"

Yes please, whippy cream and marshmallows x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

So, should I pay for site support again or not?

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over a year ago


"They're separate threads beans, I'm not turning one into the other at all! And this isn't a competition, it's light hearted fun! Fuck me if people take this seriously I can't imagine how competing in a job interview or race feels to them!"

Adding the word winning to a thread title immediately makes it a competition. And it's only a separate thread in that you created it separately but the subject is pretty much based on what came before. They're not separate entities.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Everything lately seems to be a competition between people, funnier, prettier, hotter...so fed up of it...doesn't need to be that way. And so sycophantic...you're the best, no you are...no you are!!

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?

They're separate threads beans, I'm not turning one into the other at all! And this isn't a competition, it's light hearted fun! Fuck me if people take this seriously I can't imagine how competing in a job interview or race feels to them!"

I’m actually really competitive. But only if I’ve chosen to compete. And that’s the point we’re all trying to make here. We didn’t choose to compete. We chose to share. 2 very separate things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?"

Some might argue they already are but that’s another discussion altogether.

As long as he is not breaking any rules he did nothing wrong IMHO. The rest of it is just subjective. But subjectivity is what the forums are built on.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I can see both sides here. I didn’t take part but I like to stick my oar in anyway

Hot chocolate anyone?

Yes please, whippy cream and marshmallows x"

Oh yes. Will we feel sick before bedtime though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yano this thread needs? More boobies "

Gotcha

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I can see both sides here. I didn’t take part but I like to stick my oar in anyway

Hot chocolate anyone?

Yes please, whippy cream and marshmallows x

Oh yes. Will we feel sick before bedtime though "

We will because I'm adding Baileys to mine too! Want some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?

Some might argue they already are but that’s another discussion altogether.

As long as he is not breaking any rules he did nothing wrong IMHO. The rest of it is just subjective. But subjectivity is what the forums are built on."

Exactly, and subjectively I think this thread is wrong. You don't have to agree but we're all allowed our opinions but then we're going to get called out on them if others don't agree.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"I can see both sides here. I didn’t take part but I like to stick my oar in anyway

Hot chocolate anyone?

Yes please, whippy cream and marshmallows x

Oh yes. Will we feel sick before bedtime though

We will because I'm adding Baileys to mine too! Want some?"

Can I just have straight baileys please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?

Some might argue they already are but that’s another discussion altogether.

As long as he is not breaking any rules he did nothing wrong IMHO. The rest of it is just subjective. But subjectivity is what the forums are built on.

Exactly, and subjectively I think this thread is wrong. You don't have to agree but we're all allowed our opinions but then we're going to get called out on them if others don't agree."

Like you did when you came here on mine?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I can see both sides here. I didn’t take part but I like to stick my oar in anyway

Hot chocolate anyone?

Yes please, whippy cream and marshmallows x

Oh yes. Will we feel sick before bedtime though

We will because I'm adding Baileys to mine too! Want some?

Can I just have straight baileys please "

Coming right up!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I can see both sides here. I didn’t take part but I like to stick my oar in anyway

Hot chocolate anyone?

Yes please, whippy cream and marshmallows x

Oh yes. Will we feel sick before bedtime though

We will because I'm adding Baileys to mine too! Want some?"

Yes!!!!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?

They're separate threads beans, I'm not turning one into the other at all! And this isn't a competition, it's light hearted fun! Fuck me if people take this seriously I can't imagine how competing in a job interview or race feels to them!

I’m actually really competitive. But only if I’ve chosen to compete. And that’s the point we’re all trying to make here. We didn’t choose to compete. We chose to share. 2 very separate things."

I think that's the key thing here. On the other type threads you have to say you are 'in'.

In this thread, you wanted people to judge the voices that weren't initially uploaded as entries to a competition. And some people who did add their voices, don't want them to be judged.

It's pretty simple, whether you think it or can emphasise or not, they don't want to be part of a voice competition. They don't want their entries into the previous threads to be used or view as a competition. Irrespective of whether you think it's fun or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?

Some might argue they already are but that’s another discussion altogether.

As long as he is not breaking any rules he did nothing wrong IMHO. The rest of it is just subjective. But subjectivity is what the forums are built on.

Exactly, and subjectively I think this thread is wrong. You don't have to agree but we're all allowed our opinions but then we're going to get called out on them if others don't agree.

Like you did when you came here on mine? "

Absolutely, and I'm willing to back my stance as you are yours (foolishly, might I add)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?

They're separate threads beans, I'm not turning one into the other at all! And this isn't a competition, it's light hearted fun! Fuck me if people take this seriously I can't imagine how competing in a job interview or race feels to them!

I’m actually really competitive. But only if I’ve chosen to compete. And that’s the point we’re all trying to make here. We didn’t choose to compete. We chose to share. 2 very separate things.

I think that's the key thing here. On the other type threads you have to say you are 'in'.

In this thread, you wanted people to judge the voices that weren't initially uploaded as entries to a competition. And some people who did add their voices, don't want them to be judged.

It's pretty simple, whether you think it or can emphasise or not, they don't want to be part of a voice competition. They don't want their entries into the previous threads to be used or view as a competition. Irrespective of whether you think it's fun or not. "

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over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?

They're separate threads beans, I'm not turning one into the other at all! And this isn't a competition, it's light hearted fun! Fuck me if people take this seriously I can't imagine how competing in a job interview or race feels to them!

I’m actually really competitive. But only if I’ve chosen to compete. And that’s the point we’re all trying to make here. We didn’t choose to compete. We chose to share. 2 very separate things.

I think that's the key thing here. On the other type threads you have to say you are 'in'.

In this thread, you wanted people to judge the voices that weren't initially uploaded as entries to a competition. And some people who did add their voices, don't want them to be judged.

It's pretty simple, whether you think it or can emphasise or not, they don't want to be part of a voice competition. They don't want their entries into the previous threads to be used or view as a competition. Irrespective of whether you think it's fun or not. "

I do get this but also - it's only people commenting on it that will say I loved x, which is positive. I didn't have a who sounded like a C*nt category. It was light-hearted. It wasn't a competition. It was just meant to be abit of I loved their video. Obviously I wasnt actually gonna tally up who won what cause, I don't do work like that

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

*Empathise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see both sides here. I didn’t take part but I like to stick my oar in anyway

Hot chocolate anyone?

Yes please, whippy cream and marshmallows x

Oh yes. Will we feel sick before bedtime though

We will because I'm adding Baileys to mine too! Want some?"

Me (waves willy)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely not.

I joined this because it was a lovely thing that happened. It honestly felt like a community & quite a natural human thing. It pushed me out of a comfort zone, but in a nice safe environment. I get the feeling quite a few folk felt the same way.

Don’t turn it into a popularity contest.

Yeah, pretty much this. It's not easy for people to put themselves out there so that last thing they probably want is to be compared to others.

But surely as soon as you post on a PUBLIC forum you are ‘putting yourself out there’ ?

I didn’t partake in this particular voice thread thingy so I don’t really have a dog in that particular race. But it seems to me like someone has taken that thread and derived a new one from it which people seem to be getting uptight about.

You are, but it doesn't mean you do it in a hope to compete with others. Everyone who contributed was complimentary and nice and by turning it into a competition, it made people choose which they're in their right to do but alienates those who don't get picked and may prevent them taking part in future threads. Is that what we want the forums to be?

Some might argue they already are but that’s another discussion altogether.

As long as he is not breaking any rules he did nothing wrong IMHO. The rest of it is just subjective. But subjectivity is what the forums are built on.

Exactly, and subjectively I think this thread is wrong. You don't have to agree but we're all allowed our opinions but then we're going to get called out on them if others don't agree.

Like you did when you came here on mine?

Absolutely, and I'm willing to back my stance as you are yours (foolishly, might I add) "

Foolishly tee-hee!

See this is what you need to realise, you're the one that wants to offend, whereas I don't you. I know you are a sensitive soul and have insecurities but you don't have to try and bully with it! That's what 6 year olds do remember?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And my final comment on this is...

People always complain, until they get nominated

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over a year ago


"Foolishly tee-hee!

See this is what you need to realise, you're the one that wants to offend, whereas I don't you. I know you are a sensitive soul and have insecurities but you don't have to try and bully with it! That's what 6 year olds do remember?!"

I mean, that last sentence was obviously tongue in cheek but can understand if your sensitive soul didn't see it that way and I apologise. See, easy to say you can see the other person's side, isn't it?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"And my final comment on this is...

People always complain, until they get nominated "

Which some never do

*fake tears

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Uurgh, I'm really torn about this thread and how it has panned out, and was ambivalent about posting on here.

I was also going to record my voice, perhaps take a leap of faith and•just•do•it! But I'm not so sure now...maybe I will...or not.

The forum "Challenges" (e.g. themed photo challenge, handbag challenge, fitness challenge, etc) are usually started by Mïdnïght and follow a pattern that we all 'know and love': you say you're "in" and do your "thing", it's all for fun and the thread ends happily with no expectations or follow up.

Unfortunately the thread got hijacked... twice. The stewardship changed and no longer kept to the original spirit of the challenge.

Apologies for the poor analogy: what's happened here is that people sheepishly submitted their humbling and self-conscious art-work to display at the local village hall. But instead someone decided to move the entire retinue into the Tate Gallery for unsolicited adulation, plaudits and prize giving.

And clearly that didn't sit well with a number of people. Understandably.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Foolishly tee-hee!

See this is what you need to realise, you're the one that wants to offend, whereas I don't you. I know you are a sensitive soul and have insecurities but you don't have to try and bully with it! That's what 6 year olds do remember?!

I mean, that last sentence was obviously tongue in cheek but can understand if your sensitive soul didn't see it that way and I apologise. See, easy to say you can see the other person's side, isn't it?"

Oh fuck you're right, maybe I'll make some comments about how insecure I am to get booby cuddles from the women off fab

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over a year ago


"Foolishly tee-hee!

See this is what you need to realise, you're the one that wants to offend, whereas I don't you. I know you are a sensitive soul and have insecurities but you don't have to try and bully with it! That's what 6 year olds do remember?!

I mean, that last sentence was obviously tongue in cheek but can understand if your sensitive soul didn't see it that way and I apologise. See, easy to say you can see the other person's side, isn't it?

Oh fuck you're right, maybe I'll make some comments about how insecure I am to get booby cuddles from the women off fab "

Ok, that was unnecessary. I don't mention my insecurities to curry favour with women from Fab, I did it because it felt good to get off my chest. I'm done with this thread now, have a good evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my final comment on this is...

People always complain, until they get nominated "

No, the final comment missing on this thread so far is:

"I'm going to tell my mum on you"!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Foolishly tee-hee!

See this is what you need to realise, you're the one that wants to offend, whereas I don't you. I know you are a sensitive soul and have insecurities but you don't have to try and bully with it! That's what 6 year olds do remember?!

I mean, that last sentence was obviously tongue in cheek but can understand if your sensitive soul didn't see it that way and I apologise. See, easy to say you can see the other person's side, isn't it?

Oh fuck you're right, maybe I'll make some comments about how insecure I am to get booby cuddles from the women off fab "

Fuckin hell that was a bit out of order

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And my final comment on this is...

People always complain, until they get nominated

No, the final comment missing on this thread so far is:

"I'm going to tell my mum on you"!

"

You're already in her bad books boo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foolishly tee-hee!

See this is what you need to realise, you're the one that wants to offend, whereas I don't you. I know you are a sensitive soul and have insecurities but you don't have to try and bully with it! That's what 6 year olds do remember?!

I mean, that last sentence was obviously tongue in cheek but can understand if your sensitive soul didn't see it that way and I apologise. See, easy to say you can see the other person's side, isn't it?

Oh fuck you're right, maybe I'll make some comments about how insecure I am to get booby cuddles from the women off fab "

Brucey that was a bit too far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Foolishly tee-hee!

See this is what you need to realise, you're the one that wants to offend, whereas I don't you. I know you are a sensitive soul and have insecurities but you don't have to try and bully with it! That's what 6 year olds do remember?!

I mean, that last sentence was obviously tongue in cheek but can understand if your sensitive soul didn't see it that way and I apologise. See, easy to say you can see the other person's side, isn't it?

Oh fuck you're right, maybe I'll make some comments about how insecure I am to get booby cuddles from the women off fab

Fuckin hell that was a bit out of order "

It's not my fault he thought I was referring to him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Foolishly tee-hee!

See this is what you need to realise, you're the one that wants to offend, whereas I don't you. I know you are a sensitive soul and have insecurities but you don't have to try and bully with it! That's what 6 year olds do remember?!

I mean, that last sentence was obviously tongue in cheek but can understand if your sensitive soul didn't see it that way and I apologise. See, easy to say you can see the other person's side, isn't it?

Oh fuck you're right, maybe I'll make some comments about how insecure I am to get booby cuddles from the women off fab "

Wow, so much for an adult discussion....And you were the one who was calling the bully card. Oh well, your mates will be around to defend you no doubt

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Foolishly tee-hee!

See this is what you need to realise, you're the one that wants to offend, whereas I don't you. I know you are a sensitive soul and have insecurities but you don't have to try and bully with it! That's what 6 year olds do remember?!

I mean, that last sentence was obviously tongue in cheek but can understand if your sensitive soul didn't see it that way and I apologise. See, easy to say you can see the other person's side, isn't it?

Oh fuck you're right, maybe I'll make some comments about how insecure I am to get booby cuddles from the women off fab "

Wow.

True colours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And my final comment on this is...

People always complain, until they get nominated

No, the final comment missing on this thread so far is:

"I'm going to tell my mum on you"!

You're already in her bad books boo! "

You clearly are as well now Brucey Big Balls.....

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over a year ago

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Foolishly tee-hee!

See this is what you need to realise, you're the one that wants to offend, whereas I don't you. I know you are a sensitive soul and have insecurities but you don't have to try and bully with it! That's what 6 year olds do remember?!

I mean, that last sentence was obviously tongue in cheek but can understand if your sensitive soul didn't see it that way and I apologise. See, easy to say you can see the other person's side, isn't it?

Oh fuck you're right, maybe I'll make some comments about how insecure I am to get booby cuddles from the women off fab

Wow, so much for an adult discussion....And you were the one who was calling the bully card. Oh well, your mates will be around to defend you no doubt"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Look, everyone has insecurities. Everyone wants to be desired and 'better'

This thread and the responses could have broken me! Could have made me feel awful about myself and insecure. Mr beans said I was making my points like a fool. I make a vague comment about getting the attention of women and I'm the bad guy again.

Honestly if you have a problem you may as well block me cause you're not my kind of people!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've just paid me fiver to listen to some. Is it too late to vote?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Look, everyone has insecurities. Everyone wants to be desired and 'better'

This thread and the responses could have broken me! Could have made me feel awful about myself and insecure. Mr beans said I was making my points like a fool. I make a vague comment about getting the attention of women and I'm the bad guy again.

Honestly if you have a problem you may as well block me cause you're not my kind of people! "

Where's your voice video?

I'd like to hear you say Good game! Good game! and Alright my loves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can very much see both sides of the argument here, but what I will say is that I really don't think Brucey started this thread with any malice or bad feeling intended.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look, everyone has insecurities. Everyone wants to be desired and 'better'

This thread and the responses could have broken me! Could have made me feel awful about myself and insecure. Mr beans said I was making my points like a fool. I make a vague comment about getting the attention of women and I'm the bad guy again.

Honestly if you have a problem you may as well block me cause you're not my kind of people!

Where's your voice video?

I'd like to hear you say Good game! Good game! and Alright my loves!"

Calm down calm down!

Mines friends only now. But nanna feel free to add cause I'm a NICE GUY

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Look, everyone has insecurities. Everyone wants to be desired and 'better'

This thread and the responses could have broken me! Could have made me feel awful about myself and insecure. Mr beans said I was making my points like a fool. I make a vague comment about getting the attention of women and I'm the bad guy again.

Honestly if you have a problem you may as well block me cause you're not my kind of people!

Where's your voice video?

I'd like to hear you say Good game! Good game! and Alright my loves!

Calm down calm down!

Mines friends only now. But nanna feel free to add cause I'm a NICE GUY "

You might wank over my naked photos though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And my final comment on this is...

People always complain, until they get nominated

No, the final comment missing on this thread so far is:

"I'm going to tell my mum on you"!

You're already in her bad books boo!

You clearly are as well now Brucey Big Balls.....

"

If my mum knew about this situation she'd very much have choice words for the opposition party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look, everyone has insecurities. Everyone wants to be desired and 'better'

This thread and the responses could have broken me! Could have made me feel awful about myself and insecure. Mr beans said I was making my points like a fool. I make a vague comment about getting the attention of women and I'm the bad guy again.

Honestly if you have a problem you may as well block me cause you're not my kind of people!

Where's your voice video?

I'd like to hear you say Good game! Good game! and Alright my loves!

Calm down calm down!

Mines friends only now. But nanna feel free to add cause I'm a NICE GUY

You might wank over my naked photos though "

That's a risk you've gotta take!

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"I can very much see both sides of the argument here, but what I will say is that I really don't think Brucey started this thread with any malice or bad feeling intended. "

I agree - but - sadly he appears to have finished it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*opens thread.

*has a look inside

*pics up hat and makes my way to the door.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I can very much see both sides of the argument here, but what I will say is that I really don't think Brucey started this thread with any malice or bad feeling intended. "

No, and as someone said earlier there's lots of popularity contest threads on here.

Next time Brucey let people know there will be winners and losers when you ask for something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can very much see both sides of the argument here, but what I will say is that I really don't think Brucey started this thread with any malice or bad feeling intended.

No, and as someone said earlier there's lots of popularity contest threads on here.

Next time Brucey let people know there will be winners and losers when you ask for something.

"

I did you know, when I made a thread people could either join in with or ignore...

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I can very much see both sides of the argument here, but what I will say is that I really don't think Brucey started this thread with any malice or bad feeling intended.

No, and as someone said earlier there's lots of popularity contest threads on here.

Next time Brucey let people know there will be winners and losers when you ask for something.

I did you know, when I made a thread people could either join in with or ignore..."

Beg pardon, I thought you started the original voice challenge thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look, everyone has insecurities. Everyone wants to be desired and 'better'

This thread and the responses could have broken me! Could have made me feel awful about myself and insecure. Mr beans said I was making my points like a fool. I make a vague comment about getting the attention of women and I'm the bad guy again.

Honestly if you have a problem you may as well block me cause you're not my kind of people! "

This is a very valid statement coming from you for once Brucey Big Balls.

Because, you can guarantee at some point soon , one of those "be nice,be kind,love everyone" threads will turn up and none of this bitterness will be included on that, but its acceptable on this one regardless of the subject and views clashing, and its all being aimed at one person.

Its a good job you are thick skinned and don't take negative comments badly.

The forum has lost two decent people in the worse way imaginable not all that long ago, and it really doesn't need to include a third!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look, everyone has insecurities. Everyone wants to be desired and 'better'

This thread and the responses could have broken me! Could have made me feel awful about myself and insecure. Mr beans said I was making my points like a fool. I make a vague comment about getting the attention of women and I'm the bad guy again.

Honestly if you have a problem you may as well block me cause you're not my kind of people! "

So there is no reflection on how you have made others feel? Just how you have been made to feel.

Right you are then.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

The people who voiced their concerns did so in a considered way. There were no personal attacks, just discomfort with how the original spirit of the threads had been altered. The OP's inability to empathise with other viewpoints speaks volumes.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow who knew it would generate so many spin off threads! I'm glad you all enjoyed it

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I can see both sides here. I didn’t take part but I like to stick my oar in anyway

Hot chocolate anyone?

Marshmallows on top ?"

Cake anyone

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