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By *enuine Mike OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

I doesn't sit right with me when people profiteer from meets.

Defeats the purpose of the very meaning of swinging.

I totally understand the contribution costs that some profiles ask for. Having said that, there are clearly some that make a good additional income from meets.

How is that different from prostitution?

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By *aulo40Man
over a year ago

Renfrew

That's crazy try to avoid paying for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.... it's because there's a good market for it. Supply demand, supply demand..... no-one's forced to do anything *shrugs*.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I doesn't sit right with me when people profiteer from meets.

Defeats the purpose of the very meaning of swinging.

I totally understand the contribution costs that some profiles ask for. Having said that, there are clearly some that make a good additional income from meets.

How is that different from prostitution? "

If you wanna pay for it there’s easier ways than posts like this to attract them

No one’s ever asked me for money , so if your post is genuine, choose more wisely

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm pretty sure that - other than parties and clubs - any contribution or money stuff is against the rules

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Anyone asking for money is breaking site rules, report and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got an unsolicited message offering me £300 a time, 2-3 times a week for meets, by a couple miles away from me.

I said no and reported the profile.

I think it was a scam...

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doesn't sit right with me when people profiteer from meets.

Defeats the purpose of the very meaning of swinging.

I totally understand the contribution costs that some profiles ask for. Having said that, there are clearly some that make a good additional income from meets.

How is that different from prostitution? "

It isn't and is against site rules. Report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly if there are people out there daft enough to pay to meet then it creates an opportunity for those who demand money.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Private meets, absolutely no control. But, at a club the venue charges for the facility. Nobody should be asking for "costs" for a place they were going anyway.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I give it away for free if anyone is interested….

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Tom has been asked for 'a contribution towards costs' and to pay for someone to get into a club. In Toms wallet, every pound is a prisoner.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Sadly if there are people out there daft enough to pay to meet then it creates an opportunity for those who demand money."

This . As long as people will pay people will profit. That’s life.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Tom has been asked for 'a contribution towards costs' and to pay for someone to get into a club. In Toms wallet, every pound is a prisoner. "

. I’ve heard about people asking others to pay for their site supporter thing too!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Tom has been asked for 'a contribution towards costs' and to pay for someone to get into a club. In Toms wallet, every pound is a prisoner. "

Pound notes are no longer in use Tom..

Let them free..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Sadly if there are people out there daft enough to pay to meet then it creates an opportunity for those who demand money."

Twas ever thus..

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Sex sells, and someone makes a profit.

Whether it's club owners or party organisers it's seen as ok.

But, a woman asks for money without a 3rd party and she's a ho.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Never been asked for money, favours or contributions in all my time here.

I'm assuming that's not down to luck.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Sadly if there are people out there daft enough to pay to meet then it creates an opportunity for those who demand money."

Lots of people pay to go to clubs. They can sit around chatting or drinking but, ultimately, it's a place for people to pay to get sex.

Not guaranteed sex, but sex is had there.

I don't see any difference.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Never been asked for money, favours or contributions in all my time here.

I'm assuming that's not down to luck. "

You look poor

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Never been asked for money, favours or contributions in all my time here.

I'm assuming that's not down to luck. "

I’d give ya a fiver for snog and a fondle

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Never been asked for money, favours or contributions in all my time here.

I'm assuming that's not down to luck.

You look poorly

"

No need for that

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Never been asked for money, favours or contributions in all my time here.

I'm assuming that's not down to luck.

I’d give ya a fiver for snog and a fondle "

You don't get much for a fiver these days

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Never been asked for money, favours or contributions in all my time here.

I'm assuming that's not down to luck.

I’d give ya a fiver for snog and a fondle

You don't get much for a fiver these days "

I could come up with more. I’ll check behind the sofa

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you ain't the customer, you're the product...

Some clubs have free entry to single ladies and charge single men more than couples.

People only profit where people are willing to pay. Overheads are fair enough, but when you get into the realms of profit, the line is crossed.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Tom has been asked for 'a contribution towards costs' and to pay for someone to get into a club. In Toms wallet, every pound is a prisoner.

. I’ve heard about people asking others to pay for their site supporter thing too!"

Report them that too is not allowed

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Never been asked for money, favours or contributions in all my time here.

I'm assuming that's not down to luck.

I’d give ya a fiver for snog and a fondle

You don't get much for a fiver these days

I could come up with more. I’ll check behind the sofa "

Probably those old white fivers

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Tom has been asked for 'a contribution towards costs' and to pay for someone to get into a club. In Toms wallet, every pound is a prisoner.

. I’ve heard about people asking others to pay for their site supporter thing too!

Report them that too is not allowed"

Nah I’ve just heard about it. I’ve never reported anyone

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Sex sells, and someone makes a profit.

Whether it's club owners or party organisers it's seen as ok.

But, a woman asks for money without a 3rd party and she's a ho. "

Well yeah, there is a big difference from paying to go in a club to socialise and someone asking for payment directly for sex

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Never been asked for money, favours or contributions in all my time here.

I'm assuming that's not down to luck.

I’d give ya a fiver for snog and a fondle

You don't get much for a fiver these days

I could come up with more. I’ll check behind the sofa

Probably those old white fivers "

I'll give you a chocolate button from my cake to flash your left nipple

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Personally I am happy to share hotel costs but not interested in paying someone. If someone wants to pay me though …..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of occasions where somebody has offered to pay me for a meet, or supply a 'gift'

Obviously wasn't interested in any of the offers, but one amount was far less flattering than the other

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Never been asked for money, favours or contributions in all my time here.

I'm assuming that's not down to luck.

I’d give ya a fiver for snog and a fondle

You don't get much for a fiver these days

I could come up with more. I’ll check behind the sofa

Probably those old white fivers

I'll give you a chocolate button from my cake to flash your left nipple "

Would you not prefer to see Nora's nipple instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone earlier offering money to meet me and it’s not the first time I’ve been asked. If people are willing to pay for it there will people who will take advantage of it.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Paying for sex... Who'd have thought. It'll never catch on.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Never been asked for money, favours or contributions in all my time here.

I'm assuming that's not down to luck.

I’d give ya a fiver for snog and a fondle

You don't get much for a fiver these days

I could come up with more. I’ll check behind the sofa

Probably those old white fivers

I'll give you a chocolate button from my cake to flash your left nipple

Would you not prefer to see Nora's nipple instead? "

I've seen them already and she always wants to tie me up and stuff

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"If you ain't the customer, you're the product...

Some clubs have free entry to single ladies and charge single men more than couples.

People only profit where people are willing to pay. Overheads are fair enough, but when you get into the realms of profit, the line is crossed."

Are you saying clubs shouldn't make a profit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone earlier offering money to meet me and it’s not the first time I’ve been asked. If people are willing to pay for it there will people who will take advantage of it. "

Exactly this.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Barrhead


"I doesn't sit right with me when people profiteer from meets.

Defeats the purpose of the very meaning of swinging.

I totally understand the contribution costs that some profiles ask for. Having said that, there are clearly some that make a good additional income from meets.

How is that different from prostitution? "

why does it bother you, if you aren't paying them?

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

sadly for every one person selling there must be 50 offering on this my single profile and our couples profile we are very often offered money to play its a massive no no from me/us its not swinging ...

now under another banner its the oldest profession in the world and i have nothing against it (not sex trafficking /againts will / slav*ry) just dont bring it on to the swinging scene there are other sites for doing this go there and fill your boots ...

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I get offered money all the time... It will always happen.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Tom has been asked for 'a contribution towards costs' and to pay for someone to get into a club. In Toms wallet, every pound is a prisoner.

. I’ve heard about people asking others to pay for their site supporter thing too!

Report them that too is not allowed"

It is allowed, admin advised me so that someone could pay mine for me recently ….What’s not allowed is doing it for sex !

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think the difference between a club and a person asking for money is that a club is an entertainment venue where certain things might happen. You're paying to go into the venue and for the use of the facilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doesn't sit right with me when people profiteer from meets.

Defeats the purpose of the very meaning of swinging.

I totally understand the contribution costs that some profiles ask for. Having said that, there are clearly some that make a good additional income from meets.

How is that different from prostitution? "

Are you talking about small organised events ?

I think that’s fair as some work has to be put in

Anything else isn’t

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If you ain't the customer, you're the product...

Some clubs have free entry to single ladies and charge single men more than couples.

People only profit where people are willing to pay. Overheads are fair enough, but when you get into the realms of profit, the line is crossed.

Are you saying clubs shouldn't make a profit? "

What I'm saying is that clubs shouldn't use single women as bait.

Clearly a club is a business, anything else should cover overheads. Or be transparent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you ain't the customer, you're the product...

Some clubs have free entry to single ladies and charge single men more than couples.

People only profit where people are willing to pay. Overheads are fair enough, but when you get into the realms of profit, the line is crossed.

Are you saying clubs shouldn't make a profit?

What I'm saying is that clubs shouldn't use single women as bait.

Clearly a club is a business, anything else should cover overheads. Or be transparent."

It’s not bait it’s a preferred, we actively avoid single male nights and many probably do

It’s no more then a Balance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got messages before offering money for sexual acts, but i got one message a few weeks back where I had to pay him to fuck me.... Only if i squealed like a pig.

Reported. Blocked. Move on.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Had money requested for meets twice, prostitution by another name!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you ain't the customer, you're the product...

Some clubs have free entry to single ladies and charge single men more than couples.

People only profit where people are willing to pay. Overheads are fair enough, but when you get into the realms of profit, the line is crossed.

Are you saying clubs shouldn't make a profit?

What I'm saying is that clubs shouldn't use single women as bait.

Clearly a club is a business, anything else should cover overheads. Or be transparent."

How do you know if clubs do that?

When I go to clubs, it's because I want to

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you ain't the customer, you're the product...

Some clubs have free entry to single ladies and charge single men more than couples.

People only profit where people are willing to pay. Overheads are fair enough, but when you get into the realms of profit, the line is crossed.

Are you saying clubs shouldn't make a profit?

What I'm saying is that clubs shouldn't use single women as bait.

Clearly a club is a business, anything else should cover overheads. Or be transparent."

Well they're not running a charity either. Prices are always transparent as in they'll be advertised. It's then up to someone if they wish to pay to attend or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex sells, and someone makes a profit.

Whether it's club owners or party organisers it's seen as ok.

But, a woman asks for money without a 3rd party and she's a ho. "

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I doesn't sit right with me when people profiteer from meets.

Defeats the purpose of the very meaning of swinging.

I totally understand the contribution costs that some profiles ask for. Having said that, there are clearly some that make a good additional income from meets.

How is that different from prostitution? "

It's no different. All you can do is block and report the cash hungry ones. Ultimately sex pays and lots want a slice

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I get asked a lot on here how much for me to the meet male half from quite a few couples. I just delete

Just block them op / report

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I'm asked frequently, one proposition was £1000 for a gang bang of myself and 10 men. That's 100 per male, the cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only, and I mean, only time I would ask for or offer money would be splitting a hotel if neither could accommodate. That's it.

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By *ack 500Man
over a year ago

stafford

One offered 500 to rim my sweaty hairy dirty Arse and that’s a quote !

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"If you ain't the customer, you're the product...

Some clubs have free entry to single ladies and charge single men more than couples.

People only profit where people are willing to pay. Overheads are fair enough, but when you get into the realms of profit, the line is crossed.

Are you saying clubs shouldn't make a profit?

What I'm saying is that clubs shouldn't use single women as bait.

Clearly a club is a business, anything else should cover overheads. Or be transparent.

How do you know if clubs do that?

When I go to clubs, it's because I want to "

you should know there's a club your way that is free for women.

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"I doesn't sit right with me when people profiteer from meets.

Defeats the purpose of the very meaning of swinging.

I totally understand the contribution costs that some profiles ask for. Having said that, there are clearly some that make a good additional income from meets.

How is that different from prostitution? "

Plainly it isn't.

Last year I met a girl via a sugardaddy website - no doubt about that either.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you ain't the customer, you're the product...

Some clubs have free entry to single ladies and charge single men more than couples.

People only profit where people are willing to pay. Overheads are fair enough, but when you get into the realms of profit, the line is crossed.

Are you saying clubs shouldn't make a profit?

What I'm saying is that clubs shouldn't use single women as bait.

Clearly a club is a business, anything else should cover overheads. Or be transparent.

How do you know if clubs do that?

When I go to clubs, it's because I want to you should know there's a club your way that is free for women."

And I'm still going because I want to. Hope this helps

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I am gutted!!!!

No one has EVER offered me money

(((sits in the corner sobbing his ikkle heart out)))

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Sex sells, and someone makes a profit.

Whether it's club owners or party organisers it's seen as ok.

But, a woman asks for money without a 3rd party and she's a ho.

Well yeah, there is a big difference from paying to go in a club to socialise and someone asking for payment directly for sex "

Bottom line is men pay much more usually, and someone is making a profit.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I doesn't sit right with me when people profiteer from meets.

Defeats the purpose of the very meaning of swinging.

I totally understand the contribution costs that some profiles ask for. Having said that, there are clearly some that make a good additional income from meets.

How is that different from prostitution?

Plainly it isn't.

Last year I met a girl via a sugardaddy website - no doubt about that either."

And if you're happy to pay it's your business.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"If you ain't the customer, you're the product...

Some clubs have free entry to single ladies and charge single men more than couples.

People only profit where people are willing to pay. Overheads are fair enough, but when you get into the realms of profit, the line is crossed.

Are you saying clubs shouldn't make a profit?

What I'm saying is that clubs shouldn't use single women as bait.

Clearly a club is a business, anything else should cover overheads. Or be transparent.

Well they're not running a charity either. Prices are always transparent as in they'll be advertised. It's then up to someone if they wish to pay to attend or not "

Can you blame people for wanting to cut out the middle man and collect the profit themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex sells, and someone makes a profit.

Whether it's club owners or party organisers it's seen as ok.

But, a woman asks for money without a 3rd party and she's a ho. "

And yet, I still can’t give it away…..

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"I doesn't sit right with me when people profiteer from meets.

Defeats the purpose of the very meaning of swinging.

I totally understand the contribution costs that some profiles ask for. Having said that, there are clearly some that make a good additional income from meets.

How is that different from prostitution?

Plainly it isn't.

Last year I met a girl via a sugardaddy website - no doubt about that either.

And if you're happy to pay it's your business. "

Exactly

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By *urhamgurlWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’ve been offered money for sex lots of times. I always refuse but deep down the concept excites me. I’ve no clue why.

I don’t see it as a problem if someone earns a little extra

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley


"I doesn't sit right with me when people profiteer from meets.

Defeats the purpose of the very meaning of swinging.

I totally understand the contribution costs that some profiles ask for. Having said that, there are clearly some that make a good additional income from meets.

How is that different from prostitution? "

You never been to a club, bud.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Barrhead


"I get offered money all the time... It will always happen."

Probably from people who have nothing else to offer you, like decent conversation, common interests or even a half decent fuck. so they think "Ill give her some money and those things wont matter now".

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I get offered money all the time... It will always happen.

Probably from people who have nothing else to offer you, like decent conversation, common interests or even a half decent fuck. so they think "Ill give her some money and those things wont matter now". "

Tell me something I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish someone offered me money FFS...

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