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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What sort of messages do you guys send for a opener? Women what sort of opening messages do you like recieving? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all read thier profile and maybe pick something that catches your eye and talk about that, also be polite, if it's a couple then address them both since they are there as a couple and don't send a cock pick unless they specifically request that on thier profile... lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1426150

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send messages

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Something to do with their profile or status

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Send the type of message you would want to see. Don't conform to what you think others want.

Even if you know what others want you may end up getting it wrong anyway.

And even if you get the first message right, they may not like you. I gave up on trying to work out the perfect first message. I just say what i like but have it be personal to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get

"Hi how you doing",

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What sort of messages do you guys send for a opener? Women what sort of opening messages do you like recieving? X"

OP don’t over think them….but also be conscious of the fact that you may not be what they want physically….you can send the best opening message ever - it can be polite, witty and charming….but if the face and body don’t float their boat….you aren’t getting anywhere!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get

"Hi how you doing","

Does it work??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get

"Hi how you doing",

Does it work??"

Not that often lol

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By *J_SpiceyCouple
over a year ago

Kinky Kings Lynn

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By *J_SpiceyCouple
over a year ago

Kinky Kings Lynn

Male: Hi

Reply: Hi

Male: How r u .

Reply: Fine. How are you?

Male: Good, good. How u finding it on here

Reply: OK

Male: Good, good. Im not avin much luck

No reply but thinks I wonder why not

This is standard level one lol

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

If you are messaging a couple remember there are two people. It's amazing how many messages we get that are only aimed at me and even when Mr goes back act as though it's me they are talking to and that he doesn't exist. We play together and Mr does more of the chat on messages than I do to start with so it's a sure fire way to put yourself out of the running (and also onto a block list)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Male: Hi

Reply: Hi

Male: How r u .

Reply: Fine. How are you?

Male: Good, good. How u finding it on here

Reply: OK

Male: Good, good. Im not avin much luck

No reply but thinks I wonder why not

This is standard level one lol"

I get those as well, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get

"Hi how you doing",

Does it work??

Not that often lol"

What does then do I could get a reply??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get

"Hi how you doing",

Does it work??

Not that often lol

What does then do I could get a reply?? "

Depends what you send,

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

My go2 (if there is a nice bum pic on profile)

Now there is a bum that would definitely launch 1000 ships,,

At least they laugh,

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By *aximum_funMan
over a year ago

West Herts

Hello (name)

(Something about their profile which is relevant and connected to me)

(A bit about me and what I'm looking for)

Happy to talk or meet for a social

Thanks for reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get

"Hi how you doing",

Does it work??

Not that often lol

What does then do I could get a reply??

Depends what you send, "

It will always be something nice

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds

I always so hello and ask them how they are and if they want to chat. Also mentioned something on their profile or pictures

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