FabSwingers.com forum: How to catch them out

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would you do if you suspect someone is cheating but you can’t gather hard evidence, but also know if you confront them about it and you are wrong, it will fuck everything up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has your wife found your profile?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't confront have an adult conversation.

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Why would it fuck everything up by talking to them about your concerns?

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

If I suspected he was cheating on me I've lost all trust in him anyway, so nothing to lose talking to him about my thoughts.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

"Has your wife found your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has your wife found your profile?

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Ok this was hilarious

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Has your wife found your profile?

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lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has your wife found your profile?

Haha no she knows I have this profile and the reasons I have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask them. If it’s that difficult walk away…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would it fuck everything up by talking to them about your concerns?"

It’s been a weird relationship over the past year or so and things could get better but if I talk to them it could go very sour very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I suspected he was cheating on me I've lost all trust in him anyway, so nothing to lose talking to him about my thoughts."

On the same level ( Mr) something is seriously wrong if you suspect it, if your wrong then your the one with the problem

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Go with your gut op,you're suspicious for a reason

If I suspected my partner to be cheating I'd be sitting and having a chat with them asap.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You find a way to get some hard evidence... Or it could just all be in your mind.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd think it over very carefully. The use of 'confront ' and 'catch them out' while saying you could be wrong don't sit well with me. Be sure that you have valid concerns and if an honest discussion would threaten your relationship maybe address that first.

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

"What would you do if you suspect someone is cheating but you can’t gather hard evidence, but also know if you confront them about it and you are wrong, it will fuck everything up?"

Always evidence, late working, cum covered boxers (they forget you usually do the washing) hiding phone, always moody and defensive the list goes on. From past experience even if you confront them they’ll just deny it and carry on regardless

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"What would you do if you suspect someone is cheating but you can’t gather hard evidence, but also know if you confront them about it and you are wrong, it will fuck everything up?"
I'd go UNLOS

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