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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long before you delete any unread sent messages? I think timing your messages is key! If you message someone you think may respond and they're offline it can get lost in the 100s of messages women/couples get, don't wanna keep messaging obviously so how long before you personally delete?

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

One of the problems is the site doesn't update quick enough, so you see someone online, send them a message and then see they went offline 10 minutes earlier!, so annoying

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Once sent it’s all on its own.

If it’s not responded too then we assume it’s unwanted mail and forget about it.

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By *nubisIsisCouple
over a year ago

Field Of Reeds

We just don’t bother looking

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I don't delete any, I'm terrible. I'm the same with emails, texts etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once sent it’s all on its own.

If it’s not responded too then we assume it’s unwanted mail and forget about it.

"

Sorry I must have missed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete them as soon as I send them so I don't have the stress of seeing them unread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of the problems is the site doesn't update quick enough, so you see someone online, send them a message and then see they went offline 10 minutes earlier!, so annoying"

Indeed!

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I don’t check them.

To be fair I don’t always check my inbox either. Am a rascal that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I’ve sent a message I don’t go back and check if they’ve read it, I just wait for a reply and if there isn’t one it gets forgotten about.

I clear our inbox and sent mail regularly though.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Delete it from your sent box as soon as it is sent to avoid obsessing over it. It'll remain in their inbox.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I delete them as soon as I send them so I don't have the stress of seeing them unread "

That is actually a brilliant idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore your outbox, your inbox is the one that matters.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If I don't get a response, it's not the end of the world. They're busy, or just not into you

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Delete it from your sent box as soon as it is sent to avoid obsessing over it. It'll remain in their inbox."

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ignore your outbox, your inbox is the one that matters. "

If I ignore my outbox I'd have nowt to do if I just looked at my inbox

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