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By *oulou45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Have u ever felt the need to get even with your partner or shall I say ex after you found out they were cheating. Did you feel better for revenge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i did it, i felt great untill the following day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Revenge is a waste of time and.

energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wanted to cut his testicles off with a blunt spoon and shove them down his f***kin throat... he still has them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just divorced him, no revenge.

Merely told him to go ........ and enjoy every cheap lowlife hoor half my age he wanted to shag, go get get diseases droopy cock syndrome plague pestilence and a pox on him ......... but no, no revenge.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

spent a year and a half playing tit for tat with an ex.

found him on a fettish site

started talking to me ex

found some messages on is phone

he found messages from the ex suggesting otels with 4 poster beds

heard rumours of him flirting with a girl when we worked at the same place

i slept with my ex

eventually it all got outed on facebook.

it was a waste of a year and a half really, i knew deep down that he wasnt the one for me and i should have ended it when i realsed what we were doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I discovered my wife was having an affair the first thing I did was to tell his wife.

It was not revenge though. I did it because once I knew, I had become an unwilling part of the deceit and felt it was the right thing to do.

My wife and her lover didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revenge is wasted on them

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By *oulou45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I was nasty lol, had been with my ex for 5 yrs until he cheated. He moved away but she drove him the 4hr journey to collect some of his things. Well the nite b4 I went to the pub got very d*unk. I got home needed a wee so I did it in an old jug. When he got to mine he had several cups of tea and I kept pourin a bit of wee in his lol. Nasty but no regrets lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it is best to move on, anything else leaves bitterness, suspicion and behaviours that will ultimately lead to more unhappiness

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By *oulou45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Like I said wasn't nice but was hard to keep a sraight face lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it is best to move on, anything else leaves bitterness, suspicion and behaviours that will ultimately lead to more unhappiness"

Agreed

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

"I just divorced him, no revenge.

And your still not bitter .

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By *oulou45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

It was 6 yrs ago, so well over it lol. I just thought about it and got the giggles lol.

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

"I was nasty lol, had been with my ex for 5 yrs until he cheated. He moved away but she drove him the 4hr journey to collect some of his things. Well the nite b4 I went to the pub got very d*unk. I got home needed a wee so I did it in an old jug. When he got to mine he had several cups of tea and I kept pourin a bit of wee in his lol. Nasty but no regrets lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just divorced him, no revenge.

And your still not bitter ."

Nope best thing he ever did was to cheat on me, I'd never have had a truly loving gorgeous sexy partner after him if he hadn't.

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

"I just divorced him, no revenge.

And your still not bitter .

Nope best thing he ever did was to cheat on me, I'd never have had a truly loving gorgeous sexy partner after him if he hadn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just divorced him, no revenge.

And your still not bitter .

Nope best thing he ever did was to cheat on me, I'd never have had a truly loving gorgeous sexy partner after him if he hadn't.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"It was 6 yrs ago, so well over it lol. I just thought about it and got the giggles lol. "

I might love you a little bit for that! Lol. Brilliant x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealousy and bitterness are very much emotions that can never bring good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hired a van and cleared every item of mine and the children's stuff out of the house. Went to stay at my daughters flat then got my own house six months later. It hasn't been easy but i couldn't stay my whole world fell apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best revenge ever is living a great happy life of your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found my ex had a profile on an adult site (this was before I became more open sexually). I made my own profile using false details and stolen pics. I messaged him and arranged a meet. When he turned up, I was there with all our friends.

He now lives abroad.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

revenge may seem good at the time.. For one I wanted to tell an exs WIFE about our life together.. seeing as we had been planning a baby and everything..but you know..

some how I decided getting on with my life while he had to live his rather sad little life full of lies all the better revenge..

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By *oulou45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Wasn't jealousy, bitterness? Maybe or maybe the fact he told me on my 40th birthday. I did what I did then next time I saw them online I wished them luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best revenge ever is living a great happy life of your own. "

Agreed the best form of revenge is living well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its best to rise above it and move on

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Keep calm , start a new life ... then kill him

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I just divorced him, no revenge.

And your still not bitter ."

I bet the wee tea was.

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By *winkletoes80Woman
over a year ago

redditch

My ex husband left me for my best friend , I hate him and her now but still get very angry at the thought especially when my daughter goes there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did get great satisfaction battering fuck out of him with a frozen salmon one night when he was pissed and wound me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex husband left me for my best friend , I hate him and her now but still get very angry at the thought especially when my daughter goes there

Anger is part of the recovery normally, do you feel you are over it?

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By *winkletoes80Woman
over a year ago

redditch

Yes I think so , I just get so angry at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I think so , I just get so angry at times "

me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did get great satisfaction battering fuck out of him with a frozen salmon one night when he was pissed and wound me up."

Pmsl

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I did get great satisfaction battering fuck out of him with a frozen salmon one night when he was pissed and wound me up."

Waste of good salmon!

I've been thinking hard and pretty sure I haven't done anything nasty to any of my exes. The fact that one of them is unsuccessful with relationships and a couple of others ended up homeless not long after we split (nothing to do with me - just them being brats to other people) doesn't make me smile at all. Well, not often. Hehehehehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did get great satisfaction battering fuck out of him with a frozen salmon one night when he was pissed and wound me up."

fucking brilliant!

I dont think my ex would have had the balls or the motivation to cheat, part of the reason i ended it

if he did, big deal, our relationship was over anyways.

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By *oulou45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Love the salmon post lol. Well bed for me early start in the mornin. I bet there could be some great posts will give me something to read durin my team meetin. Nite all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best revenge ever is living a great happy life of your own. "

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

I left it to karma and twelve months later she done her job perfect and still is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went back to my cheating wife , but it changed my attitude towards her , and it changed me too , when I look back I feel going back was a mistake ......

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To my knowledge none of my "proper £ boyfriends have even cheat3d 0n me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined fab

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I did get great satisfaction battering fuck out of him with a frozen salmon one night when he was pissed and wound me up."

Go Laine...why a frozen salmon though???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left my cheating ex and walked away with nothing.. It was the best thing I've ever done and I'm so much happier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I washed all his lovely black undies with a lump of white loo roll

harsh eh?

I get more satisfaction 5 years on, knowing he works his ass off and she still won't get a job, smokes 40 fags a day and keeps pestering him to get married (his dad owns a half a million pound house and is on his 4th heart attack) I hope they marry and she fucks him over for as much as she can get.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I hit him in the place that's most sacred to him - his pocket!! I kept the house, the car and half the shares and savings and he got his pension which actually gives him more than i took but he'll unlikely make it to cashing it!! It kills him cos he's the greediest bastard I know. And I got myself a gorgeous boy toy while he's stuck with a moaner who's older than me!! Karma is sweet

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I did get great satisfaction battering fuck out of him with a frozen salmon one night when he was pissed and wound me up.

Go Laine...why a frozen salmon though???"

out of tinned..?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Surely the best form of revenge is to leave n be happy?

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

"Surely the best form of revenge is to leave n be happy?"

I totally agree , leave and be happy .......After you've cut bits off him , or cut his bits off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did get great satisfaction battering fuck out of him with a frozen salmon one night when he was pissed and wound me up.

Go Laine...why a frozen salmon though???"

Long story short.

He came home pissed out his box, wanted food, wouldn't let me make it. He kept going into the freezer instead of the fridge next to it and spilling the contents out of all the drawers. I kept recovering it and putting it back.

While I was bent behind him doing this he let rip with the biggest stinkiest beeriest fart ever right in my face ....... the salmon was nearest to hand on the floor so I let him have it ....... over-hand, under-hand, back-hand and side-swiped with both hands.

He settled for a cheese sandwich for supper after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never been cheated on that i know of..

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Surely the best form of revenge is to leave n be happy?

I totally agree , leave and be happy .......After you've cut bits off him , or cut his bits off "
I would just do the former not the latter, waste of energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have u ever felt the need to get even with your partner or shall I say ex after you found out they were cheating. Did you feel better for revenge?"

The Ex bit rules a line under things for me. All this revenge stuff can make people just see you as a psycho bitch and I am above that.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Have u ever felt the need to get even with your partner or shall I say ex after you found out they were cheating. Did you feel better for revenge?"

I cannot see what revenge would achieve other than a momentary feeling. I would try and find out what went on and bdecide on my actions based upon that.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Have u ever felt the need to get even with your partner or shall I say ex after you found out they were cheating. Did you feel better for revenge?

The Ex bit rules a line under things for me. All this revenge stuff can make people just see you as a psycho bitch and I am above that. "

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I always wanted a wife/girlfriend that would fuck other guys and tell me all about it!! so the point is a little irrelevant to me.

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I went travelling. To meet all the lovely ladies that I would never have met across the world. No anger. Karma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have begged my ex to cheat so he would have gone but sadly he didn't!

I do agree revenge is to hold your head up high and move on

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I went travelling. To meet all the lovely ladies that I would never have met across the world. No anger. Karma "

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

There doesn't seem to be many men on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years ago I was cheating on a ex, was lost in the lust, worst thing I ever done. I didn't love her but ended up breaking her heart and she was a really nice person that didn't deserve it.

The funny thing is the girl I was shagging we ended up together and a couple years later she was cheating on me! Karma I suppose.

I love and more importantly I respect my wife, she is amazing and my rock.

I would never be unfaithful again.

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

Remind me not to accept a cuppa from you....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There doesn't seem to be many men on this thread "

Men in general see getting revenge on a woman as a bit out of order as it looks petty and a bit like bullying. Men tend to save the revenge stuff for other men.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"There doesn't seem to be many men on this thread "
Do you think men look at it in a different , possibly more casual way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I add that she didn't seek revenge or nor did she give me any abuse.

That to me made me feel even worse

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There doesn't seem to be many men on this thread Do you think men look at it in a different , possibly more casual way?"

I do think men get hurt just like women when there partner cheats but I do think men see sex differently .

For every guy that cheats ( mostly ) he's cheating with a lady so there's nearly a 50/50 split there .

Guys do use prostitutes and escorts a lot more than ladies though.

I think guys maybe don't like to talk about loosing their OH especially if its because he was at fault .

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

I made sure I gushed all over his new quilt he had bought to move in with her folded it up nicely put it back in the bag and left it by a radiator. I also cleaned the loo with his toothbrush. This was after catching him in bed with his ex on the day of my brothers funeral. But then I moved on and have never been happier I know he is cheating on her and will never be faithful so no loss to me.

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By *oulou45 OP Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Well done lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best revenge ever is living a great happy life of your own. "

So true..... My ex-wife left for pastures new..10 years later she confessed to regreting that she had left me and resented that fact that I have happily remarried..

Oh well... Life is for learning... I just pity her, as she has had several unhappy relationships over the last decade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really see the point in revenge!

Surely seeing you happy and getting on things is bitter sweet enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There doesn't seem to be many men on this thread Do you think men look at it in a different , possibly more casual way?

I do think men get hurt just like women when there partner cheats but I do think men see sex differently .

For every guy that cheats ( mostly ) he's cheating with a lady so there's nearly a 50/50 split there .

Guys do use prostitutes and escorts a lot more than ladies though.

I think guys maybe don't like to talk about loosing their OH especially if its because he was at fault ."

I don't think you have anyway of substantiating what you claim.

I've been cheated on a few times and never have I cheated on anyone.

The simple fact is that violence and abuse committed against men is seen as far more acceptable than the other way round!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Don't really see the point in revenge!

Surely seeing you happy and getting on things is bitter sweet enough! "

Couldn't agree more.

I've had one person cheat on me - he was married he and his family kept that little gem from me.

When I found out it took the wind out of my sails as I couldn't believe so many people knew but I was clueless. Didn't think about revenge, just got on with my life in the hope it wouldn't make me bitter, jaded and cynical towards others.

Jury's still out on that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't waste my time on revenge...... it's far better as i have found to show you can live without them lol