FabSwingers.com forum: Self confessed 'sluts'

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People, do you see yourself as a bit of a slut? Or 'easy to sleep with' given you find the person attractive?

Obviously some more so than others but, I guess I do about myself. I love kissing women and will do it even if I don't find them jaw dropping. A flirty fun connection added to that and I'm pretty game.

Likewise, are people that do refer to themselves like that a turn on or a turn off? Cause I love it!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope. Hate the word

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I call myself a slut. But honestly? I'm not easy to actually sleep with. I generally only have actual sex with people I really care about.

Blowjobs, however? If your banter isn't gash and I find you attractive, you're in

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

Slut and owning it. But I am incredibly choosy about who I fuck and not an easy lay by any stretch of the imagination

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not in the slightest.

I definitely had a slutty phase.

Now, I'm quite happy not having sex. I'm also not one for having sex with several people in a short period of time.

Don't get me wrong; I absolutely love sex. But I need friendship etc. Probably a bit of a prude now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I call myself a slut. But honestly? I'm not easy to actually sleep with. I generally only have actual sex with people I really care about.

Blowjobs, however? If your banter isn't gash and I find you attractive, you're in

What stage am I at?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Slut and owning it. But I am incredibly choosy about who I fuck and not an easy lay by any stretch of the imagination "

Perfection! Yeah actual sleeping with takes a little more from me but I am a total slut for snogging.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I call myself a slut. But honestly? I'm not easy to actually sleep with. I generally only have actual sex with people I really care about.

Blowjobs, however? If your banter isn't gash and I find you attractive, you're in

What stage am I at?

Improve your bants and we'll see

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes I'm a promiscuous slut

I like having a few regular fuck buddies that I can meet up with, as I travel to socials

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say there’s no doubt whatsoever that I definitely qualify by your terms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

green looks good on you

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By *ohnhelenCouple
over a year ago

preston

Stunning I love a women that loves it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. If the chemistry is right then anything is on the table, but I can’t force an attraction for the sake of it.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Not had sex in some time. So my slutty history has long since passed.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think like most I went through that initial slutty stage on fab of meeting / having sex every opportunity and tired of it very quickly.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I call myself a slut. But honestly? I'm not easy to actually sleep with. I generally only have actual sex with people I really care about.

Blowjobs, however? If your banter isn't gash and I find you attractive, you're in

Hmmm, I’ve hardly ever used the word gash.

Penrith truck stop?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Sort of if we use the original meaning of slut.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

The meaning of being ‘slutty’ changed over the years, didn’t it? From being about a messy, slovenly person to being about promiscuity.

I’ve never been the former but I’ve often been the latter.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Sort of if we use the original meaning of slut. "

Hi Granny. Great minds think alike, eh?

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

No, and I'm not fond of the word slut and the connotations behind it.

I'm a woman that enjoys sex. Nothing negative about that.

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

I used to be, fully intend to get back to that

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Hmmm, I’ve hardly ever used the word gash.

Penrith truck stop?

It's a horrible word. But I had a long night and am running on very little sleep so it's the word that I'm apparently using.

I don't drive, getting out to truck stops is hard without looking like an actual whore to the taxi drivers

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Sort of if we use the original meaning of slut.

Hi Granny. Great minds think alike, eh?"

Indeed they do

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm slutty for some

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes very slutty x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I'm slutty for some

Please let me be part of the some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a massive one for the right person

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I would be a slut but I don't get laid anywhere near enough

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'm slutty for some

Please let me be part of the some

You're

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm innocent!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I'm innocent! "

Please don't let that be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was a slut but don’t have sex enough….I wouldn’t want to disappoint too many women in such a short space of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a massive slut fetish -- I love finding all about a woman's sexual history, I love it that she gets loads of male attention, and I love the tease of it all!

Some women seem to hate the word, and that's their business -- but if it's not you then why worry, and if it is you, then it's all good, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah a massive one for the right person

Flashbacks to that night you messaged me dreamy messages...

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I consider myself an EX slut.

As i don't get any anymore

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Don't think I've ever considered myself a slut. Don't have anywhere near as many meets as unused to. So if I was in the past I'm not anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut and owning it. But I am incredibly choosy about who I fuck and not an easy lay by any stretch of the imagination "

Yes me too

J x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Not in the slightest.

I definitely had a slutty phase.

Now, I'm quite happy not having sex. I'm also not one for having sex with several people in a short period of time.

Don't get me wrong; I absolutely love sex. But I need friendship etc. Probably a bit of a prude now.

So a slut for the right friend?

LvM

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"Slut and owning it. But I am incredibly choosy about who I fuck and not an easy lay by any stretch of the imagination "

You’re allowed to be picky

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Only a select few will know how slutty I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being called a slut, what I hate is being called a Lady.

Yes I would at times consider myself a slut. X

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope, I'm not easy to sleep with, I'm extremely picky, I have to like the person as well as the attraction.

Mrs

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"I have a massive slut fetish -- I love finding all about a woman's sexual history, I love it that she gets loads of male attention, and I love the tease of it all!

Some women seem to hate the word, and that's their business -- but if it's not you then why worry, and if it is you, then it's all good, right?

Lots of women have different definitions of what the word slut means to them, which is quite interesting. I guess that also decides for them whether they find it negative or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a massive slut fetish -- I love finding all about a woman's sexual history, I love it that she gets loads of male attention, and I love the tease of it all!

Some women seem to hate the word, and that's their business -- but if it's not you then why worry, and if it is you, then it's all good, right?

Lots of women have different definitions of what the word slut means to them, which is quite interesting. I guess that also decides for them whether they find it negative or not

Absolutely -- the thing I try to be clear about, is that I use it as a term of endearment and never to offend. I just can't find a better word that has the same energy behind it.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Not a slut at all. Picky as hell which is why I never have any sexy fun at clubs haha

And I find the word derogatory and in really bad taste. Now you know.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Not in the slightest.

I definitely had a slutty phase.

Now, I'm quite happy not having sex. I'm also not one for having sex with several people in a short period of time.

Don't get me wrong; I absolutely love sex. But I need friendship etc. Probably a bit of a prude now.

So a slut for the right friend?

LvM"

I missed this before. I'm a bit out of it now (in a good way) but yeah, I'm a slut for the right friend.

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By *airyboxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

What’s a slut? I need to have experience of one before I can tell you…

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I prefer the term "slut" can't stand the word "slag" that offends me,Where as "slut" doesn't offend me....

I'm also very picky and will only be a "slut" with people I'm really into

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

My ex wife and ex gf were both self confessed sluts. And they both loved cock. My ex wife had over 150 cocks before she was 24. Love telling on them both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an easy lay, so I guess that makes me a slut. Bring it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be a complete slut given the right people and circumstances.

I don’t find the word offence or derogatory in itself but how it’s used can be.

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Every woman is a slut for the right man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll only be a slut for my husband he loves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip I am when it comes to guys as it’s just pure sexual for me my date preferences is woman guys are just a bit off mindless sex

Very upfront about that from the get go

But there are rules to it

At anytime I can call my self the 4 and 5 letter bad words

During or time to gether I give permission for the other person to call me the 4 and 5 letter bad word

But ones or times up you don’t have that right anymore till next time

Calling me any name like that outside off the bed room setting will result in a block that will never get lifted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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And I find the word derogatory and in really bad taste. Now you know. "

Gotcha!

I I find the word perfectly fitting and if I ever used it, it would never be in a derogatory way. Mute of a lustful, ‘I want her to let herself go’ and feel sexual freedom type of way with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a slut at all. Picky as hell which is why I never have any sexy fun at clubs haha

And I find the word derogatory and in really bad taste. Now you know. "

Agree from a stranger is a big no but from my hubby in the right circumstances can be such a turn on

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I am a slut for one person but not for all.

I can also be pretty untidy at times

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I’m an Angel and I find it off putting when other people refer to themselves as ‘slurs’

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By * and P southeastCouple
over a year ago

essex

Eeek I’m a slut I get extreamly turned on having sex with anyone I always have done

Yes I’ve always been an easy lay and had an awful nick name at school xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I can't stand that word.

However do I see myself as sexually liberated, with the ability to do as I wish? Then yes

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By *ruskJokerMan
over a year ago

Royston

I don’t actively call myself a slut. But I could probably be defined as one. I always say my standards for fun and my standard for dating are completely different. I’d sleep with 9/10 blokes but probably only want to date that last 1/10.

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By *andacouple3Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

My wife was a slut in that we would go dogging, go to sex parties and gangbangs. However she would be very offended if called a slut!!

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over a year ago

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By *ilthyParamedicMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

I'm not a slut. I'm a guy that knows what he wants and when he wants it. There's nothing wrong with admitting that you enjoy doing...

That being said, I am not an easy lay.

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

Long time married

58 years old

On fab...yes I'm a slut or I wouldn't be hear.

Just lucky hubby is OK with it. X

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Nope the word doesn't appeal to me although in my earlier years of doing this i guess it could have been used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the Words of pop smoke …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the Words of pop smoke … "

I’m with whatever. I’m with it all. I’ma slut. What’s up. Get me lit.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yeah I'm a slut. I like casual sex with multiple people

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Less so than i ised to be, but still a proud slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I'm a slut. I like casual sex with multiple people

Like, an ethical slut though right?

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

I love dressing fetish slutty and act accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love dressing fetish slutty and act accordingly

It shows the effort you make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love dressing fetish slutty and act accordingly

You do it so well x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I’m sometimes a slut…

* there may be one too many words in that sentence

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

Awww this is old me's thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sometimes a slut…

* there may be one too many words in that sentence

May be????

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Awww this is old me's thread

Is it Brucey? I’m totally shocked

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I’m sometimes a slut…

* there may be one too many words in that sentence

May be???? "

You know what I mean SB

I need wine…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awww this is old me's thread

Can't be.

The OP is UNLOS. Surely tbey wouldn't have come back so soon after that furore?

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By *shlynn Sweet CDTV/TS
over a year ago

Lol. I am an absolutely massive slut. And I am not the slightest bit embarrassed or ashamed to admit that. Hehe I love my filthy lifestyle x

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

"Awww this is old me's thread

Can't be.

The OP is UNLOS. Surely tbey wouldn't have come back so soon after that furore? "

What can I say I missed you guys!

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

Reading

"Yeah I'm a slut. I like casual sex with multiple people

You better give me your no.

You think I'm joking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a slut is simply someone who enjoys casual sex. nothing wrong with that. its when people use it as a derogatory term then its an issue.

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I'm defo a slut.Love it. But I don't just go for any cock going. I still need to be attracted and feel respected and appreciated

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Absolutely love the word, and am proud to be one. most guys that message me don’t get it though.

For me, being a slut means I’ll do practically anything with the right guy, not that I’ll do any guy x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"For me, being a slut means I’ll do practically anything with the right guy, not that I’ll do any guy x"

That’s a lovely way of putting it, Rosie. I like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my wife says that I am a cock sucking slut and I don't disagree!

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Absolutely love the word, and am proud to be one. most guys that message me don’t get it though.

For me, being a slut means I’ll do practically anything with the right guy, not that I’ll do any guy x"

Yes this!! Haha.

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