FabSwingers.com forum: The importance of kissing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, imagine you're on a night out and you kiss someone you think is a 10/10 but they kiss badly, just not your style.

Then imagine you kiss someone who's attractive enough but not your ideal and it's a 10/10 kiss. Exactly how you like it and it just flows...

Which one would you more likely carry the night on with?

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

10/10 kiss for sure

Nothing worse than a bad kisser

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By *eastXMan
over a year ago

London

Kissing all the way !

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

The good kisser

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like kissing, but if it's not their forte it's not the end of the world.

I'm more likely to continue with someone that's clicking well in the other departments than go with someone that's an excellent kisser but the equivalent of "you'll do" in the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always loved kissing and recently I've had to sacrifice it.

I'm never doing that again. It's vital

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like kissing, but if it's not their forte it's not the end of the world.

I'm more likely to continue with someone that's clicking well in the other departments than go with someone that's an excellent kisser but the equivalent of "you'll do" in the rest."

Aka good chat and dick and keen on throat fucking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've always loved kissing and recently I've had to sacrifice it.

I'm never doing that again. It's vital "

How come?

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
over a year ago

M20

Kissing is about chemistry, you can’t fake it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be off looking for the 3rd person that matches all my "wants"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the good kisser

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

As if I’d kiss 2 people in the same evening!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Which one would you more likely carry the night on with?"

The one with the perfect kiss. Every time.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Trick question.

The answer is neither. I’ll be going home to my vibrator after inhaling a kebab.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

This sounds like a compromise in both people! If it’s truly a one night stand with no expectations from either person on anything more, I’d probably go with the person to whom I felt most connected. That usually the good kisser that is fun to be with. Looks are great but not everything.

If we’re talking long term then it’s back to square one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the whole picture really but long-term I could not live with a person who couldn't give pleasure with their mouth. That includes the kind of kisses on all lips that please us both.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

The kiss is where it's at

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Trick question.

The answer is neither. I’ll be going home to my vibrator after inhaling a kebab. "

Winning answer.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Everything begins with a kiss so for me kissing is the most important

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Trick question.

The answer is neither. I’ll be going home to my vibrator after inhaling a kebab. "

Not even a snog Jamie!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As if I’d kiss 2 people in the same evening!

Not coming to my kissing social then?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Aka good chat and dick and keen on throat fucking?

Yep. Now if they're excellent at all the things originally mentioned but like sterile calm blow jobs, that's a fucken deal breaker right there

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

The good kisser, every tine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is super important for me so if it’s shit there’s a good chance nothing else will happen, even if they’re hot.

10/10 kissing wins me over every time.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"As if I’d kiss 2 people in the same evening!

Not coming to my kissing social then?

No. Couldn’t think of anything worse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aka good chat and dick and keen on throat fucking?

Yep. Now if they're excellent at all the things originally mentioned but like sterile calm blow jobs, that's a fucken deal breaker right there

I pass through to the next stage!

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

The one that I’ve had the best laugh with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As if I’d kiss 2 people in the same evening!

Not coming to my kissing social then?

No. Couldn’t think of anything worse

Not sure if sarcasm...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"As if I’d kiss 2 people in the same evening!

Not coming to my kissing social then?

No. Couldn’t think of anything worse

Not sure if sarcasm...

It wasn’t. I know it usually is haha.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I don't have an 'ideal' anyway so it's the 10/10 kisser for me.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I need to be able to just fall into someone’s kisses

But

I have to like them too

I need it all Brucey. Call me greedy, but fuck I deserve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bad kiss would be a deal breaker..

But I like an overall connection, so full person as a whole, over good kisser who is lacking in other areas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had numerous dates with people from here (and other places) over he years which have gone really well, then the kiss is awful and I've never seen them again as a result.

If the kiss doesn't work, the rest is a massive no no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need to be able to just fall into someone’s kisses

But

I have to like them too

I need it all Brucey. Call me greedy, but fuck I deserve it"

I give all

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

A kiss is most definitely an indication of how the sex will go…if they are bad, all sloppy then it’s not going to work

If they are very good, then it’s going to be fireworks

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Woman or a man the kissing has to be part of the meet and it has to feel right.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

The one with the wonderful kissing action.

I've kissed many a guy I really fancied only to be left cold by the kiss. Sometimes it just don't work - no one's fault.

But if I somehow snogged someone who didn't tick all my boxes but the kiss was incredible? Then my oxytocin would kick in & things would definitely get heated.

NOTHING gets me in the mood more than a fantastic kiss

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Neither

I wouldn't kiss someone I didn't find attractive

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Kisses are amazing

A bad kiss can be a little jarring but it's not the end of the world. But good God, a good kiss in the right places

*boing*

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you do if your wife’s best friend keeps wanting to snog you and touch you yet doesn’t want sex . I try not to be alone with her but she always finds away?

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By *itty Kat ABWoman
over a year ago

North Somerset

"Kissing is about chemistry, you can’t fake it."

This is so true! Kx

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Kissing is so important. Would rather have great kisser & no sex that a bad kisser and great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing. Often underestimated, but I find it’s often the best build up and offers so much opportunity to explore each other

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I doubt I'd be satisfied with either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without kissing is like tepid milky tea. Disappointing, never going to warm you up and something you wouldn't want to try again...

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

A good kiss is delicious. A 10/10 for me would be sending electric currents down my spine & straight to my nethers. So the 10/10 kisser would immediately become insanely attractive.

Looks aren’t everything anyway. Attraction is a mix of brain, heart, funny bone & groin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you do if your wife’s best friend keeps wanting to snog you and touch you yet doesn’t want sex . I try not to be alone with her but she always finds away?"

She sounds like a hateful b"£^h

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"What do you do if your wife’s best friend keeps wanting to snog you and touch you yet doesn’t want sex . I try not to be alone with her but she always finds away?"

If it bothers you, then tell her to stop it.

If you enjoy it, tell her that instead.

Either way, you talk to her. Not us lot.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I could happily meet someone who I connect with and just kiss. It’s my biggest turn on

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing worse than a bad kisser it would stop right there.

Mrs

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Kissing is the one thing I will brag and big myself up about.

All other sexual skills and abilities I'd never do such a thing.

Depends how far from ideal they are. I won't just lower my own standards on a kiss alone. However the kissing needs to be good.

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