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Should she leave him for a younger lover?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Are you also following the latest story line in eastenders, that is what kind of dilemma denis is facing, whether or not to stay with her husband jack for a younger lover ravi that she have seen for a while behind his back.

Denise have felt frustrated because jack havent given her the attention that she craves and she have been in tears about when talking to few others about it.

What is your view about it and would you do the same?

It is a tricky one. I feel that it is the right thing for her to do, but dennis and jack could of talk it through first

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

She should point out that her needs are not being met and if they continue to not be met she should get out of an unsatisfactory relationship that does not fulfill her needs.

She can't blame anyone else for the fact that she has cheated. That is her responsibility.

I notice a lot that people don't tend to leap until they believe they've got someone to catch them.

I don't watch Eastenders but already I don't like her.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't watch it, but if she's unhappy she should speak about it, have an open conversation, if things don't improve then leave rather than cheat, it's selfish, deceitful and just wrong, needs being met or not.

Mrs

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't watch television but if it were a real life relationship she should tell him she needs more affection and he needs to talk about why he isn't giving it to her.

In my case my husband was capable of giving it to other women, but not me.

I wasted a lot of years trying to be a better wife so he would want me.

As Granny said he didn't go until he had someone/where to go, and I had to resort to something I didn't want to do to get rid of him.

She doesn't need a younger lover, she needs someone who cares for her and respects her.

He could be any age.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"She should point out that her needs are not being met and if they continue to not be met she should get out of an unsatisfactory relationship that does not fulfill her needs.

She can't blame anyone else for the fact that she has cheated. That is her responsibility.

I notice a lot that people don't tend to leap until they believe they've got someone to catch them.

I don't watch Eastenders but already I don't like her. "
Her needs are needs and needs need to be met otherwise she'll still be needing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What she should do is talk to anyone but her partner. That way she can blame him for her actions and the breakdown of their relationship while avoiding facing up to any of her own shortcomings.

When her new relationship goes the same way as the old one she should repeat this while wondering why her relationships always break down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she on Fab? Tell her to pop in so we can advise further

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"She should point out that her needs are not being met and if they continue to not be met she should get out of an unsatisfactory relationship that does not fulfill her needs.

She can't blame anyone else for the fact that she has cheated. That is her responsibility.

I notice a lot that people don't tend to leap until they believe they've got someone to catch them.

I don't watch Eastenders but already I don't like her. "
Yes, you are right there, she should point out her needs as well, yes some do tend to do that dont they

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I don't watch it, but if she's unhappy she should speak about it, have an open conversation, if things don't improve then leave rather than cheat, it's selfish, deceitful and just wrong, needs being met or not.

Mrs "
Yes, it is important to talk about is as well

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"What she should do is talk to anyone but her partner. That way she can blame him for her actions and the breakdown of their relationship while avoiding facing up to any of her own shortcomings.

When her new relationship goes the same way as the old one she should repeat this while wondering why her relationships always break down. "
You are right there, it is good for her to talk to others about it as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ravi is a disgusting slimey creep!! But if Denise isn't happy then she needs to either have a proper discussion with Jack or leave! Just not for the grease ball, especially since he's been with her daughter, that's a line not to be crossed!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What she should do is talk to anyone but her partner. That way she can blame him for her actions and the breakdown of their relationship while avoiding facing up to any of her own shortcomings.

When her new relationship goes the same way as the old one she should repeat this while wondering why her relationships always break down. You are right there, it is good for her to talk to others about it as well "

I think that's the mistake people often make. They'll talk to other people but not their partner. You see it on here and in outside life all the time.

I don't know if this person has talked to her partner in the story line or not but there would be no show if there was no drama

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"What she should do is talk to anyone but her partner. That way she can blame him for her actions and the breakdown of their relationship while avoiding facing up to any of her own shortcomings.

When her new relationship goes the same way as the old one she should repeat this while wondering why her relationships always break down. You are right there, it is good for her to talk to others about it as well

I think that's the mistake people often make. They'll talk to other people but not their partner. You see it on here and in outside life all the time.

I don't know if this person has talked to her partner in the story line or not but there would be no show if there was no drama "
Yes, you are right there as well as that is the mistake some people do, talking to the partner about it is the best way

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I don't watch television but if it were a real life relationship she should tell him she needs more affection and he needs to talk about why he isn't giving it to her.

In my case my husband was capable of giving it to other women, but not me.

I wasted a lot of years trying to be a better wife so he would want me.

As Granny said he didn't go until he had someone/where to go, and I had to resort to something I didn't want to do to get rid of him.

She doesn't need a younger lover, she needs someone who cares for her and respects her.

He could be any age."
Yes, the best thing for her would be to tell him her needs, it also depends if she have the courage to do it as it can be daunting at first, talking about it with each other is the first step as well

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

When she should have done is leave her husband before shagging someone else.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Jack's got a lot on his plate with a daughter who's SH and a young son who's got a girl pregnant, he's not giving her the affection he was because his mind is frazzled. Denise should be understanding this not jumping in bed with another man.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Jack's got a lot on his plate with a daughter who's SH and a young son who's got a girl pregnant, he's not giving her the affection he was because his mind is frazzled. Denise should be understanding this not jumping in bed with another man."
Yes, that is also a good point as he have alot on his plate as well, so she should as well have some understanding of it

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Hi OP, I love it how you encourage us all to fill our bodies with goodness yet fill our minds with rubbish... you may have guessed that I'm not following this or any other Dead Enders storyline.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"She should point out that her needs are not being met and if they continue to not be met she should get out of an unsatisfactory relationship that does not fulfill her needs.

She can't blame anyone else for the fact that she has cheated. That is her responsibility.

I notice a lot that people don't tend to leap until they believe they've got someone to catch them.

I don't watch Eastenders but already I don't like her. Her needs are needs and needs need to be met otherwise she'll still be needing "
Yes, her needs, need to be met as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not real you know.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"It’s not real you know. "

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

If it’s Eastenders, I’m guessing it will get strung out with lots of drama and shouting until Xmas eve- when somebody will be run over by a steam roller

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"Ravi is a disgusting slimey creep!! But if Denise isn't happy then she needs to either have a proper discussion with Jack or leave! Just not for the grease ball, especially since he's been with her daughter, that's a line not to be crossed!!"
Yes, denise needs to make a decision if she isnt happy about it

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"If it’s Eastenders, I’m guessing it will get strung out with lots of drama and shouting until Xmas eve- when somebody will be run over by a steam roller"
Yes, there is alot of drama around christmas time as well

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

The take home message here is how important communication is between a couple, it is the key

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