FabSwingers.com forum: How recent are you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m rocking a profile picture that’s as old s time itself , and I rarely update my photos, because in all honesty,….I’m the same as I was last year..and the year before. (Less weight maybe).

But how often do you think profiles should update them or even if they should?

Do you think we could do this Fab website at all without photos?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Our profile picture is a few years out of date but the rest of our pictures are regularly updated so I don't think it's too much of an issue

I think they should somewhat accurately represent what a person currently looks like.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve made me realise my profile pic is a few years old now.

I wouldn’t mind taking more pics though

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

3 times a day

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I like yo keep mine fresh take new pics at least weekly x

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

Mine are a mix of older and newer pics.

I'm less likely to talk to someone who has only old photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to keep mine recent. My pics are all within a year

I take new ones and delete the older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be your delivery driver!

Savour my sausage n buns

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Ours are a mix of brand fire new and up to three years old mainly.

The spanking picture is our oldest.

Probably from around 2016 I think.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

My profile pic is last year and regularly update my other pics.

I do smile at the age of some pix on here though - you look great in 2014 but how come there is nothing new??

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

This profile pic is for this year. It conveys exactly what I want to put across on here. I may add more lingerie pics if my Mojo finally makes a reappearance later on.

I don't mind profiles with no pics, as long as he sends a face pic I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Av been on and off the site for about 14 years now and still have guys sending me the same pic they sent me 14 years ago, deffo should have up to date pics, its not hard nowadays to take a selfie

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I try and take some updated ones - mainly because I enjoy thinking of different photos and find it interesting seeing the evolution of how I was when I started. The journey of having confidence in getting naked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine are a mix of older and newer pics.

I'm less likely to talk to someone who has only old photos. "

I have really old photos. Because I’m old.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Av been on and off the site for about 14 years now and still have guys sending me the same pic they sent me 14 years ago, deffo should have up to date pics, its not hard nowadays to take a selfie "

14yrs old is just ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now coming to think of it, how many of you are suprised how old some of the photos are, and how long you’ve been here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m rocking a profile picture that’s as old s time itself , and I rarely update my photos, because in all honesty,….I’m the same as I was last year..and the year before. (Less weight maybe).

But how often do you think profiles should update them or even if they should?

Do you think we could do this Fab website at all without photos?

I don't care for photos much. Mine is not representative at all, I'm about 5st heavier.

Old pics are fine by me.

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By *andomly FriendlyCouple
over a year ago

Hull

The profile pic were using was taken a few week ago

Curls x

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Mine are mostly recent. I like to keep them updated. There are a couple of slightly older ones but only by a year or 2. I do love a photo session though

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Mine is a few years old, but I'm not looking to meet so it doesn't really matter, I just like the picture.

I don't think when a picture is uploaded is a good gauge on when it was taken though, you see so many people repeatedly deleting and re-uploading the same pictures. Goodness knows when they were actually taken.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"Mine are a mix of older and newer pics.

I'm less likely to talk to someone who has only old photos.

I have really old photos. Because I’m old.

That cream will have gone off then!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

mostly up to date, torso picture 2 years old but still same shape,,

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Now coming to think of it, how many of you are suprised how old some of the photos are, and how long you’ve been here?

1. Amused rather than surprised

2. Pretty much from the start (on a different account) - which is _really_ scary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m rocking a profile picture that’s as old s time itself , and I rarely update my photos, because in all honesty,….I’m the same as I was last year..and the year before. (Less weight maybe).

But how often do you think profiles should update them or even if they should?

Do you think we could do this Fab website at all without photos?

Brand new ! But we have tweaked the bio already, intend to keep it updated as much as possible

Some profiles could do with updating, viewed one yesterday after a wink, it was 10’years Out of date, description had them Down as mid 30s really was in bio mid 40s

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Oh oh, someone’s using the ‘I still look the same as I did 5 years ago’ routine

You might think you do but you don’t - no one does - except Meli

We add to our regularly so people aren’t surprised when we meet them.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We've only been on fab about 18 months, but probably upload a new photo once a month on average. I also regularly change which picture is the profile pic. The current one is from last May as it's one of my favourites.

I prefer people to have recent pictures, but I don't mind if the profile picture is old, especially if it's a classic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine are a mix of older and newer pics.

I'm less likely to talk to someone who has only old photos.

I have really old photos. Because I’m old.

That cream will have gone off then! "

*cries I know.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I like taking new pics, and have also gained some curves since we joined so feel it's fair to show that. I do have some favourite old pics which we'll keep around though, plus most of the older ones get shoved into friends only. So if you're wanting to be our pal hoping to see hardcore filth, unlucky, it's just a bunch of old pics!

Mrs TMN x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If anyone thinks a few years don't make a difference, watch a few Dave progs and see how baby faced the comedians on panel shows looked five years ago ..... or Simon Cowell on a 2012 BGT....

Why does everyone think they are Dorian Gray ?

Mind you ......ive had the same pic for about 15 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is a few years old, but I'm not looking to meet so it doesn't really matter, I just like the picture.

I don't think pics are a good representation of the person anyway. The person is a whole being, not tits or cock or black and white.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I haven't updated my bio in a few years but I'm not currently meeting so it doesn't really matter anyway.

I add a new pic now and again when I feel like it rather than out of necessity.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I know my photos are up to date and a real representation of me when people immediately recognise me at socials.

love it

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I want to keep my photos more up-to-date than I do, but I *really* don't enjoy taking pictures of myself.

I haven't changed much below the neck – I weigh the same now as I did before the pandemic – but I appreciate how suspect it must look that none of my photos are more recent.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I know my photos are up to date and a real representation of me when people immediately recognise me at socials.

love it

Yes this! I don't recognise a soul! But they all say hiya candyfloss! Even happened at work on Friday lol! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is 4 years old and I tend to upload a new photo every couple of weeks. Nowhere near as frequent as some people. Don't know how they can have photoshoots every day.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I don't think pics are a good representation of the person anyway. The person is a whole being, not tits or cock or black and white.

You speak for yourself! Some of us are two-dimensional, one-atom shallow, and proud of it.

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Our pics have largely been taken at the time of posting. There are one or two #throwback pics of Max though which are about 20 years old but people generally struggle to identify which ones (a fitting testimony in itself to her fine form

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I haven't taken a new pic in ages. I think my last one (private face pic) was about 6 months ago

I really should take new ones as I'm a bit heavier now, it's trying to find the time though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I update my profile photos regularly, but that’s because I am a bit of an exhibitionist and I love photography, so I often experiment with myself as a subject

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Your post made me go and check. My profile pic was from last summer and most of my others range from 2020 to a couple of weeks ago so don't think I'm doing too bad. There are some private and friends only ones from 2918 though so I may have to look at clearing some of them out.

Good post though.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I just change mine to whatever I like at the time or the photo challenges etc, I don't post profile pics that are pre kids as I'm not that skinny anymore, but as long as you look like your pic I'm sure it's all good.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If anyone thinks a few years don't make a difference, watch a few Dave progs and see how baby faced the comedians on panel shows looked five years ago ..... or Simon Cowell on a 2012 BGT....

…."

2012? You know what year we are in right?

There’s a big difference between 1-2 years ago and 10+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rotate my favourites. But i upload a new one every month or so.

The current one is from my trip to Glasgow, which i think was in Aug 2021

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why does everyone think they are Dorian Gray ?

I’m Fifty Shades of Dorian Gray.

*if you’ve not changed your username for a while……

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rotate my favourites. But i upload a new one every month or so.

The current one is from my trip to Glasgow, which i think was in Aug 2021 "

Do you want a new one if you visit Manchester

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Most of my pics have been taken in past 6 months. Few throwback pics of me in suits and cross dressing.

One really old pic, but it's very clear it's much younger version of me in my goth days.

Would like to get some nice new ones done.

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Think my profile pic is a couple year old maybe. I've uploaded some new ones recently though don't really look any different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a variety of pics, most are recent but not changed much over the years apart from hair colour occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a variety but I have a fair few recent ones

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Mine is a few months old. I could do with updated photos but I don’t like photos of me at all at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our pictures are from about a year or so ago and taken from our old profile but we still look the same, except if I’ve chopped all my hair off *insert crying emoji*.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I just change mine to whatever I like at the time or the photo challenges etc, I don't post profile pics that are pre kids as I'm not that skinny anymore, but as long as you look like your pic I'm sure it's all good.

Mrs "

I ment to add ours are usually taken the night of or the night before posting, so the dates are as we look on that day.

Mrs

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Most of our pictures are from about a year or so ago and taken from our old profile but we still look the same, except if I’ve chopped all my hair off *insert crying emoji*."

Chopped hair :’(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of our pictures are from about a year or so ago and taken from our old profile but we still look the same, except if I’ve chopped all my hair off *insert crying emoji*."

You love ace with your new haircut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of our pictures are from about a year or so ago and taken from our old profile but we still look the same, except if I’ve chopped all my hair off *insert crying emoji*.

You love ace with your new haircut!"
look ace even!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile, since November maybe? Uploaded a new friends only one from last night though and caused by a dreamy fab user

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of our pictures are from about a year or so ago and taken from our old profile but we still look the same, except if I’ve chopped all my hair off *insert crying emoji*.

You love ace with your new haircut! look ace even!"

Thanks Brucey

I’m still coming to terms with the loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of our pictures are from about a year or so ago and taken from our old profile but we still look the same, except if I’ve chopped all my hair off *insert crying emoji*.

You love ace with your new haircut! look ace even!

Thanks Brucey

I’m still coming to terms with the loss

"
it'll come back! But trust me you rock it. Look at it this way, now you can rock the librarian role play!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My profile is from a day or two before either I originally joined, so like 9 months ish.

My most recent public photo was uploaded the day it was taken, so probably early last month.

My most recent friends only video was taken yesterday

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Though I'm still much the same, the latest ones are 2 years old I believe.

There's little incentive to do new ones if I'm not looking to meet.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Quite regularly if you’re looking to meet. If not then it doesn’t really matter. I think my current profile pic is about 6 years old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile pic is a couple of months. The rest are within the last 9 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics are always fresh as I enjoy taking them every couple of days. It's one of my kinks, like a mild form of exhibitionism really.

I will sometimes find an older one that I still enjoy and will pop it back up but they get deleted and replaced very often. And by older, it's a year tops.

I've been disappointed by people using old pics from 5-10 years ago. A 'live' pic taken randomly in chat has given many away and led to a cheerio for lying. There's really nothing to be gained by using older pics, a meet will reveal all so just be honest from the get-go. People thinking "they'll get to know me first and the rest won't matter".... everything matters. It's the whole package, looks matter whether they ought to in your opinion or not.

Any dated as 5-10years old, whilst that is more honest obv as I can see they're older, if a person has been on here that long that's a turn off for me in itself. I'm not interested in a hardened swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's from this week

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its from around Christmas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterdays wedding.

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

Mine is a little bit of a mixture.

I always try to update it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If anyone thinks a few years don't make a difference, watch a few Dave progs and see how baby faced the comedians on panel shows looked five years ago ..... or Simon Cowell on a 2012 BGT....

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2012? You know what year we are in right?

There’s a big difference between 1-2 years ago and 10+

No I don't know. What year are we in Woody ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic is 18 months old, I have lost weight since then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within the last 12 hours. I like to stay current

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Ours are all taken within the last couple of months. Our private face pic was taken last summer so still fairly recent. I do like taking a new pic when I have a lingerie delivery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pfp is about 3 months old, all my public ones are a few days old, all my friends are no older than 1 year

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Quite regularly if you’re looking to meet. If not then it doesn’t really matter. I think my current profile pic is about 6 years old "

And thought lost to time forever

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Oh oh, someone’s using the ‘I still look the same as I did 5 years ago’ routine

You might think you do but you don’t - no one does - except Meli

We add to our regularly so people aren’t surprised when we meet them.

Aww K! I like you.

Even I've changed in the past five years. Quite a lot actually. I'm tempted to upload a photo of me five years ago and one of me last night.

I still get ID'd a lot. More in the past couple of weeks than before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a mixture but oldest is probably a year old, newest was this week..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still get ID'd a lot. More in the past couple of weeks than before.

SO unfair. I never got ID’d. I’m telling myself it’s because even when I was young enough to be, I had an old soul. Or some such shite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still get ID'd a lot. More in the past couple of weeks than before.

SO unfair. I never got ID’d. I’m telling myself it’s because even when I was young enough to be, I had an old soul. Or some such shite."

I reckon it's the boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think pics are a good representation of the person anyway. The person is a whole being, not tits or cock or black and white.

You speak for yourself! Some of us are two-dimensional, one-atom shallow, and proud of it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m rocking a profile picture that’s as old s time itself , and I rarely update my photos, because in all honesty,….I’m the same as I was last year..and the year before. (Less weight maybe).

But how often do you think profiles should update them or even if they should?

Do you think we could do this Fab website at all without photos?

I like your profile pic(s)

As for doing fab without pics, I think possibly yes. So many pics are dubious angles, lighting/manipulated/blurred they don't tell us *anything* anyway

I always do socials for these very reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its from around Christmas 1989!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Quite regularly if you’re looking to meet. If not then it doesn’t really matter. I think my current profile pic is about 6 years old

And thought lost to time forever

Haha. Thanks to a certain someone it was found!

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By *oanne ETV/TS
over a year ago

Near Warrington

Mine tends to be updated when I get a new Amazon delivery lol

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Less than 2 months, I could use photos from 10 years ago as I look the same

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I still get ID'd a lot. More in the past couple of weeks than before.

SO unfair. I never got ID’d. I’m telling myself it’s because even when I was young enough to be, I had an old soul. Or some such shite.

I reckon it's the boobs"

Maybe.

I think it's because they're captivated by Red's beauty* and don't think about such a trivial thing as age.

*bit of early morning slightly vomit inducing flattery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still get ID'd a lot. More in the past couple of weeks than before.

SO unfair. I never got ID’d. I’m telling myself it’s because even when I was young enough to be, I had an old soul. Or some such shite.

I reckon it's the boobs

Maybe.

I think it's because they're captivated by Red's beauty* and don't think about such a trivial thing as age.

*bit of early morning slightly vomit inducing flattery. "

I think we all need to get a room together!

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By *r and Mrs GravestoneCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

Our profile pic is a few days old.

The pictures we put up are a mix between recent and a couple of years old, we tend to re upload them when we’re more active, i.e looking to meet, planning on going to a social etc but then photos is one of our thing. It’s just having the time to get, good, new ones done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Current picture is from November.

Pictures are usually no more than a few months old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All except 2 of my photos are within the last month but the other 2 are about 2 years old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All except 2 of my photos are within the last month but the other 2 are about 2 years old "

Update - you're fit as fuck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are a mix of old and new. Old ones because I love those images

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All except 2 of my photos are within the last month but the other 2 are about 2 years old

Update - you're fit as fuck x"

Thanks. Sadly if you seen me in the gym you'd know I'm actually very unfit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All except 2 of my photos are within the last month but the other 2 are about 2 years old

Update - you're fit as fuck x

Thanks. Sadly if you seen me in the gym you'd know I'm actually very unfit

Oh I don't mind a pillow princess at all...

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Within the last 12 hours. I like to stay current

Sigh. Just. Spec - fucking - tacular.

Did you treat yourself to some new lingerie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Within the last 12 hours. I like to stay current

Sigh. Just. Spec - fucking - tacular.

Did you treat yourself to some new lingerie?"

Quite the opposite, I bought that blue lace bodysuit about a decade ago

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Mine was taken in bed this morning.

I don’t really care unless I’m planning on meeting someone I’m not bothered how up to date their pics are

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Bang up to date. I post pics within days of them being taken... I'm paranoid about inadvertently kitten-fishing people: I want them to know what they are getting in advance

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I’m rocking a profile picture that’s as old s time itself , and I rarely update my photos, because in all honesty,….I’m the same as I was last year..and the year before. (Less weight maybe).

But how often do you think profiles should update them or even if they should?

Do you think we could do this Fab website at all without photos?

I’ve updated my pictures recently because the ‘current’ ones were about a year old. I don’t think to take pictures, it just never occurs to me. But I think it’s right to represent oneself accurately.

If you’re actively seeking connections then attraction is highly likely to be a requirement. I want people to be attracted to the me I am now and I don’t want for them to disappointed when we meet (I can manage that by other means!!).

Could I do fab without pictures? No. I’m a visual creature and I want to be attracted. That doesn’t mean I’m seeking perfect catwalk models, more that they are my type. No pictures would feel like a return to the good ole days of personal ads in the back of the paper with “professional executive with gsoh seeks fair maiden for days out and nights in” *shudders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 months ago more or less …

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Within the last 12 hours. I like to stay current

Sigh. Just. Spec - fucking - tacular.

Did you treat yourself to some new lingerie?

Quite the opposite, I bought that blue lace bodysuit about a decade ago

In that case I’m guessing it doesn’t spend much time being worn before being sensually stripped off you.

Oh god…

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ours is last week!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Oh oh, someone’s using the ‘I still look the same as I did 5 years ago’ routine

You might think you do but you don’t - no one does - except Meli

We add to our regularly so people aren’t surprised when we meet them.

My face looks the same as 5yrs ago. I've got much better hair now though

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Always very recent as I enjoy posting new pictures. The current profile photo was taken a couple of days ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always recent

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

My profile pic is from November and I have a few friends pics from recently. I'm a bit lazy adding pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Within the last 12 hours. I like to stay current

Sigh. Just. Spec - fucking - tacular.

Did you treat yourself to some new lingerie?

Quite the opposite, I bought that blue lace bodysuit about a decade ago

Red I'm gonna need to see this profile update so err, be a doll?.

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

dudley

My profile photo is one of several I added when I joined the site it’s my favourite all time photo of me it’s probably about 10yrs old but it stays all my other photos were posted around the time they were taken ( I’m not one of those who recycles old photos like some do)

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By *rs322Woman
over a year ago

sandy

"I’m rocking a profile picture that’s as old s time itself , and I rarely update my photos, because in all honesty,….I’m the same as I was last year..and the year before. (Less weight maybe).

But how often do you think profiles should update them or even if they should?

Do you think we could do this Fab website at all without photos?

I think women probably should update more often, boobs change size shape and things through the years. Kids change your body's.

Men on the other hand I think if there has been a drastic change then obviously could do with an update.

So I wouldn't see an issue if nothing has changed about you

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

My current pfp is 3 months old.

I haven’t really posted anything new in awhile as I’m not currently looking to meet.

Plus I think I look better now than in older photos as I’ve lost 3 stone… so if I did meet I’m hoping that would be more of a ‘pleasant’ surprise

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Mines very mixed......some are very old but love them and have put up new ones this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My current pfp is 3 months old.

I haven’t really posted anything new in awhile as I’m not currently looking to meet.

Plus I think I look better now than in older photos as I’ve lost 3 stone… so if I did meet I’m hoping that would be more of a ‘pleasant’ surprise

3 stone, Melisandre! What an achievement. The willpower you have!

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"My current pfp is 3 months old.

I haven’t really posted anything new in awhile as I’m not currently looking to meet.

Plus I think I look better now than in older photos as I’ve lost 3 stone… so if I did meet I’m hoping that would be more of a ‘pleasant’ surprise

3 stone, Melisandre! What an achievement. The willpower you have!"

Thank you

Stress/upset was a big factor… and starting a new job.

Now I just need to tone up all the wobbly bits

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I think people should make an effort and take recent pics. It's really not that hard and doesn't take long!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"I think people should make an effort and take recent pics. It's really not that hard and doesn't take long!"
,, agree,,

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"My current pfp is 3 months old.

I haven’t really posted anything new in awhile as I’m not currently looking to meet.

Plus I think I look better now than in older photos as I’ve lost 3 stone… so if I did meet I’m hoping that would be more of a ‘pleasant’ surprise

3 stone, Melisandre! What an achievement. The willpower you have!

Thank you

Stress/upset was a big factor… and starting a new job.

Now I just need to tone up all the wobbly bits

I’m an expert at stress full diets!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"My current pfp is 3 months old.

I haven’t really posted anything new in awhile as I’m not currently looking to meet.

Plus I think I look better now than in older photos as I’ve lost 3 stone… so if I did meet I’m hoping that would be more of a ‘pleasant’ surprise

"
,, well done to you _elisandre,

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"My current pfp is 3 months old.

I haven’t really posted anything new in awhile as I’m not currently looking to meet.

Plus I think I look better now than in older photos as I’ve lost 3 stone… so if I did meet I’m hoping that would be more of a ‘pleasant’ surprise

3 stone, Melisandre! What an achievement. The willpower you have!

Thank you

Stress/upset was a big factor… and starting a new job.

Now I just need to tone up all the wobbly bits

I’m an expert at stress full diets!

And here was me thinking you’d help with the ‘toning up!’

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"I think people should make an effort and take recent pics. It's really not that hard and doesn't take long!"

Honestly… I just really can’t be arsed!

I do take daily pics… but they’re sent to someone privately…. And not ones I’d be comfortable posting on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people should make an effort and take recent pics. It's really not that hard and doesn't take long!"

Not everyone naturally looks as 10/10 as you Mimi!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

The dates my photos were added are the dates they were taken, so you can see I've gained/lost a good stone or so over time.

I'd not engage with someone who only had years old photos on their profile - what are they hiding?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

My profile pic is quite recent at about a month old. I like it so it may stay a while

I do upload other pics to my profile regularly to keep them up todate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think our most recent ones are end of last year, profile pic is probably about a year old. We just like the pic. Can't be arsed with taking new pics atm but we also aren't actively looking on here currently either.

Pxx

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I think people should make an effort and take recent pics. It's really not that hard and doesn't take long!

Honestly… I just really can’t be arsed!

I do take daily pics… but they’re sent to someone privately…. And not ones I’d be comfortable posting on here

Yours are only months old though... I mean the people who don't take pics from year to year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile pic was taken about a week or so ago

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I’m an expert at stress full diets!

And here was me thinking you’d help with the ‘toning up!’

By ‘toning up’ you mean spanks right?

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By *ts_Business_TimeCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire

Try to add some new photos every so often, if we’ve had a good play and taken some pictures for example, I think it’s good to keep the profile fresh. Only Put some up this morning

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

My profile pic is a few years old now. However I do have a recent face pic, taken within the last month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recent as recent is

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

"I’m an expert at stress full diets!

And here was me thinking you’d help with the ‘toning up!’

By ‘toning up’ you mean spanks right?

Spanks, paddle, flogger, cane…. They all help

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm very recent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Current - usually with the last few weeks maybe month. But I change them fairly regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god, I try to take new pictures three or four times a week if I've got a spare 20 or so minutes.

I wouldn't meet someone who had no pictures within the last 6 months.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

My profile pic is current. Very current, but give me a few days and it'll be back to an old fave I should think.

In general, I'm not prolific at updating my pics (I look good enough in a pic to upload it about once every 6 months), but I still look like the guy even in my older pics, which I think is the important thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least every month to keep it fresh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile pic was taken this afternoon, I update mine regularly

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

I find it easier to recognise people in the comments when people keep the same profile picture.

My profile pic is a few months old and I've no intention of ever changing it.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"My profile pic was taken this afternoon, I update mine regularly "

Very nice pic it is too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My profile pic was taken this afternoon, I update mine regularly "

That’s not recent, that’s currently present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile pic is a year old, the rest are since then up until 2 weeks ago but I regularly add new ones. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New profile pic uploaded.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I’m an expert at stress full diets!

And here was me thinking you’d help with the ‘toning up!’

By ‘toning up’ you mean spanks right?

Spanks, paddle, flogger, cane…. They all help

What about a meat hammer?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

very recent,

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