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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do guys put on their profile that they won't meet single men but will meet a tv/ts. I'm looking for a top bi guy for me and my fwb who's bottom bi. I intend to watch and join in at some point. All I'm getting is dickheads that say they'll fuck him but want me too. Which basically means they'll have me and ignore him. However lots of these guys will meet tv/ts. Discuss so I may understand please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found it’s usually down to femininity, hair and breasts. I get the struggle, I get the same stuff whenever I want a threesome or group of guys and there’s always one or two that are like I’m only into women or trans women. Yeah I get that but they’re only in the same room as you lmao you don’t have to touch them

One of my best friends is bi bottom too and we’ve had this issue a lot. Mainly from straight men who say they only like trans women and women but yet they’ll fuck a cross dresser which is a guy dressing up in girl clothing… make it make sense

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By *inthgowmale45Man
over a year ago

linlithgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys put on their profile that they won't meet single men but will meet a tv/ts. I'm looking for a top bi guy for me and my fwb who's bottom bi. I intend to watch and join in at some point. All I'm getting is dickheads that say they'll fuck him but want me too. Which basically means they'll have me and ignore him. However lots of these guys will meet tv/ts. Discuss so I may understand please"

You have a woman profile not a couple profile. They likely assume the man doesn't exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m

The opposite I’d prefer a non TV CD ..

I’ve been involved scenario as you are wanting to happen .. it’s worth holding out for the right guy .. my advise would be don’t look for a ‘top’ find a vers guy who is relaxed and comfortable

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By *ickylouCouple
over a year ago

Bi

OP

We get the same as you. We are looking for bi guys or couples. Hubby is mainly submissive/bottom. But if the mood is correct he does top. What we find frustrating is people who message that have straight on profile. But then say I can play bi. Sorry we do not want someone to play bi. We want someone who is bi. We have now started to just delete and block straight people. If you can’t be honest on your profile. You will not be honest on a meet.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It's the femininity and lingerie that turn them on. That the TV/CD happens to have a cock is here nor there.

I know a few guys who have anal sex for TV/CD and they say for them it's just like being pegged by a woman. That's why they still have the straight label as they wouldn't have anal sex with a man without femininity or lingerie.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why do guys put on their profile that they won't meet single men but will meet a tv/ts. I'm looking for a top bi guy for me and my fwb who's bottom bi. I intend to watch and join in at some point. All I'm getting is dickheads that say they'll fuck him but want me too. Which basically means they'll have me and ignore him. However lots of these guys will meet tv/ts. Discuss so I may understand please"

This comes across very similarly to the posts you see from men stating 'I'm looking for a woman for my FWB who's not on here because she's shy', or the one's where someone is looking on behalf of someone else and all messages have to ho through them. People will generally be cynical if the person to be involved in the meet isn't doing the asking.

A far better approach and one likely to get the results you seek? He goes looking himself, finds suitable company and asks if they'd mind you watching.

Or just set up a couples profile so it's clear that there's two of you involved in any meets.

Fab is certainly not short of bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do guys put on their profile that they won't meet single men but will meet a tv/ts. I'm looking for a top bi guy for me and my fwb who's bottom bi. I intend to watch and join in at some point. All I'm getting is dickheads that say they'll fuck him but want me too. Which basically means they'll have me and ignore him. However lots of these guys will meet tv/ts. Discuss so I may understand please"

So, straight men are attracted to femininity. You are representing as female by your appearance assuming you haven't had any work done. SO man attracted to woman = straight. We discusses this when I was living with my TS GF. Ergo he's straight and your a woman. I am bi so it made no difference to me, in fact I even got asked by a lady in a pub on holiday how it worked. I am also a tranvestite so we where also a lesbian couple.

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton


"Why do guys put on their profile that they won't meet single men but will meet a tv/ts. I'm looking for a top bi guy for me and my fwb who's bottom bi. I intend to watch and join in at some point. All I'm getting is dickheads that say they'll fuck him but want me too. Which basically means they'll have me and ignore him. However lots of these guys will meet tv/ts. Discuss so I may understand please"

Why are they "Dickheads", your profile states you prefer crossdressers/TV's etc so like you lots people with their own preferences so approach you for consideration.

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By *onybart2404TV/TS
over a year ago

keady

Very true

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray


"OP

We get the same as you. We are looking for bi guys or couples. Hubby is mainly submissive/bottom. But if the mood is correct he does top. What we find frustrating is people who message that have straight on profile. But then say I can play bi. Sorry we do not want someone to play bi. We want someone who is bi. We have now started to just delete and block straight people. If you can’t be honest on your profile. You will not be honest on a meet. "

This!!! Have so many straights guys messaging that they bi. He's also my sissy so he's made to dress for meets but still have same problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because 'men' on this site look like 'men'

For TV/TS it's a fantasy. They look feminine and usually act it too.

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By *enny smudgeMan
over a year ago

Dover

I'm bi. I only find women attractive. When it comes to guys I'm only attracted to their cocks. I do enjoy fucking men and tv/ts . I think a lot of guys on here don't advertise their bisexuality as there are some women who won't meet them because of it.

With regards to your profile you state that you want to watch first. If they don't understand that then there's no point meeting them

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A guy once told me why he was attracted to TV’s and Crossdressers, quite simply we will dress and engage in acts women won’t do.

A very feminine Transvestite wearing lingerie on her knees and actually enjoying giving oral, in the end is preferable (to some guys) than trying to convince their female partner to do the same thing. Not all women enjoy giving oral but most bisexual TV or CD’s do.

Most messages I get first line is about how convincing they think I am. It’s the main attraction in my opinion, if it looks and sounds like a woman then you can’t be gay to be attracted to what you see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cough cough

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By *inthgowmale45Man
over a year ago

linlithgow

I find men dressed up much more attractive than a naked man. Its a preference thing. Maybe its closer to an actual woman than a gay or bi man.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Personally... I'm not that attracted to regular guys, TV/TS/CD on the other hand I love.

I love the femme façade and I love dick... the two marry up very nicely for me.

I'm willing to play with guys, but they don't fire me up in the same way as TV/TS/CD and women do.

I'd say I'm Bi tilting at straight

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By *onybart2404TV/TS
over a year ago

keady

Love it

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