FabSwingers.com forum: strange question/comment or is it a rambling moan

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay, strange question/comment or is it a rambling moan? Is it normal to find dating websites a waste of time or boring? Most of the guys on them are looking to get their rocks off. If you understand the phrase.

Some guys look at it as a catalog and think, oh, there is somebody better around the corner. And guys that try to make to make it look like they are looking for something more but really, they are only looking to get their rocks off and move on to the next person.

Do not get me wrong, you do find the occasional genuine person, but sadly there far away or you are not a match and have nothing in common. Or if you do not have a decently paid job, they look at you as something in the gutter. Probably a harsh comment there, but sometimes that’s how it feels.

Am I right or wrong? You do not need to be on high paid income to have a successful relationship or friendship Everybody has different traits and qualities etc to have a decent friendship/relationship no matter how much you get. I believe we all have different traits, things we can bring into a relationship/friendship to make it more meaningful. But sadly, today sociology is always about finances. How much do you earn? Can you afford this, can you afford that? Blah blah blah.

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention some people go for looks as well. God, he is hot, etc etc. (sexual lust)

Is it my age or am I barking up the wrong tree or blind to reality?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess.

Bug this isn't a dating website! [/ quote] I know I wasn't talking about this site."

Oh.

Soz

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess.

Bug this isn't a dating website! [/ quote] I know I wasn't talking about this site.

Oh.

Soz"
no worries, but thanks for the comment.