FabSwingers.com forum: Is a massage suitable for a first meet?

By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

What’s alls thoughts on a massage for a meet up?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'd love an oily massage from a fab lady. So relaxing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer to be the one giving the massage...and yes, I think if it's done correctly with no expectations then I think it's a good first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would probably love this, being the receiver of. I may fall asleep or drool but yes lovely. I fear you may get bored though.

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Good to hear

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I love giving massages so perhaps not

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Great answer

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Done it with a few guys! They like the relaxion of it and proper oils is good too.

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Massage oils are a must for sure

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Massage oils are a must for sure "
ylang-ylang & Lavender is relaxing.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I think I would probably love this, being the receiver of. I may fall asleep or drool but yes lovely. I fear you may get bored though. "

Nah. Sometimes the journey is better than the destination

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Ylang Ylang is the tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

What do you mean? Lol

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Ylang Ylang is the tits "

Can't beat baby oil. Just rubs in so well. Had a fantastic session with my ex after an oily massage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep

I'm free

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

With oils?

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

As in smells amazing

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Yep

What oil?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"As in smells amazing "

Use reply+quote under the post you're responding to and we'll know who you're answering

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Blonde moment lol yes this is very true.

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"As in smells amazing

Use reply+quote under the post you're responding to and we'll know who you're answering

I’ve got that now!! Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep

What oil?"

Baby oil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I await offers from a sexy lady.

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Yep

What oil?

Baby oil "

Delicious

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Yes. I await offers from a sexy lady.

Don’t we all pal, I’m more of the masseur though

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Yes. I await offers from a sexy lady.

I'll just warm my hands up. Sorry it's not sexy lady

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Yes. I await offers from a sexy lady.

I'll just warm my hands up. Sorry it's not sexy lady

Colder the hands the better

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Not for a first meet, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.

I have used it myself plenty of times myself.

So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.

I have used it myself plenty of times myself.

So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. "

I couldn't disagree more, if that's your mindset of a massage then you're setting yourself up for disappointment and dishonourable intentions

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"Not for a first meet, no."

Second?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.

I have used it myself plenty of times myself.

So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet.

I couldn't disagree more, if that's your mindset of a massage then you're setting yourself up for disappointment and dishonourable intentions"

Never been disappointed yet

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.

I have used it myself plenty of times myself.

So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. "

Advocating a massage, otherwise would have just said sex!

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.

I have used it myself plenty of times myself.

So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. "
That's normally discussed beforehand? It's not always a sexual thing, That's usually a happy ending type of massage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.

I have used it myself plenty of times myself.

So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. That's normally discussed beforehand? It's not always a sexual thing, That's usually a happy ending type of massage. "

Indeed. Sex comes in many guises.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd love it. After a social.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.

I have used it myself plenty of times myself.

So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. That's normally discussed beforehand? It's not always a sexual thing, That's usually a happy ending type of massage.

Indeed. Sex comes in many guises."
Some just want a massage to help with muscle issues etc lol most people like a happy ending.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes. I await offers from a sexy lady.

I'll just warm my hands up. Sorry it's not sexy lady

My definition of sexy.....yep, you're in the mix

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"I'd love it. After a social.

Ooomft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.

I have used it myself plenty of times myself.

So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. That's normally discussed beforehand? It's not always a sexual thing, That's usually a happy ending type of massage.

Indeed. Sex comes in many guises. Some just want a massage to help with muscle issues etc lol most people like a happy ending.

ISeeing as this is ‘fab’ I didn’t assume the OP was talking about Lymphatic drainage massage

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.

I have used it myself plenty of times myself.

So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. That's normally discussed beforehand? It's not always a sexual thing, That's usually a happy ending type of massage.

Indeed. Sex comes in many guises. Some just want a massage to help with muscle issues etc lol most people like a happy ending.

ISeeing as this is ‘fab’ I didn’t assume the OP was talking about Lymphatic drainage massage

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Probably not no. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! A massage sounds ideal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*good massage*

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"*good massage*"

Step into my office

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Ouffff yesssss

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Works for me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

After a social, so a second meet.

Although it's not my preference for a Fab meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*good massage*"

Well I would oil hands in an instant

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Yep If you agreed that what will happen on the first meet .

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"What’s alls thoughts on a massage for a meet up?"

I think it's like anything else when arranging a Fab meet- discussing what all parties want before the meet is pretty essential. I would be very happy to receive a massage. If this was going to be a prelude to sex, or the masseur wants to give it without anything in return, I'd be happy with either, providing I knew what to expect beforehand

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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"What’s alls thoughts on a massage for a meet up?

It could be a prelude to sex, but I think you’d get a feel from each other is it was going to end that way wouldn’t you?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Not for a first meet, no.

Second?!!"

Maybe

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’d say guys that offer massages are just being as subtle as a brick by just looking an in for sex

We did meet a guy on a first time meet and both of us ended up massaging C but it wasn’t billed as a massage and he wasn’t chosen for his massage technique.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’d say guys that offer massages are just being as subtle as a brick by just looking an in for sex

We did meet a guy on a first time meet and both of us ended up massaging C but it wasn’t billed as a massage and he wasn’t chosen for his massage technique.

Yeah, it's not something I think of as a plus when looking for people here

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By *rjamesMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think I'd prefer a massage over sex most days tbf, so yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I await offers from a sexy lady.

I'll just warm my hands up. Sorry it's not sexy lady

And there I was, booking myself in for an hour…

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By *ommyTighMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Do what you both both agree. What’s good for a first (and sometimes your only meet) with one person will differ to the next.

Don’t be so restrictive

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No it wouldn't be my ideal first meet. Especially as so many on here use the offer of massage meaning they expect more. So there is no way I would be taking anyone up on that offer. If I wanted a massage I would go to a professional and pay for one knowing there is no hidden agenda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s alls thoughts on a massage for a meet up?"

No... I don't want someone to rock up with expectations, I don't want someone to harm my 'dodgy' shoulder more. No, I don't want someone I'd be looking for a chat/social with expectating to get my kit off

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