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"I feel like my perceptions of reality and morality are different to the majority of people. But that doesn't mean I'm not made for this world " You put it so much better than me. Perception of morality is exactly what I mean. I feel like mine are different to the majority. | |||
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"You put it so much better than me. Perception of morality is exactly what I mean. I feel like mine are different to the majority. " It's not a bad thing. The majority is often mistaken. Be who you are. There are people who will appreciate all the things that make you feel like you're wrong or don't belong | |||
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"You put it so much better than me. Perception of morality is exactly what I mean. I feel like mine are different to the majority. It's not a bad thing. The majority is often mistaken. Be who you are. There are people who will appreciate all the things that make you feel like you're wrong or don't belong " Agree. It's not about complying with some "norm" that others try to create or even impose. You know yourself better than anyone and you set your own standard that you want to follow. | |||
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"I feel like my perceptions of reality and morality are different to the majority of people. But that doesn't mean I'm not made for this world You put it so much better than me. Perception of morality is exactly what I mean. I feel like mine are different to the majority. " Of course it is. Everyone’s is different to everyone else’s. It’s just a matter of degrees. I mean think about it, I don’t know if you see colours the same way as me, or taste things the same as me. What about the way you were raised and your past experiences? I can pretty much guarantee they were nothing like mine. Of course everyone is different. It’s just some people were raised in a A beige world, with beige expectations and not the slightest interest tin liking at the world with fresh eyes and trying out fresh, new things and they might be happy as Larry with that. Good for them I say. If you feel as different as you say you do, surely you should be happy to not be a sheeple? I have dissociative identity disorder with at least 6 alters ( I’m not exactly sure how many, as until 2021 I was unaware I had it) and even though i have no memory of the period when one takes over, sometimes. I’ll feel ways about things I have never felt before, or do things I didn’t know I could do and, whilst it was petrifying to begin with, I’ve learned to embrace these new experiences, even though it’s caused me such social isolation, I’m seeing the world differently every day and I’m, obviously, never really completely alone. It does appear that you maybe are reverting back to your teenage emo years? Maybe take some drama classes, listen to some Mamma Cas, have a joint and find yourself. But mostly just be glad you aren’t beige. Or if that is all too hard, watch “Everythingi, Everywhere, all at once” and realise that nothing really matters, so you do you and smile. You never know what tomorrow is going to bring. Agony Uncle out. | |||
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"Feel like you're not made for this world? For example, everyone seems to drive so fast and I'm happy to plod along at the speed limit... People seem so loud and I'm softly spoken.. People seem to not give a shit about others...like as if it's it's just them in existence Life seems about, get a job, get married, get a mortgage, have babies, be like everyone else...it just seems so alien to me at times that I think I belong on another planet " Could it be, you are already in your place. Not everyone has to follow the majority, imagine how boring that would be. Enjoy driving at the speed limit, just think of it as a public service. You are stopping them from getting points and a fine | |||
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"Feel like you're not made for this world? For example, everyone seems to drive so fast and I'm happy to plod along at the speed limit... People seem so loud and I'm softly spoken.. People seem to not give a shit about others...like as if it's it's just them in existence Life seems about, get a job, get married, get a mortgage, have babies, be like everyone else...it just seems so alien to me at times that I think I belong on another planet " | |||
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"Feel like you're not made for this world? For example, everyone seems to drive so fast and I'm happy to plod along at the speed limit... People seem so loud and I'm softly spoken.. People seem to not give a shit about others...like as if it's it's just them in existence Life seems about, get a job, get married, get a mortgage, have babies, be like everyone else...it just seems so alien to me at times that I think I belong on another planet " you look beautiful to me x | |||
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"Feel like you're not made for this world? For example, everyone seems to drive so fast and I'm happy to plod along at the speed limit... People seem so loud and I'm softly spoken.. People seem to not give a shit about others...like as if it's it's just them in existence Life seems about, get a job, get married, get a mortgage, have babies, be like everyone else...it just seems so alien to me at times that I think I belong on another planet " No, other folk are about them, I'm about me. I'm making a conscious effort to not try and be all about what someone else might seek from me. I can only be myself | |||
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"Feel like you're not made for this world? For example, everyone seems to drive so fast and I'm happy to plod along at the speed limit... People seem so loud and I'm softly spoken.. People seem to not give a shit about others...like as if it's it's just them in existence Life seems about, get a job, get married, get a mortgage, have babies, be like everyone else...it just seems so alien to me at times that I think I belong on another planet No, other folk are about them, I'm about me. I'm making a conscious effort to not try and be all about what someone else might seek from me. I can only be myself " ,, this a free spirit,, | |||
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"Feel like you're not made for this world? For example, everyone seems to drive so fast and I'm happy to plod along at the speed limit... People seem so loud and I'm softly spoken.. People seem to not give a shit about others...like as if it's it's just them in existence Life seems about, get a job, get married, get a mortgage, have babies, be like everyone else...it just seems so alien to me at times that I think I belong on another planet " This world is cruel,let’s start with that. I agree with driving speed,I love to take in the scenery what we pass by. Rather drive slow and safe than fast n crash in best scenario.. It all depends what purpose you wanna make for yourself. Do what makes you happy and stop looking at other people what they do. Start caring about yourself first and care less about others. You came in this world alone,poor and you will die exactly the same way. That’s the brutal honesty of life. If you wanna make something out of yourself go and do it,stop complaining what other people do. Each have their own time for kids,house and all other essential stuff. Personally I was ready at 16 to move out from parents house,live with my husband and have our own life,what I completed. Maybe for you it doesn’t seem much,but for other people it’s a big step in life and they cherish it. Some don’t have family to return to,but they have kids to home to,pets to take care etc. for some it’s all they needed in their life. | |||
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"Feel like you're not made for this world? For example, everyone seems to drive so fast and I'm happy to plod along at the speed limit... People seem so loud and I'm softly spoken.. People seem to not give a shit about others...like as if it's it's just them in existence Life seems about, get a job, get married, get a mortgage, have babies, be like everyone else...it just seems so alien to me at times that I think I belong on another planet " Yep. Always. Society has always made it pretty clear I'm not wanted on this planet. An element of performative participation is required simply for daily survival. We need to hurry up and invent FTL space travel so I can get off this rock and find wherever it was I actually came from. | |||
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"Feel like you're not made for this world? For example, everyone seems to drive so fast and I'm happy to plod along at the speed limit... People seem so loud and I'm softly spoken.. People seem to not give a shit about others...like as if it's it's just them in existence Life seems about, get a job, get married, get a mortgage, have babies, be like everyone else...it just seems so alien to me at times that I think I belong on another planet " If all around you is chaos and you are the calm, you are absolutely made for this world. | |||
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"I feel like my perceptions of reality and morality are different to the majority of people. But that doesn't mean I'm not made for this world You put it so much better than me. Perception of morality is exactly what I mean. I feel like mine are different to the majority. " If you feel they are different, probably means you've both thought of them and weighed them against... whatever the norm might be, I dunno I haven't checked social media in years, it was pretty crazy last I checked. But that's a pretty good thing for you to do. | |||
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"Feel like you're not made for this world? For example, everyone seems to drive so fast and I'm happy to plod along at the speed limit... People seem so loud and I'm softly spoken.. People seem to not give a shit about others...like as if it's it's just them in existence Life seems about, get a job, get married, get a mortgage, have babies, be like everyone else...it just seems so alien to me at times that I think I belong on another planet " Oh you are so so not alone in the way that you feel, what you describe there is very relatable. The way I see others go about the world seems alien to me... I feel a great sense of detachment from those around me at times, almost like watching the world through a television screen. But there are so many others who feel the same, you just tend not to notice them. I guess it's best not worry about what others are doing, as long as you can be happy within yourself that's all that matters really. Just keep plodding along and speaking softly | |||
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