FabSwingers.com forum: Ideal first social

By *rDxx OP Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

What would your ideal social be , not talking about ending in sex ,but first meet what would you like ? Drink or coffee, maybe crazy golf or theme park for a laugh

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Best social I had, we sat in the boot of the car out in the countryside watching deer run around while we chatted for near 2 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it’s a drink or coffee. Just simple and relaxed.

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By *rDxx OP Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Best social I had, we sat in the boot of the car out in the countryside watching deer run around while we chatted for near 2 hours "

That sounds pretty cool

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By *rDxx OP Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

"To me it’s a drink or coffee. Just simple and relaxed. "

Starbucks or Costa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me it’s a drink or coffee. Just simple and relaxed.

Starbucks or Costa?"

Has to be Costa. Starbucks coffee is too weak. Like my coffe like my men. Strong, sweet, and available.

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By *rDxx OP Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

"To me it’s a drink or coffee. Just simple and relaxed.

Starbucks or Costa?

Has to be Costa. Starbucks coffee is too weak. Like my coffe like my men. Strong, sweet, and available. "

Good choice, I prefer costa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relaxed meeting with no expectations. A coffee shop, or a pub. That’s perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good chat and a laugh over drinks and maybe some food. That was actually how my first social was.

It set the bar for future socials.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Walking.

Like, a stroll or a nature walk or wandering around a city. Something like that, something with movement, probably with coffee because I like to stay on brand.

But yeah. I just find people talk easier when they walk together, as opposed to being sat still opposite each other.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Rare breeds farm, Totnes, it’s magical

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

A gig seeing a great band and listening to great music.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Cup of Earl Grey and a biscuit

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Ideal? Pottering around some local independent bookstores. Couple of drinks after.

Or going to an interactive exhibition followed by a jazz night.

Cocktail classes are a lot of fun but maybe best suited to more a date vibe.

Or foraging for wild garlic/elderflower with a walk in the woods. Something to do, talk about.

I don't mind coffee socials/first dates but I like... doing things. I get nervous energy and it's a good thing to pour it into.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I would like to meet at the Ritz for a lovely meal with champagne and i will pay, obviously no expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideal? Pottering around some local independent bookstores. Couple of drinks after.

Or going to an interactive exhibition followed by a jazz night.

Cocktail classes are a lot of fun but maybe best suited to more a date vibe.

Or foraging for wild garlic/elderflower with a walk in the woods. Something to do, talk about.

I don't mind coffee socials/first dates but I like... doing things. I get nervous energy and it's a good thing to pour it into."

Great ideas. Shared experiences are definitely a great way to generate conversations and get a vibe as to what the person you're with is like.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Knee trembler in a graveyard after dark.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Knee trembler in a graveyard after dark."

Hot. There's a graveyard in Herts that's hosted my trembling knees a few times.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

A drink and maybe a nice walk

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Walking.

Like, a stroll or a nature walk or wandering around a city. Something like that, something with movement, probably with coffee because I like to stay on brand.

But yeah. I just find people talk easier when they walk together, as opposed to being sat still opposite each other.

I can relate to that and wonder if that is because we are not directly facing each other when walking - it tends to facilitates the initial process of getting to know the unknown person I think.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Knee trembler in a graveyard after dark.

Hot. There's a graveyard in Herts that's hosted my trembling knees a few times. "

So classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always opt for a no obligation social as a first meet, in a place of the woman’s choosing because I want her to be comfortable.

Chat in a bar/ coffee shop. One time we went for a walk which turned into a passionate snog.

Another time, one lady changed the venue to her house at short notice. I was hardly through the door before she was all over me. What’s a chap to do?….

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Knee trembler in a graveyard after dark."
what about the goules and the gremlins?

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By *odders88Man
over a year ago

Northampton

A brew is always decent for a social, then go from there

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Knee trembler in a graveyard after dark.what about the goules and the gremlins?

No worries.

I’ve never been shy.

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

"What would your ideal social be , not talking about ending in sex ,but first meet what would you like ? Drink or coffee, maybe crazy golf or theme park for a laugh "

A walk with the option of coffee; something that is casual and not time dependent. If the meet is awful, it's easy to exit after a respectable time.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Lego shop. That way even if they are a bore I get something out of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lego shop. That way even if they are a bore I get something out of it!

This is in fact the perfect answer. You can tell a lot about a person from their pick a brick selection!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Knee trembler in a graveyard after dark.what about the goules and the gremlins?

No worries.

I’ve never been shy.

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ahhh so they're invited to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice relaxed drinks chat laughs in nice pub

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Meet at a Krispy Kreme outlet.

Get a sugar rush on donuts and then fuck each other silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lego shop. That way even if they are a bore I get something out of it!

I had a social in a Lego shop once. When we got there it was very busy and couldn’t get in. We were queuing for blocks

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Lego shop. That way even if they are a bore I get something out of it!

I had a social in a Lego shop once. When we got there it was very busy and couldn’t get in. We were queuing for blocks "

Lego shop is where you find all the studs!

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Crazy golf, chips and a walk on the beach. The person who suggests that to me has just found their way into my knickers

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Coffee or a drink, possibly progressing to lunch or dinner if its going well.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Crazy golf, chips and a walk on the beach. The person who suggests that to me has just found their way into my knickers "

Can we add in 10 pin bowling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Food and then cocktails, can't go wrong with that combination

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Ideally, lots of flirting, seduction and bit of discreet touching, in a fairly busy cocktail bar after work with tapas or nibbles

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

"Crazy golf, chips and a walk on the beach. The person who suggests that to me has just found their way into my knickers

Can we add in 10 pin bowling?"

I have to warn you, I play to win

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Crazy golf, chips and a walk on the beach. The person who suggests that to me has just found their way into my knickers

Can we add in 10 pin bowling?

I have to warn you, I play to win

That’s the only way to play!

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Crazy golf, chips and a walk on the beach. The person who suggests that to me has just found their way into my knickers "

Crazy golf and chips, now that’s perfect. Quick trip round the arcades in a frankly valiant effort to win a cuddly toy and that sounds perfect

Perfect first meet. - no pressure, no expectations, full of laughter, genuinely interesting, and left wanting to do it again and comfortable around one another.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Crazy golf, chips and a walk on the beach. The person who suggests that to me has just found their way into my knickers "

You had me at 'crazy'

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

An organised group social or a coffee for a first.

Once we’ve met at one of those i’d do drinks and/or dinner

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Just a coffee and a walk usually, it's not a dating site as such.

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