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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

is this word used too much these days?

dont get me wrong i know there are genuine cases of discrimination that happen in life and that is wrong.

but partcularly on here you see a lot of 'why do people discriminate against bi/hairy/fat/thin/blonde/black/asian/small cock/big cock/etc etc'

is having preferences in the people you meet discrminating....what would happen i you took it to court

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

someone's indignation being labelled as another's discrimination....

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Personally, in order to prove discrimination (in a swinging context) the burden of proof is on the part of accuser.

Otherwise its a matter of proving entitlement to a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when it comes to choosing who you want to have sex with its just personal choice and we all have the rights to it

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By *homas pannsMan
over a year ago

leicester

Would take some pegs and asparagus and have some fun with you mwah lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"someone's indignation being labelled as another's discrimination...."

thats a bit deep for me _iew

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

being discriminating isn't a bad thing in itself but the word has come to have bad connotations.

If you discriminate for or against someone for the wrong reason or in the wrong circumstances then it's bad however if you use your discrimination wisely to out the bad people regardless of their gender, religion, etc etc then I think it's a good thing.

Personal preference is different to discrimination and the two shouldn't be confused in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its used way to much, not just here but in everyday life. I think its also often used as a scare tactic in some situations. The word can cause mountains out of molehills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what I like and dislike.

Those who easily cry "discrimination" for whatever reason(s) are not the ones I would consider meeting in the first place, so it is no skin off my little nose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being discriminating isn't a bad thing in itself but the word has come to have bad connotations.

If you discriminate for or against someone for the wrong reason or in the wrong circumstances then it's bad however if you use your discrimination wisely to out the bad people regardless of their gender, religion, etc etc then I think it's a good thing.

Personal preference is different to discrimination and the two shouldn't be confused in my opinion. "

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"someone's indignation being labelled as another's discrimination....

thats a bit deep for me _iew "

some bi guys jump up and down screaming and screaming ' why won't they meet me, why won't they meet me'......

I am enraged, 'they must be homophobic'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discriminating is something we all do, everyday. Go into a supermarket to buy some fruit, and you have a choice of apples or bananas. You can only choose one. So you 'discriminate' against the one you don't choose. You choose to buy apples. Do the bananas then kick up a stink about being discriminated against? Course not.

What humans kick up a stink about is the feelings of rejection which come from being discriminated against (for whatever reason) - ie. someone chooses someone else in preference to them.

Keep saying on here that it's all about handling rejection...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"someone's indignation being labelled as another's discrimination....

thats a bit deep for me _iew

some bi guys jump up and down screaming and screaming ' why won't they meet me, why won't they meet me'......

I am enraged, 'they must be homophobic'

"

it really winds me up when people moan about discrimination because they cant get a meet.

If thats all the discrimination they experience in their life then they are on to a winner!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"someone's indignation being labelled as another's discrimination....

thats a bit deep for me _iew

some bi guys jump up and down screaming and screaming ' why won't they meet me, why won't they meet me'......

I am enraged, 'they must be homophobic'

it really winds me up when people moan about discrimination because they cant get a meet.

If thats all the discrimination they experience in their life then they are on to a winner!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it really winds me up when people moan about discrimination because they cant get a meet.

If thats all the discrimination they experience in their life then they are on to a winner!!"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

although i have discriminated against a bi male in the past and I am ashamed

I did say he was pig ugly and had a small cock.

jail me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I hate ii when someone displays the race.preference card. I like men of alll varieties, they all have one thing in common and that is they are nice guys. A negative approach would put me off straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a difference between indignation and discrimination. The former always seems to be in CAPS LOCK

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"There is a difference between indignation and discrimination. The former always seems to be in CAPS LOCK"

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Discrimination as a word gets used far too much these days.

We do not discriminate on here we use choices to get what we want and nothing else.

Discriminate is a new word that gets used wayyyyyy out of context alot of the time. Did we choose many years ago when in a pub looking for a mate for the night or even something longer or did we go round discriminating all the ugly people, all the people that did not take our fancy?? I do not think so we just chose.

Its about choice and people need to stop using this word discriminate as its not right and its not what we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again - human rights and the whole discrimination issue - discrimination is the right of each and every one of us in a sexual context as it is in the animal kingdom .

Do you think the lioness screams in indignation that she isn't picked when the lion chooses which ones he wants to shag ?

should we really have to look at ourselves and question why we are aroused by one person and not another ? Of course not !!!

Discrimination is just another word for choice so should we stop choosing what what we like and just shag the next person who messages us without even looking at age , size , colour , sexual orientation ?

I think not , and when we lose the right to choose because it's seen as discrimination it's a truly sad day for humanity

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"although i have discriminated against a bi male in the past and I am ashamed

I did say he was pig ugly and had a small cock.

jail me."

Whats your problem with the pig ugly and small cocks? Eh?? Eh??? ugly people with small cocks deserve love as well!!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

All analogies aside, the whole issue of discrimination (in general) is nonsense!

The concept that an "entitlement" has been taken away from one party A [of one or more persons] by another party B [of one or more other persons] suggests said "entitlement" is equivalent to god-given right.

Example: A gay guy feels "discriminated" against when I tell him? That's suggesting he is "entitled" to a shag with me. Doesn't wash.

On the other hand: A "site social" (by definition being a social organised/arranged for members of a site, in order to meet other members of said site) excluding one or more group members of that site (lets say for example, single males) IS discrimination (where it has not cited reasons for excluding specific parties [one or more persons] on a case by case basis.

That's how it looks in my mind.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"although i have discriminated against a bi male in the past and I am ashamed

I did say he was pig ugly and had a small cock.

jail me.

Whats your problem with the pig ugly and small cocks? Eh?? Eh??? ugly people with small cocks deserve love as well!! "

yeah of course they do.....

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