FabSwingers.com forum: Creeps ruining the fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We love the site as a rule but had our fun dampened by a complete tool today.

He claimed to work with Mrs, made some derogatory remarks and claimed to have screenshots of all our pics for her manager.

I don't understand why , we hadn't had any other interactions with the guy, he started the email thread and was horrible from the off!!!.

Reported him to Fab but haven't heard from them yet.

Fortunately as I said to him we are not doing anything illegal it's supposed to be a site full of like-minded people.

Anyway rant over , happy to share the user name if people want the heads up to avoid the same crap we had today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's probably not smart enough to realise that if he outed Mrs to her boss he'd be outing himself too.

Some people are just dickheads

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Sorry u had that! Had simlar! I just told them u go ahead what ever floats yr boat! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you had to both go through that, must be the day for it. It's certainly opened my eyes to the messages that we get.

I'm way to open, honest and friendly for my own good and it was thrown back in our face today by one guy who clearly didn't like being given a warning by Mr Hound for not reading our profile despite me myself saying the exact same thing to him today twice.

Hope your wife is ok, as you say you are doing nothing illegal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love the site as a rule but had our fun dampened by a complete tool today.

He claimed to work with Mrs, made some derogatory remarks and claimed to have screenshots of all our pics for her manager.

I don't understand why , we hadn't had any other interactions with the guy, he started the email thread and was horrible from the off!!!.

Reported him to Fab but haven't heard from them yet.

Fortunately as I said to him we are not doing anything illegal it's supposed to be a site full of like-minded people.

Anyway rant over , happy to share the user name if people want the heads up to avoid the same crap we had today.

Sad, sad person. Don't think you'll hear back from fab, they'll either block you from seeing one another or something else, whatever that is.

I had some random guy last week tell me I look like I'm starving. Not blocked or replied to him, he keeps sending follow-ups that I open and ignore and it's sending him crazy

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"We love the site as a rule but had our fun dampened by a complete tool today.

He claimed to work with Mrs, made some derogatory remarks and claimed to have screenshots of all our pics for her manager.

I don't understand why , we hadn't had any other interactions with the guy, he started the email thread and was horrible from the off!!!.

Reported him to Fab but haven't heard from them yet.

Fortunately as I said to him we are not doing anything illegal it's supposed to be a site full of like-minded people.

Anyway rant over , happy to share the user name if people want the heads up to avoid the same crap we had today.

Sorry to hear that op. That's really shitty. What an a hole he is... Hopefully he get his cumuppance soon

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Sounds like he has a the green eyed monster.

Reporting and blocking is the best thing to do and even if he is stupid enough carry it out it would show him for what he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s always going to be a prick that joins a public website to be a prick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We get the feeling he was going to try and get some pictures from us, he became really nasty when we said we've done nothing wrong, our profile doesn't mention work so nothing could be done anyway and to crack on!!!

Just annoying rather than worrying but wanted to vent haha

Sorry all you guys have suffered tools on here too xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Yeah, we received an out-of-the-blue abusive message this morning, which we reported. To be honest, it was a laughable attempt to offend. A bit daft to start out by calling a mother-of-2 a name that implies they've never had sex before *shrug*

There's a lot of weirdos in the world, unfortunately.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Sounds like an utter twat. Sorry to hear that you have been bothered by such a lowlife

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By *empusMan
over a year ago

Poole

That sucks.

Definitely some dickheads on here. Hopefully you will just forget all about it soon xxx

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"We love the site as a rule but had our fun dampened by a complete tool today.

He claimed to work with Mrs, made some derogatory remarks and claimed to have screenshots of all our pics for her manager.

I don't understand why , we hadn't had any other interactions with the guy, he started the email thread and was horrible from the off!!!.

Reported him to Fab but haven't heard from them yet.

Fortunately as I said to him we are not doing anything illegal it's supposed to be a site full of like-minded people.

Anyway rant over , happy to share the user name if people want the heads up to avoid the same crap we had today.

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you probably deleted his message without reading it

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Lanson

Crikey - someone must have "issues" to even think about doing that!

What a poor example of a human....

Sorry that you've had these messages

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

You missed a trick and should have toyed with him some more.

Nothing more satisfying than fucking with people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it a paid member of the site? Or someone on here for free?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

How does he know where you work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect he doesn’t even know you , but having had a similar issue with one of my staff a few years ago , he would be in a whole world of trouble if he did that . Your boss would protect you and remove him

I would screenshot the messages thou or if you can forward them to someone you trust , you would have a digital footprint,

A big cwtch to help a shitty day

( Cwtch is a warm non sexy but friendly cuddle )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How does he know where you work?"

He didn't, he was a chancery trying to claim he knew Mrs, very non descriptive, still confused as to what he was trying to achieve to be honest x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I expect he doesn’t even know you , but having had a similar issue with one of my staff a few years ago , he would be in a whole world of trouble if he did that . Your boss would protect you and remove him

I would screenshot the messages thou or if you can forward them to someone you trust , you would have a digital footprint,

A big cwtch to help a shitty day

( Cwtch is a warm non sexy but friendly cuddle )"

We've got them on our phones, I'm adamant he's no idea where we live or work , just an arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a social meet with a couple today, our conversation hinged around fab world overlapping with real world and negotiating it.

I said it is very clear those who are on here as a swinging site and those who are here for sex hook ups. The respect level is totally different.

I'm very lucky to have only met wonderful like minded people on fab.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I know where all you filthy perverts work and unless you send me fry’s Turkish delight I’ll send screenshots of your private parts to your checkout supervisors!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I know where all you filthy perverts work and unless you send me fry’s Turkish delight I’ll send screenshots of your private parts to your checkout supervisors!"

Clicked this thread thinking you were going to respond with some Radiohead lyrics but I didn't expect you to go with this song, excellent swerve

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Wow just have him sacked for sexual harassment as that is exactly what it is...

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I had a bloke years ago threaten to out me ,

He didn't know me ,was just a threat because I turned him down.

You've reported him so block him ,probably sour grapes .

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"I know where all you filthy perverts work and unless you send me fry’s Turkish delight I’ll send screenshots of your private parts to your checkout supervisors!

Clicked this thread thinking you were going to respond with some Radiohead lyrics but I didn't expect you to go with this song, excellent swerve

I just keep it on the down low

Said nobody is supposed to know

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