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By *ehindHerEyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

One of the most used lines on veris is…

‘Until next time’

Or a variation of.

It got me thinking how many times do people write this without there ever being a next time.

Wouldn’t it be more honest to write ‘completed’?

What else could you write if you were being completely honest?

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Mediocre shag, would not do again.

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By *ehindHerEyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Mediocre shag, would not do again.

"

I would laugh so hard if I read that

Beard

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I will only write honest veris. If the meet was a shit show I won't do one or it would just say I confirm they are real. A few would have said 'wouldn't touch with a barge pole if my life depended on it'

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Completed.

That's actually brilliant, well played.

I tend to write exactly how I feel. When I first started attending socials I couldn't remember names so I'd get a friend to describe them to me. I'd always put some generic statement like "the sort of person you wouldn't quickly forget".

Think it was a way of appeasing my guilt.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I had one or two after which i could have written - soap 0 dodger 1 or ‘my cock didn’t deserve that!!’ but mostly I just say what a lovely time Ive had and if we plan on

Meeting again then its - see you soon! No details thats just not right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications can be something of a spectrum. The more I enjoy myself, the more positive and glowing the veri becomes. Simple.

I may have "forgotten" to write veris for certain meets if I felt uncomfortable.

Whilst we're talking verification clichés, I find "Hands off X, they're mine" pretty generic. Sharing is caring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m writing this verification to prove I meet people.

^that.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I saw one that just said MET HIM.

I think that was pretty to the point.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"I will only write honest veris. If the meet was a shit show I won't do one or it would just say I confirm they are real. A few would have said 'wouldn't touch with a barge pole if my life depended on it' "

Same.

My filtering process means that I wouldn’t meet anyone if I’m not 100% convinced, and I wouldn’t bother with a veri if i weren’t really interested in seeing them again. 99% of the times there is a “next time”.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I will only write honest veris. If the meet was a shit show I won't do one or it would just say I confirm they are real. A few would have said 'wouldn't touch with a barge pole if my life depended on it'

Same.

My filtering process means that I wouldn’t meet anyone if I’m not 100% convinced, and I wouldn’t bother with a veri if i weren’t really interested in seeing them again. 99% of the times there is a “next time”. "

I think the longer I’m here the less likely a one off is, so this problem goes away. Social only, social veri, no expectations to meet again…. Sex on first date only if 99.9% sure it won’t be a one off

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath


"Mediocre shag, would not do again.

I would laugh so hard if I read that

Beard"

Problem is they would never display it

I did once write one saying he was boring and watching paint dry was more exciting.

It was a inside joke though.

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I'll write myself an honest verification if I was to meet myself....

I met this olive on a cocktail stick, lockdown has been harsh on him. He turned up late, flustered, reeking of Brut and desperation whilst apologising for a "work emergency". A shag that was midway between mediocre and average, plenty of enthusiasm and yet uninspiring. In his head he is a selfish fucker, in reality he lives up to his name. Best avoided.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Box ticked - just not sure what box it was.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"Box ticked - just not sure what box it was."

But orgies are sometimes like that...

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Might as well completely ignore their pictures…

angles and filters can be very deceiving.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Sorry can't go back even though i had a pretty convincing orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Box ticked - just not sure what box it was."

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

HONEST VERIS

“I’m writing this because I really hope they’ll write me one back.”

“I came far too quickly but I’m hoping a positive veri means they’ll overlook that when writing mine.”

“They looked nothing like their pictures but I’m not saying that because nor do I.”

“I’m writing something a bit negative here so they won’t publish this veri because I’m a bit embarrassed about shagging them. But not too negative because I want to do it again.”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as they destroyed my back doors, my prolapse can't take no more. Treat him right ladies.

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By *ehindHerEyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"I will only write honest veris. If the meet was a shit show I won't do one or it would just say I confirm they are real. A few would have said 'wouldn't touch with a barge pole if my life depended on it' "

I’m sure you would never get a veri like that

Beard

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"

What else could you write if you were being completely honest?"

See you later. Alligator.

Then they write on your verification “ in a while. Crocodile “

The mr

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By *ehindHerEyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Completed.

That's actually brilliant, well played.

I tend to write exactly how I feel. When I first started attending socials I couldn't remember names so I'd get a friend to describe them to me. I'd always put some generic statement like "the sort of person you wouldn't quickly forget".

Think it was a way of appeasing my guilt."

I was going to go for mission accomplished

Beard

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By *ehindHerEyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"

What else could you write if you were being completely honest?

See you later. Alligator.

Then they write on your verification “ in a while. Crocodile “

The mr "

This all day long

Beard

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I only verify people if I fully expect to see them again. Generally in the same sort of tone that we use together.

Pretty sure I left a veri that said "Would tolerate again" for one of my favourite people.

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By *ehindHerEyes OP   Couple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"I saw one that just said MET HIM.

I think that was pretty to the point."

Brutal

Beard

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Could be reverse psychology, I try keep the to there self ...? Probably not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want someone to write me a veri with "avoid him at all cost's"

Hopefully that will stop my mail box. Exploding daily

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I got “he’s a good boy” once from a good pal. I like to think it’s not to do with a lack of criminal record and more to do with being good company

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Mediocre shag, would not do again.

"
I once had a veri that read better than a wank

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