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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’m in my 40’s. It keeps in shape and don’t look to bad for my age.. opinion … is it still possible to get a girl early to mid thirties for relationships ? … after all girls like an older man??

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your attitude is way more important than the shape of your body in the quest of getting a girl.

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

As long as you keep "it" in shape,there should be no problem

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Yeh…

I’m early 30s and prefer to date men in their early to mid 40s.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You're in your forties?

Erm...

Honestly OP, I agree with a poster above. It's good to keep in shape, to be comfortable and happy with your body. I think men in their forties are in their prime to be very honest.

But... I also think that if you're wanting a relationship, make sure you're in the right place for one. You need emotional intelligence, the ability to accept someone warts and all - enjoy the good and work through the difficult. Embrace life, see the silly and laugh. Happily. Freely. If you're able to do that, then yes, there are definitely younger women who'll be interested in you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some women do like an older man, others don't. As others have said, though, it's more about mindset than body.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So I’m in my 40’s. It keeps in shape and don’t look to bad for my age.. opinion … is it still possible to get a girl early to mid thirties for relationships ? … after all girls like an older man??

Thoughts?"

Absolutely not.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"As long as you keep "it" in shape,there should be no problem "
as soon as he gets you he'll let himself go they all do it

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"You're in your forties?

Erm...

Honestly OP, I agree with a poster above. It's good to keep in shape, to be comfortable and happy with your body. I think men in their forties are in their prime to be very honest.

But... I also think that if you're wanting a relationship, make sure you're in the right place for one. You need emotional intelligence, the ability to accept someone warts and all - enjoy the good and work through the difficult. Embrace life, see the silly and laugh. Happily. Freely. If you're able to do that, then yes, there are definitely younger women who'll be interested in you. "

Im in my 50’s - please may i have a shag Meli - see … mature blokes … better manners!!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"You're in your forties?

Erm...

Honestly OP, I agree with a poster above. It's good to keep in shape, to be comfortable and happy with your body. I think men in their forties are in their prime to be very honest.

But... I also think that if you're wanting a relationship, make sure you're in the right place for one. You need emotional intelligence, the ability to accept someone warts and all - enjoy the good and work through the difficult. Embrace life, see the silly and laugh. Happily. Freely. If you're able to do that, then yes, there are definitely younger women who'll be interested in you.

Im in my 50’s - please may i have a shag Meli - see … mature blokes … better manners!!! "

Manners and an older man? Sold.

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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I'm in my 40's and kept myself in shape and having a fantastic time. If you've the body to do all the activities you want to do, age becomes a state of mind. I'll still run, cycle and adventure today with the enthusiasm I had in my 20's. I'll slow down when my body can't keep up.

If women in their, 20's, 30's, 40's or 50's find that attractive or not, I'm enjoying life now and love people enjoying it with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m in my 40’s. It keeps in shape and don’t look to bad for my age.. opinion … is it still possible to get a girl early to mid thirties for relationships ? … after all girls like an older man??

Thoughts?"

Absolutely. I reckon that age gap's a really good fit. I go for early 30s men and find it really easy to find suitors of that age. I'd say it's even easier for men overall because you're both kind of meeting in the middle, sexually and emotionally

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"You're in your forties?

Erm...

Honestly OP, I agree with a poster above. It's good to keep in shape, to be comfortable and happy with your body. I think men in their forties are in their prime to be very honest.

But... I also think that if you're wanting a relationship, make sure you're in the right place for one. You need emotional intelligence, the ability to accept someone warts and all - enjoy the good and work through the difficult. Embrace life, see the silly and laugh. Happily. Freely. If you're able to do that, then yes, there are definitely younger women who'll be interested in you.

Im in my 50’s - please may i have a shag Meli - see … mature blokes … better manners!!!

Manners and an older man? Sold. "

Swoon!!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"So I’m in my 40’s. It keeps in shape and don’t look to bad for my age.. opinion … is it still possible to get a girl early to mid thirties for relationships ? … after all girls like an older man??

Thoughts?"

Not if you lie about your age in your profile what else could you be lying about

Otherwise yes of course it is although I’d say easier in late 40s /50s when you’re a bit more independent and not being bossed around by kids and work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good as I’m generally a nice friendly person.. so I have hope hahaahh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great good to know I’m not on the shelf just yet haahah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your attitude is way more important than the shape of your body in the quest of getting a girl. "

Good as I’m Generally quite a nice decent person LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're in your forties?

Erm...

Honestly OP, I agree with a poster above. It's good to keep in shape, to be comfortable and happy with your body. I think men in their forties are in their prime to be very honest.

But... I also think that if you're wanting a relationship, make sure you're in the right place for one. You need emotional intelligence, the ability to accept someone warts and all - enjoy the good and work through the difficult. Embrace life, see the silly and laugh. Happily. Freely. If you're able to do that, then yes, there are definitely younger women who'll be interested in you. "

Wise words thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I’m in my 40’s. It keeps in shape and don’t look to bad for my age.. opinion … is it still possible to get a girl early to mid thirties for relationships ? … after all girls like an older man??

Thoughts?

Not if you lie about your age in your profile what else could you be lying about

Otherwise yes of course it is although I’d say easier in late 40s /50s when you’re a bit more independent and not being bossed around by kids and work "

Ha name and age slightly different on profile for obvious privacy issues but yea

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By *es_salopesCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'm in my 40s and really in a comfortable dad bod shape and have a stunning 30 year old girlfriend.

I think I must be doing something right, but it is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in my 40s, …. I let myself go each weekend and work out what went wrong through the week.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I’m constantly fighting them off with a big stick op.

I think it’s mostly about my beautiful penis though. Most girls just wanna use me for sex

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By *ungandMan
over a year ago

daveyhulme

Lol I’m in my 60s in shape and athletic for my age.

You see profiles on here and think I fit in that bracket of what people are looking for.

Send an email either no reply or blocked???

Lol

Still have made some nice friends too

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom


"So I’m in my 40’s. It keeps in shape and don’t look to bad for my age.. opinion … is it still possible to get a girl early to mid thirties for relationships ? … after all girls like an older man??

Thoughts?"

I know a 59 ye old fucking a 23 yr old! (Just sex not a relationship)

Anything is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with us guys in our 40s, im sure loads of younger women fancy the pants off us.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Are you a dick?

Thats more important than anything else tbh!

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By *ilktray manMan
over a year ago

hykeham

Got to 40, gained self confidence and realised I’ve weathered well. Was a shy introverted soul for most of my life.

Amuses me that the ‘it’ guys and gals of old have lost their sparkle.

As long as you’re not a twat, big headed or belittle people, good times should find you.

( he brazenly declares in hope, ha ha )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got to 40, gained self confidence and realised I’ve weathered well. Was a shy introverted soul for most of my life.

Amuses me that the ‘it’ guys and gals of old have lost their sparkle.

As long as you’re not a twat, big headed or belittle people, good times should find you.

( he brazenly declares in hope, ha ha ) "

Thanks nice words

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"Got to 40, gained self confidence and realised I’ve weathered well. Was a shy introverted soul for most of my life.

Amuses me that the ‘it’ guys and gals of old have lost their sparkle.

As long as you’re not a twat, big headed or belittle people, good times should find you.

( he brazenly declares in hope, ha ha ) "

Apparently I have got better with age…probably helped by more of a ‘fuck it’ attitude than I had when I was younger

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

Certainly possible.

I'm approaching 67 and have been seeing a local girl, now 35, on and off this last year.

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Yeah 40s is prime years mate. Grown ass man

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By *apperjgMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *apperjgMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's all about politeness and how good a shape your in.

Approach them in a non sexual manner they'll let you know if it's for them for sure.

Age gap relationships are on rise.

We've so much to offer in terms of experience we are more confident and maybe spend more time on foreplay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great responses my confidence is restored haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're all having fun with men in their 60s. Or so my dreams tell me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about politeness and how good a shape your in.

Approach them in a non sexual manner they'll let you know if it's for them for sure.

Age gap relationships are on rise.

We've so much to offer in terms of experience we are more confident and maybe spend more time on foreplay.

"
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm. Maybe just try and like whoever you like and see if you can woo them?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

look after yourself has you are,, no probs meeting 30 year old females

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Depends if you've banged her mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, provided you're cute or rugged, and not a slovenly slob.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, provided you're cute or rugged, and not a slovenly slob."

Haha rugged defo not cute

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