FabSwingers.com forum: Straight men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do straight men contact me wanting to meet??

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By *ppydayzzMan
over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard

"Why do straight men contact me wanting to meet?? "

… because they’re not

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Happens all the time to me too. It's on my profile that I'm not interested. Just gets them a one way ticket to my block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren't straight, they lie on profile thinking they'd have better luck with women.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

They write straight on profile, yet are interested in cross dressing and want to meet t/v t/s. Go figure!

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By *rbigt1000Man
over a year ago

wilts

"Why do straight men contact me wanting to meet?? "

I’m guessing it’s because they assume you’re a post OP trans woman.

Either that or they’re not as straight as they’re making out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a steady stream of cock sucking requests from "straight" guys. Just the way it is but doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So it's not just me then

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Maybe they're not entirely sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a steady stream of cock sucking requests from "straight" guys. Just the way it is but doesn't bother me."

Yup. Probably 90-95% of the messages I get on here are from guys offering to suck my cock. It doesn't bother me either, they just go straight in the deleted pile though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos you are desirable

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

In much the same way married cheaters market themselves as single or ethical!

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

"So it's not just me then "

It's definitely not just you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As everyone else has said "because they aren't straight" but in their eyes I assume they view it as if you are dressed like a woman then it's the same as being with a woman and a hole is a hole.

I don't understand why they aren't just honest! (Ms Fox)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a serious note.

I think the feminine aesthetic allows guys who may be bicurious-curious to take a small step down that path, bur can convince themselves that as you aren't a man in their eyes, it isn't really bi.

Kind of 3rd gender logic?

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"On a serious note.

I think the feminine aesthetic allows guys who may be bicurious-curious to take a small step down that path, bur can convince themselves that as you aren't a man in their eyes, it isn't really bi.

Kind of 3rd gender logic?"

I prefer slightly fluid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do straight men contact me wanting to meet?? "

Have you asked them?

What answer would you like off them? Imagine it’s that reason.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Plus from a personal note (and as I'm totally upfront about) I don't find blokes sexually attractive but a bloke who can pull off the convincing look of a woman do. So I'll take the third option, genitals (to a certain degree) are irrelevant it's the rest of the look and attitude. I've known post op TVs who may look feminine but still have a very male attitude and so they're not attractive to me. It's a lot more subtle and complex than just pigeon holing straight or bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you’re on a site primarily for straight identifying people.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'm straight and never contacted you

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Why do straight men contact me wanting to meet?? "

You are so sexy everybody wants you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On a serious note.

I think the feminine aesthetic allows guys who may be bicurious-curious to take a small step down that path, bur can convince themselves that as you aren't a man in their eyes, it isn't really bi.

Kind of 3rd gender logic?"

I think you are near the mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pour l’amour du risque et du cul sec

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus from a personal note (and as I'm totally upfront about) I don't find blokes sexually attractive but a bloke who can pull off the convincing look of a woman do. So I'll take the third option, genitals (to a certain degree) are irrelevant it's the rest of the look and attitude. I've known post op TVs who may look feminine but still have a very male attitude and so they're not attractive to me. It's a lot more subtle and complex than just pigeon holing straight or bi "

Hit the nail on the head there for me!!

It’s definitely the feminine aspects that I’m attracted too together with a feminine look!!

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Because most are comfortable in their sexuality. You know what trans is?

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

PS your profile says looking for men so perhaps that's why?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

a lot of tvs contact straight men,, but i like chatting to them love there sense of humour,,

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i dont put labels on anybody,,

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Fab straight

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Because they don't want to limit their Fab options by admitting they're bi on their profiles. Probably. Or you've turned them

LvM

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do straight men contact me wanting to meet?? "

As said actually can’t be straight, definitely not for me/us , as much as we have been totally surprised with how feminine some tv/ts looks

You have the wrong tackle for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you think... id say you can spot them a mile away .. any man wanting to suck cock isn't straight. More likely its a young school kid that's made a fake profile having a laugh ..

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Why do straight men contact me wanting to meet?? "

Maybe they are curious to check if they are missing out on something.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Some bi men will swear blind they are straight as they don't fancy men just enjoy their cocks, so they still see themselves as 100 per cent straight but in reality they have had more sexual contact with men than I have

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Some bi men will swear blind they are straight as they don't fancy men just enjoy their cocks, so they still see themselves as 100 per cent straight but in reality they have had more sexual contact with men than I have

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I've seen a fair few women who claim to be straight too ,when they regularly have sex with women.

I agree many think they're only bisexual if they'd date the same sex ,not if they enjoy sex with them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos most of them aren't straight

And it works both ways

Just look at the amount of gay & bi guys here asking to meet "straight guys"

I could pull out at least 50 local profiles who are listed here as bi but live 100% gay lives

Quite simply it's an attempt to meet guys who wouldn't meet them if they listed their true sexuality

Which is kinda what the "straight" guys are doing but from another angle

I read very little into the sexualities declared here

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

"Why do straight men contact me wanting to meet?? "

because you ARE a woman..................

WITH a cock (or as they would put it, A VERY BIG CLIT)

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