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What makes someone good at fucking

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By *ilverfox69WestMids OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Good looks ?

Good body ?

Technique ?

Stamina ?

Size of assets ?

Endurance?

What do you think makes a great lover x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual chemistry.

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By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine

I think a lady who is confident in herself, her body, and trusts you implicitly is the ultimate lover

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner

Personality and attitude

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Chemistry, connection, giving a shit about everyone involved

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Instinct and trust

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By *emma200Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Connection and chemistry 100% x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Good looks ?

Good body ?

Technique ?

Stamina ?

Size of assets ?

Endurance?

What do you think makes a great lover x"

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It's not the individual cogs of varying sizes, as you've listed, but the entire apparatus that makes for the overall experience a pleasurable one.

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By *apperjgMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Has to be a connection for me also I think fucking is over rated, well there's more than that. I read many women don't cum from fucking they like clit play I always take time to use various methods learn where the g spot is.

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By *rDxxMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Has to be personality

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

They must be able to go as fast as possible for as long as possible. If it’s a man they must make the woman squirt (whether they want to or not) with aggressive finger blasting.

Women should not be able to walk or see afterwards. Men should only have enough energy left to make five minutes passable pillow talk before going to the next meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not how you start it's how you finish, a nice cup of tea, a slice of cake and offering to share the bit away from the damp patch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They must be able to go as fast as possible for as long as possible. If it’s a man they must make the woman squirt (whether they want to or not) with aggressive finger blasting.

Women should not be able to walk or see afterwards. Men should only have enough energy left to make five minutes passable pillow talk before going to the next meet."

Yes! Yes! Yesssssss!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who cares about your pleasure aswell as their own.

Someone who follows your hot spots not a porno film.

Someone who listens to your body and reactions.

Someone who checks in to make sure your okay during

Someone who respects boundaries and stops when you tell them to.

Someone who's confident in they want and not afraid to ask for it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Connection & chemistry wanting to please each other rather then just get their end away.

Body shape, cock size etc has zero to do with it for me personally.

Mrs

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By *ilverfox69WestMids OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Connection and chemistry 100% x"

Would love to find out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual lust

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By *ilverfox69WestMids OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Mutual lust "

I could see why with you xx

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By *ilverfox69WestMids OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Someone who cares about your pleasure aswell as their own.

Someone who follows your hot spots not a porno film.

Someone who listens to your body and reactions.

Someone who checks in to make sure your okay during

Someone who respects boundaries and stops when you tell them to.

Someone who's confident in they want and not afraid to ask for it."

Great comments x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Someone who cares about your pleasure aswell as their own.

Someone who follows your hot spots not a porno film.

Someone who listens to your body and reactions.

Someone who checks in to make sure your okay during

Someone who respects boundaries and stops when you tell them to.

Someone who's confident in they want and not afraid to ask for it."

Plus sense of humour as some situations are comical

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I always thought the secret was the rhythm of the hips and the movement of the lips.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Someone who cares about your pleasure aswell as their own.

Someone who follows your hot spots not a porno film.

Someone who listens to your body and reactions.

Someone who checks in to make sure your okay during

Someone who respects boundaries and stops when you tell them to.

Someone who's confident in they want and not afraid to ask for it.

Plus sense of humour as some situations are comical "

Damn! Missed out by 1 thing. I was this close to being the perfect lover

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Chemistry and responsiveness.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

desire in their eyes (wink) x Anne & George

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Someone I can trust and relax with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mutual chemistry. "

Completely agree xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Instincts, empathy, and connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's not fucking,its about making love,its a recipe and you both have to have the right ingredients.

Either that or 8 pints on a Saturday night

Last bit was a joke by the way

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Pure primal lust and chemistry

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By *emma200Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Someone who cares about your pleasure aswell as their own.

Someone who follows your hot spots not a porno film.

Someone who listens to your body and reactions.

Someone who checks in to make sure your okay during

Someone who respects boundaries and stops when you tell them to.

Someone who's confident in they want and not afraid to ask for it."

Love this !

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

Chemistry, a freedom of spirit and a shared desire for pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's not fucking,its about making love,its a recipe and you both have to have the right ingredients.

Either that or 8 pints on a Saturday night

Last bit was a joke by the way"

I'm a 15 pinter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"desire in their eyes (wink) x Anne & George "

Yes!

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By *ilverfox69WestMids OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Pure primal lust and chemistry "

I couldn’t agree more

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Legs and arms it'd be no good without them

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"Someone who cares about your pleasure aswell as their own.

Someone who follows your hot spots not a porno film.

Someone who listens to your body and reactions.

Someone who checks in to make sure your okay during

Someone who respects boundaries and stops when you tell them to.

Someone who's confident in they want and not afraid to ask for it."

Exactly this especially the first one

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Communication.

If you're going to find out what really works, how to arouse each other, what makes toe-curlingly good orgasms, then open and honest communication is key.

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By *ilverfox69WestMids OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Communication.

If you're going to find out what really works, how to arouse each other, what makes toe-curlingly good orgasms, then open and honest communication is key. "

Where should we start ? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desire, confidence to be yourself, basic lust and wanting to bring pleasure. Oh ! Humour works as well.

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By *ilverfox69WestMids OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Desire, confidence to be yourself, basic lust and wanting to bring pleasure. Oh ! Humour works as well. "

I’m absolutely perfect for you then !

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Skills in reading and responding correctly to my body language

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

How they make the other person feel outside the bedroom. Makes what goes on inside so much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual moods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

It's all in the hips, baby

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Passion. Them wanting you as much as you want them. That.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Connection - them reading your body and eyes. Knowing when the heat needs to be turned up

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Good looks ?

Good body ?

Technique ?

Stamina ?

Size of assets ?

Endurance?

What do you think makes a great

lover x"

Their Brain

And using their knowledge and skills to use the rest of their body to give pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ability to read and respond to their partners reactions.

Emotional intelligence and strong communication skills. To understand things that aren't being said.

And the big one .

Chemistry. If that's right then fireworks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How they make the other person feel outside the bedroom. Makes what goes on inside so much better."

This. So much this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thoughts for their lover and giving them as much pleasure as you can knowing what they like, turns them on then teasing too orgasm

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

£50

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm going for chemistry and connection and a quite confidence. Happy to communicate what each other like

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