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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long should a social last to be counted as a social?

Asking for a friend

F

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

From saying hello to saying goodbye?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"How long should a social last to be counted as a social?

Asking for a friend

F"

Depends - some socials and within 5 minutes when there is an instant sense of non-attraction for example. Others can last a couple of hours when conversation flows? No set rules, I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

32 minutes. Unless either had a very long name, in which factor in additional introductions time.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends if it goes well could last a while, if there's no connection or attraction it's pretty quick.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long should a social last to be counted as a social?

Asking for a friend

F"

I've got a spare hour. Will that be ok?

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Surely it depends on the time you have free to give to it. Mine have lasted at least 2 hours because everyone involved had time to relax and not worry about the time.

Not really a helpful answer but an answer that could give you more in your planning process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as you've made eye contact, it counts

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"How long should a social last to be counted as a social?

Asking for a friend

F"
6 hours 37minutes

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think a social should be longer than the journey to get there

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I think a social should be longer than the journey to get there"
on here that could be years or even never for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a social should be longer than the journey to get there"

Well if I walk could we maybe make it an hour..?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I usually go for one coffee maybe 2 see how interaction is going! I'm aware I talk way to much! It's not even a nervous thing I just like to talk! Can tell if they are finding me to much and stick to the one drink! But on the whole 2 or 3 drinks latter and hours gone by we are still chatting x

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I went for a coffee and ended up chatting for an hour lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally look to spend an hour or so on a social. Although if getting along well, it has gone into 3 hours.

I think a social should last as long as the parties meeting want it to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same time taken as how much wood would a woodchuck chuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"How long should a social last to be counted as a social?

Asking for a friend

F"

With you? Hours

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

How long does it take, to bake chocolate fudge cake?

(yes yes i know that inadvertently rhymes)

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

Back on my single profile I had a few 'meet and greet' mini socials during my lunch break at work! 45 mins, quick coffee, see if we got on. I just didn't have the time to plan longer if we weren't compatible so this worked quite well!

Usually though anything from an hour or two to a whole evening is good

Cherry x

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I suppose it depends on chemistry. If either of you realises you’re not interested I don’t think there’s any shame in politely saying so and going your separate ways.

If you’re getting on - as long as you want! I’ve had some great long walks in the sunshine with people whose company I was enjoying. Sometimes I’ve been there for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until he puts his penis in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you’re doing and how well you’re getting on ?

If you’re hating being there then end it..quickly…

If you’re loving it …then keep that MF going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until he puts his penis in me."

But you’re so innocent …surely no penis has ever entered you

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

If the occasion is in, say, a café or an ice cream parlour then a fleeting-greeting with a hearty handshake would suffice.

If it's Afternoon Tea in more quaint surroundings then, because of the venue, a few hours to an entire afternoon is usually acceptable...before you 'clinch the deal'.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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As long as your heart/quim/penis tells you.

I've had some fantastic socials - an afternoon that turned in to a late night. Briefer coffees that left me smiling.

I think it's about how much you enjoy another's company, don't limit yourself in the delight of basking in another's glow.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Until he puts his penis in me."
oh you brummies

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