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"No. I am the same. Love them both and had some fun on my travels " Had fun last year with a cudan in a lap club in the ptv room | |||
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"No. I am the same. Love them both and had some fun on my travels Had fun last year with a cudan in a lap club in the ptv room" Lots of fun in Singapore as well as the The Gambia in Africa | |||
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"No. I am the same. Love them both and had some fun on my travels Had fun last year with a cudan in a lap club in the ptv room Lots of fun in Singapore as well as the The Gambia in Africa" Going back to gran carries this year maybe Thailand next year, got to find out what vacation I need and how much cost plus visa | |||
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"No. I am the same. Love them both and had some fun on my travels Had fun last year with a cudan in a lap club in the ptv room Lots of fun in Singapore as well as the The Gambia in Africa Going back to gran carries this year maybe Thailand next year, got to find out what vacation I need and how much cost plus visa " Nice love to hear about it | |||
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"*women of colour. Before the language people wade in." Thank you  | |||
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"An attractive woman is simply attractive.." Preach fellow fabber!! Many see the window they only wish to see from! Yet the room has many windows! Lol | |||
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"*women of colour. Before the language people wade in." Yeah wade in! Lol your so funny!  | |||
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"An attractive woman is simply attractive.." So true. | |||
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"An attractive woman is simply attractive.. So true." Really!! How do you mean? Pls explain abit. Cheers | |||
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"*women of colour. Before the language people wade in." He could be talking about Marge Simpson  | |||
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"*women of colour. Before the language people wade in." *Black* women | |||
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"Oh stop it "See what I mean | |||
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"Oh stop it "May I said the lady there is very hot and sexly in photos, | |||
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"*women of colour. Before the language people wade in." Well, I'm a language person and I dislike 'of colour' as a linguistic construction. It is clumsy. It doesn't really say anything different from 'coloured' except in a more clumsy sounding way and, perhaps, by not saying 'coloured'. One would be very unlikely to say 'people of whiteness' in a converse situation. Personally I don't like either option. What is wrong with 'black', 'brown', 'white', etc., if one feels that skin colour is that important to someone's personality? In many cases 'African', 'Asian', 'Caucasian' etc. provide a more sensible choice of physical description. Most of my female friends are darker skinned and invariably associate themselves with their place of family origin, more than anything else. I don't recollect any of them describing themselves as 'of colour'! If they are several generations resident they are more likely to use '(XYZ) British'. I am happy to be enlightened by anyone who convincingly knows better. When I first came to England I was asked: "Do - you - speak - English?". Probably due to my skin colour at the time. As it is now winter time and I didn't manage to get away, I don't mind being called 'off colour'! | |||
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"What is it such a turn-on with them ,or is it just me " Wow!!! Did you really just use that word!!??? Well, I am not language police but oh my, this really shows the level of your intelligence and arrogance  | |||
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"What is it such a turn-on with them ,or is it just me Wow!!! Did you really just use that word!!??? Well, I am not language police but oh my, this really shows the level of your intelligence and arrogance "What word ? Them ? | |||
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"What is it such a turn-on with them ,or is it just me Wow!!! Did you really just use that word!!??? Well, I am not language police but oh my, this really shows the level of your intelligence and arrogance "Which word? 'turn-on'? ...'them'? Fascinating association with arrogance and intelligence. What if he had been turned on by bra straps? Would intelligence or arrogance still have any bearing? | |||
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"*women of colour. Before the language people wade in. Well, I'm a language person and I dislike 'of colour' as a linguistic construction. It is clumsy. It doesn't really say anything different from 'coloured' except in a more clumsy sounding way and, perhaps, by not saying 'coloured'. One would be very unlikely to say 'people of whiteness' in a converse situation. Personally I don't like either option. What is wrong with 'black', 'brown', 'white', etc., if one feels that skin colour is that important to someone's personality? In many cases 'African', 'Asian', 'Caucasian' etc. provide a more sensible choice of physical description. Most of my female friends are darker skinned and invariably associate themselves with their place of family origin, more than anything else. I don't recollect any of them describing themselves as 'of colour'! If they are several generations resident they are more likely to use '(XYZ) British'. I am happy to be enlightened by anyone who convincingly knows better. When I first came to England I was asked: "Do - you - speak - English?". Probably due to my skin colour at the time. As it is now winter time and I didn't manage to get away, I don't mind being called 'off colour'! "  | |||
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"An attractive woman is simply attractive.." Simple but true. A woman either turns you on or she doesn’t. Skin colour is only about the 18th thing I notice. Bum is 1st, in case anyone was wondering x | |||
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"An attractive woman is simply attractive.. Simple but true. A woman either turns you on or she doesn’t. Skin colour is only about the 18th thing I notice. Bum is 1st, in case anyone was wondering x" The eyes next | |||
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"What is it such a turn-on with them ,or is it just me Wow!!! Did you really just use that word!!??? Well, I am not language police but oh my, this really shows the level of your intelligence and arrogance "Anyone who wants to know the true meaning of arrogance should read your profile, a perfect example.  | |||
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"What is it such a turn-on with them ,or is it just me Wow!!! Did you really just use that word!!??? Well, I am not language police but oh my, this really shows the level of your intelligence and arrogance
Anyone who wants to know the true meaning of arrogance should read your profile, a perfect example. "What if you have dyslexia, if you need to read up about it ,and than get back to Me .not easy haveing it on a site like this ,plus other health issues, from op | |||
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"What is it such a turn-on with them ,or is it just me Wow!!! Did you really just use that word!!??? Well, I am not language police but oh my, this really shows the level of your intelligence and arrogance
Anyone who wants to know the true meaning of arrogance should read your profile, a perfect example.
What if you have dyslexia, if you need to read up about it ,and than get back to Me .not easy haveing it on a site like this ,plus other health issues, from op"I don’t think he was replying to you op | |||
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"Feeling the love "Wow wow wow  | |||
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"What is it such a turn-on with them ,or is it just me " People turn you on because they’re sexy, that’s how it works with me.  | |||
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"HAHAHHAHA an innocent appreciative comment from the OP declaring his lust for others results in some pointless comments ! Hahahhahaha " How are the comments pointless? Using that type of language won't entice women op is attracted to. | |||
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"HAHAHHAHA an innocent appreciative comment from the OP declaring his lust for others results in some pointless comments ! Hahahhahaha What language ? How are the comments pointless? Using that type of language won't entice women op is attracted to. " What language is he using ? people will choose to be offended He has simply stated his appreciation for women That’s all | |||
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"There’s a difference between attraction to someone due to their phenotype and fetishisation. It’s wonderful to be complimented and adored, not such much objectified based on race. There is a line and hopefully most are enlightened enough to see it." | |||
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"What is it such a turn-on with them ,or is it just me Wow!!! Did you really just use that word!!??? Well, I am not language police but oh my, this really shows the level of your intelligence and arrogance "Well in that case I must lack intelligence and be arrogant because I have no clue what you are talking about? | |||
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"There’s a difference between attraction to someone due to their phenotype and fetishisation. It’s wonderful to be complimented and adored, not such much objectified based on race. There is a line and hopefully most are enlightened enough to see it." 'phenotype' I love it. I will remember the word and cherish its use much as I have done with 'kinesphere' when I was introduced to it back in my student days and have promoted its use ever since. Today has been equally significant in my education. Thank you for a great new word. I won't forget you, including because of your great profile! | |||
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"Coloured? Wow that word is never used here in London." But the clumsy expression 'of colour' is somehow ok? | |||
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"Coloured? Wow that word is never used here in London." was in the 60's. 70's,. 80's. 90,'s. My neighbour, about 6 months ago. called the woman next door to me " Coloured " whilst haveing a chat with me . I did give him a long hard look. All going very conferance pear shaped here at the Mo!! | |||
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"Coloured? Wow that word is never used here in London. was in the 60's. 70's,. 80's. 90,'s. My neighbour, about 6 months ago. called the woman next door to me " Coloured " whilst haveing a chat with me . I did give him a long hard look. All going very conferance pear shaped here at the Mo!! " So, would the supposedly different 'of colour' have miraculously been acceptable? | |||
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"Coloured? Wow that word is never used here in London. was in the 60's. 70's,. 80's. 90,'s. My neighbour, about 6 months ago. called the woman next door to me " Coloured " whilst haveing a chat with me . I did give him a long hard look. All going very conferance pear shaped here at the Mo!! So, would the supposedly different 'of colour' have miraculously been acceptable?" Maybe if he said it to her face!! Many games people play. " Pussyfoot about " Geo politics, head fuck others om the process. A funmy game. Lol | |||
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"No. I am the same. Love them both and had some fun on my travels Had fun last year with a cudan in a lap club in the ptv room Lots of fun in Singapore as well as the The Gambia in Africa" you are a BRAVE man lol! | |||
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"I was born and been living in South London all my life in a very multi culture 80s London, only beef (can a old man use beef still haha) is with the police back then. " In those days the police were taught to type stereoscopically! | |||
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"No. I am the same. Love them both and had some fun on my travels Had fun last year with a cudan in a lap club in the ptv room Lots of fun in Singapore as well as the The Gambia in Africayou are a BRAVE man lol!" Brave enough to bare all on here too! Forgot Tailand. Nobody even batted an eyelid? | |||
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"There’s a difference between attraction to someone due to their phenotype and fetishisation. It’s wonderful to be complimented and adored, not such much objectified based on race. There is a line and hopefully most are enlightened enough to see it. 'phenotype' I love it. I will remember the word and cherish its use much as I have done with 'kinesphere' when I was introduced to it back in my student days and have promoted its use ever since. Today has been equally significant in my education. Thank you for a great new word. I won't forget you, including because of your great profile!" Phenotype is a biological term that refers to the observable characteristics in a living organism. Phenotype is determined by the genotype (specific genes or "alleles" possessed by an organism) and their environment. E.g. skin colour observed (phenotype) is determined by the alleles inherited (genotype) but also by exposure to the sun (the environment). | |||
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"Seriously, just say Black or Brown or even hazard a guess at geographical heritage. None of the above are offensive, coloured is. " Very offensive! Obviously most who feel that it is ok to use this phrase are stuck in the past but the main common ground is that most are "white" and just don't see how offensive that word is. | |||
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"Seriously, just say Black or Brown or even hazard a guess at geographical heritage. None of the above are offensive, coloured is. " This. I am brown and happy to be referred to as such. No issues for me personally and zero drama. Coloured I find offensive. | |||
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"On a funny note. Just got comtacted by a woman on here. Dm. Do i want to by her used soggy Kickers!! Omg. My reply ive never in my days heard a women buy any mans used " Boxers " randomely, and pay for them plus postage! Any bought off here??? " I prefer new shoes or boots not used ones ta | |||
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"Seriously, just say Black or Brown or even hazard a guess at geographical heritage. None of the above are offensive, coloured is. This. I am brown and happy to be referred to as such. No issues for me personally and zero drama. Coloured I find offensive. " I have reported it to admin, but they seem to feel that term is ok, even though the forum rules state no racist comments! | |||
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"Seriously, just say Black or Brown or even hazard a guess at geographical heritage. None of the above are offensive, coloured is. Very offensive! Obviously most who feel that it is ok to use this phrase are stuck in the past but the main common ground is that most are "white" and just don't see how offensive that word is. " Yes!! A full on mindset! Not the first time on here either! Yet it always boils back to the main comtributors of such langage terms and words used. Is it privilage? Engrained? Taught? Learned? Ignorance of the highest order?? | |||
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"Seriously, just say Black or Brown or even hazard a guess at geographical heritage. None of the above are offensive, coloured is. Very offensive! Obviously most who feel that it is ok to use this phrase are stuck in the past but the main common ground is that most are "white" and just don't see how offensive that word is. Yes!! A full on mindset! Not the first time on here either! Yet it always boils back to the main comtributors of such langage terms and words used. Is it privilage? Engrained? Taught? Learned? Ignorance of the highest order?? " I just can't believe that admin have let it remain! | |||
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"No. I am the same. Love them both and had some fun on my travels Had fun last year with a cudan in a lap club in the ptv room Lots of fun in Singapore as well as the The Gambia in Africa Going back to gran carries this year maybe Thailand next year, got to find out what vacation I need and how much cost plus visa " Any views on this?.? ? May we shed some light here, pls Just to clear it up, from any angle! | |||
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"Seriously, just say Black or Brown or even hazard a guess at geographical heritage. None of the above are offensive, coloured is. Very offensive! Obviously most who feel that it is ok to use this phrase are stuck in the past but the main common ground is that most are "white" and just don't see how offensive that word is. Yes!! A full on mindset! Not the first time on here either! Yet it always boils back to the main comtributors of such langage terms and words used. Is it privilage? Engrained? Taught? Learned? Ignorance of the highest order?? I just can't believe that admin have let it remain! " Admin only intervenes if you mention OF or criticise them. Full-on racist language is all gravy! | |||
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"Black, mixed race ive used, I'm white and find the term coloured offensive,.maybe because I was bought up in South London clapham area and growing up in 80s was very mixed culture and your friends soon told you what was offensive and what wasn't. But I'm sure op didn't mean to offend anyone especially in this day and age. " I don’t disagree that offence was not intended but isn’t that the role of forum moderation? | |||
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"Seriously, just say Black or Brown or even hazard a guess at geographical heritage. None of the above are offensive, coloured is. " Hence me wondering why 'of colour' suddenly becomes acceptable, other than because it sounds trendy (it predates wokeness). | |||
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"Black, mixed race ive used, I'm white and find the term coloured offensive,.maybe because I was bought up in South London clapham area and growing up in 80s was very mixed culture and your friends soon told you what was offensive and what wasn't. But I'm sure op didn't mean to offend anyone especially in this day and age. I don’t disagree that offence was not intended but isn’t that the role of forum moderation? " Well, you would think they would moderate this language but obviously FAB feel this is ok!? | |||
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"Seriously, just say Black or Brown or even hazard a guess at geographical heritage. None of the above are offensive, coloured is. Hence me wondering why 'of colour' suddenly becomes acceptable, other than because it sounds trendy (it predates wokeness)." I think it was just used as an alternative as "coloured" was pretty much used a subtle, derogatory term. I do agree with you in that it sounds clumsy but it still differentiates the two. | |||
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"Seriously, just say Black or Brown or even hazard a guess at geographical heritage. None of the above are offensive, coloured is. Hence me wondering why 'of colour' suddenly becomes acceptable, other than because it sounds trendy (it predates wokeness). I think it was just used as an alternative as "coloured" was pretty much used a subtle, derogatory term. I do agree with you in that it sounds clumsy but it still differentiates the two." But white is a colour also. Right ? | |||
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"Seriously, just say Black or Brown or even hazard a guess at geographical heritage. None of the above are offensive, coloured is. Hence me wondering why 'of colour' suddenly becomes acceptable, other than because it sounds trendy (it predates wokeness)." Wokeness has existed since the dawn of humanity. Historically people who stood up for language and non-language based oppressions were called other things (n****r lover as an example). It was designed to silence people challenging them privilege. The term Woke is the new acceptable attempt to silence. | |||
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